Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[Marco_W]

One word,

 

Free will.

 

 

 

I see. When you say you tried but she still chose to stay in the industry? She stayed because she earns more than what you are giving?

[Donne]

Iwan mo na asawa mo. Sumama kn sa thera mo. Bigay mo na lng sakin yung hotwife mo tutal di mo na sya deserve. Mahal mo asawa mo at pamilya mo? Sure ka? Pero naiisipan mong iwanan sila at magsimula ng bagong buhay kasama si thera? Ikaw sa sarili mo alam mo kung ano yung mali. Gunggong ka kung un padin ang piliin mong gawin.

 

GMs,

 

It's good to know that there is such a thread that caters to the romance between a therapist and a her client. I consider myself a hopeless romantic. Even just a sincere smile and a good conversation can already make my heart melt. I consider myself a decent looking guy, married to a hot wife... and can still take home chics from bars @ BGC, but still, I frequent MPs just to blow off some steam from life, work and all the routines without the hassle of relationships and expectations... Don't get me wrong I love my wife and my family... but I also enjoy having a good lay from a "stranger" (therapist) from time to time...

 

Recently, I've been scouting lays from South to North, East to West, Paranaque to QC, looking for some quickie delight, and I found myself getting hook to this one particular MP in Q. Ave... been going there for the past 2 months on a weekly basis without any issues, changing theras everytime I visit. However, during my last 2 -3 visits, I found myself picking the same Therapist over and over again, (which is not my normal routine) and I can't stop thinking about her for the past 2 weeks. I won't divulge much info about her as I am starting to feel "possessive" of her... all I can tell is that she is Gorgeous and Intelligent... Both my Achilles Heel...

 

All I can think about now is when to come back and see her, I went there twice last week and I'm already planning my next session with her in the next few days... and that is the BIG PROBLEM... I think I am falling for her.... I am now imagining life with her... Running away with her and starting a new life.... this is so so WRONG.... and I feel that she is also infatuated with me... and given a chance, she would gladly build a new life with me.... I can honestly say that I am IN-LOVE with her, and I believe she feels the same way....

 

Still, I know this is very wrong fellow GMs... I am a Family Man... I am trying my best not to think about her...

 

It's not just the sex guys, again, I can get free sex anytime I want... she's just so - "SPECIAL"...

 

I'll post again in a few months time... will keep you guys posted... hopefully things go for the better.. for both of us... together or apart...

 

See guys.. I told you... I am a Hopeless Romantic A-hole... Don't be like me

 

And to my baby girl, this is for you "J"

 

- J of Cainta

[CardingTigas]

GMs,

 

It's good to know that there is such a thread that caters to the romance between a therapist and a her client. I consider myself a hopeless romantic. Even just a sincere smile and a good conversation can already make my heart melt. I consider myself a decent looking guy, married to a hot wife... and can still take home chics from bars @ BGC, but still, I frequent MPs just to blow off some steam from life, work and all the routines without the hassle of relationships and expectations... Don't get me wrong I love my wife and my family... but I also enjoy having a good lay from a "stranger" (therapist) from time to time...

 

Recently, I've been scouting lays from South to North, East to West, Paranaque to QC, looking for some quickie delight, and I found myself getting hook to this one particular MP in Q. Ave... been going there for the past 2 months on a weekly basis without any issues, changing theras everytime I visit. However, during my last 2 -3 visits, I found myself picking the same Therapist over and over again, (which is not my normal routine) and I can't stop thinking about her for the past 2 weeks. I won't divulge much info about her as I am starting to feel "possessive" of her... all I can tell is that she is Gorgeous and Intelligent... Both my Achilles Heel...

 

All I can think about now is when to come back and see her, I went there twice last week and I'm already planning my next session with her in the next few days... and that is the BIG PROBLEM... I think I am falling for her.... I am now imagining life with her... Running away with her and starting a new life.... this is so so WRONG.... and I feel that she is also infatuated with me... and given a chance, she would gladly build a new life with me.... I can honestly say that I am IN-LOVE with her, and I believe she feels the same way....

