Kalesi Posted October 31, 2020 Share Posted October 31, 2020 (edited) Hello question po. Gusto ko kasi i confirm kung talagang ang parents ko is married. Kasi may bigla lumitaw sinasabi nya sya daw ang first wife ng father ko. Eh meron hawak ang mother ko na marriage contract with registr number from the municipal kung saan sila kinasal.1985 sila kinasal at dahil matanda na mother ko wala narin sya maalala. Ako kasi pinapaasikaso nya sa lahat ng papers nya. So bago sana kame mag benta ng property gusto ko i make sure yung status ng parents ko and ang father ko kasi naka indicate sa lahat lahat ng property binili ng mother ko.BTW hiwalay na parents ko pero not annulled kasi mahal mag pa annul, civil lang ang pag hihiwalay nila between them. Yung marriage contract na hawak ng mother ko, saan ko pwede ipakita yun para macheck kung totoo o hindi mamaya kasi gawa gawa lang yun ng father ko tapos may binayaran lang, sa PSA ba dapat ako pumunta? Sana may makatulong sakin dito. Thanks! Edited October 31, 2020 by Kalesi Quote Link to comment
juan t Posted November 1, 2020 Share Posted November 1, 2020 Hello question po. Gusto ko kasi i confirm kung talagang ang parents ko is married. Kasi may bigla lumitaw sinasabi nya sya daw ang first wife ng father ko. Eh meron hawak ang mother ko na marriage contract with registr number from the municipal kung saan sila kinasal.1985 sila kinasal at dahil matanda na mother ko wala narin sya maalala. Ako kasi pinapaasikaso nya sa lahat ng papers nya. So bago sana kame mag benta ng property gusto ko i make sure yung status ng parents ko and ang father ko kasi naka indicate sa lahat lahat ng property binili ng mother ko.BTW hiwalay na parents ko pero not annulled kasi mahal mag pa annul, civil lang ang pag hihiwalay nila between them. Yung marriage contract na hawak ng mother ko, saan ko pwede ipakita yun para macheck kung totoo o hindi mamaya kasi gawa gawa lang yun ng father ko tapos may binayaran lang, sa PSA ba dapat ako pumunta? Sana may makatulong sakin dito. Thanks! Get a copy of the marriage certificate at the PSA (you can actually order it online para di ka na mahirapan pumunta pa). If they send you the same copy, then you know its legit. Quote Link to comment
Kalesi Posted November 1, 2020 Share Posted November 1, 2020 (edited) Get a copy of the marriage certificate at the PSA (you can actually order it online para di ka na mahirapan pumunta pa). If they send you the same copy, then you know its legit.After ko kumuha ng certificate at kung lumabas na kasal ang father ko sa una. Pwede ba namin kasuhan na bigamy ang father ko? At pwede din maging single na ang status ng mother ko? Since nakasal kasi sila lahat lahat ng goverment ID ng mother ko, insurance pati mga properties na binili ng mother ko( walang ambag ang father ko kahit piso) Nakaindicate name ng father ko at ang ginagamit ng mother ko ngayon apelyido ng father ko. Gusto namin nawala father ko sa lahat lahat na meron ang mother ko. Ayaw namin makinabang sya pati yung kabit nya. Gusto namin kasuhan father ko kasi kinuha nya yung 100k. Nag kabarangayan na kame kaso sabi ng brgy dahil kasal sila wala sila magagawa. Hindi na kame ng waste ng oras sa brgy kasi alam naman namin hindi kame matutulungan. Pero may record na kame sa brgy at nakaindicate duon na kinuha ng father ko ang 100k dahil daw conjugal property. Kaya now gusto ko kumuha ng ibedensya na mag papatunay na walang bisa ang kasal nila para sa ganon mabawi namin yung perang kinuha nya at maialis namin mga pangalan nya sa insurance and properties pa ng mother ko. Last 2 yrs ago nag reklamo na kame sa pulis dahil sa pakikisama nya sa kabit, ang kaso wala nanyari dahil wala kame sapat na ibedensya na nag sasama sila. Need daw tlga is caught in the act na nag tatalik, at dapat din daw may birth certificate kame ng anak nila nung kabit or DNA, or pwede din daw