Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[menyeks2]

Move on move on na din di na nga pinapansin papansin pa 

Gagawa pa talaga ng ibang eksena para mapansin 

Salamat at may ibang nauto at naka move on na din 

Kung saan may madudukot doon kakapit 

[hyatt122002]

Not necessarily falling for one but having developed an certain attachment that you just feel comfortable and safe with the thera. 

[Simpler]

1 hour ago, menyeks2 said:

Move on move on na din di na nga pinapansin papansin pa 

Gagawa pa talaga ng ibang eksena para mapansin 

Salamat at may ibang nauto at naka move on na din 

Kung saan may madudukot doon kakapit 

May hugot ka Sir 

[Ice Lover]

2 hours ago, hyatt122002 said:

Not necessarily falling for one but having developed an certain attachment that you just feel comfortable and safe with the thera. 

mas ok yung ganyan kaso pag biglang nawala si thera (retirement, etc.) para din nakipagbreak yung feeling

[tikholing16]

On 10/28/2022 at 2:16 PM, hyatt122002 said:

Not necessarily falling for one but having developed an certain attachment that you just feel comfortable and safe with the thera. 

So true

[JohnLee000]

Wag nyo maliitin ang thera.

 

Ako si JOHN LEE at meron ako jowa na thera sa Classique. Naka 2 months na kami. Ok lang sakin kahit meron kumakantot sa kanya. Basta bawal kiss sa iba.

[marauderviking]

that's an interesting story to write about

[ZaalbartErol]

Unless mutual ang feelings/reciprocated... walang tutunguhan na seryoso.

[Christian.Grey]

On 10/3/2022 at 3:40 PM, Chiananicole said:

Maraming therapist na kinakalawang nalang sa pagiging therapist walang pundar at ipun dahil sa Hindi marunong humawak ng pera. Para sa mga therapist mag-ipun kayo para sa ikakabuti ng kinabukasan nyo, HinDi HABANG buhay therapist trabaho nyo. 

Tama 

[Emigen]

The reason you feel like you fall in love with theras
- is most likely because you feel you are accepted and cared for without judgement and without any effort on your side. Theras secretly want to find that person who accepts them without question.

But, that is the service you are paying for. It is what every man pays for.

The nurturer or carer is a powerful and important role women have.
- Theras all have times of feeling alone, cut off, unsure with no support. A lot of them will choose a woman first to share. It is therapeutic. But in a sex work booking, people commonly ignore the therapeutic process that can happen.

Women already get the interaction and attention for free.
- They meet their girlfriends, who create a similar space ,as they create for their clients, so they can talk it out.

Men have a different code and version, but it’s different not as open.
- They can’t really let themselves go with their friends or others. You can see the difference watching guys interact and girls interact. So what women gets for free, a man has to pay for the same thing unless he has a partner who will listen. But the payment keeps it confined to the time that’s needed, like a therapist.

When you book a thera, the money exchange is not just about the physical.
- It quickly creates a bubble around them. When you respectfully step into that room, you are also stepping into a space made up of:

• No judgements, no one to impress, no expectations of labels put on you
• Acceptance of who you are, not what you look like or your financial worth
• A persons undivided attention given without having to earn it or prove yourself
• Someone who will listen when you speak
• Aim to ensure you are happy
• It is a safe space where you can be or explore the ‘real you’.

The fallacy lays with the idea that booking is just about a physical need.
- A psychologist may be a specialist carer for your mind. A thera is more broad in her services using different methods working also with the natural symbiotic need of connection between men and women.

Even outside of work, you see the difference it makes to a guy to hang out with a girl.

Although you may feel other girls are boring and repressed. It’s not true. Outside work hours, you would think the same of them. They may care about you in a professional manner but that is their job. At home, theras are part of all those other girls. You have to put effort in to have the same result.

- Talya De Fay

[Howdy Doody]

8 hours ago, Emigen said:

The reason you feel like you fall in love with theras
- is most likely because you feel you are accepted and cared for without judgement and without any effort on your side. Theras secretly want to find that person who accepts them without question.

But, that is the service you are paying for. It is what every man pays for.

