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Kung na inlove ka sa thera at alam mong gustong gusto mo siya pero nahihirapan ka dahil sa status ng work niya advice ko tulungan mo maghanap ng ibang work na same income yet decent...

If kung ayaw niya lumipat at gusto niya mag stay sa work na to well wag mo na ituloy dahil kahit sabihin mong open minded ka at liberated ka masasaktan at masasaktan ka lang...

 

I'm sorry, but I beg to disagree. Kung may isang guy na sinasabi nyang open-minded sya pero meron pa din syang inhibitions then he's a hypocrite.

 

Nagkaroon ako ng GF dati, galing syang Club, which is fine since open naman ako sa sitwasyon. Alam ko sa sarili ko kung ano itong pinasok ko and the risk involved with it and obvious naman na "DAPAT" ko 'to tanggapin since pumasok ako sa mundo nya dahil mahal ko sya.

 

Hindi ako yung tipong naghihigpit or whatsoever. Kung ano trip nyang gawin pinaguusapan namin since gusto kong ipadama sa kanya na concerned ako at susuportahan ko sya no matter what. Ang sa akin lang, dapat open kami sa isa't-isa yung tipong walang tinatago para alam namin kung ano yung gagawin to address the situation at mag-benefit kaming dalawa sa outcome.

 

Everyday lagi kami nagkukumustahan on how her day and my day went. Lagi nyang kwento yung mga iba't-ibang clients nya. Siempre kinukwento din nya yung mga guest nya na ginigimik sya and in full detail pa which is fine by me since part yun ng work nya as a GRO. Ang lagi ko lang sinasabi sa kanya is practice safe sex and be very vigilant.

 

In the end, hindi rin kami yung nagkatuluyan. Masyado daw akong mabait at natatakot daw sya. :D

 

Anyway, I'm thankful to her for that experience since madami akong natutunan sa relationship. Learning curve to sa akin on how to handle situations na hindi normal at kung paano gagawan ng solusyon to benefit both parties.

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Yes nasasaktan mo talaga cya lalo na pag may nagpost ng fr o nag kwento ka sa kanya ginawa ninyo ng client mo; i see it in his eyes ; kahit all smiles pa rin cya at sinasabi nya lagi "importante yung satin iba yung work mo" Nakikita ko yung pain nya; yung pag nag kwento ka then nag tight hawak sa kamay mo; or yung slight teary eyes; nakaka kuncencya; may time na hindi ako nag kuha ng client kasi natutulungan nya ako; pero mas maganda talaga maka lipat ka ng ibang work kahit maliit sweldo alam mo hindi cya magseselos at masasaktan; pero yun lang for me; iba iba sitwasyon namin; hope makatulong sa iba dyan

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Well being open minded has its limits and if you really love a person masasaktan ka dahil kung hindi ka nasasaktan hindi love yun...

And beside that if you really love and care for that person diba dapat you have to help improve her life...

Hindi yung kung baga nakita mo siya sa putikan hahayaan mo nalang siya dun dahil dun mo siya nakilala...

Yun ang sakin...

I would have to agree, but we have to put into consideration baka naman hindi kaya ni sir na supportahan c thera (tingin ko lang, kasi kung kaya mo naman supportahan and willing ka, bkt mo nmn hindi aalukin na tumigil sya, hindi nga love yun) . If thats the case e wala ka talaga magawa dn... Not taking away anything pro it does not mean na GRO e hindi gagawin ung ginagawa nya sa spa, there is still that possibility. Kaya kung gusto ni girl na gumawa e hindi mo sya talaga mapipigil... Well bantayan mo ng man to man defense kung gusto mo na sureball syang honest... Kaya dun naman ako agree kay sir na trust and open lng dapat I suppose. Kasi kung hindi ka maniniwala sa kanya e walang mangyari dn.. Kung d mo tatanggapin ung circumstance wala dn mangyari, kung pababayaan mo lng na ganyan wala dn mangyari... I think it has to be two way, you want someone to save kailangan she will want to be saved dn... Just my opinion.

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Yes nasasaktan mo talaga cya lalo na pag may nagpost ng fr o nag kwento ka sa kanya ginawa ninyo ng client mo; i see it in his eyes ; kahit all smiles pa rin cya at sinasabi nya lagi "importante yung satin iba yung work mo" Nakikita ko yung pain nya; yung pag nag kwento ka then nag tight hawak sa kamay mo; or yung slight teary eyes; nakaka kuncencya; may time na hindi ako nag kuha ng client kasi natutulungan nya ako; pero mas maganda talaga maka lipat ka ng ibang work kahit maliit sweldo alam mo hindi cya magseselos at masasaktan; pero yun lang for me; iba iba sitwasyon namin; hope makatulong sa iba dyan

Everyone needs someone to save them. Hindi naman dahil na syo na ang lahat e ikaw lang ang savior. Minsan may mga taong dumarating para i save ka. It may be material or it may be emotional... Basta someone will come along at mag papa realize syo ng maraming bagay...

