Inday Posted December 3, 2008 Share Posted December 3, 2008 2 years na kami, simula ng magnegosyo sya, madalang na kaming mag sex, minsan once a week, naging 2x a month, ngayon 1 month na hindi pa rin kami nag sesex, nag try na kong yayain sya kaso ayaw nya, wala daw sya sa mood , sobrang aga nya matulog lagi hindi ko na sya niyaya ngayon kasi baka mapahiya lang uli ako. Madalas ko tuloy maisip na may babae sya or minsan na iinsecure na rin ako, kaya kahit gabi ng super exercise ako para maging sexy at super diet . 4 Quote Link to comment
Ret.hGv Posted December 3, 2008 Share Posted December 3, 2008 That really sucks.........Ako nmn super duper tagal na............buti nga sa u one month lng eh.........asawa mo ba?? 1 Quote Link to comment
Ret.hGv Posted December 3, 2008 Share Posted December 3, 2008 i'm absolutely sure that i dont PM you, in fact i am sympathizing with you...I hope masettle mo yan Quote Link to comment
Inday Posted December 3, 2008 Author Share Posted December 3, 2008 That really sucks.........Ako nmn super duper tagal na............buti nga sa u one month lng eh.........asawa mo ba?? No, live-in lang kami for 2 years and 2 months na. Quote Link to comment
jetlag143 Posted December 3, 2008 Share Posted December 3, 2008 may i suggest .....na get the right time and ambiance and ask him directly what is the real score between the two of you.......though it may hurt but better than play the guessing game ...... Quote Link to comment
vigilante43 Posted December 3, 2008 Share Posted December 3, 2008 hi, I'm a newbie here but in my opinion, your guy may just be busy handling the business, same thing happened to me before, like your guy, I started a business, you see, the first months of the business is very crucial. yun yung pinakamahirap, yun yung point na laging walang kita, or feeling mo malulugi business mo, then you will start feeling frustrated and tired. maybe that was the reason kung bakit parang nawawala yung affection, muntik na kami mag break ng GF ko for 8 years. because of that. She thought nawawalan na ako ng affection and time para sa kanaya, well in fact i was doing it for our future. well anyway we worked things out by communicating lang. hope you guys can work it out.. Quote Link to comment
Wyld Posted December 3, 2008 Share Posted December 3, 2008 No, live-in lang kami for 2 years and 2 months na. If youve lived together that long, I will work on the assumption that you have been in a relationship with this guy a little bit longer than that. At that point, id think that sex is not all there is to your relationship. While I will acknowledge that they physical expression of ones love for the other person is very important in any relationship, I also believe that you need to be a bit more tolerant and understanding of his current situation. Starting a business (or even work for that matter) is not easy. Ask him whats wrong. Ask him about his business. Ask him what makes it difficult. Show an interest in what is going on in his life. At its best, he could just be totally engrossed in his business and preparing for your future life together. At its worst though, be prepared that there might be someone else and that your relationship is about to end and that is the reason why he wont have sex with you. But dont fret or get upset that you dont get sex - not without knowing why or understanding the circumstances surrounding the situation. Quote Link to comment
darksoulriver Posted December 4, 2008 Share Posted December 4, 2008 But for my own instinct and perception, i think your partner is hiding something! But first talked to your partner to know the reason to prevent misunderstanding.... Hope its not too late. Quote Link to comment
Duel of Fate Posted December 4, 2008 Share Posted December 4, 2008 my girlfriend had a miscarriage a month ago; so syempre after raspa and the operation no contact muna. we both miss it badly na yun nga lang healthwise hindi pwede. Never was a fan of HJ or BJ, and syempre lugi rin naman sya kung ako lang. Hay wattalayp. Quote Link to comment
noypiblazer Posted December 4, 2008 Share Posted December 4, 2008 uh oh, that usually leads to trouble try to find out what makes him ticked with erection, baka gusto nya ng foreplay muna or kinky lingerie dresses or baka gusto nya ng super lambing or baka ayaw nyang nada downl sya. build back his self-esteem or give him high regards...mga papuri, basta don't ever give up on him, try to search ways or baka meron syang medical condition that he's keeping secret from you...yan lang mga tanging advise, i hope it won't end up in separation, good lucksa iyo inday Quote Link to comment
kamote042988 Posted December 4, 2008 Share Posted December 4, 2008 try to talk to him. me and my gf agreed that we should abstain. and were 4 months nang out of action. were to busy at school and other stuff to be intimate Quote Link to comment
vianne Posted December 4, 2008 Share Posted December 4, 2008 well, mahirap.. two months ng wala because malayo si boyfriend.. he left the country last October, he's coming home for a conference this March so yun na lang hinihintay ko.. pag.uwi nun patay yun sa'kin.. :evil: Quote Link to comment
