Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[Tom Hiddleston]

Naalala ko na yung former thera, si Jambalaya. Retired na & di na active sa MTC. Yung mga kwento nya nasa MPA Perspective sa MP & MPA thread.

[Kingkongphils]

thanks for everyone's insights. really appreciate this site. Kingkongphils, yes, tama ka "maliban cguro sa ibang cases na sila lang ang inaasahan ng family nila." kasi si thera ko, siya talaga ang inaasahan.. Actually, gusto nya na umalis, parati siya nag aapply kung saan saan na mall as sales lady kaso hindi siya matanggap tanggap... minsan nabiro nya ko, sabi nya i-hire ko nalang siya sa isa sa mga store ko.. sabi ko kung pwede lang, kaso joint namen un ng wife ko ung mga businesses namen, hangga't hindi kami annulled I can't just take you in... tumawa lang siya saba'y kabig, joke lang ito naman... pero i felt her strong desire to leave the spa.. ayaw nya din yung ginagawa nya, minsan naiiyak siya saken... breaks my heart... feeling ko minsan kaya ayaw nya din i-entertain ako mashado dahil gusto niyang magkabalikan kami ng wife ko kasi sabi nya sayang kasal na kami.. mashado siyang mabait.. kaya ganun nalang ung pagkahinayang ko sa kanya.. she's too kind.. too loving.. too wonderful to deserve that kind of life.... napaka buti niyang tao.. halos ibigay na niya lahat ng income nya sa pamilya nya.. but there were times na nagmemessage siya asking me to come over.. minsan nasabi nya pa sakin, punta daw ako dun wag na ko magbayad kahit sa lobby lang kami magusap.. whenever I visit her kasi I still pay at the front desk for a regular massage and still give her cash though we don't really do anything, we just talk.. i feel guilty taking her time at work and not give her money.. minsan pa i visited her, she didnt accept the money i gave.. kaya i dont know why suddenly she stopped communicating with me..

 

Pero yung ibang thera talagang alam mo na luho lang and just plain lack of effort.. ayaw nalang maghanap ng ibang trabaho.. dahilan nila un nalang ang nakasanayan nila na trabaho... i dont judge them nor their decision.. i just feel sorry for them.. when they hit 30, what will they do if no one avails them anymore? put a low ball price tag on their dignity?

Just playing devil's advocate, baka naman you are reading into it too much. You are going through annulment bka naman you are very vulnerable na you think too much, or your just being too hopeless romantic, longing for companionship. Baka kaya din lumayo na si thera she would not feel right taking advantage of you.

 

Realistically bro, some theras kung wala din lang extra service they too would like somebody to talk to. Yung hindi lang puro kabastusan at kababuyan ang lumalabas sa bibig ng GM. If you really give all of them the chance a lot of them masayang kasama outside the spa. Meron dn naman oportinista. May regular ako dati would always invite me na kumain minsan bago cya pumasok or minsan bago umuwi. She would like it na hati kami pero cyempre kakahiya naman kung hahati pa kmi kaya always libre un. e masaya lang daw ako kasama, actually pag may extra ako, I ask her to bring some of her friends along and masya silang kasama promise, para kang nakikinig ng teleserye pag naguusap sila, may action, comedy at drama.

 

Meron din naman ako na thera na madrama naman sobra ang buhay, Nagbibigay ako ng pera just to help, kaso minsan parang gusto mong sabihin parang hinid ka nauubusan ng problema na nangangailangan ng pera ano... hahahahahahahaa....

 

Just protect yourself. I am sure vulnerable ko. I started a regular of spakoling when I partef ways with my EX gf for the longest time, and mas lalo tumindi nung kinasal cya year after. she coped by marrying the first guy na nanligaw sa kanya after me, I coped looking for someone sa spa... (real talk sinong chick ba naman ang gusto mag hang out syo kung puro EX mo ang kwneto mo). I could just imagine lalo ka na e, kasal kyo... So just take it easy , just enjoy her company no matter what it is. Baka nman kaya din cya lumayo kasi probably your getting too intimate or too close na. easy lang dn bro...

Edited April 7, 2018 by Kingkongphils

[Kingkongphils]

Idol bat lagi ka ngang devils advocate.. any advice sa mga tulad ko na naghahabol na ng 12 years. Oh baka naman punishment yun sakin. Kung pagbigyan lang ako ng ex ko na magkabalikan kami titigil nako sa chicks di na madadagdagan 758 na nadali ko.

Ikaw pa idol mag kakaproblema sa chicks, pag puti ng uwak.. Hehe.. E ung butal sa /00 mo kulang pa sa nasex ko e hahaha.. Paid and unpaid, hehehe...

12 years idol, matanda na un.. D na nag wewet yun... Hahahaha.... Palitan mo na ng bago, hehe... Dapat syo idol mga mgt tinetake home mo, mamili ka lng ng isa o dalawa, wag palipat lipat para mabura mo ung 12 years mo hahaha...

May tropa ako since elementary high roller dn, high school plng kmi kung san san na kmi dinadala, ung balat ng condom nya iniipon nya hahaha... I swear ung isang baldeng kalibugan na ikakalat sana sa sangkatuhan e natapon sa kanya, hahaha... Pero sa dami ng magagandang tinira nya, he still ended up with a girl na kartada kwatro... Hehehe... Well if your serious, makakahanap ka dn ng katapat mo idol, hahaha.. Lalo na ang weakness mo e ung mga alpha female ang datingan... Haha.. Tamang babatuhin ka ng kaldero pag umuwi ka ng late at amoy spakol... 😁

[Mr Smiley]

better yet if you fell in love sa thera just read advices here.... go for the ninja moves don’t share madami gm

 

..??? Maninira di kaya ng mga Ego nila na nalalamangan mo less talk less mistake

At kung di mo naman mahal thera wag muna pasukan gugulo lang buhay nya.