 

Still, I know this is very wrong fellow GMs... I am a Family Man... I am trying my best not to think about her...

 

It's not just the sex guys, again, I can get free sex anytime I want... she's just so - "SPECIAL"...

 

I'll post again in a few months time... will keep you guys posted... hopefully things go for the better.. for both of us... together or apart...

 

See guys.. I told you... I am a Hopeless Romantic A-hole... Don't be like me

 

And to my baby girl, this is for you "J"

 

- J of Cainta

Make sure lang na wala ka mapulot at maipasa sa asawa mo na souvenir mula dyan sa thera mo, kasi sigurado hndi lang ikaw ang special someone ni thera mo brother =) just be safe

[ferwy shaw]

i am falling for a thera pero wala akong pera,,,,,

[Kingkongphils]

i am falling for a thera pero wala akong pera,,,,,

Pwede nmn. Tangapin mo nga lng na malamang e kung ano ung ginawa nya syo e gagawin din nya sa iba. At wala kang magagawa para matigil yun.

[stpierre]

What does it mean when...

You go out on a date with a lady (psp that used to work at a club). You make her laugh a lot (i've been with her enough times to know her real laugh), hold hands, cuddle, kiss (na parang kayo)...then she allows you to take her home to where she lives (bahay ng ate niya) and you part ways with a few more passionate kisses to end the night...

Then when it comes to chatting online, she doesn't seem as invested, like she doesn't have a whole lot to say...i just can't help but notice the inconsistency in who she is when we're out on dates vs. when we chat online...there's an unmistakable lack of enthusiasm...

I probably already know the answer, but i need a 2nd, 3rd and nth opinion...any insight would be greatly appreciated...i can't stop thinking about her uggghhhhh

[Sir Galahad®]

Probably hindi siya ma-chat na tao. Or may kasama na iba kaya hindi ka ma-chat masyado. Or sadyang GFE lang.

 

Minsan it's all part of the business. It's hard to fall into a meaningful relationship when she has access to different types of physical intimacy. This goes the same for you as you have access to different girls as well.

 

I guess the most I have accomplished in this business is being friends. Friends that would let you know their real name, access to their real phone number, access to their social media and access to their homes. Friends na pwede sumama sa mga out of town as barkada (with something on the side). More than a few times nung sinabihan ako na "Walk tayo, dito na sa condo". And papakainin pa ako nung niluto nila. Hehehe! There was even one time na we were doing it in her room tapos yung isang tropa niya (na PSP/Car show model) andun sa living room. (Hahaha!). Pero other than that hindi naman kami nagmemessage pag di kami nagkikita. It's it just the way it is. And most of them want relationships with people who do not know what they really do.

 

Some would say I miss you or even I love you but take it with a grain of salt.

[Ronin13]

Is it possible to be friends with you thera pero nothing more?

May txt txt pero hanggang dun lng, or eventually mg fafall ka din?

[Kingkongphils]

me paraan pa...isip isip..... ipasara lahat ng spa!!!!! ha ha ha ha

Actually, contrary to the notion na kayang ipa raid ang isang spa, it is difficult. Extremely difficult na ipa raid ang spa. May ninong akong cheif of police napagkwentuhan namin ang spa, sabi nya kung anonymous anonymous tip lng daw hindi nila raraidin ung spa apart pa dyn ung sa report pa lng or may harang na galing sa protektor. So unless ipakita mo ung mukha mo at mag pa interview ka sa pulis it is far fetched na mag pa raid ng spa in reality. Pwede sa press, kaso we all know na bayaran ang mga press, so I guess you have to pay them too, pero hngang report lng dn sila.

