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I should be the one asking you! I think just be respectful, kind, and good at eating her hahahah

 

Eh di kapag sinabi ko haha..

Hindi na siya secret..😅

Mag-kakaidea pa mga inlababong GMs dyan.

Hahahaha..

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Matanong lang..

May pananagutan din ba ang therapist sa mga GMs na nafall sa kanya?

Actually magandang tanong yan... pero for me it all depends...
if si thera is just doing her job as a thera... magalang at ginawa lng nyang nararapat na services required sa kanya bilang therapist then ma fall si GM... I'd say wala syang pananagutan... she's just doing her job... as expected...
Pero kung si thera bukod sa nabangit ko na... eh...may extra effort meaning nagbigay din false impression about sa hidden feelings ni GM sa thera, like extra sweet( over the top GFE), over friendliness and etc....lalo na kung aware nmn si thera na may something na si GM sa kanya..... and worse took advantage pa...I'd say may pananagutan si thera... its not right to play someone's feelings..... inside or outside Spa... its not right and not fair... I should know... been there .......too bad ako yung sa side ng na fall na GM..... actually fresh na fresh pa talga kasi kagabi ko lng na nalaman na si thera is actually pregnant with someone else after months of Us being sweet together... marami pang unanswered na mga tanong, hopefully to this over and done with.... naisip ko na nga mag sulat na ng libro na and title..."How Not to Fall In Love with your Therapist" Vol 1 and 2 :P agad kasi 2x nangyari sa akin, pero matigas pa rin ulo ko.... :unsure:
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Actually magandang tanong yan... pero for me it all depends...
if si thera is just doing her job as a thera... magalang at ginawa lng nyang nararapat na services required sa kanya bilang therapist then ma fall si GM... I'd say wala syang pananagutan... she's just doing her job... as expected...
Pero kung si thera bukod sa nabangit ko na... eh...may extra effort meaning nagbigay din false impression about sa hidden feelings ni GM sa thera, like extra sweet( over the top GFE), over friendliness and etc....lalo na kung aware nmn si thera na may something na si GM sa kanya..... and worse took advantage pa...I'd say may pananagutan si thera... its not right to play someone's feelings..... inside or outside Spa... its not right and not fair... I should know... been there .......too bad ako yung sa side ng na fall na GM..... actually fresh na fresh pa talga kasi kagabi ko lng na nalaman na si thera is actually pregnant with someone else after months of Us being sweet together... marami pang unanswered na mga tanong, hopefully to this over and done with.... naisip ko na nga mag sulat na ng libro na and title..."How Not to Fall In Love with your Therapist" Vol 1 and 2 :P agad kasi 2x nangyari sa akin, pero matigas pa rin ulo ko.... :unsure:

 

abangan ko yang Book na yan bro...lol :D

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Matanong lang..

May pananagutan din ba ang therapist sa mga GMs na nafall sa kanya?

 

Anyare kay Keiji? :huh:

 

Anyway, IMHO hindi. Kasi kasama sa trabaho yung paglalambing, yung pang-aakit. Kumbaga, for the hour or hour and a half, as a GM you can suspend your disbelief and get lost in the moment. Pero once it's done, back to reality na. That's on the GM, not the thera.

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Guys help me. I'm suffering now in a depression. I keep on loving a therapist which is one of the top thera here in the MTC. She's pretty, malambing, jolly, and an intelligent woman,may asawa akong tao I know that pero nasa stage na kami ng annulment gusto ko si thera I see my future to her hindi ko na nagagawa ng maayos ang trabaho ko because of her. I always texting her pero di na sya gaya ng dati na madalas mag reply siguro lagi syang busy I understand pero parang iniiiwasan nya ko. Hindi ko naman siya ma book kasi lagi syang fully booked. Gusto ko siyang bigyan ng magandang buhay at alisin sa spa industry pero I feel ayaw niya kasi sanay syang maging independent. Minsan nga tinatanong ko sya bakit sya ng thethera eh mayaman naman family niya. Papano ko ba sya susuyuin at liligawan kung feeling ko na offend ko sya sa mga offer ko nung una. Mahal na mahal ko sya at handa na ko magpaka lalaki at bumuo ng pamilya kasama sya pero paano.

 

Friendly advice: see the annulment through first. I've seen enough annulment proceedings, both professionally and at arms' length, to know how bloody those can get, kahit gaano ka-amicable yung paghihiwalay. If you truly care for this thera, and if you really believe you can see a future together, then IMHO you owe it to her to make sure your house is in order before you invite her in.

 

But more to point: does the thera feel the same way about you? You see a future with her, but does she share in that vision?

