guytalker Posted April 12, 2016 Share Posted April 12, 2016 (edited) I have a guy friend since 2010 officemate ko siya before, and we have this thing na we know we both love each other we already admitted it s isat isa but...We also treasure our friendship.. so ang exsenasince madalas kami mapag kamalang in a relationship ng mga tao we both agreed na whatever it is na nakikita ngbmga tao or yung sweettreatment namin sa isat isa we will not gonna label it... we are just close friends nothing more nothing less...we cannot see each other personally if in a relationship isa samin.. he had his girlfriends na ex na ngaun i had mine na ex na din.. we saw each other again last year sa birthday ko and damn the love is still here same to him then again we saw each other last week, he introduces me to his family sa mother side but syempre as a friend pa din, even his cousin are teasing us na ayaw nila maniwala na di nga kami so pinaintindi namin bakit ayun kinantyawan kami na #FRIENDZONE his courting a girl now and for the first time nakaramdam ako ng selos and is a pa ang chararat ni girl di sila bagay.. sabi ko nga eh never ako nakialam sa mga prev relationships niya but this one i obviously disagree.. napapaisip din tuloy siya kasi oo nga di ako nakialalam sa mga past pero apektado ako dito sa isa i told him di maganda kutob ko sa girl ..well i still dont know the uodates kasi mukhang wala nananmna sa systema friend ko and i hate it na nag seselos ako We love each other but avoided to be labeled as in a relationship, para di dumating yung araw na magkasakitan kami at tuluyang mag hiwalay.. and we both cannot let that happen.... isa pa pareho naming di alam ang gusto pa namain.. But no matter what, even if the time comes na marealize niya na we should end this craziness of ours i will continue loving him..even if his not really mine isang tanong lang... nagtitikiman ba kayo? dahil dun magbabago ang perception ko sa story mo... Edited April 12, 2016 by guytalker Quote Link to comment
coolliam Posted April 13, 2016 Share Posted April 13, 2016 Sa past na to, I met a girl, love at first sight. Nalaman ko na engaged na siya. Eventually naging close friends din kami. Then before siya magsettle at umalis ng pinas, sinabi ko may sasabihin ako sa kanya, pero di na kami nagkausap. Until one time siya nag initiate ng chat at sinabi niya sa akin na may attraction siya sa akin nun unang nagkakilala kami, at sympre umamin din ako. Pero that was it. She already settled, and I'm forever lonely... =( Pag nalaman ko mas maaga, baka lalo ko siya pinaglaban, although I know she loves her husband naman talaga.... Quote Link to comment
Sitti of TVS Posted April 17, 2016 Share Posted April 17, 2016 its really hard. those sleepless nights, those dreams turn into nightmare, waking up in the middle of the night looking for him then marerealize ko im not with him anymore, those moments na bigla nalang akong maiiyak just thinking about him, remembering every moment with him pag may song na biglang magpapaalala nung moment na yun. realizing that its really ironic kasi the person who can make me feel like heaven can bring me to hell as well. but i think all i can do is to accept the fact that no matter what i do. even if i give my life to him. even if im willing to do anything. to risk everything. i can never have him. because he dont love me. he just dont love me the way i do. kaya no matter how hard i fight for him. masasayang lang. if i continue to fight for my place in his life if he dont want me there wala naman talaga kong magagawa. worst i might destroy him. or destroy myself even more. Quote Link to comment
Darkwing Duck Posted April 17, 2016 Share Posted April 17, 2016 Meron naman dyan who would accept you as you are, unlike him.Like someone who would not think you need to lose 3 kilos.Like someone who would ask you today kung nag-lunch ka na. Quote Link to comment
mejobadboy Posted April 17, 2016 Share Posted April 17, 2016 I had a coworker who has a 6 year relationship with a guy. Right from the start we felt attracted with each other but I avoided her because I know she's in a relationship. Eventually, we ended up being close and I immediately told her that she should break-up with him because she's not happy anymore (which she really said) so I made her choose between us. So she attempted to break-up with him but she immediately got back because she was scared that her boyfriend would tell her parents and she's really scared of her parents and she is planning to study to the US and her boyfriend is willing to go with her. So I never talked to her again until one day she insisted to talk to me and again I told her to choose the person that will make her truly happy so the next day she attempted to break-up again but her boyfriend begged for her to stay. The day after that, the guy proposed to her but she said "No". When she told it to her parents, they got angry.The day after the proposal, she talked to me and told me that she would say "yes", I got angry at her and told her to do it but eventually I realized that I should have convinced her otherwise so I ran to the place where they'll meet only to find out that it wall all too late. She called me and said that she already said "yes". So I'm practically moving on but she's still insisting that I talk to her and telling words like "I love you and I miss you". Well, I can't even get angry at her, maybe because I feel the same way too. Quote Link to comment
