Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[Howdy Doody]

2 hours ago, Medicus said:

I definitely agree sir. Nothing wrong with falling for a thera but definitely you shld ask her to stop para wala na usapan and support her  financially. In my opinion, kaya naman "napilitan" siya mag work sa industry is due primarily for financial reasons. Kaya if both of you are really serious on your relationship, pull her out from the industry ASAP and support her. My 2cents advise

The problem of raising her out of the quagmire is her living standard may be higher than yours. If she won't change her lifestyle, she'll be forever mired in that shit hole. Not unless you are so damn affluent that you'll be foolish to find someone to love in that rat hole. 

[bouncer22]

On 8/20/2022 at 11:11 PM, Guest Anonymous said:

Most of them single mom. Buti kung isa lang anak nila, many of them have 2-3 kids. Buti sana kung totoong "single mom". Bumibisita pa ang tatay, minsan nangungutang pa sa kanya lol.

Tama sabi ng erpats ko, bakit ikaw ang sasalo ng responsibilidad, hindi naman ikaw ang gumawa ng krimen? Iba ang nagsaya, ikaw magpapalaki at magpapaaral. Tapos sa huli hindi ikaw ang tatay. "Jowa" ka lang ng nanay nila. At walang nagpipigil sa kanya na iwanan ka for any reason whatsoever. Imagine mo, pinatira mo sa condo, pinaaral mo mga anak, pinakain mo, sa huli paano kung iwan ka lang at bumalik sa original. Ano magagawa mo? Wala diba?

Isip isip. Pinoy tayo. Alam natin na ang pinoy pag dating sa budol, walang hangganan ang kakayahan.

LOL ,😁😁😁😁 ngayon alam ko na 

[MasarapDumila]

14 hours ago, Amancio O said:

Do I really want to fall for a woman who’s work is giving pleasure to men??? who r willing, able and ready to pay for their “services?

 

Just let them be. Baka matatauhan din yan.

[Amancio O]

it’s not all the fault of our lovely therapists, maybe their parents did not know how to raise them well, or did not make an effort, wrong priorities, no time,, busy, or ganon din ang pinagdaanan ng parents nila. No judgement cause they r also victims…

[Amancio O]

We cannot change them, it’s their decision, it’s their choice to change. I can only do is to give little support, a little understanding and a little care, that’s all. 

[DoctorPepper]

The heart wants what the heart wants. But never a good idea to fall for a pro. Most probably may baggage na kasama yan hence the chosen profession. 

[MasarapDumila]

Marami dito nagsasabi na ok lang ma fall si thera. Syempre respeto natin yan. Marami kasi thera na sobrang din.

[markcyyy]

That's a no no.

[Gundamo]

On 9/7/2022 at 12:25 PM, Medicus said:

I definitely agree sir. Nothing wrong with falling for a thera but definitely you shld ask her to stop para wala na usapan and support her  financially. In my opinion, kaya naman "napilitan" siya mag work sa industry is due primarily for financial reasons. Kaya if both of you are really serious on your relationship, pull her out from the industry ASAP and support her. My 2cents advise

That's true. Ask her to stop, she'll do it naman if she really love the guy. Iba nga diyan kahit di naman suportahan financially, willing pa din i-give up ang spa para pumasok sa relationship, lalo na pag nakita nila na seryoso naman si lalake. Sino ba naman kasi ang ayaw ng mas tahimik na relasyon.. Tho, mahirap talaga, kasi balik sa hirap ng buhay lalo na pag breadwinner pa si thera. But that's life, sugal din talaga eh.. 

[Amancio O]

Some Theras who r in this business for quite some time acquire some “ kagaspangan ng ugali” . Hustler ba ang tawag dun? Tumitigas na ang puso at mukha…

[tikholing16]

43 minutes ago, Amancio O said:

Some Theras who r in this business for quite some time acquire some “ kagaspangan ng ugali” . Hustler ba ang tawag dun? Tumitigas na ang puso at mukha…

true. pero meron pa rin namang iba na kahit matagal na, masarap pa rin mag-alaga at kausap. 

[Noname01]

Never unless you and thera has deep connection and respect each others past.. kasi ikaw nag sspa then si thera work nya un.. if both of you can walk away from "SPA" and commit then go for it..

[Gerald Bourne]

Much better not to fall for it, you have set your own boundaries between you and her. Be professional!

[MasarapDumila]

20 hours ago, Amancio O said:

Some Theras who r in this business for quite some time acquire some “ kagaspangan ng ugali” . Hustler ba ang tawag dun? Tumitigas na ang puso at mukha…

 

Hustler marami dyan

[MasarapDumila]

Kadalasan sa thera sobrang masarap kasama kasi mature na sila. Syempre 100 percent satisfied ka sexually alam natin yan. Siguro pag single at walang baby si thera madali yan. Meron din thera na nag aaral talaga. Masipag. Pwede yan pang habambuhay pag ganun.