Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[Solaryan]

 

I'm single and to my knowledge she's also single (I haven't asked her about this yet.) but anyway, it's ironic/funny that I'm always giving her advice not to have a BF yet and just to focus on her studies and her career path, and yet, here I am falling in love with her. How hypocritical of me.

 

 

Late ko nabasa to... disregard the last part of my post...

 

Bro no worries kung maging hypocrite tayo.. Minsan ganun ang nagagawa ng "love".. Parang ganitong linya lang.. "best friend lng talaga tingin ko sayo". Pero sa loob loob mo, sana akin ka na lng.. hahaha!

 

 

Sana malaman mo rin status nya.. Malay mo single kayo pareho.. E di try nyo na mag date outside the spa.. hehehe

[Green Alien]

hey brotha, if you'll ask me i'd say go for her and take her away from the spa as soon as you can. You have mentioned that you're already successful in your profession, which means you can support her if she would leave her current job. Why the rush? it's because she's still fresh (pardon my word) and the overwhelming amount of cash coming in in a very short time will begin to affect her psychologically. She may get used to it and be enticed to stay a lot longer than planned. Some has in fact went deeper and became spa owners themselves. Let us not forget that this industry has gargantuan moral and legal issues. So if you can, be the white knight that would save the damsel in distress for real. Good luck

right bro

[harveyspecter]

 

 

If you can, try to lessen your interactions and see how you behave.. Do you miss her or think of her often. Can you even hold off seeing her for a longer period of time. How long has it been since you last spoke, texted each other etc.. Based on your statement that you are contemplating retirement once you have helped her, I think you are indeed falling. I hope you choose the path that will lead to your happiness and to hers as well. We (GMs) are may be perverted and lustful beings, but still one of the redeeming values I have seen from others here is that we are also capable of wanting others to find happiness no matter where it may come from.

 

I hope you think about this; some people are willing to pay to find happiness. But sometimes, it is those given freely that makes people "happier". So if you are going to pursue her, look at yourself and reflect if what you're doing for her is really to help her or because you want her to be yours... Based on what you posted you seem to be content if someday you don't end up together, as long as you see her make the most of her life so you may have a pure intent but I have also seen other people change their minds or feelings for someone.

 

Since you never mentioned your status and Harvey Specter is single, I will think with the same applies to you.

 

hey brotha, if you'll ask me i'd say go for her and take her away from the spa as soon as you can. You have mentioned that you're already successful in your profession, which means you can support her if she would leave her current job. Why the rush? it's because she's still fresh (pardon my word) and the overwhelming amount of cash coming in in a very short time will begin to affect her psychologically. She may get used to it and be enticed to stay a lot longer than planned. Some has in fact went deeper and became spa owners themselves. Let us not forget that this industry has gargantuan moral and legal issues. So if you can, be the white knight that would save the damsel in distress for real. Good luck

 

That's my main objective bro, I'm not uber rich naman to support her every need so I can't do that yet.

 

In the next/upcoming sessions with her I'm planning/preparing to help her manage her finances para she has a stable future where she doesn't have to go back to the industry anymore. She's really smart naman so I hope this will just be easy for her.

 

I want to be the "knight" but not a "KISA". Again, I'll respect whichever decision she goes for. I'll just give her my best advice.

[harveyspecter]

 

 

If you can, try to lessen your interactions and see how you behave.. Do you miss her or think of her often. Can you even hold off seeing her for a longer period of time. How long has it been since you last spoke, texted each other etc.. Based on your statement that you are contemplating retirement once you have helped her, I think you are indeed falling. I hope you choose the path that will lead to your happiness and to hers as well. We (GMs) are may be perverted and lustful beings, but still one of the redeeming values I have seen from others here is that we are also capable of wanting others to find happiness no matter where it may come from.

 

I hope you think about this; some people are willing to pay to find happiness. But sometimes, it is those given freely that makes people "happier". So if you are going to pursue her, look at yourself and reflect if what you're doing for her is really to help her or because you want her to be yours... Based on what you posted you seem to be content if someday you don't end up together, as long as you see her make the most of her life so you may have a pure intent but I have also seen other people change their minds or feelings for someone.

