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SDMNXIX

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  1. ..when they only look at your message but not reply <_<

    I know karapatan nila magreply or hinde.
    I know maliit na bagay lang pero ginagawa kong big deal.
    I know transaction lng ultimately ang lahat sa industriyang ito.
    I know yung mga binigay ko hindi nila hiningi and binigay ko ng kusa.
    I know I shouldn't let it get to me and just move on.
    I know. I KNOW.

    Ako na mali 👍 I know ako yung mali. Sorry.

  2. 16 minutes ago, Miss Zelda said:

    Thank you for your insight. I wish that some folks would just put down their phones and actually talk to each other with their intentions on the table. The reason I say this is that, for example ,you and I, would definitely wouldn’t want to waste each other’s time. Relationships are complicated and most often people are no longer together is because of expectations. Proper communication with known intentions leads to good boundaries and a healthy relationship.

    Hindi rin common sa mga Pilipinong lalake ung marunong makinig at makipag usap ng maayos sa mga gf or asawa nila lalo ung older generation. I'm sure may mga babaeng ganun din pero mas mataas tendency ng lalake sa ganun kse hindi daw macho ung magsalita about their feelings or feelings in general..

    Kaya kung may anak kayong lalake, wag puro IQ nya problemahin. Mas maraming matutulong later in life kung mataas EQ, proven by psychology yan.

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  3. 7 hours ago, Miss Zelda said:

    Healthy boundaries. A lot of men don't know how to give space to their significant other. Oftentimes we would like to go shopping on our own, drive on our own to some destination, quiet time at home - reading or watching our favorite show. Secondly, our privacy - you don't need to know everything about us as a person, you don't need to know our deepest secrets - this is not a violation of trust, its just how we are built. 

    My 2 cents.

    I think these things should be communicated properly to each other. Boundaries and how much you tell each other are two very important aspects that can make or break a relationship. Personally, I would talk about this before even getting into one or at the very least, early on in the relationship kse mahirap kung magkaiba kayo ng gusto pagdating dito.

    In my experience, since clingy ako, gusto ko noon palagi kaming mgka usap ng jowa ko kht hnd kme magkasama physically. Shes not the type nmn who demands boundaries or time away from me pero shes significantly busier than me so she cant always reply immediately. Sa intimacy nmn, I wanted to know everything about her. I guess for me, I just want her to know that I accept her wholeheartedly and I didnt want her to feel that there are things she cant tell me or talk to me about. Pero syempre, I wont force her to tell me things that shes not willing to share.

    I think eventually we learned how to manage these things and handled things better but only through proper communication. And as always, being in a relationship requires a certain level of maturity in a person.

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