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[rich_girl]

can may husband adopt my child w/o a consent coming from her biological dad?

 

.. thanks for your fast reply

[mlpf]

can may husband adopt my child w/o a consent coming from her biological dad?

 

.. thanks for your fast reply

 

Thanks for the modified post. I get the picture now. As a rule, both husband and wife must jointly adopt. If your husband wishes to adopt your illegitimate child, you will have to do it together. As a rule, the consent of the natural father is necessary for adoption. However, the consent of the natural parent who has abandoned the child is not necessary.

[GARYLYN]

Thanks for the prompt reply. First, I would like to address my reason of filing an annulment or whatever is most appropriate. It is a very long story but I would like to summarize as short as possible. While I am abroad, I was able to acquired some properties (car and house and lot). While I'm away my wife quarreled with our neighbors. During my annual vacation, she proposed to transfer to another location and by believing that our neighbors might be the problem. We decided to acquire another house in another location. In short, my wife and my children transfered to the new house. After few years of stay in the new house, she again quarreled with the neighbors. She was also able to sell my car without my permission. The worst thing is she used the proceeds the car on her personal business and portion of it was lent to our neighbor which causes their trouble. I didn't have any knowledge of all what happened until such time that the trouble with our neighbor became worst that lead to a legal trouble. Since our neighbor is also known as trouble maker, and was treathening my family, my wife decided to return back to our original house. During again my vacation, she proposed to sell the 2nd house since they don't want anymore to stay in that house and nobody will take care of the property. I agree to sell the house and before I return to my work, the deal was done however, the payment was handled by her since she doesn't want to put it in my personal account. I strictly instructed her not to touch the money and put it on a time deposit account. All my instruction was not followed and she spent again the proceeds of the house in her personal business and the other part acquired in getting a new house with outstanding amortization and outstanding payment to the owner. I was so very angry this time and from that on I decided to separate myself from her. All my savings had gone and now she is putting me in a financial obligation without my knowledge. I resigned from my job abroad and got some amount from my separation pay. I buy a van mainly for transport business purposes and second to teach them how to fish instead of just getting the monthly supply of fish from me. I got another job abroad and I told my family that I will pay the monthly amortization of the van and the income of the van is where they will get their monthly expenses. I have a driver then who used to drive the van and give my family a daily boundary. However for unknown reason again, my wife forcely get van from my driver and want to manage by herself. My son-in-law is the one driving now the van and giving money to my wife. Now she doesn't want this arrangement and she want to take cash from me of which I can not do since my salary is just enough for the amortization of the van. She is now treathening to sue me and remove from my job (I don't if she is capable for that) and destroying my credibility to her friends, neighbors and pretending and she's good and I'm bad. I already lost my respect on her and I will not in anyway reconcile with her. I am here again abroad trying to recover from the losses she made but she continously pulling me down. Due to this situation, I wan't to totally separate from her in order for me to move on and start a new life and avoid any litigation that she gets involve with.

Well, it was a very very long story. You have a very legitimate reason, however, it is to my humble that we need to dig more for a very good ground to file for an annulment. Secondly, do not be afraid that your wife could have you terminated from work. Just concentrate on your work. I suggest you have to hire a private investigator to dig deeper about your wife, and smell some fishy things on her. Just feel free to personally send a message to me for further advice. Anyway, we have good lawyers in this thread. Best regards.

[serolf]

anybody who could give me his opinion about my situation? my wife has several personal bank loans covered by pdcs(personal nya at 1 na joint kami). my wife died last Feb 26. Am i liable sa balance ng mga personal loans nya, particularly doon sa bank where she issued a check na joint acct namin? ur advice would be greatly appreciated

[Google]

anybody who could give me his opinion about my situation? my wife has several personal bank loans covered by pdcs(personal nya at 1 na joint kami). my wife died last Feb 26. Am i liable sa balance ng mga personal loans nya, particularly doon sa bank where she issued a check na joint acct namin? ur advice would be greatly appreciated

 

 

yes...because you are the surviving heir.

[GARYLYN]

Many thanks for the advice. I've just recently talked to my eldest daughter and she informed me about the case which was filed by the complainant of my wife. She informed me that they received a summon address to me. The name in the summon is not my real name (example: Rudy instead of Rodolfo). I suspect they want to use me since they won't get anything from my wife. I've been outside the Philippines since Sept. 2007 and this case was just filed this month and I don't have any knowledge about it. How can I act if I am outside the Philippines and if ever I go home to depend myself I couldn't stay for long as it will affect my job. Further, I cannot assure my employer will let me go home since I am only new to the company. No one from my family knows my exact location or address except the country where I am. I intentionally conceal my address in order to escape any terrorizing act from my wife. I am constantly communicating to my eldest daughter whom understand well the situation.

Did your daughter or any of your family members received the summon? What's the complaint? Who is the complainant or plaintiff? These things are very important to know so that we can advice you properly. Much better if the summon was not received by anyone so that the court may not acquire jurisdiction on you.

