Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[harveyspecter]

brotha, lets drown your sorrow with liquor

 

Thanks for consoling me brother, but I can't drink liquor (I have severe allergic reactions to it) nor do I smoke.

 

What I do to drown my sorrows is just to have a really long and fast drive to somewhere/anywhere. The destination doesn't matter.

[harveyspecter]

 

 

Bro harveyspecter, I hope you don't succumb to your depression... Always know that there are people in your life who are there for you (your family). You may be socially awkward, but I think you can and will meet friends either at work or by means of your pastimes (other than going to ESpa). Hehe even though we have not met and may not even meet (because we are all ninjas GMs here hehe) I think even just in MTC we can be acquaintances...I am still hoping/rooting for you to have a happy ending for falling for your thera (hehe pun intended

 

Thank you, bro Solaryan. I would really like to thank people like you who give me hope and strength to carry on everyday.

 

And about her, I don't think there's ever going to be a happy ending between us.

 

But that's okay, that's life eh. We all have to wake up and face reality sooner or later.

[Solaryan]

 

Thank you, bro Solaryan. I would really like to thank people like you who give me hope and strength to carry on everyday.

 

And about her, I don't think there's ever going to be a happy ending between us.

 

But that's okay, that's life eh. We all have to wake up and face reality sooner or later.

 

 

Yep, I can relate to that as well.. Even now, I still lurk on their thread just to see if she will be going on duty.. However, it seems that she in on her hiatus from ESpa work.. I haven't visited my thera-loves for more than a year.. hehe

 

We can move on.. We just need to realize that at the end of the day, life goes on. So just enjoy what you can.. As the pirate Jack Sparrow say "take what you can, give nothing back". Hehe it's a simple mantra that was useful as I was recovering from a foolish heart syndrome

 

But, I know that someday, to find true happiness, it needs to be reversed, it should be "give what you can, take nothing back". Because if the other party truly loves you, they will do the same... Sht! I'm being too cheesy.. hahaha

[K0RN - RETIR3D]

 

Thank you, bro Solaryan. I would really like to thank people like you who give me hope and strength to carry on everyday.

 

And about her, I don't think there's ever going to be a happy ending between us.

 

But that's okay, that's life eh. We all have to wake up and face reality sooner or later.

 

Sometimes that's the price we have to pay for Falling for a Thera, especially if she's on Top (of her Spa and sometimes literally).

 

It hurts and it also sucks but best to move on and look forward to what will unravel next.

[batman911]

 

Thanks for consoling me brother, but I can't drink liquor (I have severe allergic reactions to it) nor do I smoke.

 

What I do to drown my sorrows is just to have a really long and fast drive to somewhere/anywhere. The destination doesn't matter.

Long drive lang sana boss. Wag na fast para safe.

[mikemurphy0305]

i thought suicidal kn bro so it wouldnt matter if u have allergic reactions sa liquor...... dba? my point is you value pa pala buhay mo so just move on be a man.....ganun tlga eh life is a bitch pero thats life bro.....

[Kingkongphils]

i thought suicidal kn bro so it wouldnt matter if u have allergic reactions sa liquor...... dba? my point is you value pa pala buhay mo so just move on be a man.....ganun tlga eh life is a bitch pero thats life bro.....

Hahah.. Real talk? Hahahha...

Well to be fair kay boss harvey having an allergic effect on something is agonizing.. If it will come to death it may bea painful and agonizing. Not the the strong suit of depressed suicidal... Gusto nila ung mabilisan tapos na..

 

But if you have the witts not to pay her or. Ubusin ung kabuhayam mo, id have to say kaya mo yan depression mo. I mean you and your family is definitely well to do since you are as you say successful, not to mention you have the luxuiary to drive far and fast (sa mahal ng gasolina I dont even want to step on the gas and every chance I get I free wheel). So kung marami kang pera and you only want to spend it on important things in your life, it suggests you are thinking of your future... So isip mo lang yan. Dont worry about it. But if rejection is your breaking point I suggest you stay away from these industries. She may love you to the heavens but really its all about the money. Someone will come along with more money and there is always that chance she will leave you or lokohin ka nya. I suggest join car enthusiast group. Madami.chicks up for grab. Id refer you to a group but I am discreet hahahh.. Pero sa car groups ka nlng mag hunting not here bro.

