Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[brockalexander]

ako i agree with barrackbeard currently nursing a broken heart right now because i was a control freak i know my thera loves responsibilities sa pamilya nya kaya pumayag ako sa ganun arrangement. bf nya ko before and after work. pero ang hindi ko lng pinapayagan is ung lalabas sya or "jokards" ok sa knya for 7mos hindi sya lumalabas pero umabot lng sa.point na kinakapos na sya kaya humingi sya skn ng space to concentrate on her work lumabas na ulit sya para bumalik ung kita nya na kelangan to pay for her apartment here sa manila, pay for her house sa cavite, education of kids nya and 2 siblings utility bills, food, allowance for her kids and siblings, parental support for her dad na me sakit tulong sa other siblings nya na malalaki na. ang point ko is dt ko sya nakilala kaya dpt kong tanggapin at tibayan ang kalooban ko dhl minahal ko sya at minahal nya ko, its just happened na sya na ung umayaw i dunno for what reason dhl cgro ayaw nya akong masaktan sa paglabas labas nya i dunno we never had a chance to talk up to now, ang hirap hirap ang bilis ng turnaround ang bilis na ayaw na nya akong makita at makausap. im still trying to talk to her but ayaw na nya tlaga eh

 

all i have to do now is accept the fact na wala na sya na sya ung bumigay at umayaw sa akin

 

Its quite possible that she needs more money than you can give and medyo nagu-guilty na sya na hingan ka pa kaya mas minabuti nya na tapusin na lang ung relasyon para di na sya maguilty and at the same time makapagtrabaho na sya ulit, anyway un ung decision nya so better that u just accept it. It will be hard at first but eventually makaka moveon ka din. In time sabi nga nila.

[barrackbeard]

It's very clear that the some control freak GMs cannot accept the fact that the thera cannot put them first before her work due to her financial needs.

 

Instead, they would call the thera who continues to work in this industry as someone who doesnt have the capacity to love a GM.

 

In my "career" as a GM, I have met probably about a hundred theras and some of them are really in a very difficult situation, some of them I remember:

 

1. Na-stroke si ~50y/o tatay, di na makatrabaho, at ang daming maintenance, not to mention she is the eldest of 4 siblings.

2. 2 anak ni thera, biglang iniwan ng tatay ng mga bata, walang kamaganak sa manila, at tinakwil ng magulang nung naglive-in

3. 6 na magkakapatid, nagabroad ang tatay pero nagasawa na ng iba at di na bumalik (pangalawa)

4. May anak si thera, pero mahina ang anak at laging confined, ang tatay walang silbe

5. Mataas pangarap ni thera sa 3 nakababatang kapatid at pinipilit makagraduate para di matulad sa kanya

 

Marami pang iba na mas "minor" ang situation jan, at yan lang mga naalala ko.

 

Now, are these ladies not capable of loving a man?

 

If you don't want words to be put inside your mouth, then put words on theras mouth that they cannot love.

 

Maybe I should add "judgemental", so now it's "judgemental control freak"

 

Let's not judge another person's capability to love.

 

And please don't start with drugs, drugs destroys the person, drugs allows a human to k*ll another person, drugs destroys families, and so on. Maling mali ang analogy.

 

In the end, are we to judge another person's capability to love?

 

If you are just talking about sex sex sex, then it's not love you are looking, you are looking for free and exclusive sex, it's not love you are really after, gusto mo lang masolo at wala ka naman talagang pagmamahal. Baka ikaw ang totoong hindi marunong magmahal???

 

Again, you "loved??" her when she is in the industry, then suddenly, you want her out? How about the thera's love for her family too?

 

Maybe better to add another word, "selfish", "selfish judgemental control freak"

 

Kung nagrereklamo ka na ayaw umalis ni thera for better financial status for herself, family, and dreams, wag ka maghanap ng pagmamahal sa spakol, maghanap ka sa opisina mo or sa village nyo, or makipag date ka online, please wag ka na mag-spa

 

Or, baka naman talagang hindi kaaya aya ugali at mukha mo "selfish judgemental control freak", should i add the word "ugly"? nah, not necessary

[mikemurphy0305]

It's very clear that the some control freak GMs cannot accept the fact that the thera cannot put them first before her work due to her financial needs.

Instead, they would call the thera who continues to work in this industry as someone who doesnt have the capacity to love a GM.

In my "career" as a GM, I have met probably about a hundred theras and some of them are really in a very difficult situation, some of them I remember:

1. Na-stroke si ~50y/o tatay, di na makatrabaho, at ang daming maintenance, not to mention she is the eldest of 4 siblings.