 

Since you never mentioned your status and Harvey Specter is single, I will think with the same applies to you.

 

I do really miss her often, and I can't hold off more than a week without seeing/talking to her. To be honest I'm clinically depressed, and to make it worse I'm an extreme introvert so I don't have friends to talk to, at the office I'm alone 99% of the time due to my job as a statistician/data scientist.

 

I text her at least once a day, just to greet her and to ask her how she's doing and if she's okay. And I do have pure/clean intents for her, I want the best for her because I can really see that she has potential, and it's just wasted by her being in the "industry". That's why I really want to help her, in anyway I can. Again, even if we don't end up being together it's fine.

[harveyspecter]

That is a good start.

btw does KISA mean "Kupal In Shining Armor"?

 

It means "Knight in Shining Armor", it's gotten a bad rap/reputation since it means that the GM has been super jealous of other GM's and just want's to keep the thera by himself, I've seen arguments/fight occur in both the forums and in actual Espa's. I don't want to be that kind of person.

[himudking]

in love na yata ako kay Jinri. ang sarap niya kasama. ang sikip pa kahit basa. sarap himudin. makinis at maungol. nakaka in love talaga siya. hindi pa masyado gastado yung katawan. :wub: :wub:

 

Jinri for life na ko. sarap ka sex eh.

[Montgras]

in love na yata ako kay Jinri. ang sarap niya kasama. ang sikip pa kahit basa. sarap himudin. makinis at maungol. nakaka in love talaga siya. hindi pa masyado gastado yung katawan. :wub: :wub:

 

Jinri for life na ko. sarap ka sex eh.

bro out of tune naman sana yung mga ganyan bagay sa pM pinag uusapan.. wag dito

[harveyspecter]

bro out of tune naman sana yung mga ganyan bagay sa pM pinag uusapan.. wag dito

 

Agreed, this way too OT and too personal. These discussions/post was not to be mean't for anyone particular.

[Montgras]

Wala na kase sa Topic ang ping uusapan yung fall inlove sa therapist not sex, Wag naman natin pag usapan dito , saka kung galit kayo sa Kapwa Gm pm na lang kayo , dito pa natin tinitira eh,, me kanya kanya tayong opinion the way we post we make fr ..kaya respect sa kapwa GM.. Peace Happy New Year

[Kingkongphils]

Well there are a lot of trolls talaga. Part of the test yan kung tlgang love mo c thera. Either you get affected or not. Admitedly I get affected not because I fell for a thera but because I have many thera friends and I have a friend who was with a thera. Was kasi d na pumapasok c thera.

 

Nakakalungkot lng na tlgang may mga tao na walang respeto sa tao. I guess sila ung mga keyboard warriors na walang magawa. Sa buhay or walang kwenta ang buhay. Palibhasa hindi kayang mambully sa tunay na buhay kaya dito nag trotrll.. Well dati yun.. Ngyn I realized I have so much to do kesa patulan sila.. But its a good test for you boss harveyapecter. Will make you realize what you really feel..

[harveyspecter]

Well there are a lot of trolls talaga. Part of the test yan kung tlgang love mo c thera. Either you get affected or not. Admitedly I get affected not because I fell for a thera but because I have many thera friends and I have a friend who was with a thera. Was kasi d na pumapasok c thera.

 

Nakakalungkot lng na tlgang may mga tao na walang respeto sa tao. I guess sila ung mga keyboard warriors na walang magawa. Sa buhay or walang kwenta ang buhay. Palibhasa hindi kayang mambully sa tunay na buhay kaya dito nag trotrll.. Well dati yun.. Ngyn I realized I have so much to do kesa patulan sila.. But its a good test for you boss harveyapecter. Will make you realize what you really feel..

 

Thank you bro King Kong, I know this is OT again, but I would be lying if I said I'm not affected. It does bother me.

 

Anyway, Before I finally retire, it's always been a personal dream/goal of mine to save at least 1 thera out of the industry if the thera really has the potential to. And that's what I honestly see in her. She can live a better life, earn higher without going to this industry..

[Montgras]

 

Thank you bro King Kong, I know this is OT again, but I would be lying if I said I'm not affected. It does bother me.

