Keeping The Long Distance Relationship Alive

[lacrima]

Being on ldr means a greater reason prevents you from being together..It's hard to tell HOW to make the ldr alive. But you can tell if it is working. It's when both of you have mutual effort to overcome that greater reason. It's when you see what makes it greater slowly fades its value.

Edited November 5, 2016 by lacrima

[nobrain]

Ldr Nakakasawa 😏🙄

[Darthmark2]

Technology makes it easier although it is still hard..

[*Jessie*]

First things first. If you have a choice, DO NOT.

But if you are already there, hmmm, might as well find some time to be together for good as soon as you can.

[chup@ppy01]

We humans are capable of doing or achieving everything we so desire... love is no exemption. if two human beings are so into each other, well, aint no mountain high enough... hehe..

 

as for me, well, i can only say that it requires cuteness and patience all the time. (=

 

stay cute ms audrey. (=

[temurlenk]

We live in an age of OFWs and the fact is, LDRs happen to a lot of people. I think it makes a big difference compared to normal relationships and has more risks being away from each other but it also gives couples the opportunity, (maybe unkowingly) to test their faith in each other. I think communication is important and it keeps the love alive, also, if there is a chance for cuoples to be together or live together they should grab that opportunity otherwise plan vacations ahead of time. Planning ahead can keep travel expenses lower and gives you something to look forward to and it also helps you prepare and plan for future expenses. This also gives your partner an assurance that you are doing something to bridge the physical gap that exists because of work, school or whatever is the reason for living apart with each other.

[Jade of TVS]

Hard To Trust Pag LDR Di Mo Kse Alam Lahat Ng Ginagawa Nya.

[coffeelover301984pp]

pag malayo and busy yung partner mo minsan mapapahanap ka talaga ng iba to fill the gap

[shhhhhh]

Again, only those with strong hearts and soul survive this kind of relationship.

Trust and faith in God, will surely keep the couple together.

[Hari ng Spakol]

just make sure you always have a constant communication thru viber, messenger, email...etc

[Solaryan]

This is the thread that I dreaded to be in.. because I know it is an emotional one for me..

 

My ex-gf migrated to Canada this April and we both agreed to end the relationship. We both knew that we are too immature to maintain a relationship without being together physically. We have been together for 4 years, I met here at work. I guess one could say that we were happy. Even though we knew that her family had long been in the process of migrating abroad, we still went on with our relationship as if it will never end. We made plans for our future and dreamed of how our life will be like.

 

Then it had to end.

 

When she left, it was as if I was lost. When you've lived a life with someone with you almost everyday of your life for 4 years, it is really a surreal experience when she's gone. We agreed not to contact each other that often, to give each other a chance to move on and maybe find someone..

 

Then in my moment of solitude (i know, I was not really alone, I had friends and family etc.. but somehow, I did still feel alone) I wanted to fight the feeling. I told myself, "suck it up! you're a man! stop moping around assh@#l! Do something about it."

 

That is when it hit me! My one moment of guilt in my entire relationship with her.. 2 years ago, when bonding with my high school buddies, one of my friends suggested that we visit a Spa that night, he said. "guys, you will never forget this" that was my first time in a Spa with ES. I enjoyed it, the thrill of legit massage with a twist, but the guilty feeling afterward haunted me. So there were no further visits from me after that.

 

That was then I realized, since I was single, might as well delve into that and see if that can help make me forget. I searched for a Spa in Makati and discovered MTC. I visited a couple of Spas in the area. But still felt incomplete..

 

I just couldn't help myself, it didn't even last til the end of April that I was already e-mailing by ex and calling her. We got back together and tried to make the long distance thing work. We both failed completely and utterly.

 

 

She even went back here last September, of course she spent all her vacation days in the Phils. with me, but after a few weeks when she got back abroad we ended it again.

 

I called her 2 days ago and came clean. I confessed all the things (kalokohan) i have been doing since she left. I told her I liked someone else too. It devastated her and hearing her cry, made me weep like a new-born babe. But somehow, it lessened my burden. I am really not into secrets or deceit. It's not in me. Even she said so, she said she somehow had a feeling that something was up with me last September. I know it will take time for us to heal our wounds but we ended that call not shouting or screaming at each other like how we ended some of our calls before.

 

I know, someday, maybe soon, she will meet someone there. I know that guy will be the luckiest bastard in that continent to have her.

 

As for me, I will slowly get my bearing and just enjoy this ride, I call my life.

 

I'm done trying to fill the gaping hole in my chest. If it means i'm like a hollow* walking around with a hole in my chest, then so be it. I am who I am.

 

 

Anyway, just wanted to let this all out and make myself feel a little bit better..

 

If you've taken the time to read it until this point, thanks!

 

 

All I wanted to say was, LDR is not for everyone. I salute and admire all of the people who made/makes it work. I do not have that level of maturity or maybe I never will. I'm not sure.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

* Bleach analogy. It's an anime, look it up.

[TheRedHood]

this is a hard one and I'm thankful at hindi ako nakakaranas ng ganito but I admire those who can keep this relationship going

[mfm1014]

Di ko kaya ung Long distance.. if mapalayo man kami sa isat isa..gagawa ako ng paraan na magkasama kami..

[Solaryan]

Di ko kaya ung Long distance.. if mapalayo man kami sa isat isa..gagawa ako ng paraan na magkasama kami..

 

Yan din sinabi at triny kong gawin..

[messersmith]

mahirap ito we tried by my ex-gf for almost 1 asa abroad sya..then nag break up na kami dahil may nakilala na syang iba...sa friend pa nya ko nalaman