2. 2 anak ni thera, biglang iniwan ng tatay ng mga bata, walang kamaganak sa manila, at tinakwil ng magulang nung naglive-in

3. 6 na magkakapatid, nagabroad ang tatay pero nagasawa na ng iba at di na bumalik (pangalawa)

4. May anak si thera, pero mahina ang anak at laging confined, ang tatay walang silbe

5. Mataas pangarap ni thera sa 3 nakababatang kapatid at pinipilit makagraduate para di matulad sa kanya

Marami pang iba na mas "minor" ang situation jan, at yan lang mga naalala ko.

Now, are these ladies not capable of loving a man?

If you don't want words to be put inside your mouth, then put words on theras mouth that they cannot love.

Maybe I should add "judgemental", so now it's "judgemental control freak"

Let's not judge another person's capability to love.

And please don't start with drugs, drugs destroys the person, drugs allows a human to k*ll another person, drugs destroys families, and so on. Maling mali ang analogy.

In the end, are we to judge another person's capability to love?

If you are just talking about sex sex sex, then it's not love you are looking, you are looking for free and exclusive sex, it's not love you are really after, gusto mo lang masolo at wala ka naman talagang pagmamahal. Baka ikaw ang totoong hindi marunong magmahal???

Again, you "loved??" her when she is in the industry, then suddenly, you want her out? How about the thera's love for her family too?

Maybe better to add another word, "selfish", "selfish judgemental control freak"

Kung nagrereklamo ka na ayaw umalis ni thera for better financial status for herself, family, and dreams, wag ka maghanap ng pagmamahal sa spakol, maghanap ka sa opisina mo or sa village nyo, or makipag date ka online, please wag ka na mag-spa

Or, baka naman talagang hindi kaaya aya ugali at mukha mo "selfish judgemental control freak", should i add the word "ugly"? nah, not necessary

 

 

 

well said sir

[mikemurphy0305]

we just have to look at it from a different perspective. dito natin sila nakilala kaya dapat kung mamahalin natin sila mas patient tayo, mas matibay ang dibdib natin at higit sa lahat malaki ang tiwala natin sa knila, enough with the Filipino Machismo Stuff na ganun its not gonna help lahat tayo dt ay nainlove sa thera/mpa one point in our lives so lets not be bitter about what happened kung d nag succeed ung relatio ship

 

 

"NEVER OUT OF THE FIGHT"

[CardingTigas]

Reality check, will you still love someone who lets an average of 5 to 7 different guys per day to spill their jizz on her mouth, face, tits and worst inside of her? Kung kaya mo pa din mahalin yun ganyan, then we have a new definition martyrdom...hindi ito exaggeration mga brother, pero eto naman talaga nangyayare para kumita sila ng pera...

[icebird]

Maybe yes but maybe no!

[rickybobby007]

we just have to look at it from a different perspective. dito natin sila nakilala kaya dapat kung mamahalin natin sila mas patient tayo, mas matibay ang dibdib natin at higit sa lahat malaki ang tiwala natin sa knila, enough with the Filipino Machismo Stuff na ganun its not gonna help lahat tayo dt ay nainlove sa thera/mpa one point in our lives so lets not be bitter about what happened kung d nag succeed ung relatio ship

 

 

"NEVER OUT OF THE FIGHT"

 

Bro, I just briefly read through this thread, but your posts did catch my eye. I don't know your situation, but I think the only way this will work for you is if you can get her to quit her job as a therapist and only be with you. If you can handle the financial burden of supporting her AND she is truly in love with you and wants to be with you, then you have a chance. Otherwise move on. Don't be like this over one woman.

 

If she felt the same then she would want to be with you also. But, like it or not, you were just another customer. Like others have said before....this is their job....they get paid to make you feel like you are the only man they care about and they only exist to please you and make you happy. She probably gave you the best GFE you ever experienced and you loved it but again...it was work for her. And like others have said before, there is a difference between love and lust.

 

So many other fish in the sea bro. Get over losing this one and get yourself together.

 

If you are still going to frequent MP, then you need to take up the mongers mantra of the triple F's

 

Find, f#&k, Forget.

[mikemurphy0305]

i understand where your all coming from but i suggest you guys stop watching too much porn, remember we were all mp goers, and we know for a fact that these girls sets limitations on their services being offered minsan nga dba we get pissed off dhl andaming bawal and for a true GM we respect these restrictions being set. their not pornstars guys that we fantasize. also im now still trying to move on but still at the end if the day when your all alone loneliness and depression still kicks in. maybe someday but for now its still the same feeling of missing her and asking questions of what did i do wrong

 

 

"NEVER OUT OF THE FIGHT"

[CardingTigas]

i understand where your all coming from but i suggest you guys stop watching too much porn, remember we were all mp goers, and we know for a fact that these girls sets limitations on their services being offered minsan nga dba we get pissed off dhl andaming bawal and for a true GM we respect these restrictions being set. their not pornstars guys that we fantasize. also im now still trying to move on but still at the end if the day when your all alone loneliness and depression still kicks in. maybe someday but for now its still the same feeling of missing her and asking questions of what did i do wrong