 

Anyway, Before I finally retire, it's always been a personal dream/goal of mine to save at least 1 thera out of the industry if the thera really has the potential to. And that's what I honestly see in her. She can live a better life, earn higher without going to this industry..

very well said

[harveyspecter]

To add, I do have strong feelings for her. I do love her, yes. Lust? I'm way past/over that na. I've always let her decide and respected her decision, whether she will love me or not.

 

Not to trying sounding "KISA" or anything but to share and be honest;

 

Most of the time in our sessions, no ES really happens, I've let her decide on this (even when I'm really "tigang"), and I still pay her. I let her rest/sleep during the whole session because I know she's tired as she's always fully booked. I even bring her home cooked food every time as I know she doesn't have the time to go out and eat. Because I care for her and not just for myself.

 

The strange part about her (and the main reason why I want to save her) is she's Lost and she doesn't know what to do and where to go in her life anymore, (she's not doing this to support her family/kids or anything like that) she's here because she wants to escape, like she's throwing her life away.

 

And that's the saddest part, she has so much potential and yet she's wasting it away by being here, in this industry. I want to help guide her out and live the life she deserves and be happy.

 

I apologize for the long story and post, but I feel better talking to this to you guys. I would like to really thank you for your advices to me. It really helps my keep away my depression and constant thoughts of suicide.

[Kingkongphils]

 

Thank you bro King Kong, I know this is OT again, but I would be lying if I said I'm not affected. It does bother me.

 

Anyway, Before I finally retire, it's always been a personal dream/goal of mine to save at least 1 thera out of the industry if the thera really has the potential to. And that's what I honestly see in her. She can live a better life, earn higher without going to this industry..

Aaaaa.... Well if its save you want... Kailangan kang makialam. You have to be the one to enroll her, you have to be the one to make sure she goes to school.. Lalo na sabi mo she is lost... Ung iba kasi wala lang talaga magawa kasi kailangan nilang kumita ng pera. May ibang tulad ng thera loves mo na "lost". I tell you if she is lost, and she does not feel anything for you.. Kahit pang ateneo ang ibigay mong tuition sa kanya it will all be for nothing. Baka gastusin lang nya yun. So if save you want your help should actually count, and make sure IT actually counts.

 

Well pwede mo sabihin na its her choice what she does with what you give her BUT that wouldnt be saving her. Baka nga mas malaki pa pera nya kesa sa binibigay mo. So IMHO, if you want to save you make her. Plus malalaman mo dn kung may feelings sya syo. Pag she always makes excuses na hindi na enrol ung binigay mo e alam na this. Pag sabihin nyang na enrol you have to see kung na enroll nya. Kung ayaw nya ipakita then alam na this. You have to remember sir in any situation the savior cant do anything if the victim does not want to be saved. I may sound hypocritical but Ill just say it.. Kahit c Jesus na sinave tyo kung ayaw natin ma save we'll end up still in eternal damnation.

[K0RN - RETIR3D]

To add, I do have strong feelings for her. I do love her, yes. Lust? I'm way past/over that na. I've always let her decide and respected her decision, whether she will love me or not.

 

Not to trying sounding "KISA" or anything but to share and be honest;

 

Most of the time in our sessions, no ES really happens, I've let her decide on this (even when I'm really "tigang"), and I still pay her. I let her rest/sleep during the whole session because I know she's tired as she's always fully booked. I even bring her home cooked food every time as I know she doesn't have the time to go out and eat. Because I care for her and not just for myself.

 

The strange part about her (and the main reason why I want to save her) is she's Lost and she doesn't know what to do and where to go in her life anymore, (she's not doing this to support her family/kids or anything like that) she's here because she wants to escape, like she's throwing her life away.

 

And that's the saddest part, she has so much potential and yet she's wasting it away by being here, in this industry. I want to help guide her out and live the life she deserves and be happy.

 

I apologize for the long story and post, but I feel better talking to this to you guys. I would like to really thank you for your advices to me. It really helps my keep away my depression and constant thoughts of suicide.

 

May the odds be in your favor even if the whole world is against it.