Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[infrasound]

Falling for a Therapist...

 

Share ko lang po para wag nyo po ako tularan.

 

I've fallen for a therapist twice already and it did not go well for both, there are many reasons why a guy may fall for a therapists; Therapists are beautiful, kind, and everything nice you can think of... sa atin GM naman, we may fall because of weakness or personal lovelife problems, problems with the wife or gf, broken heart, or kung ano ano pa, there are many varying circumstances, so we cannot judge anyone for falling or not because we do not know the full story of each other.

 

1st Therapist I fell for... And I encouraged her to go to school, then nagsimula na dumami problema nya sa buhay, then nanghihingi na ng kung ano ano... the sad part is, it was not all true, may BF pala sya, un Boy sa Spa na tagalinis ng room, and magka-kunchaba sila sa panloloko saakin... my fault kasi I fell for their trap.

 

2nd Therapist I fell for... I got her many times before, she has a beautiful face and a sweet voice, and is very kind... then after almost a year na hindi ko sya nakikita, she then started chatting me, it started requesting for FR, dahil natigil sya sa pag-spa... So I gave her FR, then we started chatting and getting to know each other, then she gave me her FB page, we started to talk about our personal lives, as well as her goals in life, pati mga sched nya and all...then she even made promises to me... at first I thought it was the real deal kasi we were not even doing ES, I even went to the spa and just watched and no sexual anything... as in Pa-Fall at pa-Asa ang peg nya.... Then suddenly I extended my help to her, dahil sabi nya tinitiis nya at sinisikmura nya un pagThera, so she was just doing HJ, to support her needs.... so I offered her na lahat ng kailangan nya ako na sasagot, para mapag-patuloy nya yun goals nya, and hindi na sya kailangan mag-thera.... And through all of those times we did not do any ES... Then bigla nalang sya nag-sabi saakin, Sorry meron akong long term manliligaw, then she suddenly ignored me... as in zero reply and deleted conversations, removed her FB Page.... I said to her, sana meron ka pala manliligaw, hindi mo na ako pinaasa... I don't know if she got a better offer, or she does not like me or serious talaga sya sa manliligaw nya.... She should not have played with my feelings or any other for the matter, ako mabait ako, paano kung gawin nya yun sa mga may sapak sa ulo, at sinaktan sya or mgpakamatay or kung ano pa...

 

Anyway Moral of the story is wag nyo ako gayahin; Then dapat mag-ingat, the fact of the matter is, Most of the Therapists, but not all, are trained to Lie and to Pretend to be PSE/GFE, yeah there are some na talagang mabait and totoo ang concern sayo, na kpg nafall ka na tatapatin ka kaagad nya, dahil ayaw nila makasakit ng damdamin, I respect those Therapists... but for others, they are just it it for the Money, either for necessity (many for necessity ito un gusto ko tinutulungan) or some are just ambitious and arrogant (ito un nakakahinayang bigyan ng tip). After this 2 experiences I hope I would learn from them, but I cannot promise anything for I am weak with Beautiful, Kind and Sweet Therapists.... So we should be on guard, specially to those Experienced Therapists, we will never know their true thoughts until its too late and the damage is done... they are just very well trained in the art of seduction, lying, pretending and getting the most out of our wallets.... or worse if they gave you a broken heart...

 

You can judge me all you want, or say what you will, but I will say it too all, I am indeed a stupid guy who easily falls, because of my weakness, problems and a bad past relationship... so my longing to be with a true love is High but I guess I am looking for it in the wrong place....

 

I hope me sharing this and having to have fallen not just once but twice, and making my mistake, will be a learning experience for others so they will not make the same mistakes I made.

 

Peace to All

 

i like your honesty brother. let us remember that falling in love involves risk. ang mainlove sa thera ay delikado kasi may nangyari sa inyo kaya at sa tingin ko ang pagiging mabait at matulungin will be reciprocated with kindness and honesty. hindi naman lahat ng thera mapagsamantala pero dapat mag-ingat lang talaga.

[2 Legit 2 Quit]

Falling for a Therapist...

 

Share ko lang po para wag nyo po ako tularan.

 

I've fallen for a therapist twice already and it did not go well for both, there are many reasons why a guy may fall for a therapists; Therapists are beautiful, kind, and everything nice you can think of... sa atin GM naman, we may fall because of weakness or personal lovelife problems, problems with the wife or gf, broken heart, or kung ano ano pa, there are many varying circumstances, so we cannot judge anyone for falling or not because we do not know the full story of each other.

 

1st Therapist I fell for... And I encouraged her to go to school, then nagsimula na dumami problema nya sa buhay, then nanghihingi na ng kung ano ano... the sad part is, it was not all true, may BF pala sya, un Boy sa Spa na tagalinis ng room, and magka-kunchaba sila sa panloloko saakin... my fault kasi I fell for their trap.

