wWw.ExTraRiCe.CuM Posted September 19, 2005 Share Posted September 19, 2005 Which of these two you find the hardest thing to say or admit, "I'm Sorry" or "I Love You" ? Please tell us your thoughts about it. Quote Link to comment
gottogo Posted September 19, 2005 Share Posted September 19, 2005 di naman mahirap bigkasin ang dalawang yan basta sa tamang tao mo lang sasabihinmadalas kasi sorry ang cnasabi natin kac madalas tayong magkamali o makasakit ng kapwa kesa sa mainlove kaya bihira ang salitang "i love you" Quote Link to comment
al_simmons Posted September 19, 2005 Share Posted September 19, 2005 mostly for people with pride..both are hard to say... Quote Link to comment
meg Posted September 20, 2005 Share Posted September 20, 2005 i dont think that saying of those both words are difficult... dipende siguro sa tao o sa sitwasyon... but for me on my case as of now, its more easier to say SORRY rather than to say I LOVE YOU... Quote Link to comment
MHY® Posted September 21, 2005 Share Posted September 21, 2005 (edited) "iloveyou"-the hard part i think is keeping those words for urself without letting someone know how much he/she means to you.. though for some, it's not a big deal... but i think saying those words would ease the burden :goatee: Edited September 21, 2005 by MHY® Quote Link to comment
wWw.ExTraRiCe.CuM Posted September 21, 2005 Author Share Posted September 21, 2005 "iloveyou"-the hard part i think is keeping those words for urself without letting someone know how much he/she means to you.. though for some, it's not a big deal... but i think saying those words would ease the burden :goatee:<{POST_SNAPBACK}> TRUE! rejection makes some people afraid to let someone know their real feelings.. some are having difficulty saying "i love you" because they are avoiding the "i'm sorry" thing.. hehehe. Quote Link to comment
Mike Chester Posted October 7, 2005 Share Posted October 7, 2005 (edited) Should you stay, or should you go? Edited October 8, 2005 by Mike Chester Quote Link to comment
ms_makuleet Posted October 7, 2005 Share Posted October 7, 2005 based on my experience, it really depends. somehow you still have to assess whether he deserves another chance or not. if he's worthy of another chance... tao langnaman taung lahat. nagkakamali...pero syempre, ask yourself may mapapala ka nga ba kung pagbibigyan mo pa sya. Quote Link to comment
mc_darklight Posted October 7, 2005 Share Posted October 7, 2005 give her another chance. one last chance. Quote Link to comment
Switlass Posted October 8, 2005 Share Posted October 8, 2005 (edited) Nope. Unless he kills or publicly denounces the woman ( or in your case, man) No. But serouisly, no. Edited October 8, 2005 by Switlass Quote Link to comment
wyette Posted October 8, 2005 Share Posted October 8, 2005 let it go. if he did it once, he can do it again. in your case, if SHE did it once, She can do it again. Quote Link to comment
zencalix Posted October 8, 2005 Share Posted October 8, 2005 tama ka dyan wyette... in my case, i gave my ex 4 chances yata... in the end, di ko na talaga makayanan. i had to let go na. more than anything else, i love my family and i really tried to save it. pero you reach a certain point when enough is enough... you have to move on na rin... you have to weigh your options siguro... is it worth saving, etc?... Quote Link to comment
cho_clitz888 Posted October 8, 2005 Share Posted October 8, 2005 let go.. and ull understand. Quote Link to comment
Mike Chester Posted October 8, 2005 Share Posted October 8, 2005 Just want to keep the record straight here, i opened this topic but it doesn't mean that this is my personal case ha... some peoplehere have already met my partner and i don't want them to thinksomething else I just want to know the ideas of the members on this issue. Ok, let's move on. My opinion is that if you know that you still love her, i'll still keep the relationship, give her the full trust again, and as much as possible, i will not dwell the issue anymore with her. Instead, what i'm going to do is to identify the causes of why she has done that, then tingnan ko ang mga ways or ung mga dapat kong gawin para hindi na niya ulitin ulit yun. Quote Link to comment
Lingerie_girL Posted October 8, 2005 Share Posted October 8, 2005 depende yun sa ginawa nya....pero may possibility na bigyan ko nalang ng second chance..... Quote Link to comment
punkus Posted October 9, 2005 Share Posted October 9, 2005 depende siguro...if the relationship is worth the sacrifice bakit hindi....as long as you address the problems and rectify them para hindi na maulit...pero kung talagang wala naman pinatutunguhan yung relationship nyo then why bother.... Quote Link to comment
best_X_girlfriend Posted October 9, 2005 Share Posted October 9, 2005 ...because our relationship deserves another chance. Quote Link to comment