lahat ng kapit bahay Papirmahin namin na tistigo sila na sila ay nag sasama. Last option is yung psychological abuse need umattend nanay ko sa isang psychiatrist at mapatunayan na affected na sya sa nanyayari kaso ang mother ko nasa abroad that time. Ngayon, nalaman ng father ko nag bebenta na kame ng properties ni mama at eto ay humahabol, at mahirwp din ibentw yung lupa kasi may pangalan nya neee nya pirma. So condition ng father ko half/half pipirma sya. Kaya naisipan ko bago ulit kame mag benta ay malinis ang mga title ni mama para wala sya mapala. Dahil covid nabenta namin ang bahay at kinuha nya yung 100k no choice kame kasi need namin ng pera. So kung mapatunayan na walang bisa pwede paba namin mabawi yun? Ano yung next steps namin saan kame pwede lumapit? Wala naman ako kilala na atty na mura lang para matulungan kame. May mga nag sasabi lapit daw sa PAO Edited November 1, 2020 by Kalesi Quote Link to comment
juan t Posted November 2, 2020 Share Posted November 2, 2020 After ko kumuha ng certificate at kung lumabas na kasal ang father ko sa una. Pwede ba namin kasuhan na bigamy ang father ko? At pwede din maging single na ang status ng mother ko? Since nakasal kasi sila lahat lahat ng goverment ID ng mother ko, insurance pati mga properties na binili ng mother ko( walang ambag ang father ko kahit piso) Nakaindicate name ng father ko at ang ginagamit ng mother ko ngayon apelyido ng father ko. Gusto namin nawala father ko sa lahat lahat na meron ang mother ko. Ayaw namin makinabang sya pati yung kabit nya. Gusto namin kasuhan father ko kasi kinuha nya yung 100k. Nag kabarangayan na kame kaso sabi ng brgy dahil kasal sila wala sila magagawa. Hindi na kame ng waste ng oras sa brgy kasi alam naman namin hindi kame matutulungan. Pero may record na kame sa brgy at nakaindicate duon na kinuha ng father ko ang 100k dahil daw conjugal property. Kaya now gusto ko kumuha ng ibedensya na mag papatunay na walang bisa ang kasal nila para sa ganon mabawi namin yung perang kinuha nya at maialis namin mga pangalan nya sa insurance and properties pa ng mother ko. Last 2 yrs ago nag reklamo na kame sa pulis dahil sa pakikisama nya sa kabit, ang kaso wala nanyari dahil wala kame sapat na ibedensya na nag sasama sila. Need daw tlga is caught in the act na nag tatalik, at dapat din daw may birth certificate kame ng anak nila nung kabit or DNA, or pwede din daw lahat ng kapit bahay Papirmahin namin na tistigo sila na sila ay nag sasama. Last option is yung psychological abuse need umattend nanay ko sa isang psychiatrist at mapatunayan na affected na sya sa nanyayari kaso ang mother ko nasa abroad that time. Ngayon, nalaman ng father ko nag bebenta na kame ng properties ni mama at eto ay humahabol, at mahirwp din ibentw yung lupa kasi may pangalan nya neee nya pirma. So condition ng father ko half/half pipirma sya. Kaya naisipan ko bago ulit kame mag benta ay malinis ang mga title ni mama para wala sya mapala. Dahil covid nabenta namin ang bahay at kinuha nya yung 100k no choice kame kasi need namin ng pera. So kung mapatunayan na walang bisa pwede paba namin mabawi yun? Ano yung next steps namin saan kame pwede lumapit? Wala naman ako kilala na atty na mura lang para matulungan kame. May mga nag sasabi lapit daw sa PAOKahit ma-prove mo na fraudulent yung kasal ng mother mo, hindi mo basta basta matatanggal yung part ownership ng dad mo sa properties niyo. Ibang kaso nanaman yan. You will have to prove na wala siyang inambag sa pagbili nyan. Quote Link to comment
Kalesi Posted November 2, 2020 Share Posted November 2, 2020 Kahit ma-prove mo na fraudulent yung kasal ng mother mo, hindi mo basta basta matatanggal yung part ownership ng dad mo sa properties niyo. Ibang kaso nanaman yan. You will have to prove na wala siyang inambag sa pagbili nyan.May mga resibo kame na nakapangalan sa mother ko ang mga bayad. Kaya lang naka sama pangalan ng tatay ko sa mga title ni mama nag aabroad kasi sya at ang tatay ko nandito. Quote Link to comment