 

2nd Therapist I fell for... I got her many times before, she has a beautiful face and a sweet voice, and is very kind... then after almost a year na hindi ko sya nakikita, she then started chatting me, it started requesting for FR, dahil natigil sya sa pag-spa... So I gave her FR, then we started chatting and getting to know each other, then she gave me her FB page, we started to talk about our personal lives, as well as her goals in life, pati mga sched nya and all...then she even made promises to me... at first I thought it was the real deal kasi we were not even doing ES, I even went to the spa and just watched and no sexual anything... as in Pa-Fall at pa-Asa ang peg nya.... Then suddenly I extended my help to her, dahil sabi nya tinitiis nya at sinisikmura nya un pagThera, so she was just doing HJ, to support her needs.... so I offered her na lahat ng kailangan nya ako na sasagot, para mapag-patuloy nya yun goals nya, and hindi na sya kailangan mag-thera.... And through all of those times we did not do any ES... Then bigla nalang sya nag-sabi saakin, Sorry meron akong long term manliligaw, then she suddenly ignored me... as in zero reply and deleted conversations, removed her FB Page.... I said to her, sana meron ka pala manliligaw, hindi mo na ako pinaasa... I don't know if she got a better offer, or she does not like me or serious talaga sya sa manliligaw nya.... She should not have played with my feelings or any other for the matter, ako mabait ako, paano kung gawin nya yun sa mga may sapak sa ulo, at sinaktan sya or mgpakamatay or kung ano pa...

 

Anyway Moral of the story is wag nyo ako gayahin; Then dapat mag-ingat, the fact of the matter is, Most of the Therapists, but not all, are trained to Lie and to Pretend to be PSE/GFE, yeah there are some na talagang mabait and totoo ang concern sayo, na kpg nafall ka na tatapatin ka kaagad nya, dahil ayaw nila makasakit ng damdamin, I respect those Therapists... but for others, they are just it it for the Money, either for necessity (many for necessity ito un gusto ko tinutulungan) or some are just ambitious and arrogant (ito un nakakahinayang bigyan ng tip). After this 2 experiences I hope I would learn from them, but I cannot promise anything for I am weak with Beautiful, Kind and Sweet Therapists.... So we should be on guard, specially to those Experienced Therapists, we will never know their true thoughts until its too late and the damage is done... they are just very well trained in the art of seduction, lying, pretending and getting the most out of our wallets.... or worse if they gave you a broken heart...

 

You can judge me all you want, or say what you will, but I will say it too all, I am indeed a stupid guy who easily falls, because of my weakness, problems and a bad past relationship... so my longing to be with a true love is High but I guess I am looking for it in the wrong place....

 

I hope me sharing this and having to have fallen not just once but twice, and making my mistake, will be a learning experience for others so they will not make the same mistakes I made.

 

Peace to All

 

People say and do stupid things when in love. Kapag talaga sa industry nato malaking sugal. Walang assurance maging happy kayong dalawa or if even that therapist is for you. Pero kasi ginusto naten magkaganito tayo. Wala naman nagpilit sa atin ma-inlove diba? Any GM who thinks his relationship with a thera will last while she's still active in the industry is a fool pero ayun nga eto na tayo. andito na tayo.

 

kapit lang kapatid.

[TheBadMechanic]

Always, baliw daw kasi ako😅😅😅😅😅

Edited February 27, 2021 by MilkyWeigh

[Badman04]

Thank you sa mga nabasa ko mga tholz mahirap nga ang situation na yan.

[lakatan]

Falling for a thera is a very risky venture...avoid if you can.......yon lng

[kazuki_kazama]

Fall in love like you would a rose that is best admired from afar...if you hold on too tight you might get pricked by the thorns

[2 Legit 2 Quit]

Fall in love like you would a rose that is best admired from afar...if you hold on too tight you might get pricked by the thorns

 

You can get used to the pain and blood.

The wounds will keep healing (unless you are extremely diabetic)

[Brodyyy]

Ika nga, Learn to play the game.

[Guest kimikohayabusa]

up. hehe

[RED2018]

Avoid kissing them passionately and tenderly and do not begin to enjoy the conversations after having sex.

 

If she complains on her personal state, do not be her 'knight in shining armour'

 

Sometimes you wouldn't maintain an erection because your emotions got in the way of things, and really genuinely liked her and wanted to be closer to her than just sex - iyan na ang simula ng lintik na pag-ibig hehe!

 

IF you love to know deep down how she really felt about you, DON'T ASK.

