Switlass Posted February 21, 2005 Share Posted February 21, 2005 Till the very end...my support goes out to him. If it's the last expression of love...even if it hurts to let go...i'll do it. It's not martyrdom...it's learning from the experience...it's gaining wisdom which i hope i could share with him. Sorry, I didn't see this particular post. I hope you're ok now. Quote Link to comment
^Tim^ Posted February 21, 2005 Share Posted February 21, 2005 i need to understand this... after an argument...it was obvious he got upset with me...then he said he wants his space. I asked him if this means he's no longer my bf...he says "hindi na lang muna. You know how much I love you but i just can't right now." When i asked him if he would come back to me after he has sorted out whatever issues he has at the moment...he said "Oo, nagkakandarapa pa." I asked him if his love for me would outweigh whatever his going through now...he says "hopefully..." What does he mean by all of this?! I am giving him his space...i hurt in the process...and i don't know if he's ever coming back... i need advise...<{POST_SNAPBACK}> I just thought... Yo! dont force love to come upon Yo! if it aint meant to be... I mean... yes, u was a couple before... and then this happenned... the dude askin for some so-called "space" or some s**t... but after that... what? He still aint wanna take u back? DIdnt really backtracked the whole thread but... whatever he decides u just have to expect the worst and move on... :cool: Yes it's hard to let go someone u truly love... who is? But if one side doesnt feel the same way as u did, would be fair nuff to hold on to such against ur partner's will? Just have to let go, ma'am... one way or the other... Tears should make u stronger... and wiser... let it all out... and learn from the past relationship... Hope tis helps... Good mornin'... Quote Link to comment
chelly Posted February 22, 2005 Share Posted February 22, 2005 Sorry, I didn't see this particular post. I hope you're ok now.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> yeah...i'm doing okay now. He already apologized for not being fair to me. I forgave him...we all make mistakes and i don't blame him nor hate it for leaving me and treating me like i was nothing to him. I offered a hand of friendship...to talk to each other face to face this time but he said he's just not ready yet. haaaayyyy...he still needs to mature...to be able to have the courage to stand up for things he has done. I'm not going to ask him back...force him nor convince him to change his mind...im not even intrested in knowing why the heck he just gave up on me...to want to know the reason why is to still fight for it...i don't anymore. WHY? Because i came to realize that i wasn't getting what i wanted in that relationship that's why we had those petty arguments...i simply wasn't getting what i wanted and i was living in hope that if i continued to give to him and understand him he would do the same for me one day...i was wrong. there were a lot of times when i wanted to leave him...but i convinced myself that i loved him enough not to hurt him and just abandon him so i stayed even if i wasnt getting what i wanted from the relationship. Ironically, it took him to rattle my cage...to burst my bubble. So yes, he did us both a favor. i treated him with respect all throughout...unlike the girls he previously dumped...yeah..yeah..he has a bad cycle. but i don't want to be his therapist anymore so i'll just let him discover a cure for that himself. i'm proud to say that i treated him with kindness...forgiveness and love even of he was hurting me by rejecting and abandoning me. Now im also thankful that he freed me from a relationship that was bound to be even more hurtful if we got married...and we already had plans mind you. So yes, THANK YOU for freeing me to find and be found by the one who will truly make me happy. im a better person thanks to him... Quote Link to comment
private5star Posted February 22, 2005 Share Posted February 22, 2005 Personally, I'm so proud of you! :cool: :cool: :cool: It only proves that you are your own girl and no one can take that way from you. As I always want to say whenever I'm in that fix: I AM THE CAPTAIN OF MY SHIP! You girl is the captian of your own ship, it is you that will decide where your ship go. Boys will be boys no matter who they are and where they are. We are all the same, we play things when we thought it is just a toy. :evil: :evil: :evil: But we take seriously those things we thought are sacred. :hypocritesmiley: :hypocritesmiley: :hypocritesmiley: If you can learn from this you will be able to play boys as well as men on the palm of your hand. :mtc: :mtc: :mtc: Quote Link to comment
chelly Posted February 23, 2005 Share Posted February 23, 2005 Personally, I'm so proud of you! :cool: :cool: :cool: It only proves that you are your own girl and no one can take that way from you. As I always want to say whenever I'm in that fix: I AM THE CAPTAIN OF MY SHIP! You girl is the captian of your own ship, it is you that will decide where your ship go. Boys will be boys no matter who they are and where they are. We are all the same, we play things when we thought it is just a toy. :evil: :evil: :evil: But we take seriously those things we thought are sacred. :hypocritesmiley: :hypocritesmiley: :hypocritesmiley: If you can learn from this you will be able to play boys as well as men on the palm of your hand. :mtc: :mtc: :mtc:<{POST_SNAPBACK}> thanks bro...i'm proud of myself din... oh well...im so radiant now...everyone says i look as blooming as ever...and it's not just the 10 lbs i lost...it's coming from within...and i feel it! :cool: Quote Link to comment
private5star Posted February 23, 2005 Share Posted February 23, 2005 thanks bro...i'm proud of myself din... oh well...im so radiant now...everyone says i look as blooming as ever...and it's not just the 10 lbs i lost...it's coming from within...and i feel it! :cool:<{POST_SNAPBACK}> :heart: :heart: :heart: I bet you've never been more beautiful than ever before. . . I haven't seen you yet but I can sense it . . . I can feel it. . . I can smell it from afar. . . You are glowing. . . You are blooming. . . Both physically and spiritually. . . :cool: :cool: :cool: Quote Link to comment
chelly Posted February 23, 2005 Share Posted February 23, 2005 they say this because they don't want you...soft blow kung baga...it's you it's me...bullshit yan. Quote Link to comment
sun_dancer Posted February 23, 2005 Share Posted February 23, 2005 they say this because they don't want you...soft blow kung baga...it's you it's me...bullshit yan. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> yah right.. Quote Link to comment
moichi Posted February 23, 2005 Share Posted February 23, 2005 they say this because they don't want you...soft blow kung baga...it's you it's me...bullshit yan. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> yup! that's right. that's just a load of bullshit... in short , it's over! and this is just another way of sugarcoating it.... Quote Link to comment
cho_clitz888 Posted February 24, 2005 Share Posted February 24, 2005 thanx for all ur advices! he no longer miss calls! well, atleast.. not as of the momment. hahha! although there are 2 anonymous numbers appearing as missed calls on my phone.. I didnt dare call back!one time I did.. I was expectinga call from a Company I applied for, so I thought the number could be th " HR'S" But then nobody answerd so, most likely.. he has something to o with that AGAIN! well, Iam planning to buy another sim... just for him to just totally GO! Quote Link to comment
moichi Posted February 24, 2005 Share Posted February 24, 2005 thanx for all ur advices! he no longer miss calls! well, atleast.. not as of the momment. hahha! although there are 2 anonymous numbers appearing as missed calls on my phone.. I didnt dare call back!one time I did.. I was expectinga call from a Company I applied for, so I thought the number could be th " HR'S" But then nobody answerd so, most likely.. he has something to o with that AGAIN! well, Iam planning to buy another sim... just for him to just totally GO!<{POST_SNAPBACK}> well, good for you. Quote Link to comment
cho_clitz888 Posted February 24, 2005 Share Posted February 24, 2005 cacartwheel na lang ako at wala na siya! malmang sawa na yun! Quote Link to comment
chelly Posted February 25, 2005 Share Posted February 25, 2005 you're not aligned...she's at a different level. Just believe it. You really are better off anyways. Quote Link to comment
fortune cookie Posted February 25, 2005 Share Posted February 25, 2005 You're Too Good For Me...., There's someone far better for you. ^^^ lumang tugtugin na yang linyang yan! Quote Link to comment
cho_clitz888 Posted February 25, 2005 Share Posted February 25, 2005 IF HE TELLS U THIS.. I THINK U SHOULD SAY.. " yeah! i think so too!" then turn ur back and walk away! Quote Link to comment
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