Hellmarch Posted April 15, 2019 Share Posted April 15, 2019 (edited) Hi guys and girlsI once had an ex for over 5years we were really just highschool sweet hearts we didn't have an officially "we are over" kinda separationShe went on to be a celebrity in valiente and I went to college we never see each otherIt's been almost 18 years I just checked FB and since I know her complete name I searched for her and to my delight she is a single momStill very active in the show biz industryI was hesitant at first but I PmMd her anyway and she remembers me we chatted for 3 hoursNow my dilemma is this if given a chance would you do it or not?Thanks mod Edited April 15, 2019 by FleurDeLune Quote Link to comment
Hellmarch Posted April 15, 2019 Author Share Posted April 15, 2019 Thanks mod just to add cellphone wasn't a really a thing during 1990's so it was just landline most of the time when she became a celebrity they moved houses we never really had a good bye We just happen to have different priorities But now we are just on the getting to know each other phase againI'm assuming you're looking for a long term relationship... what considerations are running through your thoughts right now?what are your "non-compromise"?i think if there is nothing that cannot meet your non-compromise (eg religion) go for it üWell to start off I have more baggage but the thing is she didn't even mention that It's just that maybe I don't have that confidence anymore because the situation is different Quote Link to comment
FleurDeLune Posted April 15, 2019 Share Posted April 15, 2019 I just added a poll for any one who wants to cast their vote on the 'issue' at hand. Quote Link to comment
Hellmarch Posted April 15, 2019 Author Share Posted April 15, 2019 Reason why I ask this to be created to also other members of the community if they had the same experience and would love to hear how was it at this point I still don't know my confidence was shot just 7 months ago Quote Link to comment
Hellmarch Posted April 15, 2019 Author Share Posted April 15, 2019 Well let's just say am still technically married and she isn't so that's a start Quote Link to comment
K0RN - RETIR3D Posted April 15, 2019 Share Posted April 15, 2019 Given the scenario, its not a good idea to rekindle an old flame unless you are either legally separated or annulled. Otherwise, there would be complications not unless you wanted to have a relationship with her in secret. Quote Link to comment
Hellmarch Posted April 15, 2019 Author Share Posted April 15, 2019 Well at this point am still hesitant because of a lot of factors I want to make sure if I enter into another relationship no more shenanigans what do ever Quote Link to comment
Willy da Boo Posted April 15, 2019 Share Posted April 15, 2019 what do you want with her anyway?what chance are you talking about? friends?fubu?relationship?additional baby? Quote Link to comment
Hellmarch Posted April 15, 2019 Author Share Posted April 15, 2019 At this point again I don't know I am not that sure if I want a relationship . And specially not a fubu Quote Link to comment
SiLvErClAw Posted April 15, 2019 Share Posted April 15, 2019 At this point again I don't know I am not that sure if I want a relationship . And specially not a fubu IMHO, you have some things you have to straighten out straighten those out first, then pursue if you must Quote Link to comment
Hellmarch Posted April 15, 2019 Author Share Posted April 15, 2019 We have 4 yes votes care to share your thoughts or experience regarding the same scenario IMHO, you have some things you have to straighten out straighten those out first, then pursue if you mustYes am on the process of doing that plus she is a celebrity am just me so when we were in highschool I was hmmmm a writer in school's journal she was always alone mataray sya but had the guts to talk to her my confidence was oozing because I believe in myself now though it's more of finding myself first Quote Link to comment
SiLvErClAw Posted April 15, 2019 Share Posted April 15, 2019 We have 4 yes votes care to share your thoughts or experience regarding the same scenario Yes am on the process of doing that plus she is a celebrity am just me so when we were in highschool I was hmmmm a writer in school's journal she was always alone mataray sya but had the guts to talk to her my confidence was oozing because I believe in myself now though it's more of finding myself first her being a celebrity kinda complicates things, but it should not be a hindrance to get to know her, and pursue after all, who you are pursuing is not the celeb, but the person good luck, Hellmarch Quote Link to comment
Hellmarch Posted April 15, 2019 Author Share Posted April 15, 2019 her being a celebrity kinda complicates things, but it should not be a hindrance to get to know her, and pursue after all, who you are pursuing is not the celeb, but the person good luck, HellmarchThanks for dropping by panda I really appreciate it well all I have is her messenger I didn't even add her or ask for her number she told me about what happened and she is very happy now but she never got married It was just probably a friendly chat I didn't led her in she didn't initiate anything either 1 Quote Link to comment
#Lovey Posted April 15, 2019 Share Posted April 15, 2019 Yes .. everyone deserves another chance Quote Link to comment
SiLvErClAw Posted April 15, 2019 Share Posted April 15, 2019 Thanks for dropping by panda I really appreciate it well all I have is her messenger I didn't even add her or ask for her number she told me about what happened and she is very happy now but she never got married It was just probably a friendly chat I didn't led her in she didn't initiate anything either that's good then, just let the flow take you where you will Quote Link to comment
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