Exit Lines

[Fî$hKęŊ]

Ever saw Movie "HITCH"

 

it's like telling us....in the end, is what u r that matters most.

[macx98]

bossing, sama kong sampu dyan...

strong women are real turn-ons, especially those who know who they are, what they have and what they can do...

they are so strong that they are willing to meet us halfway, and allow themselves to be pampered and taken cared of by us...

 

syempre, malaking difference ito with yung those na di naman talaga strong, either feeling dominante or feeling hard lang...

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that's true. its nice to surround yourself with an assertive, confident girl who can be thre for you through thick or thin. Like they say, every successful man have a woman behind him.

[macx98]

Hey thanks for the feedback people.

 

Your observations could be true.

 

When i say better, that means I perceive they have any or all these characteristics:  They are smarter, more attuned to the ways of the world, more mature in their decisions, more attractive, occupy the higher positions (in the workplace), and generally those who are already worth their beans.

 

I have been surrounded by dominant, sensible, intelligent men and equally strong, highly opinionated women (it runs in my father's side of the family).  Being in my early 20s and one of the youngest of the tribe, these domineering personalities have shaped my preferences, standards, and prejudices. 

 

I have dealt with younger men, men the same as my age, and older men (three to ten years older).  All have their good, redeeming qualities. I am actually looking for someone a little better than me, for democracy's sake.  But if utopian ideals are concerned, men who are my mirror image (almost or same level as mine) are peppery but not tabasco hot.  It might be instinctively evolutionary.  An improvement of (my) race.  Or just plain admiration for successful people.

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its good to know you have specifically defined where you stand and what characteristrics are you looking for. In my humble opinion, success in terms of intelligence or career doesn't really equate to lifelong happiness, only financial health and security.

 

It might instinctive for you to go and hunt down the "better" man as you define it, but please don't expect the end result to be exactly what you wish for.

[cho_clitz888]

every successful man have a woman behind him.

 

 

AMEN!

[nataraki]

I have dealt with younger men, men the same as my age, and older men (three to ten years older).  All have their good, redeeming qualities. I am actually looking for someone a little better than me, for democracy's sake.  But if utopian ideals are concerned, men who are my mirror image (almost or same level as mine) are peppery but not tabasco hot.  It might be instinctively evolutionary.  An improvement of (my) race.  Or just plain admiration for successful people.

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in the case of women, it is a natural thing to look for a superior man to nourish and take care of them for they are (once and before) considered the less dominant ones. strong women would naturaly seek for the ones who can bring them to their knees and be their knight in shining armor.

 

 

kaya naman pag sinabi sa iyong "you're too good for me" -- alam mo na that it's a cop out...

and that the relationship is over....

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true... coz when someone says it, he/she had already accepted the fact that you are not fit for each other in one way or another and that incompatibility is too great to ever hold a peaceful or healthy relationship between the two of you.

[morose_as_hell]

syempre its always fun to be the dumper than the dumpee....

pero if someone wants to break up with me, id like them to give it to me straight than break my heart many times.

[black cat]

Simple lang sa kin: "Ayoko na"... mas mahaba kse ang speech, mas mahirap baka mag-debate pa kayo.. less talk.. less mistake.

 

Tska kung bobolahin mo pa kse, baka mas mahirapan pa sya mag-move on (kse aasa pa na gusto mo pa sya). Kaya ako.. simpleng "ayoko na" lang ang sinasabi ko. Pag pina-explain nya ko, sagot ko, basta "ayoko na" eh.

[Batabatuta™]

hmm.....I'll tell her "I can't love you"

[bhooglees]

hmmm..................

 

galitin mo na lang! hehehehehe

[Gym rat]

Sa FHM Philippines, just can't remember which month, pero either one sa last 4 issues meron silang tips on how to dump your gf... Mukhang effective...

[Misteriosa]

hahaha wala ng speech speech... wag mo pansinin... pretend that she doesn;t exist... mafifeel ng girl un sigurado......

[Gym rat]

hahaha wala ng speech speech... wag mo pansinin... pretend that she doesn;t exist... mafifeel ng girl un sigurado...... 