Paulo_Go Posted October 9, 2005 Share Posted October 9, 2005 ey, I think no one is perfect. I'd say I would give it another chance. There's a saying that goes like "...sometimeswe meet people due to fate, and sometimes, this people are here to make us a perfect human being." My ex-wife cheated on me a couple of times, I gave her 2 chance...however, Fate plays an important tool of making us a better man/woman. my lesson in life was: Attention ... why? I was away most often becoz of my work. and maybe this is the lesson that I should learn...Give attention to the one u love. Quote Link to comment
Chad Posted October 9, 2005 Share Posted October 9, 2005 It's happened twice. And though we've broken up, I told her I'd wait and if she wants to, we can give it another try. Yeah yeah, I can see the martyr looks and all that. Hahahahahaha. And the famous saying "if she cheats once, it probably won't happen again, but if she cheats twice, it'll probably happen a 3rd time" is being bandied about repetitively. Well, what the hell. I love the girl. So yes, another chance. Though if we do get back together, it'll be the last (if ever she does it again). Quote Link to comment
alexiv Posted October 9, 2005 Share Posted October 9, 2005 no never: like a song that : in the end it doesnt even matter: let go live another day there may be scars left from that relationship but its worth it.. you learned something to make you grow stronger and know what to do in a relationship:sabi nga ang isang paso pag nabasag, basag na yan kahit i-glue mo o pagdikitin ng anuman.. may lamat na yan... Quote Link to comment
ryc100 Posted October 9, 2005 Share Posted October 9, 2005 ive read all your post and i can say that all of you have good points,maybe it all boils down to the person being cheated on,does he/she love the person so much that they are willing to sacrifice for the relationship. for me my answer would be go,its easy to forgive but hard to forget.a broken heart would never heal fully(based from my personal experience po) for me the hardest thing to do is to trust a person with all our heart.just imagine what the feeling is if that guy or girl would just throw it all away and for what? lust? the fact that they cheated means that they dont give a dam about the relationship anymore.. well thats my own opinion po,and i would like to apologize if i sound so bitter,na experience kona kasi and it almost cost me everything i have.... :cry: Quote Link to comment
Mike Chester Posted October 10, 2005 Share Posted October 10, 2005 Sometimes, by giving a second chance it will make your relationship more stronger..... Kasi the more your partner will realize na hindi mo siya ganun kadali i give up, the more love and respect you can get from him. Kasi if you will go and find a new partner, how will you be sure na ung new partner mo will not do the same? Unlike kung mag stay ka na lang, andyan na ung foundation ninyo e. Minsan talagang mapanukso lang talaga ang buhay. Just try to find out what precipitated him to do that, baka naman kasi ikaw din ang may pagkukulang. Quote Link to comment
Guest simply_miss Posted October 11, 2005 Share Posted October 11, 2005 depende sa degree ng pagiging unfaithful ng lalaki. sa akin pinatawad ko so many times, mahal ko kasi kuno, he did tried to make up for it, pero after a while again, uulit na naman.. the 5th time he did it, i said quits and he is the only guy i hated until this day. most of the time am friends with my ex.... pero dahil extreme ang ginawa niya, ayaw ko nang makita ni anino niya. i thought it will make our relationship stronger pero hindi din, and the more bad side of it, na trauma ako....bad effect sa new relationships ko after that kasi minsan napapraning ako, lagi kong naiisip na baka may ginagawang kalokohan ang bf ko.... good thing na get over ko yun, the last relationship helped me overcome it......simply because made me feel so loved, special and he showed me his undying devotion. Quote Link to comment
buttakkal Posted October 11, 2005 Share Posted October 11, 2005 sus.....pag nagloko ang babae (ibig sabihin kuman toot ng ibang lalaki) sipain nyo na.....dami babae sa mundo....umaapaw...dami pa bata....ogag lang ang lalaki na hindi maniniwala rito.... seriously, i know of a guy who let go his gf's tryst with an office mate. He forgave the girl. One time the bf overheard the other guy boasting about how soft the gf was...(parang siopao..)...the bf got super duper mad that he stabbed the officemate right there and then.... talk about excess baggage dudes.. Quote Link to comment
enduranz Posted October 12, 2005 Share Posted October 12, 2005 Nope. Unless he kills or publicly denounces the woman ( or in your case, man) No. But serouisly, no. <{POST_SNAPBACK}>Christ forgave our sins, who are we not to give someone ( husband/wife, girlfriend/boyfriend ) another chance. Is that the price he/she must have to pay? :sick: Quote Link to comment
Recommended Posts
Join the conversation
You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.
Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible.