Solaryan Posted November 25, 2016 Share Posted November 25, 2016 i am not sure. Usually I go with flow. If I'm into her, anything new I find out about her, feels like a treasure (that I cherish)... Quote Link to comment
theheartdoc Posted November 25, 2016 Share Posted November 25, 2016 Depends on what type of person you are courting so your approach differs. Just be intellectual listen carefully to your conversations understand so you would know what to say.  Compliment gives plus points Observe subtle hints and cues research on this coz every person has their habits so you should know when they're uncomfortable or at ease Once you could practice this just be yourself and respond appropriately and she will be yours in no time. Quote Link to comment
lone23 Posted January 2, 2017 Share Posted January 2, 2017 Kontrahin mo para humaba ang usapan. Quote Link to comment
JFK Posted January 9, 2017 Share Posted January 9, 2017 Try talking on things she likes, her interests and not yours. Quote Link to comment
blue+george Posted January 9, 2017 Share Posted January 9, 2017 tell her that you'd love to spend time with her doing the things that she love to do. whatever it is. whether its 4 hours in a salon, or sunday worship or 12 hours non stop sex whatever. just suck it up and spend time with her. I'm sure your conversation will last. if you can find a common interest is another, that's where you can spend hours and day discussing, maybe you can ask her to have coffee while discussing it further Quote Link to comment
FZ4 Posted September 9, 2017 Share Posted September 9, 2017 Listen more. Talk less. Quote Link to comment
perfectstranger Posted September 16, 2017 Share Posted September 16, 2017 be a good listener and ask open ended questions. hindi yung answerable by yes or no lang. then don't drag the conversation too long because it will definitely become boring. don't be too clingy message her again after 2-3 days. if you notice that she's responding positively (hindi yung napipilitan lang) then you can upgrade to daily. just keep it relatively short so that it will not be a hassle for her. just be as honest and sincere as you can so that when you finally meet, she will not see you as a different person. Quote Link to comment
DorkVader Posted September 16, 2017 Share Posted September 16, 2017 Although I have no experience chatting I guess this is what I will do. I will talk about things that are interesting to me. I will not sound like somebody I am not. I will be a good listener. If my chat mate finds me boring or whatever, it's fine. I will move on. At the end of the day you want someone who shares the same interests, right? Believe me, pretending to be someone you're not isn't cool. Lalabas at lalabas din. Mapapahiya ka Lang. 2 Quote Link to comment
Freddie C. Posted September 29, 2017 Share Posted September 29, 2017 dapat style pacman ang gagawin. pero tuloy na news yung chat at instagram post niya to another lady Quote Link to comment
Elwood Posted October 1, 2017 Share Posted October 1, 2017 Seryoso na may halong sense of humor!!! Quote Link to comment
'cholo15 Posted October 2, 2017 Share Posted October 2, 2017 Always talk about her, if she feels that you're interested in her then the conversation between you two won't go stale or boring. Quote Link to comment
Soo-yeon Posted October 2, 2017 Share Posted October 2, 2017 Share something about yourself then ask her to share too. Kakairita yun tanong ng tanong parang imbestigador. Pag ganun ka-chat ko, di ko na nirereplyan. Know her likes and make it the subject of your conversation. Wag puro sex at pangmamanyak cause nakaka-turn off din yun (makes me think kung may utak ka ba talaga sa taas na ulo mo o yun utak mo napunta lahat sa ulo mo sa baba). Â Just my view based from my own experience. Quote Link to comment
Deity.DImsum Posted October 3, 2017 Share Posted October 3, 2017 Explore things she/he likes, be an active listener. Quote Link to comment
Kingkongphils Posted October 3, 2017 Share Posted October 3, 2017 Makinig ka lng, mag ipon ng topics or ideas hbng nakikinig and then pag naubos ung kwento may nakaabang ka na. Kaya maganda mag practice ka sa iba ibang tao, kht sa taong hindi mo type. This makes for a good topic dn sa mga nakwekwento syo. Pero pag one question one answer lng ang napapala mo sa kanya e malamang sa alamang d ka nya type.. Hehehe... Pag ganun either kalimutan mo na cya or just dont quit asking questions or magkwento ng kht ano, it would not really matter kasi nga like. What I said malamang d ka nya type. Kung nahihiya lng sya kaya one question one answer cya e eventully sa daldal mo e mapapalagay ang loob nya. Its just like looking for the g spot. Quote Link to comment
staringatdsun Posted October 3, 2017 Share Posted October 3, 2017 be genuine. be spontaneous. be respectful. 1 Quote Link to comment
lawhandyman Posted October 4, 2017 Share Posted October 4, 2017 1. don't be creepy2. don't be clingy or needy3. don't rush4. don't drag the conversation too long5. be respectful and considerate  just don't be an assh*le. Quote Link to comment
Robmeister Posted October 20, 2017 Share Posted October 20, 2017 Just be a creative conversationalist. Talk more about her interest and and not yours. Talk more about her life and what is happening around the globe.  Do not chat / reply to her like you are doing a novel. Just reply with a smart, interesting and short open ended type of answer. If she is the type of a person that gives you a reply like "k", "yup", "haha" after you tried the mentioned tips above. then stop chatting her for a while. Try it again later today or tomorrow.  If she has been that way for like always, then dump her. There are other women besides her. Quote Link to comment
clandestinecuddles Posted October 22, 2017 Share Posted October 22, 2017 Hi , good morning , greetings , nasl and do you have fb and pic wont get you anywhere. You dont have to be mr google but at least know how to start an interesting conversation. Quote Link to comment
jessetiu Posted February 19, 2018 Share Posted February 19, 2018 be sincere and not just trying to get into her pants. Quote Link to comment
quick417 Posted February 21, 2018 Share Posted February 21, 2018 how about me? I'm an introvert who doesn't even know how to start a conversation Quote Link to comment
flatwall Posted August 21, 2018 Share Posted August 21, 2018 Give a nice jokes afterwards, be yourself and confident- ask her abt her aspirations or his comments about her surroundings. Quote Link to comment
Jr😋 Posted August 21, 2018 Share Posted August 21, 2018 Be your self and ask her out. Quote Link to comment
slyG28 Posted November 10, 2018 Share Posted November 10, 2018 have good intentions and be yourself. Quote Link to comment
earlskie Posted November 21, 2018 Share Posted November 21, 2018 Always ask questions that are about her. I think girls like it when you show that you're genuinely interested in them. 1 Quote Link to comment
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