Inday Posted December 4, 2008 Author Share Posted December 4, 2008 Thank you very much to those who replied, at least naliwanagan ako, I still hope and pray na maayos din ito at mawala rin ang pag ka praning ko... Quote Link to comment
Miss Zelda Posted December 5, 2008 Share Posted December 5, 2008 i think 2 years no sex is enough said, a month?!! you still have a long way to go, don't worry.. Quote Link to comment
bher2 Posted December 5, 2008 Share Posted December 5, 2008 theres nothing wrong naman if you dont have actions, if you had doubt on him well you better speak out so he would understand you. on my part talagang matagalan to dahil she left for abroad to work, leaving me helplessly hehehe! but i dont mind naman kung maging kaong or matigang ako ng matagal, time will come to have a deed! Quote Link to comment
SiLvErClAw Posted December 5, 2008 Share Posted December 5, 2008 hhmm... that's a tough one, although the length of time without sex is not that hard, but that is not the real issue I suggest you talk it out, a real, honest to goodness heart to heart talk Quote Link to comment
bene_factor Posted December 6, 2008 Share Posted December 6, 2008 sige lang, mag-diet and exercise ka that is a good thing. try to do it for yourself, to be healthy and feel good about yourself and how you look. either you will regain his interest or if he is really 'gone' then ready ka na rin to be single at maghanap ng bago! Quote Link to comment
alloy v7.6 Posted December 11, 2008 Share Posted December 11, 2008 Ms. Inday, sa tingin ko naman nasa iyo pa rin ang atensiyon niya. Sa mga tulad kasi naming Workaholic, yung life partner ang primary motivation para mas tumindi drive sa work. Malamang sinabi na rin niya sa iyo na "Para rin naman sa kinabukasan natin tong ginagawa ko eh." or something like that... If he did, he really means it. Kaso malamang hard times talaga sa Business dahil pasimula pa lang. Hay, baliktad naman tayo ng sitwasyon. Misis ko naman naging frigid. so bihira na lang kami may action pero the love is still there. The affection is still present... Its just that there's no sex anymore. Pero kung ako naman yung nasa kalagayan ng partner mo, I'd still make sure I satisfy you every night. Kaso baka hindi kaya ng katawan niya. I think he's under a lotta stress lately. Have you tried giving him a teasing massage? That might work. Also, sometimes its not enough to just ask your partner for sex. You have to put him in the right mood. Foreplay is very crucial. About sa suspicions mo na may significant other siya, forget about that thought. Habang iniisip mo yan, lalo ka lang magmumukhang insecure. Kapag nahalata naman niyang insecure ka, lalo na kung ipinahalata mong naghihinala ka, baka mauwi lang sa away at lalong lumala sitwasyon. I remember being hurt the most whenever my wife doesn't realize that I'm making sacrifices for our future while she selfishly demands for all of my time. Minsan ayaw ako papasukin. Mas pinagseselosan pa nga trabaho ko eh. Quote Link to comment
friendly0603 Posted December 11, 2008 Share Posted December 11, 2008 As a guy, i think there's something wrong. Is he old enough to be having sexual problems? Even for a girl, i seriously think that the missing sexual attraction is pointing to something. Quote Link to comment
darksoulriver Posted December 11, 2008 Share Posted December 11, 2008 INDAY any news update??? Quote Link to comment
Inday Posted December 11, 2008 Author Share Posted December 11, 2008 INDAY any news update??? Well sinunod ko yung mga payo nyo to talk to him muna bago mag isip ng kung ano-ano,nag usap na kami, I asked him bakit hindi na kami nag sesex, sabi nya masyado nga raw syang maraming iniisip tungkol sa negosyo at medyo nape-presurre din sya, and he assured me na wala talagang iba, napapraning kasi ako kapapanood ng My Husband's Woman , anyway I'm trying to regain the sweetness again. Quote Link to comment
Inday Posted December 11, 2008 Author Share Posted December 11, 2008 As a guy, i think there's something wrong. Is he old enough to be having sexual problems? Even for a girl, i seriously think that the missing sexual attraction is pointing to something. Actually may sinabi sya sa akin, hindi na daw katulad ng dati ang erection nya, minsan daw nawawala , kalungkot nga, awa ako sa kanya, hindi ko alam kung anong pwedeng gawin sa problema na yon. Quote Link to comment
kikay28 Posted December 11, 2008 Share Posted December 11, 2008 there are times na kapag sobra pagod ng lalake hnd talaga pwede eh kasi they don't get erection at all, they'd rather sleep. same scenario here, nakakalungkot lang tlaga kasi hindi mo mapilit. Quote Link to comment
youknowme Posted January 16, 2009 Share Posted January 16, 2009 done this last month... hehe! :thumbsupsmiley: 32 days to be exact... Quote Link to comment
1badhabit Posted January 16, 2009 Share Posted January 16, 2009 Actually may sinabi sya sa akin, hindi na daw katulad ng dati ang erection nya, minsan daw nawawala , kalungkot nga, awa ako sa kanya, hindi ko alam kung anong pwedeng gawin sa problema na yon. inday, you can seek professional help for his erectile condition if its ok with him. meron naman gamot to help him with your concern Quote Link to comment
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