1 Month Without Sex

[Inday]

2 years na kami, simula ng magnegosyo sya, madalang na kaming mag sex, minsan once a week, naging 2x a month, ngayon 1 month na hindi pa rin kami nag sesex, nag try na kong yayain sya kaso ayaw nya, wala daw sya sa mood , sobrang aga nya matulog lagi hindi ko na sya niyaya ngayon kasi baka mapahiya lang uli ako. Madalas ko tuloy maisip na may babae sya or minsan na iinsecure na rin ako, kaya kahit gabi ng super exercise ako para maging sexy at super diet .

[Ret.hGv]

That really sucks.........

Ako nmn super duper tagal na............

buti nga sa u one month lng eh.........

asawa mo ba??

[Ret.hGv]

i'm absolutely sure that i dont PM you, in fact i am sympathizing with you...

I hope masettle mo yan

[Inday]

That really sucks.........

Ako nmn super duper tagal na............

buti nga sa u one month lng eh.........

asawa mo ba??

 

No, live-in lang kami for 2 years and 2 months na.

[jetlag143]

may i suggest .....na get the right time and ambiance and ask him directly what is the real score between the two of you.......though it may hurt but better than play the guessing game ......

[vigilante43]

hi, I'm a newbie here but in my opinion, your guy may just be busy handling the business, same thing happened to me before, like your guy, I started a business, you see, the first months of the business is very crucial. yun yung pinakamahirap, yun yung point na laging walang kita, or feeling mo malulugi business mo, then you will start feeling frustrated and tired. maybe that was the reason kung bakit parang nawawala yung affection, muntik na kami mag break ng GF ko for 8 years. because of that. She thought nawawalan na ako ng affection and time para sa kanaya, well in fact i was doing it for our future. well anyway we worked things out by communicating lang. hope you guys can work it out..

[Wyld]

No, live-in lang kami for 2 years and 2 months na.

 

 

If youve lived together that long, I will work on the assumption that you have been in a relationship with this guy a little bit longer than that.

 

 

At that point, id think that sex is not all there is to your relationship.

 

 

While I will acknowledge that they physical expression of ones love for the other person is very important in any relationship, I also believe that you need to be a bit more tolerant and understanding of his current situation. Starting a business (or even work for that matter) is not easy.

 

 

Ask him whats wrong. Ask him about his business. Ask him what makes it difficult. Show an interest in what is going on in his life.

 

 

At its best, he could just be totally engrossed in his business and preparing for your future life together.

 

 

At its worst though, be prepared that there might be someone else and that your relationship is about to end and that is the reason why he wont have sex with you.

 

 

But dont fret or get upset that you dont get sex - not without knowing why or understanding the circumstances surrounding the situation.

 

 

[darksoulriver]

But for my own instinct and perception, i think your partner is hiding something!

 

But first talked to your partner to know the reason to prevent misunderstanding....

 

Hope its not too late.

[Duel of Fate]

my girlfriend had a miscarriage a month ago; so syempre after raspa and the operation no contact muna. we both miss it badly na yun nga lang healthwise hindi pwede.

 

Never was a fan of HJ or BJ, and syempre lugi rin naman sya kung ako lang.

 

Hay wattalayp.

[noypiblazer]

uh oh, that usually leads to trouble

 

try to find out what makes him ticked with erection, baka gusto nya ng foreplay muna or kinky lingerie dresses or baka gusto nya ng super lambing or baka ayaw nyang nada downl sya. build back his self-esteem or give him high regards...mga papuri, basta don't ever give up on him, try to search ways or baka meron syang medical condition that he's keeping secret from you...yan lang mga tanging advise, i hope it won't end up in separation, good lucksa iyo inday

[kamote042988]

try to talk to him. me and my gf agreed that we should abstain. and were 4 months nang out of action. were to busy at school and other stuff to be intimate

[vianne]

well, mahirap.. two months ng wala because malayo si boyfriend.. he left the country last October, he's coming home for a conference this March so yun na lang hinihintay ko.. pag.uwi nun patay yun sa'kin.. :evil:

[Inday]

Thank you very much to those who replied, at least naliwanagan ako, I still hope and pray na maayos din ito at mawala rin ang pag ka praning ko...

[Miss Zelda]

i think 2 years no sex is enough said, a month?!! you still have a long way to go, don't worry..

[bher2]

theres nothing wrong naman if you dont have actions, if you had doubt on him well you better speak out so he would understand you. on my part talagang matagalan to dahil she left for abroad to work, leaving me helplessly hehehe! but i dont mind naman kung maging kaong or matigang ako ng matagal, time will come to have a deed!