The nurturer or carer is a powerful and important role women have.
- Theras all have times of feeling alone, cut off, unsure with no support. A lot of them will choose a woman first to share. It is therapeutic. But in a sex work booking, people commonly ignore the therapeutic process that can happen.

Women already get the interaction and attention for free.
- They meet their girlfriends, who create a similar space ,as they create for their clients, so they can talk it out.

Men have a different code and version, but it’s different not as open.
- They can’t really let themselves go with their friends or others. You can see the difference watching guys interact and girls interact. So what women gets for free, a man has to pay for the same thing unless he has a partner who will listen. But the payment keeps it confined to the time that’s needed, like a therapist.

When you book a thera, the money exchange is not just about the physical.
- It quickly creates a bubble around them. When you respectfully step into that room, you are also stepping into a space made up of:

• No judgements, no one to impress, no expectations of labels put on you
• Acceptance of who you are, not what you look like or your financial worth
• A persons undivided attention given without having to earn it or prove yourself
• Someone who will listen when you speak
• Aim to ensure you are happy
• It is a safe space where you can be or explore the ‘real you’.

The fallacy lays with the idea that booking is just about a physical need.
- A psychologist may be a specialist carer for your mind. A thera is more broad in her services using different methods working also with the natural symbiotic need of connection between men and women.

Even outside of work, you see the difference it makes to a guy to hang out with a girl.

Although you may feel other girls are boring and repressed. It’s not true. Outside work hours, you would think the same of them. They may care about you in a professional manner but that is their job. At home, theras are part of all those other girls. You have to put effort in to have the same result.

- Talya De Fay

Bro, you certainly gave some serious thoughts on this subject. Very good insight about relationships going beyond the physicality which opens new perspectives.

[dominickcruise]

I think I am falling for a spa therapist, she really is sweet and i know this is a client - therapist relationship but i cannot help it she is too sweet and hindi mukhang pera (as she has a business while doing the spa thing on the side -- pambayad bills as what she says plus support sa kapatid niyang nag aaral) et us see how this goes, I hope to meet her again this week then we will have coffee really soon

 

[Ernest Ty]

3 hours ago, dominickcruise said:

I think I am falling for a spa therapist, she really is sweet and i know this is a client - therapist relationship but i cannot help it she is too sweet and hindi mukhang pera (as she has a business while doing the spa thing on the side -- pambayad bills as what she says plus support sa kapatid niyang nag aaral) et us see how this goes, I hope to meet her again this week then we will have coffee really soon

 

pare, take it from someone na nagsayang ng 7 years sa ganun. DON'T LET YOUR FEELINGS FOOL YOU. PLEASE. ESPECIALLY KUNG MAY FAMILY KA.  wag mo akong gayahin. its not fun spending money on them. not even worth it. sa totoo lang. all for what? wala nga peace of mind eh. 

[Ernest Ty]

Just now, Ernest Ty said:

pare, take it from someone na nagsayang ng 7 years sa ganun. DON'T LET YOUR FEELINGS FOOL YOU. PLEASE. ESPECIALLY KUNG MAY FAMILY KA.  wag mo akong gayahin. its not fun spending money on them. not even worth it. sa totoo lang. all for what? wala nga peace of mind eh. 

kala ko dati ok lang kasi fullfilled, pero d pala, full of heart ache at sleepless nights (hindi dahil sa sex ha) dahil sa selos at sama ng loob. hindi ko naman masabing pangit ako sa edad ko🤔🤣😂 unsolicited advice ika nga. never ever fall for those you met sa ganun. with exceptions. pero mas malamang manalo ka sa lotto kaysa makatagpo mo yung exception na yun.

[dominickcruise]

On 11/2/2022 at 12:15 AM, Ernest Ty said:

pare, take it from someone na nagsayang ng 7 years sa ganun. DON'T LET YOUR FEELINGS FOOL YOU. PLEASE. ESPECIALLY KUNG MAY FAMILY KA.  wag mo akong gayahin. its not fun spending money on them. not even worth it. sa totoo lang. all for what? wala nga peace of mind eh. 

salamat sa payo po sir, 28 years old pa lang po ako pero nagka gf ako pero hindi naman siya super serious before