Edited January 8, 2019 by Kingkongphils

[harveyspecter]

Hahah.. Real talk? Hahahha...

Well to be fair kay boss harvey having an allergic effect on something is agonizing.. If it will come to death it may bea painful and agonizing. Not the the strong suit of depressed suicidal... Gusto nila ung mabilisan tapos na..

 

But if you have the witts not to pay her or. Ubusin ung kabuhayam mo, id have to say kaya mo yan depression mo. I mean you and your family is definitely well to do since you are as you say successful, not to mention you have the luxuiary to drive far and fast (sa mahal ng gasolina I dont even want to step on the gas and every chance I get I free wheel). So kung marami kang pera and you only want to spend it on important things in your life, it suggests you are thinking of your future... So isip mo lang yan. Dont worry about it. But if rejection is your breaking point I suggest you stay away from these industries. She may love you to the heavens but really its all about the money. Someone will come along with more money and there is always that chance she will leave you or lokohin ka nya. I suggest join car enthusiast group. Madami.chicks up for grab. Id refer you to a group but I am discreet hahahh.. Pero sa car groups ka nlng mag hunting not here bro.

 

To your point, yes it's true. I mean if we're talking about suicide, better it to be a fast and painless death than a slow agonizing one.

 

Anyway, I'm not super rich naman, like Henry Sy. I'm just earning a salary that's more than enough for my needs and the extra goes into Espa's.

 

Okay back to the topic, I agree and it's true that, in the end, it's all about the money. And it's my fault din naman why this happened in the first place kasi.

 

She was different kasi from the thera's I had before her ( I have very specific preferences/picky kasi when it comes to women). She was very smart, maybe the only who can match me in intellect and in conversations. In short she was my dream girl, she was everything I wanted. That's why I fell in love with her.

 

But I'm fine now, I've come to accept that she's just something I can never have. And I just wish her the best in her life.

 

P.S: I'm in a car group ng mga Toyota Innova's kaso problem is puro guys/tanders kami dun eh, walang chicks hehe

[barrackbeard]

only met her once after new year, still texting everyday, but you can really feel the emptiness of the words

 

after numerous relationships and sex (with theras and personal life), i guess i have already experienced a lot to easily fall

 

also, there are lots of pussies to fill with cream, target(s) locked

[barrackbeard]

I tell her I like her.

She tells me she likes me too.

Most likely, she tells all her gms she like them too.

 

She tells me she misses me.

I miss her too.

But I believe she tells her other gms she misses them too.

 

She tells me that I am special.

She is to me too.

But, for sure all her gms are also special to her too.

 

I tell her I might fall for her.

She tells me she could fall for me too.

 

A nice storyline isn't it?

 

Unfortunately, we know it's a fiction story.

 

it's not fiction, it's true, she does that to all her gms

[WalkingWallet]

Even when i know that it's their job to make men fall in love with them...

I still have some hope that it might not always be the case...
We are human... they are too... of course the Thera always has their own personal reasons why they do what they do.. but in the end of the day it's all about survival... this is mostly their way of surviving...

I can see that it's a lonely road for them too and sometimes they seek love as well as we do...
The problem will always be related to their (Thera's) work... but if you can get past that... then there is a chance things might work out... but best way if you really want her... she has to leave this industry... but that's a decision she has to make..

[edotensei]

For me they just want us to like their service so we can be repeat customers.

 

i do agree that like any human they too seek love. But the cold truth is they dont want to fall to guys like us who knows what they do for a living. Guys or guests that they know who cheat on their gf or wife.

Up... Sapul ako dito.. Fall and fail. Epic fail.

In the end, issues that I have shared from the very start.. Is the issue that she dumped me with...

Let be this a lesson, don't be stupid..

Sorry to say it is what it is.. If they meet you as a G, it is very hard to change that.... You will just f#&k up your life..

Sweet messages (send to all), dates outside (she goes almost with everyone)most of them are just ruses to keep you hooked on them like a drug...

Most theras are like that.. Not all.

 

My advice be realistic, if you have a wife, old, unattractive. Don't fall she is only seeing you as customer.. Get another Thera, Don't Get HOOKED..

 

Just my advice. Saying in general.. Thanks

[barrackbeard]

I refer to the first two lines of each paragraph I wrote. That is the fiction I meant.

 

Sorry kung confusing.

 

then don't stop at fiction, lover boy

[BlackHoleSun]

Just came off the heels from a relationship with a therapist. I want to vent out but unfortunately walang "fallen for a therapist" thread haha kaya dito na lang.

 

Para on topic, I think its just natural to fall for a therapist. Debate all you want, pero sa linya at bisyo na ganito this is very much a common occurence. Anuman yung dahilan mo, I'm here to validate that and tell you that its perfectly normal.

 

But before you invest more time and effort kay theralabs, remember that a serious relationship always involves both heart and mind. Saktong balanse ng emotions and logic.

 

If you are in this situation right now, let me share with you the three important things I learned to give you a sort of checklist to think about. Right now most probably solid na yung emotions part, lets work on the logic part.

 

1. A relationship with a therapist must be built on TRUST.

Tiwala. Hindi chemistry. Hindi awa. Hindi physical attraction. Lalo na hindi sa libog haha. Kung tutuusin, all romantic relationships should be bulit on trust. Pero kung plano mo talaga seryosohin si theraloves, siguraduhin mo sa sarili mo na kaya mo siyang pagkatiwalaan ng buong-buo at kaya rin niyang gawin yun sayo. Lahat ng sasabihin niya hindi ka magdadalawang-isip. Kapag tahimik siya hindi mo pag-iisipan ng masama kung anuman ang ginagawa niya. Kailangan ito dahil sa important thing #2..

 

2. Accept that your girl works, lives, and breathes in an environment full of FAKES and LIES.

Si thera-loves ay isang sex worker. Her work asks her to be very intimate with other men and she creates a false version of intimacy to fulfill the requirements. Let's not fool ourselves - you and her customers get to experience that same intimacy. A client will not pay good money if he did not feel that she was his girlfriend or personal pornstar for an hour or two. She also creates false versions of herself in public, with co-therapists, and with people close to her who do not know what she does for a living. Magagawa mo lang to kung alam mo ang totoong dahilan kung bakit siya napunta sa ganitong trabaho - not the crap she tells everyone else. Knowing this will help you fully accept this fact. Try to work it out and draw that fine line and create a space wherein hindi na niya kailangan magpanggap at magsinungaling.

 

3. If anyone breaks the other's trust, LEAVE.

If by any reason ikaw or si theraloves broke a promise, nagsinungaling, or does anything na makakasira ng tiwala. Time to call it quits and end the relationship. If you or si theraloves crosses over that fine line, wala nang pagkakaiba yung relationship ninyo at yung relationship niya sa mga cliente niya. Yung tiwala will be the differentiator - what makes you special and unique. Not the night outs, not the livewire sex, not the money and the gifts. Each person will have different gauges kung kailan niya masasabi na wala na yung tiwala niya. Ang importante ay itigil na yung relasyon ninyo kung may isang nawalan na ng tiwala kasi everything will only go downhill.

 

To conclude, you can fall for a therapist but as long as she is in this line of work a functional romantic relationship will not prosper. It will only cause more pain and sadness rather than joy and happiness. Getting theraloves out of this business is actually easy as long as she whole-heartedly wants to. I think that time would be the best time to pursue the relationship.

[vrunich09]

Kapag GM ka na nya at naiinsulto sya kapag magbabayad ka