What R U Going To Do Kung May Nanliligaw Sa Gf Mo?

[MTC Hunter]

i trust my gf

[MTC Hunter]

kung ka FB nya manliligaw nya, papa block ko sa kanya.

[bossstabilo]

you wont like me when im angry..

[IDGAF]

GF ko pa lang? go AHEAD! i am for free love. she DECIDES what is best for her. BUT a FIANCEE? this is a different story

[razgriz86]

And if you find out that the girl denied that she is in a committed relationship and this is the reason why the other guy chased after her?

[Mangoose]

GF ko pa lang? go AHEAD! i am for free love. she DECIDES what is best for her. BUT a FIANCEE? this is a different story

True madali palitan gf dami dyan wag lang fiancee sayang ang panahon at investment mo for her

[francis2014]

And if you find out that the girl denied that she is in a committed relationship and this is the reason why the other guy chased after her?

I will break up with her. No sense of continuing. Trust issues.

[trauts]

i'll tell her to distance herself from the guy. Pero kung makulit pa rin then i will kick his ass.

[Piaggio]

Told her if ever she decides to go for the guy to let me know so I can find someone else and move on.

[Dantes*]

Go directly to the guy and settle things. Doesn't matter how long na siya nanliligaw. Basta kausapin muna yung guy na yun and then set the boundaries.

[ninjalurker]

kausapin si gf, di naman maliligawan kung hindi magpapaligaw pero kung si other guy ang mapilit .... !@#$%^&*()!

[cuteguy23m]

if im in this situation, the situation will tell more about your gf.... guys tending to court her isn't controllable... what would be controllable and discerning in this situation is how your gf "reacts" on the other party... if she really wants the guy, she would allow herself to be courted... if not naman, you can discern it from her... pero kung gusto nya rin sa lalake, ibang usapan na yan...

[Babe👄Seraphine]

will be pissed coz we're talking bout respect bilang lalake. but if ur gf entertains it i'll be more pissed. i guess grounds for me na yan to end the relationship lalo na if i myself is faithful to her.

[Queen Darkeinjel]

Can we take this from a woman's perspective naman?

 

Here's a situation that I have been years ago.

 

I had a boyfriend and we rarely saw each other. We were both busy, he was working as a dental assistant/technician then, I was in HS. Six years age gap just to make it clear.

 

Anyway, a guy courted me. He knew I had a boyfriend and he still insisted on doing so. His reason - we weren't married yet. He knew about the situation I was in. He persisted, insisted and courted. I told him straight out that he won't get anything out of it.

 

My boyfriend came back from a med/dental mission and I told him about it. Told him everything.

 

He just smiled and gave me the best response I've heard to the question, what are you going to do about it?

 

"I know about it. My cousin told me about the guy. I'm not going to do anything about it. If you develop feelings for him, I guess it's because something's wrong with me and us. But, I have complete faith and trust in you. I'm confident that you love me. I'm confident that you know how much I love you even if we're apart at times. I'm confident at where I stand in your life. Who I am to you. I will not do anything except to prove to you that I am the better man, the better choice. That I love you more than he does. I can give you the love you deserve and more than what he can offer and give. I am very confident and sure of myself. I am confident that you will choose me. That our love is stronger than the temptation of being physically and geographically close to each other. And because you told me about it, I'm very sure that I won. That I have you in my life."

 

It may sound cheesy, but the fact that he was so confident and sure not just of himself, but he was sure of our relationship and our bond as well made me realize that I did love him and that we can't just be shaken. Open communication and honesty, a great foundation to stop insecurities.

 

I know this long winded, but here's the moral of the story.

 

Guys, be honest with your GF and you will be surprised at how honest she will be to you. TRUST each other. Form a bond that's deeper than any physical or sexual attraction, it's longer lasting. Let her decide and make her see that she will lose the best man for her should she decide to pursue the other.

 

Don't brawl it out. Take the higher ground. Just show her that you love her and the other guy courting her will not come to par with you. Effort? Yes. But if she's worth it, why not?

[glut_func]

i'd feel uneasy about it and see how my girl would react to it...if she showed a bit of interest, agad agad kong hihiwalayan syota ko. ganun lang yun.