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Mistress Or Legal Wife Which Would You Choose


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There's a reason why you chose her to be your legal wife and theres a reason why they're called mistress. You married her because you love her and you were ready to commit you life to her. And the other one kaya nga tinawag na "kabit" eh kc hangang dun na lng un kabit. So ichoose team legal wife although kabit gives you spice im your life. ;)

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it is moral, logical, and ideal to choose the legal wife.

 

BUT, reality sinks in sometimes years after being married. you start discovering things that might, would, and could turn the relationship from sweet, to sour, to bitter overtime.

 

she may have let herself go (read, got fat, doesn't comb her hair as often, she doesn't look like the barbie doll you married),if this is the case, have you asked her why this happened? have you been helping her rear the children, do the house chores, etc? or have you been busy with complaining about this matter? and instead of solving the problem, you just decided to look for another barbie doll to play with? the same thing goes for the other problems, money, sex, etc.

 

now, after doing everything that you can possibly do and there are still differences that you can't seem to reconcile, BREAK IT OFF WITH THE WIFE CLEANLY. just be ready to face ALL consequences and be a man enough to face the casualties of the decision you are about to make.

 

after breaking it off, then you can choose the mistress (she still is, not unless you had your marriage annulled and you're now marrying the mistress). just make sure that if you do choose the mistress, you won't have the same problems/complaints about her. else, it will be an endless cycle and you will leave a trail of women who chose to love you labeled as a one-time mistress for life.

 

so be fair. before choosing or even thinking about keeping a mistress, why not ask yourself first if there's a problem with you? be a little less selfish and think of your wife first.

 

i know it's so easy to say this,but let's analyze the problem using these equations:

 

wife + husband + family = good life

wife + husband + problems = (x) solve the problem

wife + husband + problems /mistress = (x) solve the problem

husband + (ex) mistress - wife - children = (x) solve the problem

husband + (ex) mistress - wife - children/property + finances + possible annulment = marry the now ex mistress and start a new family

 

now, the question is:

 

new family + new wife = new problems

 

are you gonna run away from the equation again by finding a new mistress only to repeat the whole cycle?

 

if this is a possibility, i think the women and the children are better off without you in the equation. sorry, harsh, but it might be the truth.

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