[Chiananicole]

paano niyo nasisikmuraan ma in love sa mga bayaran? yuck

 

Luh...bayaran or hindi my puso din yn kaya sila nagingbayaran dahil Sa pangangaylangan at yung iba para sa family at yung iba sa future yung iba sa luho lng lahat ng tao marunung mgmahal at handang mgbago kung gustuhin. Kaibigan kunga ng asawa ng therapist ngayun mayaman na dahil Sa therapists na nakilala nya therapy na my puso at future at magaling sa buhay at magaling sa pera hindi lahat ng therapist habang buhay therapy at habang buhay bayaran nasa therapy yn kung iniisip nya parin future para sa sarili nya at mahal nya sa buhay.. Sa totoo naging praktikal lng sila para sa sarili nila para sa kanila. Walang taong malinis lahat ng tao ngayun madumi!! Walang taong hindi makasalanan dahil pinanganak na ang lahat ng taong makasalanan!! Wgtayo mg malinis pahiho pariro pariho lng tayo lahat ginagawa sa mundo walang pgkakaiba pramiss!! Respehuhin natin mga therapists dahil kung wala sila wala ng mg seservice hindi madali ang buhay therapists mahirap din trabaho nila pero ginagawa nila hindi lng sa kanila para sa taong nangangaylangan taong stress pagud at puyat at simpre gustung mg relax!!! Edited March 12, 2021 by Chiananicole

[K0RN - RETIR3D]

Avoid kissing them passionately and tenderly and do not begin to enjoy the conversations after having sex.

 

If she complains on her personal state, do not be her 'knight in shining armour'

 

Sometimes you wouldn't maintain an erection because your emotions got in the way of things, and really genuinely liked her and wanted to be closer to her than just sex - iyan na ang simula ng lintik na pag-ibig hehe!

 

IF you love to know deep down how she really felt about you, DON'T ASK.

Agree to this

[Miho of Mesalen]

paano niyo nasisikmuraan ma in love sa mga bayaran? yuck

 

 

Hindi mo matuturuan ang pusong marunong magmahal

[sinichi_kudo]

I met the her on the worst time of my life

 

yung tipong sabi ko last na talaga.

 

i work as software engineer. grabe ang stress sa field na to. so ayun may katrabaho na nagayaya . tapos na addict sa mga spa mp. pero dumating yung point na nakakasawa na. and plan ko na din kasi mag asawa that time. that was November 2018.

kaya sinasabi ko stop na.

and then tska ko pa nakilala yung pinaka magandang thera na nakita ko.

that time parang halos everyday other day nasa spa ako para lang sa kanya. feeling ko may diyosa akong kasama, ewan sobrang lakas ng dating niya sakin.

to the point siguro kung naniwala lang siya sakin na gusto ko siya before and pumayag na maging kami. baka naipagpalit ko siya sa GF ko sa kanya. i started bringing food. giving her small gifts. basta maramdaman niyang special siya sakin.

 

ramdam ko din kasi yung sincerity sa kanya na talagang no choice siya kaya andun siya, at pinaparamdam niya sakin na i was special.

 

and then raid happened. ( Thank you again Lord about this ) dapat magpupunta talaga ako ng oras ng mismong raid. then production Release so i had to cancel that time and work overtime.

 

tapos yung tanging contact ko sa kanya which is her mobile number confiscated. nawalan kami ng contact sa isat isa. then after sometime. nagtry ako sa midas cainta. luckily yung nakuha ko pala close friend niya. eventually nagkita ulit kami.

 

after ilang months ng di naman pagkikita dun ko na realize na parang mahal ko pala talaga siya.

we started seeing each other again. until she got pregnant. ang swerte ko din hindi niya ako pinilit or pinaako na baka ako yung possible nakabuntis sa kanya. kasi nga may BF din siya, so dahil nga dun we decided to stop seeing each other.

 

kaso ayun siguro dahil sa pandemic nakipagkita ulit siya. ang hirap umiwas sa totoo lang at lalo hinahanap ko din talaga siya. i have my own family now. ang complicated na ng lahat.

 

 

ngayon we decided again to stop na. para na din sa kanya kanya nmn family. kaso ang hirap parin talaga.

 

ang masama pa is ako yung hindi maka move-on.

while siya masaya na buhay niya. ang sakit sobra.

Edited March 12, 2021 by sinichi_kudo

[Hellmarch]

what kind of desperate loser falls in love with a whore. that's disgusting

 

I find amusing really... What the duck are you doing in this board any way ? Just to fck girls and thinking you are the king of the world ? In the first place it's disgusting if you have to pay if you are so good then what the fck are you doing here ?

 

These girls are human too who gave you the right to judge them and the guys who fall in love with them

 

You are an idiot if you don't even converse with one or probably a robot

 

Sundot kalimot style this is disgusting because you have to pay just to get laid