[rich_girl]

Thanks for the modified post. I get the picture now. As a rule, both husband and wife must jointly adopt. If your husband wishes to adopt your illegitimate child, you will have to do it together. As a rule, the consent of the natural father is necessary for adoption. However, the consent of the natural parent who has abandoned the child is not necessary.

 

 

thanks a lot for helping poeple here :thumbsupsmiley:

[serolf]

yes...because you are the surviving heir.

 

 

many thanks!

[GARYLYN]

I don't know yet who received the summon but I presumed they received it cause they know that the name written is not my correct name. With regards to the complaint, I don't know the exact description but I'm sure you can figure out from the history of the case. As I mentioned before on my previous post, part of the proceeds of sale of our second house was used by my wife in buying a house of which she pays the 50% of their agreed cost price and the balance to be paid in one year. My wife will also assume the remaining amortization of the house. This transaction was only between my wife and the owner of the house and they made it only in simple writing without proper legal documentation. Further, I don't have knowledge of this transaction as I am abroad at that time. When I quit my job abroad and go home. I discovered the transaction and I was very upset to what she did and very mad of her. The seller visited me and I told her that I am not interested in her house and I can not afford to pay her. She convince me to do something cause nanghihinayang daw sya sa bahay kung sa iba mapupunta (sori, I can't explain well in English). Since I still have some money left at that time, I try to find a solution but since it took me sometime before I get another job, I told the seller to just sell her property to others as I cannot afford anymore to pay her and the monthly amortization. I explained also to my wife that I cannot afford the property. All my communication with the seller are through verbal conversation. The seller agreed to my proposal but we figured out the problem on how she can convince my wife to leave the house. When I go back abroad for another job, my wife and the seller again resume their negotiation. I didn't interfere anymore on them since I am not interested with the property and the money. Based on the information I have gathered, the seller want's my wife to leave the property since she cannot pay anymore the seller and the amortization of the house. My wife refused to leave the property without taking back the appropriate portion of the money she has given to the seller. The seller offered my wife to sell first the property before she will return back her money. However, my wife reject the seller's offer and insist to leave only the house once she get her money. That's the whole story of the case and I didn't expect they will reach at this stage. Any good advice will be highly appreciated...

I guess the cause of action filed by the seller of the subject property was either for the rescission of contract or for performance, and depending on the theory of the seller's counsel. I need to see the documents and/or agreement signed by your wife and the seller. Under our Civil Law, you being the husband or spouse is civilly liable. That's the irony of having a very assuming wife.

[Deathwish]

a few quick question guys..

 

ano po ba manyari sa mga nasheriff na ariarian after the case have been resolved?

 

what if sira na ur ariarian (ex. sasakyan) na nasheriff?

[mike_23]

hi...hope you can help.I am currently working in this company for about 5 mos now ...I'm just worried of what might happen.

What was stipulated in our contract is not given to us like HMO coverage, cell phone? clothing etc... and also contibution for sss is delay( 5 mos).

Is this a punishable offence or can i bring this to court? I really dont know..... thanks.. seeking advise.

[Google]

a few quick question guys..

 

ano po ba manyari sa mga nasheriff na ariarian after the case have been resolved?

 

what if sira na ur ariarian (ex. sasakyan) na nasheriff?

 

 

imho, you can get them to pay for the cost of the damage/cost of repair.

but it will really take a long-long while before they can pay you.

[Google]

hi...hope you can help.I am currently working in this company for about 5 mos now ...I'm just worried of what might happen.

What was stipulated in our contract is not given to us like HMO coverage, cell phone? clothing etc... and also contibution for sss is delay( 5 mos).

Is this a punishable offence or can i bring this to court? I really dont know..... thanks.. seeking advise.

 

since a contract is between two parties, and the other party involved is you, you have the every right to ask for a copy.

ask your HR for that.

 

but let me tell you that most big companies already do not have contracts. what they can give you is just an appointment paper which states your employment status. if you are on proby or regular status, all benefits and perks that are due to each regular or proby employee should be stated in your employees handbook.

 

things would be different if you are on a consultancy basis. dapat may copy ka ng contract.

 

for the SSS contribution, what is your basis for claiming the delay? Nag inquire ka sa SSS office mismo o naginquire ka lang via website? imho, yung sa website, medyo matagal nila i-upload yung updates. perif nag inquire ka sa SSS mismo and they say that they are not receiving remittances, then talk to the SSS mismo and complain. sila na maghahandle nung issue between the company and them.

 

for all labor related cases, hindi sa court ang punta.... sa NLRC muna.

[Deathwish]

imho, you can get them to pay for the cost of the damage/cost of repair.

but it will really take a long-long while before they can pay you.

 

 

who will cover for this expenses? the court?

[Google]

who will cover for this expenses? the court?

 

they will (yung sheriff's office...)