Keeping The Long Distance Relationship Alive

[Black.Angel]

This will work if and only if both of you wanted it to happen regardless of how far you are apart.

[Bella Hadid of TVS]

This will work if and only if both of you wanted it to happen regardless of how far you are apart.

I agree

[KT3]

Statistics show that 90% of LDRs end up failing. After all, proximity plays a huge role in nurturing relationships. For the 10% that were successful, both parties actively found ways to communicate with each other on a consistent basis.

[Hannabi]

LDR okay lang yan basta ang mahalaga di kayo nawawalan ng time s bawat isa,Yun kase ang pinagmumulan ng iilan nating mga LDR relationship kung bakit naghahanap ang ilan ng iba,Everytime n pde kang mag chat or mag call gawin mo iparamdam mo n kahit busy ako di ako nawawalanng oras sayo kase nga andu ang love.Ipagpapatuloy mo yang gngwa mo hanggang s makauwe kana or hanggang s huli kase s oras n magbago ka maraming pumapasok s isip ng tao kaya kapag sinimulan mong gawin panindigan mo hanggang s huli,..Suggestion ko lng nmn yan s mga LDR.

[Ms_Bianca❤️]

long distance yong tiponh di kayo mawawalan ng oras sa isat isa

[Brian214]

LD relations don't work. For some it only lasts because of lies, deceit and cover ups. Now to be clear this is applicable to those who don't see each other at least twice a month. For the rest, you may want to stop fooling yourself so you could avoid wasting your time for something that has a higher chance of failing. End it and move on as soon as you can.

[Creepy Knight (CK)]

It actually depends on both parties, its a case to case basis i would say.

[muad_dib]

Will never work...me maximum shelf life lang kasi ng 7 years average...then the 70/30 principle kicks in and takes care of the rest for either you or the other person...

[Flash_Brown]

Will never work...me maximum shelf life lang kasi ng 7 years average...then the 70/30 principle kicks in and takes care of the rest for either you or the other person...

 

what is the 70/30 principle sir??? if i may ask....

 

just to be on topic.....maybe 5-10% lang nag survive sa ganito...my cousin learned this the hard way...2 years lang siyang nawala nag break sila nung GF niya.....considering 8 years na sila then mag aasawa na pinsan ko after just meeting the girl less than 2 years....

[muad_dib]

brother...walang 100% na tao ever...habang tumatagal and relasyon natin max out to 70% efficiency individually (maybe 80% at most) palaging complimentary to 100% both ways...kapag BF/GF lang darating yung 70% constant ceiling point at 30% discontentment point...kaya bro or babes man palaging "naghahanap" o "tumitingin sa iba"...kasi nagiging napaka predictable, dependable at boring ng 70-80%...yung 20-30% excitement e nakakabuhay naman talaga ng dugo...kaso vicious cycle nga lang palitan mo man yung 70-80% na "investment" mo...yung bago mong 20-30% well mag max out din eventually to 70-80% until mag-commit na kayo till death do you part...then your pieces are made whole...

 

so eto yung secret sauce kung bakit di nagtatagal talaga ang mga long distance relationship...either time and boredom gets you or fear overtakes you...kaya maniwala kayo ke Queen Bee...put a damn ring on it if you think it's really worth it (for all genders itong abiso na ito)...

[KURYO]

Tawagan mo siya ng tawagan long distance ng matagal para singil din siya ng singil sa iyo-may continuity and you will always stay on her mind.

Edited October 30, 2020 by KURYO

[newklys]

I've had 3 long-term LDRs in my life and the current one is still going strong. All I can say is that mas madali na mag-alaga ng LDR nowadays kesa noon. Make use of technology. Pero what really keeps an LDR strong is communication, trust and effort.

[FreeManski]

LDR Cuisine

Dahil nasabi na yung mga Major Ingredients (Communication, Trust & Technology) + google study on LDR

 

Dito ako sa Add ons hindi naging successful para tumagal yung LDR ko.

 

Add ons:

Spice: Maintain attraction. Attraction grows in space. LDR means lot of space. Kaya nga avoid routines & predictability.

Condiments: Stirs Mystery. Iba pa rin pag may sawsawan it gives mix emotions due to unpredictability at surprises na nag iiwan ng kakaibang sensation sa mind at panlasa.

 

Lessons learned: Next time if im going again into LDR i see to it to strike a balance utilizing the “Spice” and “Condiments” a very important add ons sa isang LDR.

[courtesanhunter]

respect siguro yung numero unong kailangan. kumbaga tandaan mo parati yung respeto mo para sa partner mo para hindi ka magkamali. pagdating naman sa maintenance? nagkaranas na ako ng long distance relationship before. hindi pa uso noon ang mga text promo at hindi din naman ako mayaman so yung ₱ 300 na load dati ay talagang binabudget ko sa loob ng 1 buwan para lang makausap yung girlfriend ko. as in ₱ 10 na budget para sa text kada araw tapos kung magkano man ang matira sa bandang dulo ay itatawag na lahat. nakikipagkita din ako sa kanya sa tuwing umuuwi ako sa probinsya. so ang paglalaan ng oras para sa isa't isa ang isa pang kailangan which is mas madali na sa panahon ngayon dahil madami ng available na easy at affordable na paraan ng communication.

[Raymoney]

This is one of the hardest things to do. Communication and will power is definitely key, but I can't speak from my own experience.