if i take an LRT, i still seeing guys who offered their seats to young and old women
Posted 28 August 2016 - 11:18 PM
I think hindi na uso, but that doesn't mean di na sila nag-eexist.
Besides, mixture na lang din siguro ng good and bad traits. Parang ang hirap na maghanap ngayon ng guy na strictly sumusunod sa isang set ng gentleman's code, na parang bushido or chivalry noon (tho chivalry is mostly battle etiquette lol)
Posted 28 August 2016 - 11:25 PM
Para hindi OP, yes, marami pang gentleman. I know a certain 25-year old virgin na nasa motel na, nagdecline sa sex kasi alam nyang hindi naman seryoso yun relationship nila at hindi naman magiging seryoso. If that counts as being gentleman, yes, meron pa, hahsha
Posted 29 August 2016 - 09:20 PM
Posted 30 August 2016 - 02:02 PM
Ang pagiging "maginoo" ay nagpapakita ng pagiging mababang tingin sa mga kababaihan.
Kung susulong tayo ng gender equality, why give special treatment to women? I only give my seat
sa bus at MRT/LRT sa mga lola. I dont do it kasi babae sila. I do it kasi dahil sa edad nila.
Posted 01 September 2016 - 08:43 PM
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Posted 02 September 2016 - 09:42 AM
Sana uso pa . Pero mas okay din naman yung maginoo ka pero medyo bastos. Hahahahahaha
Aminin man natin o hindi parang ito na nga yata ang kalakaran.
Oh, nasan na ang iba pang punto de vista ng mga kababaihan. Itaas ang bandila natin!
Posted 02 September 2016 - 11:33 AM
being a gentleman is having courtesy and manners. let's say sa lrt and mrt, guys (and gals) hayaan munang makababa yung nasa loob bago kayo pumasok. hindi naman aandar ang tren habang may bumababa or sumasakay pa. in an elevator, step out if you're in front and people behind you are exiting even if it's not your floor yet. avoid talking loudly on your phone when you're in a restaurant. speaking of which, a gentleman doesn't have to foot the bill ALL the time, maybe the first, but subsequent dates, a real gentleman would be open enough to admit that he needs help (financially when needed and just a tip real women would appreciate this).
just to add, a gentleman is never late for an appointment (whether it be date or a meeting. no excuses because he knows how to manage his time). he also knows how to say sorry not because he feels he's wrong or he thinks he is. he says sorry because he values and respects a person more than his ego. and a gentleman knows how to voice out his opinions, thoughts, ideas, and views. he stands by his principles without getting into a fight/argument.
in response to the question, yes. i have met and known real gentlemen and am still seeing some men who truly understand and live the life of a real gentleman.
Edited by DarkEinjel, 02 September 2016 - 12:22 PM.
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Posted 02 September 2016 - 05:10 PM
Yes marami pa din gentleman, handang tumulong sa mga naggagandahang babae .
Posted 05 September 2016 - 06:10 AM
For me kasi, i always try to give my seat to and girl (matanda, bata, buntis, pangit o maganda). In return though, i still expect na at the very least, mag-thank you man lang sana yung babae. The problem kasi kaya kumokonte na yung nga gentlemen is because girls do not appreciate the effort.
Di lang yan sa pagbigay ng upuan. Sometimes, even sa pagbukas ng pinto. Meron pa ngang isang instance na pinagbuksan ko yung girl ng pinto, but because nakabarong ako since galing ako ng office, aba, ang akala ba naman e security guard ako!
Meron pang iba na pagbukas mo ng pinto para pumasok o lumabas, sila pa yung unang lalabas (o papasok) tapos bibigyan ka pa ng smug look. Ang sarap hampasin ng pinto sa mukha (this goes for both boys and girls).
Simple courtesies like saying thank you when someone did something for you or being courteous enough to let the one who opened the door go in (or out) first will go a long way in preserving the rare pokemon called gentleman.
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Posted 05 September 2016 - 08:21 AM
Posted 05 September 2016 - 10:28 AM
call it being naive, but was just exposed to these f#&kboys: douchebags, liars, cheaters, SOBs. I can say that some uses being 'maginoo' as a tactic to get what they want.
pero I think, meron pa rin pero di na siya uso, classic na Lang and you're probably not looking at the right places. so don't settle, you'll find them..eventually.
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