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Yup, thats very effective. I did that once with an ex. I would go to her place just so her parents wouldn't notice anything unusual about my relationship with their daughter. I would be talking, chatting, laughing and playing with her family but not to her.

 

A couple of days later, were history. And she was the one who initiated the break up... Just don't jump for joy when she tells you she wanted out of the relationship. Be a little discreet para hindi halata... Konting lungkot pero not to the point that she would take you back. That is the last thing you would want her to do.

 

The girl won't hate you kasi sya ang nakipag break. Parang it saved her pride that she was the one doing the dumping instead of you dumping her. But of course, you should tell your buddies also para they know the whole truth that you made her dumped you. That it was your plan from the beginning not to burn any bridges kasi she has good looking girl friends... :hypocritesmiley:

[alphatetano]

i do love you .... but not the way you want me to ...

[Misteriosa]

Yup, thats very effective.  I did that once with an ex.  I would go to her place just so her parents wouldn't notice anything unusual about my relationship with their daughter.  I would be talking, chatting, laughing and playing with her family but not to her.

 

A couple of days later, were history.  And she was the one who initiated the break up...  Just don't jump for joy when she tells you she wanted out of the relationship.  Be a little discreet para hindi halata...  Konting lungkot pero not to the point that she would take you back.  That is the last thing you would want her to do.

 

The girl won't hate you kasi sya ang nakipag break.  Parang it saved her pride that she was the one doing the dumping instead of you dumping her.  But of course, you should tell your buddies also para they know the whole truth that you made her dumped you.  That it was your plan from the beginning not to burn any bridges kasi she has good looking girl friends... :hypocritesmiley:

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MISMO!!!! Just be sure na kapag ginawa ng guy yun sigurado syang ayaw na nya sa girl.... mahirap kapag narealize mong mahal mo pala yung girl and nandun lang kayo dun sa stage na "nagkakasawaan" .... Baka dumating yung time that you'd have to take back all your sh*t para lang mapabalik ung girl

[Bungo The Elder]

My two cents.

 

I don't think there is a "PERFECT" speech to dump someone. "PERFECT" as in she wouldn't get hurt, that is.

 

There is always pain if you've been dumped, rejected, set aside, whatever.

 

Not unless the girl wants out already. But then technically, she not being "dumped". You are just ending your relationship.

 

 

Anyway.

 

In my experience, it is always better to talk to a girl directly if you think you want out already. Don't ignore her. Don't pick a fight. Don't just disappear out of her sight.

 

Be a man. Don't be afraid of confrontation.

 

T**g-ina, pinasok mo iyan e. Kung may itlog ka, matuto ka ring lumabas. Ligaw-ligawan mo, paibigin mo tapos kung ayaw mo na, ni ayaw mong sabihin nang harapan sa kanya. Gagaguhin mo na lang?

 

Bakla ka ba?

 

Put yourself in the girl's shoes.

 

You love this guy. He seems to love you. Everything is all peaches. You start dreaming of a future with this guy who you love very much.

 

Then suddenly, he starts to change. He starts ignoring you, picking a fight with the smallest of reasons.

 

Then he just disappears.

 

Ikaw naman, iyak ka ng iyak. Di mo alam kung anong nangyari. Ano ba ang ginawa mo? May nagawa ka ba? May pagkukulang ka ba? May nakita ba siyang mali sa iyo?

 

Marami kang tanong. Walang makasagot kasi nawawala na ang hayop na bf mo.

 

Ikaw naman, parang gumuho ang lahat ng pangarap mo. Hintay ka ng hintay sa tabi ng telepono. Umaasang babalik siya. Hintay na parang walang katapusan. Hanggang mauntog ka sa katotohanang sayang ang buhay. Bangon uli. Hanap uli ng bagong pag-ibig.

 

Pero for that whole period - gaano mang katagal iyon, torture talaga. Since wala kang closure, masakit ang panahon na iyon para sa iyo. Gusto mo mang kalimutan e mahirap.

 

Closure.

 

Think about it. Would you want that done to you?