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#261 edu berserk

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Posted 26 October 2016 - 09:41 PM

yung mukha ka nang tanga sa harap ng marami at wala ka nang pride pero sige pa rin kasi ang importante lang sayo e yung sa inyong dalawa.

 

Mahal mo e. kahit sa kangkungan ka pulutin, hindi mo matitiis



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Posted 28 October 2016 - 01:12 AM

When you're willing to do things you've never thought of doing before, just for the other person.



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Posted 31 October 2016 - 05:08 PM

When you feel that that someone is synonymous to forever. 



#264 zayn

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Posted 31 October 2016 - 08:07 PM

To love someone is to will the good of the other, even if it mean you're not in the picture. Out of all the four varieties that the Greeks recognize, agape or unconditional love is the highest, and makes love a choice and not a feeling.

Edited by picvche, 31 October 2016 - 08:08 PM.

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Posted 14 November 2016 - 11:33 PM

When I told my friends I would choose her over a naked Ellen Adarna, Jessy Mendiola, or any celebrity. They said I was in love.

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Posted 15 November 2016 - 03:24 AM

When you never lose yourself every time you give him strength to carry on. 



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Posted 15 November 2016 - 07:58 AM

when you put the other person's needs, wants, desires, before your own...



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Posted 29 December 2016 - 05:55 PM

Kapag nagagawa mo yung mga bagay na hindi mo nagagawa dati dahil sa kanya.

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Posted 29 December 2016 - 08:19 PM

You sacrifice stuff that makes you happy without noticing or regretting it.

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Posted 29 December 2016 - 09:25 PM

Easy... If you want the whole package.

Everyone has their good side and bad side. You cannot pick and choose the parts you want. So if you are not blind, you can see the bad side and you still love and accept that person... Then that's real love.

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Posted 10 January 2017 - 02:36 PM

pag kasama mo sya... feeling kayo lang ang tao sa mundo



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Posted 10 January 2017 - 10:58 PM

binibigay mo lahat



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Posted 10 January 2017 - 11:39 PM

1. When you don't need any kind of excuse for you to go to that person.

2. When your mind is not inhabited of any other thoughts when you're around that person.

3. When you can't take that person off your mind completely, especially when that person is dealing with serious problems.

4. When you give no s@%t about that person's past.

 

Pre, kapag hindi ka natanga sa pag-ibig, hindi ka nagmamahal. ;)



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Posted 11 January 2017 - 10:26 AM

Kapag handa ka na tanggapin lahat ng pagkukulang nya.

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Posted 11 January 2017 - 01:42 PM

yung mukha ka nang tanga sa harap ng marami at wala ka nang pride pero sige pa rin kasi ang importante lang sayo e yung sa inyong dalawa.

 

Mahal mo e. kahit sa kangkungan ka pulutin, hindi mo matitiis

 

 

Agree! 

 

You love someone if you put their needs, their desires and their happiness ahead of your own. --- nasabi ko na pala to. Allow me to add.

 

Even if people hates you, detests you and thinks you are making an utter fool of yourself. You still persevere because you are doing something that is illogical or does not make sense for others but makes perfect sense to you and allows you to sleep soundly at night, knowing that all your deed and misdeeds were for the sake of making her happy and not getting in the way of that happiness.

 

That for me is TRUE LOVE!


Edited by Solaryan, 11 January 2017 - 01:45 PM.


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Posted 11 January 2017 - 05:34 PM

Sick but still crying out loud under the rain...knowing that he don't love you anymore.. and him without knowing that you're really madly deeply crazy in love with him...
..and still want him back.

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Posted 12 January 2017 - 02:18 PM

when i was younger, i thought sacrificing something of value for someone and putting that person's interests above your own is real love.  but then i realized later, that is not enough. real, genuine love requires two things: first, sacrificing what you have, those that you hold so dearly, even your own life, freely to someone and not expecting something in return, and second, always electing to give the person his/her the freedom to choose and decide, even if that will mean hurting himself/herself in the process though fully knowing the consequences, while you hope that he/she will learn his/her lessons - this is essential for his/her own growth, while you assume the role of a supporter, a friend, a guide, a giver of joy, and one who will be ready to repair what has been broken. 



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Posted 15 January 2017 - 11:49 AM

When you stop looking 



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Posted 15 January 2017 - 11:56 AM

when i was younger, i thought sacrificing something of value for someone and putting that person's interests above your own is real love.  but then i realized later, that is not enough. real, genuine love requires two things: first, sacrificing what you have, those that you hold so dearly, even your own life, freely to someone and not expecting something in return, and second, always electing to give the person his/her the freedom to choose and decide, even if that will mean hurting himself/herself in the process though fully knowing the consequences, while you hope that he/she will learn his/her lessons - this is essential for his/her own growth, while you assume the role of a supporter, a friend, a guide, a giver of joy, and one who will be ready to repair what has been broken. 


I agree with this. But in my book, if you love someone and are willing to sacrifice everything for that person, it includes his second point too.

If you put the person you love ahead of your own that entails giving that person your trust, your fidelity and the freedom to be the best versions of themselves.. even if at times, what's best for them, hurts you like shards of glass stuck underneath your skin and cause you many sleepless nights. You endure. Because, you love her and it is something she needs.

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Posted 15 January 2017 - 12:18 PM

You are willing to give it all eventhough it will affect so many things 






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