Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[Daniellopez0624]

Medyo mahirap noh kung may nagustohan ka na therapist pero di pwede.

[Roberttan0624]

Mahirap minsan yung maka hanap ka ng katapat mo na therapist na mabait maganda at maasikaso pag na inlove ka alam mo naman na di pwede mangyari lalo na kung osa sa inyo ay commited

[darkspider]

id been on this situation a couple of times, ngayon kasi medyo matalino na ko ahahaha..what i usually do before is " uy sorry di ako makapunta walang budget e" dalawa lang naman makukuha mong type ng reply, yung isa is o sige basta text mo ko pag pupunta kita dito ha para mapareserve kita.. which is obviously need nya lang ng client or yung reply na" ok lang kahit entrance lang bayaran mo gusto lang kita makita e which is more of personal na.. circa 2007 with Lara of sylvanus, estudyante pa ko nun of course allowance ang pang MP ko so di ganon karegular makadalaw, she even pay for the entrance to make sure na madalaw ko sya 3x a week, gwapo ba ko. i dont know, mayaman ba ko, sakto lang..i guess way back then pag nag invest ka ng time or makita nila na di lang s3x habol mo, in my case yun nga hahaha..e bibigyan ka ng extra perks..yes i did fall for her pero darating din yung time na mas mangingibabaw yung needs nila financially..at totoo papatayin ka ng selos..

[K0RN - RETIR3D]

Agree with this thought. Priority pa rin family in terms of financial. Kung gagastos sa spa, be sure na kumpleto na ang needs ng family and ang gagastusin ay extra na lang after the savings.

I highly agree to this.

 

It should be Family First above your extra-marital carnal desires and NOT the other way around.

[KAPITAN_Tutan]

Once had thera GF but didnt work out because she had to migrate to Singapore. Loved her genuinely, although the situation wasnt ideal.

 

Now everytime Im with a thera that seems sweet or im starting to really fancy, I just try out other theras to try and overlap that feeling. so far works fine for me - no attachments anymore, and i get to try different types of girls all the time. Believe me gents, there's a whole lot more out there.

[Solaryan]

may nakwento saken na nahuli ng misis. Sa sobrang humaling na nun GM hinahanapan na sana nya ng work si theraloves nya outside ng spa. kaso sa text nya sa mga tropa nya para i-refer si thera, di nya nabura at nabasa ng kanyang misis..nalaman na may theraloves sya at nagkakilala sila spakol. nauwi sa pinalayas si GM ng kanyang misis at nakipag bahay-bahayan sya sa theraloves nya.

 

Ang masaklap after a few weeks, nagkaayos at patawaran ang mag asawa (siguro dahil na din may mga anak sila kaya willing si misis bigyan ng second change si GM). So ayun iwan sa ere si theraloves nya...

 

para di mainvolve sa messy at magulong drama, enjoy na lang. haha! madami as in madami talagang magaganda, mababait at makukulit na thera. at madami pang dadating.. haha! kaya kung di kayo pareho single at wala naman planong umalis sa mundong ito anytime soon, e wag nyo gamiting ang word na "love"... "lab","luv" o "like" na lang

 

Pero as with any other things in life, may iilang exemptions naman na nagkakatuluyan, pero kasi parehong walang sabit at willing pagdaanan ang hirap. Sila yun statistically improbable but still became possible.

 

Just my thoughts on this. happy holidays!

Edited December 7, 2018 by Solaryan

[jc44 - RETIRED]

/sees off-topic posts, ignores, and leaves it up to mods to clean up

 

Gustong gusto ko tong happy thoughts na to
Kaso minsan di nmn natin kayang turuan ang puso kung sino ang mamahalin
kaya minsan kahit alm na mali at magulo ang sitwasyon pinapasok ksi nga mnsan di kayang turuan ang puso
Minsan din napagkakamalan nating love ang lust
or mnsan akala natin mahal ntn yung isang tao pro mahalaga lang pala sya satin
madaming rules at magulo ang thera client relationship
Pro saludo ako sa mga relasyon na nlgpasan lahat ng pgsubok....
ksi hndi biro ang mgmahal ng thera also vice versa

 

Totoo hindi biro yan. It will always require a lot of patience and understanding, both ways.

 

And personal clarity. So much personal clarity. Declaring love for a thera habang si client ay di sigurado sa sarili niya is a recipe for disaster. Lalo na kung may sabit si client. Like you said, it's easy to mistake lust - and dopamine highs - for love.

 

Or minsan, men fall in love with the idea of falling in love with a thera, kasi it makes them some kind of knight in shining armor saving some damsel in distress. Kumbaga, ego lang talaga ng client ang umiiral.

The opposite seems to be true too. So many posts discouraging it, because reasons. Maraming allegedly sinusuporta si thera, kaya ba ni client yun? May financial independence si thera, ano mao-offer ni client pansagot dun? Kaya ba ni client tanggapin na maging "unfaithful" si thera because of work? Blah blah blah. Nothing to do with whether or not both the client and the thera are mature enough adults to carry out a serious relationship given their circumstances. Eh di ba yun lang naman ang importante?

If the client and the thera have mutual genuine feelings and can work around the situation, more power and blessings to them. They are far better people than I am.

[cherryberrymango]

/sees off-topic posts, ignores, and leaves it up to mods to clean up

 

 

Totoo hindi biro yan. It will always require a lot of patience and understanding, both ways.

 

And personal clarity. So much personal clarity. Declaring love for a thera habang si client ay di sigurado sa sarili niya is a recipe for disaster. Lalo na kung may sabit si client. Like you said, it's easy to mistake lust - and dopamine highs - for love.

