ElvisHasLeftTheBuiilding Posted May 26, 2010 Share Posted May 26, 2010 focus on your present and future. Put the past behind and do exert efforts to come up with better [not bitter] memories as you live your lives one-day-at-a-time. This time, as a FAMILY. Quote Link to comment
GeekGoddess Posted May 26, 2010 Share Posted May 26, 2010 You do the following: 1. delete all his pictures on your FB account 2. give away everything he gave you3. throw away all his pictures in your room 4. HIDE him on your FB 5. stop yourself from stalking him on the net 6. DO NOT text him nor call him; drunk texting and drunk dialling are not excused. 7. When you do remember the b@$t@rd ... remember all the bad things he did and the cheating ... that will stop you short. 8. Remember all the times he made shitty excuses you forced yourself to believe. 9. Remember: He is not all that. You are. 10. He's not worth it. The mere fact he let you go, shows how d@mn stupid he is. Do you really wanna be with someone like that? Quote Link to comment
IT Posted May 28, 2010 Share Posted May 28, 2010 Thanks for the advice everyone .. but it still hurts and as hard as hell....about my wife .. we haven't separated eventhough she knows I have a mistress. Quote Link to comment
IT Posted May 29, 2010 Share Posted May 29, 2010 Updfate I tried to convince her not to go to Japan.. sighting that she was once being peddled by her mother to an old business man. sabi ko I spared you on becoming a "prosti" ..now you will let that happen? she said dapt hinayaan ko na sya ... People change and their morales along with it.... that's why I curse their family names as Users, prosti's and thieves. Quote Link to comment
mc_darklight Posted March 19, 2011 Share Posted March 19, 2011 that's sad to hear... but life goes on... if you have the capability to change it why not, right. Quote Link to comment
StoicVampire Posted March 19, 2011 Share Posted March 19, 2011 Updfate I tried to convince her not to go to Japan.. sighting that she was once being peddled by her mother to an old business man. sabi ko I spared you on becoming a "prosti" ..now you will let that happen? she said dapt hinayaan ko na sya ... People change and their morales along with it.... that's why I curse their family names as Users, prosti's and thieves. You'll get through it eventually bro. I'm pretty sure you did everything for her. Siya pa rin naman ang mag-dedecide sa bandang huli. Life should still go on anyway. Goodluck! Quote Link to comment
MikeyArrovo Posted March 22, 2011 Share Posted March 22, 2011 Sabi nila I need to move on,Pero everytime na magsex kami ng mga naging gf ko sya parin ang iniisip ko.5years na kaming wala. But I'm still struggling to move everything. I deleted my FB account even change my cell number. Quote Link to comment
diablo69 Posted March 22, 2011 Share Posted March 22, 2011 (edited) how can you let go someone your sooo in love with?? whew...kahit binigay mo na everything sa kanya... niloko ka pa din...it hurts sooo much when you love sooo much... two years since she left but we still communicate we also see each other when both our times permit...very complicated dati mistress ko ngayon fubu na lang kami...we had a beautiful daughter who lives with her... many times i've tried to let go of her sabi ko sa kanya i'll support na lang our child...still she doesnt want me to let go... i done it all change my cp...delete her sa fb and fs...ampota...alam password ko...binalik sa dati... tried to stop communicating...ang lintek...pumunta sa bahay(buti wala wife)... intentionally alam nya wala...next nagpunta sa office.... buti wala mga bossing.. alam nya mahal na mahal ko sya...nahihirapan din ako pag wala sya... we both know that we could not be togather...still we hold on kung ano meron kami ngayon...they have a beautiful life now...everything she ask her guy could give may stable business...mayaman...binata...perfect catch na nga... still ang gusto nya kami pa din... willing sya iwan yun para kami ulit... ang hirap...alam na ng wife yung sa amin(except the part na we still see each other)...and i love my wife...yet deep inside me ayaw din sya i-let go...TOUGH LOVE... Edited March 22, 2011 by diablo69 Quote Link to comment
lonely62699 Posted March 22, 2011 Share Posted March 22, 2011 and you think your is is worth it for you to continuously cheat on your wife? in my opinion naman, its very dangerous if cheating involves emotions and feelings. it would be better if the act of cheating is just for sexual satisfaction. Quote Link to comment
friendly0603 Posted March 22, 2011 Share Posted March 22, 2011 and you think your is is worth it for you to continuously cheat on your wife? in my opinion naman, its very dangerous if cheating involves emotions and feelings. it would be better if the act of cheating is just for sexual satisfaction.What is it worth? Is it better to be with someone who you do not love but is available? So a cheating person who's just after sex with anyone is better than a person who truly loves/cares for more than one? Quote Link to comment
pepe8164 Posted March 23, 2011 Share Posted March 23, 2011 I agree that cheating per se, whatever the reason, is wrong. However, I dont want to condemn anyone since I myself also tasted cupid's cruel joke once when I got involved with another woman. We all know what we should do if ever we get caught in situations like this, but like anyone who has travelled down this road will tell you, its easier said than done. Quote Link to comment
JHP Posted March 23, 2011 Share Posted March 23, 2011 True, even if i recognize what's right and wrong, as i get older, the less i feel like making judgments about people who are in these situations. Life is full of should-not-be's. But there's always a price to pay, and it catches up with you, one way or another. Quote Link to comment
diablo69 Posted March 24, 2011 Share Posted March 24, 2011 guys thanks sa inputs... yup mahirap talaga... ngayon kasi we(fubu) both have our own lives na... ako na nga lumalabas nang gugulo pag nalaman eh.. problem kasi we both need each other sabihin natin sexually... ok if sex lang kuha na lang ng psp, ok pwede yun para sa sex part... pag yung may feelings kasi ka sex mo iba... sa wife tinabangan na ako pag dating sa sex siguro kasi bata maganda sexy si fubu... yup selfish... pero di pa din naman ako nagkukulang sa wife pag dating dun... and i do love her kaya nga pag papipiliin kung fubu o wife syempre sa .....WIFE kasi yun yung tama... will i be happy...ngayon di siguro... but i will try my best to give it back to my wife lahat ng pagkukulang ko lahat ng sinayang ko...di pa nga siguro ngayon pero gagawin ko Quote Link to comment
StoicVampire Posted March 24, 2011 Share Posted March 24, 2011 Sexually or not sexually, having a relationship with another person when you are already committed with somebody is cheating. Yes its emotionally tough for both of you but how about the other party? You don't want to pay the price when its already late right? Better be safe than sorry bro. You'll get through it. Goodluck! \m/ Quote Link to comment
friendly0603 Posted March 25, 2011 Share Posted March 25, 2011 Sexually or not sexually, having a relationship with another person when you are already committed with somebody is cheating. Yes its emotionally tough for both of you but how about the other party? You don't want to pay the price when its already late right? Better be safe than sorry bro. You'll get through it. Goodluck! \m/Non-sexual relationship is probably not considered cheating. Why? Let's say I'm in love with ..... and she loves me but we don't do anything about it.Sexual relationship whether a fling or ONS breaks a relationship almost automatically when your other half finds out. Quote Link to comment
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