 

Basing on just what you wrote, you said you offered to take her out of the spa industry and give her a good life, and you wonder why she's in the industry when her family is wealthy. But you also acknowledge that she's the independent type who's used to doing things on her own. Doesn't that last bit answer your questions? Have you considered that she may have her own reasons for being in the spa industry despite supposedly coming from a wealthy family, and that those reasons might have nothing to do with money? And if money isn't her motivation to be in the spa industry, then why would money entice her to leave?

 

I don't doubt that you have strong feelings for this thera. Halata naman from what you wrote. But IMHO you should consider taking a step back and really evaluate what you feel. Is it love? Or as Keiji quoted earlier, baka intense infatuation lang?

 

As GMs, it is our privilege that we can suspend our disbelief for the duration of the spa session, and accept that within the four corners of the massage room, only you and the thera matter, nothing else. But that suspension of disbelief ends the moment you leave that room. Keeping your disbelief suspended beyond the spa room will cloud your judgment.

 

Love should illuminate, not cast a shadow. Guide, not confuse. Warm your heart, not beat you into depression. Siguro, keep these in mind while you think about how to go about your feelings.

Her account was upgraded.

 

Ah okay, thanks!

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Sir ito lang po ang masasabi ko...

Yang babaeng sinasabi mo i know her she's very honest lalo na sa nararamdaman nya kung talagang iniiwasan ka nya or busy lang sya hayaan mo muna sya baka may problema lang din syang pinagdadaanan

Marunong syang magmahal at hindi nya kailangan ng kahit na anong offer pa.. She can love without any exchange. Ipakita mo sa kanya how sincere u are. At hayaan mo na sya mismo ang makakita ng mga effort mo later on mapapansin nya din yan focus muna kayo sa mga career nyo.

Your right sir...

Pero madaming mali at hindi totoo sa mga sinabi mo.. Kahit anong offer mo ng heart and soul mo kung at the end of the day sinaktan mo. Lang din sya wala ding kwenta... Had you loved a therapist? Had u offered ur heart to her? Had u offered ur soul? Did she demand on you? Did she ask u an exchange? Sobra magmahal ang mga therapist minsan sa paraang mali at wala ng natitira sa kanila....

Maybe you respect her pero nirespeto mo ba ang feelings nya nung panahong iniwan mo sya at ni let go mo sya.. I know a girl that fall for u sir but u didn't give her a chance na ipakita sayo na kaya nya lahat tiisin...

Sa mga nagsasabing nagmamahal sila kay Mavic 2.0, basahin ng paulit-ulit at isapuso ang inilahad ni Ms. Mavic mismo.

 

Instead na nag iisip kayo ng mga kung anu-anong efforts, eto na nga sinasabi na sa inyo.

 

True love listens with the heart.

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Dapat yata have hindi had... Hehehe... Joke lang.

 

Well, I understand full well how miss mavic 2.0 feels. I mean there are really times when your life is doing good, you dont have much but you are contented. However, alam mo ung kanta ma love moves in mysterious ways. Sombody comes along at aalugin ka, and ma discover mo na, pwede pla akong ma in love, pwede pla akong kiligin, pwede pla akong maging parang bata, parang teenager na makaka feel ulit ng parang first love... Hindi man sya ang para syo, naging bitter man ang experince mo, e natuto ka nmn sa pangyayari. Nakaramdam ka nmn ulit na tumibok ung puso mo, ng inspiration. Baka naman yun lang ang naging purpose ng minahal mo. Ang maging inspiration mo. Kaya kay Mr. GM, patience lng, kung mahal mo cya talaga, sabihin mo sa kanya, andito ka ngyn, at andito ka pa dn bukas, naghihintay lng sa kung kailan ka nya pag bubuksan.

Kay miss thera naman, you should be honest, kung mahal mo man cya o hindi, if you find it in your heart to love him, or have mercy (mercy kasi parang awa mo na), you should be honest with him. If you care enough for him, for hia feelings maging honest ka sa kanya, wag kang magtago ng kahit na ano. Trust me, if you are honest with him there is no way you can hurt him. Kung hindi mo talaga cya kayang mahalin, kung hindi mo talaga makita na mamahalin mo dn cya, then tell him exactly that. Kung kailangan mo lng ng time, ng space, then tell him exactly that. I assure you, that is way better than paasahin mo cya or mag sabi ng kasinungalingan para lang pag bigyan cya.

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Matanong lang..

May pananagutan din ba ang therapist sa mga GMs na nafall sa kanya?

meron kung paasa sya at umuubos ng kaban ng bayan haha

 

mahirap talaga yan kapag first time mong sumubok sa spa

 

tsaka gamble yan sometimes you win (1% chance) and definitely you will lose at the end

 

kaya pag mahina puson mo este puso pala wag mong tangkain pumasok ng spa

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