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Kung na inlove ka sa thera at alam mong gustong gusto mo siya pero nahihirapan ka dahil sa status ng work niya advice ko tulungan mo maghanap ng ibang work na same income yet decent...

If kung ayaw niya lumipat at gusto niya mag stay sa work na to well wag mo na ituloy dahil kahit sabihin mong open minded ka at liberated ka masasaktan at masasaktan ka lang...

tama brads. hindi ko nilalahat pero in my case my thera loves adopted the lifestyle. madali ang pera dito sa industriyang ito. moral?sa kanila trabaho nlng.pikit mata nlng ang mangyayari.sooner or later magkakaroon ito ng epekto sa relasyon. singkatibay nlng ng pagmamahalan dito. but right now im wearing down.

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I would have to agree, but we have to put into consideration baka naman hindi kaya ni sir na supportahan c thera (tingin ko lang, kasi kung kaya mo naman supportahan and willing ka, bkt mo nmn hindi aalukin na tumigil sya, hindi nga love yun) . If thats the case e wala ka talaga magawa dn... Not taking away anything pro it does not mean na GRO e hindi gagawin ung ginagawa nya sa spa, there is still that possibility. Kaya kung gusto ni girl na gumawa e hindi mo sya talaga mapipigil... Well bantayan mo ng man to man defense kung gusto mo na sureball syang honest... Kaya dun naman ako agree kay sir na trust and open lng dapat I suppose. Kasi kung hindi ka maniniwala sa kanya e walang mangyari dn.. Kung d mo tatanggapin ung circumstance wala dn mangyari, kung pababayaan mo lng na ganyan wala dn mangyari... I think it has to be two way, you want someone to save kailangan she will want to be saved dn... Just my opinion.

agree ako sir.in my case need na need ni thera ang work niya dahil para ko nrn syang pinatay kapag pinatigil ko sya sa trabaho nya breadwinner sya at may baby na.at mas malakas pa sya kumita kesa sakin.trust is very important kahit saang relasyon lalo na sa ganitong set up, nagkakilala din kami sa spa 1 year and 6 months na kami and things are getting pretty much serious. may usapan kami sa limitations nya sa trabaho but i guess it will never be enough sa simpleng usapang lang.gagawa at gagawa sila para kumita.(may mga bagay tlga tayo na di mapipigilan, ang ending e na sa atin kung tatanggapin nlng ntn o aalis na) mahirap din, sa kanila trabaho nila un they can say na i did it without the feeling of guilt na nagtaksil sila, in our case as bf if u love her u have to accept and understand. so i strongly agree na it has to be two way. give and take at maraming maraming pasensya. nasusubukan kami ng pagkakataon. u just cant make things stop right away. ang hirap. its not an overnight thing. at mukhang matagal tagal pa nyang gagawin ang pag thethera nya. and honestly im just going with the flow right now.basta ako tinutulungan ko ang sarili ko. at bahala na kung saan kami mapunta. -pasensya na sobrang gulo ng utak ko ngayon at emotion. sa mga ganitong pagkakataon kailangan mong maging matibay. strong enough to let go and strong enough to hold on. ang hirap tumimbang ng mga bagay. napakaraming kailangan i consider. hayyyyy.

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Depende yan sa ugali ng psp or thera; pero mahirap talaga tumigil kasi super easy money; saan ka ba kikita ng 10k a day enjoying it at the same time dba

true! well i can say nmn na may pinupuntahan ang kita ni gf ko sa ganyan. its just that ang dami nya inako na responsibilidad. ewan ko if she is taking advantage of the opportunity.pero minsan napapatanong nlng ako kailan kaya matatapos? e di nmn natatapos ang responsibilidad. hayyyy.ganyan nmn kayo kamahal but we have to constantly check our balls.

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Alam ko din sagot diyan...

They tasted the money that can be earned from this industry...

Malaki kita and easy money...

Mahirap talikuran talaga..

At hindi pa nila alam o hindi pa sila nakakakita ng work na kasing laki ng kinikita nila dito lalo na kung top thera siya ng spa establishment nila...

Well for my thera it all change the perception nung nagimpisa siya sa present work niya...

She earns 80k and up per cut off...

By the way she's a top thera ng spa na pinagtrabahuhan niya dati...

Ouch 80k, hahaha.. Well I think it goes back to if they want to be saved... E talagang kht san mo tgnan mas malaki tlga ang kita dun pero at the cost of what cyempre... Unless siguro maging artista cla or model or mag abroad, I dont think maka kita sila ng pays as well.. Pero really 80k per cut off no hanky panky? Wow.... Tumatangap ba sila ng lalaki dyn? Hehehehehe....

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Thats true. Pro bakit nga ba hindi ganun kadali? Baka nmn may sagot c miss shampoo at miss candice? :)

Lets do the math for psp normally 1 to 2 clients in a day lets say 4500 per client so less pamasahe at pagkain you can earn 8k a day

 

For thera pag max ba magkano 3k ba o 2500 sabihin natin 4 guests in a day easily 10k a day kita; kung bata ka pa at tamang L why not take advantage of it dba; tapos lilipat ka sa job na daily is 500 lang

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