rainbow_man Posted April 21, 2016 Share Posted April 21, 2016 I have a guy friend since 2010 officemate ko siya before, and we have this thing na we know we both love each other we already admitted it s isat isa but...We also treasure our friendship.. so ang exsenasince madalas kami mapag kamalang in a relationship ng mga tao we both agreed na whatever it is na nakikita ngbmga tao or yung sweettreatment namin sa isat isa we will not gonna label it... we are just close friends nothing more nothing less...we cannot see each other personally if in a relationship isa samin.. he had his girlfriends na ex na ngaun i had mine na ex na din.. we saw each other again last year sa birthday ko and damn the love is still here same to him then again we saw each other last week, he introduces me to his family sa mother side but syempre as a friend pa din, even his cousin are teasing us na ayaw nila maniwala na di nga kami so pinaintindi namin bakit ayun kinantyawan kami na #FRIENDZONE his courting a girl now and for the first time nakaramdam ako ng selos and is a pa ang chararat ni girl di sila bagay.. sabi ko nga eh never ako nakialam sa mga prev relationships niya but this one i obviously disagree.. napapaisip din tuloy siya kasi oo nga di ako nakialalam sa mga past pero apektado ako dito sa isa i told him di maganda kutob ko sa girl ..well i still dont know the uodates kasi mukhang wala nananmna sa systema friend ko and i hate it na nag seselos ako We love each other but avoided to be labeled as in a relationship, para di dumating yung araw na magkasakitan kami at tuluyang mag hiwalay.. and we both cannot let that happen.... isa pa pareho naming di alam ang gusto pa namain.. But no matter what, even if the time comes na marealize niya na we should end this craziness of ours i will continue loving him..even if his not really mine nice story of friendship, i do not know why you're pretending not to care or have feelings when you know it's there? isnt it betraying your friend when all this time youre feeling something to him? but i guess its your side only..not sure about the guy..and in our culture, dapat mauna si guy to confess his love..but the heck! if u really love the person, then u need to tell him...just my opinion.. Quote Link to comment
jesincase Posted April 22, 2016 Share Posted April 22, 2016 Can a 10 fall for a 4 like me? 1 Quote Link to comment
madruff Posted April 23, 2016 Share Posted April 23, 2016 nangyari na din sakin wto kaso yung and xgf ko sya nagsabi sakin at hindi ko eto makakalimutan na sinabi nya " gusto ko sanang sabihin sayo na mahal pa din kita, kaso hindi na talaga pwede" kasi may bf sya nun at papunta na syang canada. Quote Link to comment
seductivevenus Posted April 23, 2016 Share Posted April 23, 2016 It's hard to love someone when you're already in love with someone else. But sometimes my heart longs for that person whom I cannot have because he's in pursuit of his dream. Quote Link to comment
Modta022 Posted April 23, 2016 Share Posted April 23, 2016 I think I fell in love with my secretary like f#&k! It's not right nakakalibog kasi siya hahaha Quote Link to comment
JoshuaJacob Posted April 23, 2016 Share Posted April 23, 2016 This situation is really hard to resolve. Particularly if the girl is within your eyeing distance. It would be best to find somebody else while the situation is just evolving. And let this new distraction be your avenue to look the other way. BUT the most difficult situation if the girl will also find her own ways to get your attention. SIGH!!! This would end up as a great temptation and later on ends-up w/ a relationship hard to break up later on. Quote Link to comment
sister xtina Posted April 23, 2016 Share Posted April 23, 2016 You can never be happy with that person. Laging may kulang. Quote Link to comment
AraBella Posted April 24, 2016 Share Posted April 24, 2016 isang tanong lang... nagtitikiman ba kayo? dahil dun magbabago ang perception ko sa story mo... Yeah 2x na nice story of friendship, i do not know why you're pretending not to care or have feelings when you know it's there? isnt it betraying your friend when all this time youre feeling something to him? but i guess its your side only..not sure about the guy..and in our culture, dapat mauna si guy to confess his love..but the heck! if u really love the person, then u need to tell him...just my opinion..We b9th adm8ted it na nga but ayaw namin ng label thats it Quote Link to comment
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