 

Or minsan, men fall in love with the idea of falling in love with a thera, kasi it makes them some kind of knight in shining armor saving some damsel in distress. Kumbaga, ego lang talaga ng client ang umiiral.

 

The opposite seems to be true too. So many posts discouraging it, because reasons. Maraming allegedly sinusuporta si thera, kaya ba ni client yun? May financial independence si thera, ano mao-offer ni client pansagot dun? Kaya ba ni client tanggapin na maging "unfaithful" si thera because of work? Blah blah blah. Nothing to do with whether or not both the client and the thera are mature enough adults to carry out a serious relationship given their circumstances. Eh di ba yun lang naman ang importante?

 

If the client and the thera have mutual genuine feelings and can work around the situation, more power and blessings to them. They are far better people than I am.

 

One of the more sensible posts in this thread.

 

Well said sir.

[csmeea]

Hehe. Masarap, masakit, at mahirap ang sitwasyon na eto

 

Masarap - Kasi thera's are very much experienced so more or less they can satisfy your sexual fantasies and urge.

Masakit - Kasi alam mong hindi ikaw lang ang nakakasama niya sa kama hehe. Ang sakit lalo na kung talagang inlab ka at hindi lang libog nararamdaman mo para sa kaniya

Mahirap - Kung may pamilya ka kasi you really have to fund this kind of relationship whether binibigyan mo si thera or hindi. Mahirap din intindihin na may iba GMs na nakakasama siya. Magseselos ka talaga. hehe

[dragonsmount]

advice to self... dont fall for a thera... magulo yung mundo na yun at masakit sa huli kasi todo selos ako niyan for sure.

[Solaryan]

hehe guys, easy lng po please. baka-ma lock o mabura nanaman tong thread.. nasa 2nd life na nga ata ito.. kakarevive lang.. sayang nga mga past shares ko sa lumang thread..

 

anyway, last week ko pa nabasa, pero ngayon ko lng mamarapatin na magreply kay sir creampie, maari po na ang intention mo ay sabihin o i-share sa nakakarami na nahuhulog ka na kay thera kasi nakaka 3 sessions na kayo na di mo malimit gawin, dahil mahilig ka mag ESplore or whatever, pero sa kanya ay kinu consider mo na maging "loyal" tapos nadagdagan pa na pina livewire ka nya ng di ka na siningil pa.. hence your creampie anecdote, correction half-creampie (hehe naaliw ako dito )

 

sna lng sir e nag expound ka pa, like share how you felt about her na di mo expect yun freebie sadyang nadadala na kayo etc.. at tama din yun iba this could have been shared in other threads like YMMV or creampie Frs.. pero to give you a benefit of the doubt, maaring dito mo nga shinare kasi nagkakahulugan na kayo ng loob ng thera mo. well and good for you sir! Pero tama rin ang iba na magremind about safety, kasi how well do you know your thera? Are you willing to bet your life on her? Same goes for her? Gaanu ka nya kakilala? handa din ba syang isugal sayo kalusugan at kabuhayan nya? kasi ako personally, matatakot na ako makuha thera mo, kung naglivewire sya ng iba, ng di sya natest.. (aba, mahal ko pa buhay ko)

 

 

Anyway, yun lamang po and to all gents, please continue to share you stories. But please, let's stick to what's real, not what's real to us..

[Kingkongphils]

Tama dapat kick ass pogi or madame pera pwede sunugin para maka creampie hehehe...hndi na talaga kapanipaniwala, dame na barbero...

Tomooo... Advisan mo nga boss na pag pogi. Ka o mayaman ka normal nlng yun at mas nakakahiya pa na sa thera mo pa gagawin of all people that you can or should I say you should be doing to... Sabagay the worldwideweb is truly a fantasy land.

 

Again to be "ON TOPIC" the truth is you have to love yourself before you love somebody else, that I think is the 1st rule that you should know before even thinking about falling for a thera. Before you say you love her or pursue her always as ask, always check kung pwede lang everyday how this feeling of yours is affecting your life... If its affecting you for the bettet I dont see anything bad WHATEVER happens, if its bad for you better start pushing away. I dont know how you can do that. Maybe just block her number nlng...

Edited December 10, 2018 by Kingkongphils

[jc44 - RETIRED]

Says everybody is OFF TOPIC then posts an FR instead

🤣🤣🤣

 

To be fair, I understand the idea of physical attraction graduating into something much deeper. Lalo na when sex is involved. Kaya lang, physical intimacy doesnt necessarily equate to emotional intimacy.

[Roberttan0624]

Gustong gusto ko tong happy thoughts na to

Kaso minsan di nmn natin kayang turuan ang puso kung sino ang mamahalin

kaya minsan kahit alm na mali at magulo ang sitwasyon pinapasok ksi nga mnsan di kayang turuan ang puso

Minsan din napagkakamalan nating love ang lust

or mnsan akala natin mahal ntn yung isang tao pro mahalaga lang pala sya satin

madaming rules at magulo ang thera client relationship

Pro saludo ako sa mga relasyon na nlgpasan lahat ng pgsubok....

ksi hndi biro ang mgmahal ng thera also vice versa

 

Minsan kala ko pag mamahal na yun pala simpleng pag hanga lang ang nararamdaman mo better to give your self some time para evaluate mo ang nararamdaman mo wag pasok ng pasok baka ka mapaso. Masasaktan ka lang pag di mo pinag isupan mabuti ang mga gagawin mo

[Mon-El]

right now i just wanna hammer a head (use thor hammer hahaha)

 

if you are uncertain with your feelings please dont initiate anything that will led to love

 

so it's better not to hurt or to be hurt at the end.

 

this relationship is like you and me against the world

 

and if this is not pure love, you cannot endure the coming trials in the future.