Roubaix Posted November 3, 2020 Share Posted November 3, 2020 I received my regular appointment last July 21, 2021 stating that from October 21, 2019 to June 21, 2020 I have demonstrated a commendable work performance. But last September 25, 2020 they gave me a PIP (Performance Improvement Plan) and that I should improve within 60 days or they will terminate my employment status. Also after the meeting and plans has been submitted our HR Manager advice me to do a voluntary resignation since they already hired a replacement for me. In good faith for our HR manager I did what she advice I submitted a voluntary resignation and ask for a package of assistance with equivalent of 3 months of my salary. But when she gave me the acceptance letter for my resignation she told me that the package was not approve and I will only receive my last pay. So I withdraw my resignation and she offer me again this time they add a little amount. This is getting stressful every day. My question is, can they terminate me on the basis if I did not deliver the said PIP? Do I have the right to ask for assistance if they want me to resign voluntarily? I really need your help. Thank you. From what you said, they cannot terminate you. There is a two notice requirement, the first one states the reason and a chance to explain. But "to improve" is not an authorized cause for termination. The closest cause is "lack to trust and confidence" and according to you, the notice didn't state that. Quote Link to comment
alteregoko Posted November 10, 2020 Share Posted November 10, 2020 The company i am in needs to preserve our cash and one of the easier means to achieve this is having the unused SLs not paid next year. Issue is its on the contract that SLs convert to cash on the first quarter of the new year. What are the options that are available that we can use not to pay? Quote Link to comment
Mr.Potatoes Posted November 30, 2020 Share Posted November 30, 2020 The company i am in needs to preserve our cash and one of the easier means to achieve this is having the unused SLs not paid next year. Issue is its on the contract that SLs convert to cash on the first quarter of the new year. What are the options that are available that we can use not to pay? Closure of business due to business losses. Quote Link to comment
alteregoko Posted December 1, 2020 Share Posted December 1, 2020 Closure of business due to business losses. Not quite so drastic yet. That is a bit too extreme. Quote Link to comment
s@ntin0v3rd3 Posted December 3, 2020 Share Posted December 3, 2020 May mga resibo kame na nakapangalan sa mother ko ang mga bayad. Kaya lang naka sama pangalan ng tatay ko sa mga title ni mama nag aabroad kasi sya at ang tatay ko nandito. HI Kalesi, I sent you a PM. Hope you see it. Take care! Quote Link to comment
X-23 Posted December 5, 2020 Share Posted December 5, 2020 The company i am in needs to preserve our cash and one of the easier means to achieve this is having the unused SLs not paid next year. Issue is its on the contract that SLs convert to cash on the first quarter of the new year. What are the options that are available that we can use not to pay?Make them use it (forced leave). Quote Link to comment
alteregoko Posted December 5, 2020 Share Posted December 5, 2020 Make them use it (forced leave).You cannot force people to use leaves that convert to cash. That was explored and viewed as highly untenable legally. Quote Link to comment
X-23 Posted December 6, 2020 Share Posted December 6, 2020 You cannot force people to use leaves that convert to cash. That was explored and viewed as highly untenable legally.Check the circulars issued by DOLE this pandemic. Quote Link to comment
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