[Kingkongphils]

nope, it is actually very easy. you just need the right procedure that your "ninong" won't tell you. spa owners pay the 'proper authorities" to be untouched. You must know the hierarchy that is involved and how far would they protect these establishments and themselves. but this is not the topic of this thread. hehehe.

anyways, remember me (Coyote) chasing the roadrunner and running through a huge boulder where the continuity of the road is painted? that is very similar when you fell for a therapist. you hit the rock face on thinking that there is a way leading you somewhere with her. beep beep!

Haha.. Thats exactly why its hard. Knowing the heirarchy. Its not like pag pasok mo sa presinto or city hall e may placard na nakalagay dito maglalagay para sa prostitution.. Haha.. Bottomline authorities wont move unless there is evidence and unless you are willing to be the evidence on record e good luck haha.. But like u said this is not the thread for that.

Nice analogy though, about the cayote and road runner. May. I add na bumabalik pa minsan si road runner kay cayote na nagpapahabol and just when cayote thinks huli na bglang baaam... Hahaha..

[Donne]

I know what I said was rude, but I know you needed that to wake up from the illusion you are in. I just don't want you to steer in the wrong direction because I know eventually you will get lost. Also consider the consequences and impact it will have to your life and loved ones. It's just not worth it. It won't even guarantee your happiness. Going to spas/mps should just be a side hobby to release some stress, alleviate boredome, and experience temporary pleasure. Wag mo isugal ang buhay mo.

 

 

This is exactly what I needed GMs. A good old smack in the head to wack the senses back to me ... Thanks for the rude awakening bro... Rude comment but thanks though...

 

Anyway, she's just a Thera... A special one but still a professional just providing her services ...

 

I'll probably lay low for a while, try a different lay away from Q.Ave... Hopefully distance and isolation would keep her away from my head and my horny "other head"....

 

Thanks for all the advices GMs...

 

At the end of the day, Falling for a Thera is a BAD IDEA.... Avoid at all costs brothers....

 

- J of Cainta

[maam019]

I see. When you say you tried but she still chose to stay in the industry? She stayed because she earns more than what you are giving?

 

prolly, and most likely true. Hahaha. Baka yung monthly salary ko nga, kaya kuhain in a week

[maam019]

Probably hindi siya ma-chat na tao. Or may kasama na iba kaya hindi ka ma-chat masyado. Or sadyang GFE lang.

 

Minsan it's all part of the business. It's hard to fall into a meaningful relationship when she has access to different types of physical intimacy. This goes the same for you as you have access to different girls as well.

 

I guess the most I have accomplished in this business is being friends. Friends that would let you know their real name, access to their real phone number, access to their social media and access to their homes. Friends na pwede sumama sa mga out of town as barkada (with something on the side). More than a few times nung sinabihan ako na "Walk tayo, dito na sa condo". And papakainin pa ako nung niluto nila. Hehehe! There was even one time na we were doing it in her room tapos yung isang tropa niya (na PSP/Car show model) andun sa living room. (Hahaha!). Pero other than that hindi naman kami nagmemessage pag di kami nagkikita. It's it just the way it is. And most of them want relationships with people who do not know what they really do.

 

Some would say I miss you or even I love you but take it with a grain of salt.

 

Eye opening, sir. Hahahaha

[Roberttan0624]

Meron akong therapist na gusto kaya lang di na ako pwede huhuhu what to do?

[Kingkongphils]

Meron akong therapist na gusto kaya lang di na ako pwede huhuhu what to do?

In my opinion pwede naman, kaso. Cyempre unlike kapag single ka lng ung ibibigay mo sa thera e sasakripisyo mo ung dapat e sa family mo. Ngyn kung hindi mo nmn bibigyan ng financial support c thera o hindi mo patitigilin e cyempre mahirap nmn baka may maipasa ka kay misis kpg nagkataon kawawa naman misis mo at anak mo. Worst nyn bka c misis ang nakakuha kay kumpare naipasa syo at naipasa mo kay thera, hahahah.. Hindi mo alam kung sino nag torotot hahahahh...