 

 

"NEVER OUT OF THE FIGHT"

 

Bro Don't get me wrong ah, eto tough love, hindi kita kilala, hindi kita kaano ano, concern lang ako na meron isang tao na tinatapon un buhay nya dahil sa wrong decisions, gano ka ba kasigurado na may mga restrictions talaga sya across the board, hndi ba sumagi sa isip mo na baka sayo lang sya may restrictions dahil nakita nya na kaya ka nya i manipulate into believing na may restrictions sya? well in fact na may malaking chance na wala syang restrictions pag dating sa iba? Yun lang brother sana maliwanagan isip mo, isa lang ang buhay ng tao, wag ka papa daig sa emotions mo, sayang buhay mo pre, eto nga mas matindi pa nga minsan un mga SPAkol/SPATot recently, kung makita mo lang un mga package na binibigay nila, I tell you, wala ng tinitira para sa sarili un karamihan ng mga thera sa mga Spakol d2 sa QC, kaya nga karamihan d2 ng mga Thera 100% PSE pa ang claims sa mga FR, My point is, think of it this way, would you still love someone knowing na pag naka talikod ka, pinuputukan ng iba't ibang lalake yun bibig nya? Seriously brother, you should participate in your own rescue, wag ka papatalo sa loneliness at depression, ang dame dyan, halos araw araw may mga nag 18 years old, walang sabit, walang drama, walang stress, SPAKOL/SPATOT/MP should be tread as place where you can only CUM and GO yun lang, leave you heart at door bago pumasok. Don't get involved sa drama ng buhay nila, kaya ka nga nag papaputok para maka deload ng stress eh, lahat yan impossible walang Fabricated na kwento, to hook us up, the only problem is, yun emotional stability mo bilang GM...wag ka papatalo, dayo ka d2 sa QC, ilibot pa kita, ng makalimutan mo yan chapter ng buhay mo na yan, ewan ko lang kung hindi maka recover brother...

Edited November 9, 2018 by CardingTigas

[Hamaji]

Reality check, will you still love someone who lets an average of 5 to 7 different guys per day to spill their jizz on her mouth, face, tits and worst inside of her? Kung kaya mo pa din mahalin yun ganyan, then we have a new definition martyrdom...hindi ito exaggeration mga brother, pero eto naman talaga nangyayare para kumita sila ng pera...

Aray hahahaha

 

Pero I agree, kailangan talaga i reassess natin kung mahal ba nila mga clients nila at kung mahal ba talaga sila ng clients nila

[ricomamsuave]

i hope to experience this soon

[BoyBumbilya27]

Mukhang exciting ito! Want to try if given a chance.

[mikemurphy0305]

Its not gonna be easy kung seloso ka you will just end up fighting. kelengan is matibay ang loob mo lalo na pag dadating ung time na nasa work sya at wala ka na rerecieve na txt or pm it means nasa service sya. and minsan it could last up to 5 hours dhl sunod sunod ang guest or nag extend so wala ka magagawa. Patience, Understanding and TRUST ang kelangan mo if you want your relationship to last and of course money. In my case dun sa thera loves ko walang money involved kami just pure relationship I just pay for our simple dinner, pag lumabas kami un lang. Just rememeber the initials PUT (Patience Understanding Trust ).

[Hanma Baki]

Karamihan sa dahilan ng GM kung bakit di masabi na totoong love ka ni thera ay dahil involve ang pera.

Pano kung ayaw ka pagbayarin at libre ka lagi kay thera tuwing pumupunta ka at entrance lang binabayaran mo.

Siguro naman love na talaga yun.

Nakwento lang sakin ng isang thera na kilala ko na yung kasama niyang ex thera daw dati libre lagi yung GM/BF pagpumupunta.

Siguro naman isa sa hint yun na love ka na talaga ni thera din.

Edited November 10, 2018 by Hanma Baki

[CardingTigas]

Karamihan sa dahilan ng GM kung bakit di masabi na totoong love ka ni thera ay dahil involve ang pera.

Pano kung ayaw ka pagbayarin at libre ka lagi kay thera tuwing pumupunta ka at entrance lang binabayaran mo.

Siguro naman love na talaga yun.

Nakwento lang sakin ng isang thera na kilala ko na yung kasama niyang ex thera daw dati libre lagi yung GM/BF pagpumupunta.

Siguro naman isa sa hint yun na love ka na talaga ni thera din.

Malamang marketing strategy yan, f#&k now pay later scheme, build up ng PR si thera, tapos pag medyo na fall na si GM dun lalabas yun may sakit ang tatay hanggang sa pamangkin nya, mga bayarin na utilities na eventually si GM na ang sasalo pag na guilt trip, in short it's a trap...and besides, free sex is the most expensive sex...