Be human..

 

At kung di mo love at gusto mo lang give her the resources queens ransom tips to the point..

Nagsawa kana nagbago naman buhay nya sa mga tips mo. Practical di ba.

better yet if you fell in love sa thera just read advices here.... go for the ninja moves don’t share madami gm

 

..??? Maninira di kaya ng mga Ego nila na nalalamangan mo less talk less mistake

At kung di mo naman mahal thera wag muna pasukan gugulo lang buhay nya.

Be human..

 

At kung di mo love at gusto mo lang give her the resources queens ransom tips to the point..

Nagsawa kana nagbago naman buhay nya sa mga tips mo. Practical di ba.

[kilroy*was*here]

From another perspective naman, kung malaman ko na may BF o asawa ang isang thera, hindi ko na kinukuha. It's not a jealousy thing for me, since I don't expect emotional involvement, much less commitment from a thera. But it's not unrealistic to expect that the best of her is reserved for her life partner. Kahit ba spa lang yon, I still believe whatever goes on in the rooms are intimate acts. Pag merong BF si thera, merong sense na hanggang dito ka lang, merong detachment. Kung sa akin lang, mas maluwag kung libre siya. Peace!

[dakilangninja]

Falling in love for a therapist....akala ko dati sa movie o sa pocketbooks lng ngyayari yan...pro mali pala ako...pde mo palang mahalin tlg ang isang thera...at first sinakyan ko lng...ung trip nya...khit alam ko...isa tlga sa mga skills nila ay dpat magaling silang mglambing o mambola... khit lam ko sa sarili ko na imposible na sa akin lng sya daw ngpapa atw...of kurs mhirap paniwalaan...nuru massage...imposible d ba...pro sinakyan ko...literal...hehehe ..first time eh..at sya pa lng tlg ung sinakyan. Takot kc tyu mgksakit...eh...kya contento n tlg ako..sa gfe..to hj..lng...wala kasi kming pinag uusapan na amount...khit mgkno lng ibigay ko...minsan pa nga utang pa eh..just to test kng totoo ung sinsbi nya skin na...kc...di ba ano ibg sbhin nung sau lng ngppa atw...pra skin may feelings..at never nman ngcocomplain...at dumating sa point tlg ...na na inlove na tlg ako.....khit n nlaman ko sa co gms. .na nagpapa atw rin tlg sya...kpg ntipuhan nya ung guest...in short...strategy tlg un....pro i respect her so much pa rin...ano magagawa ntin diskarte nya un eh..survival of the fittest eh....ngkaproblema lng kmi ng she ask for help...ung magpapadala ba ng pera....ngbgay cya ng name..kng san at knino ko ipapadala...i ash kng cnu un...sbi nya sa kamag anak nya raw...pro di nya alam n ni research ko n tlg ung real name...nya..ung pagkatao nya...kc mrmi nmang way pra mlman un...lalo n sa line of work ko....dun ko narealize...ah ngkakalokohan na....at syempre pinagtalunan nmin at nging dhilan ng pgkwala ng communication...then a week after...in relationship na cya...hehehe...masakit...pro mabilis din mkmove on ..dhil alm mo...na mgsesettle n cya for gud. .atleast sa isang guy n lng...so masaya na rin ako pra sa knyw.. thats wat love for d ba..kng saan liligaya ung taong mahal ko...so be it...khit d man ikaw ung mkkpgbgay nun...then 3 mos.. after bumalik cya sa spa industry..and then mga 3 mos uli..nagpramadam cya...nangamusta.. ako nman..namiss ko eh ..dinalaw ko.. just to test na rin kng ano ung mararamdaman ko..ung una ...nakkabinging kthimikan..d na ung katulad ng dati....pro d pa rin me nkuntento..binalikan ko on the next day...no massage at all...at mahaba n ung kwentuhan....at sa mga kwentuhan na yun may di sya sinasadya na masabi..na ngmarka skin....na tama pla lhat ng nababasa ko dito....pro atleast ...may ntutunan...ako .....nlaman ko ung real meaning ng unconditional love.. .mas mbilis n ko makkamove ngyun....at finally .. sbi ko sa srili....the feelings is gone....if u will ask me kng maiinlove ulit ako sa isang therapist..yes of kurs...hehehe.

[Mr.Bing]

Still looking for that...

[Loganz]

nope. it's dangerous.

[madatoxxx]

Ang hirap ng ganto realtalk. Naexperience ko na hahahahha fudge

[whateverfool!]

Finally!I f had the chance to experience going to a spa.The experience was okay and the therapist I got was one of the best in the industry.Great massage and great after service skills.She made me feel like I was her boyfriend for an hour.Many clients attest na na-in love talaga sila sa kanya. Karamihan gusto siyang ligawan.I don’t blame them.Napansin ko lang na it’s all an ‘act’ and part of their usual routine. I pity her because all day, she had to put on a mask to satisfy her clients. Kasi pagtapos ko, tabun din treatment niya sa summons sa akin.If ever you decide to fall hard on your thera, just be ready to bear the consequences. Baka pwede naman magmahalan na lang kayo sa loob ng cubicle ng ilang oras pero pagkatapos nun,friends na lang siguro muna kayo.Practical din kasi sila so wag na natin gawin complicated.

[spartansprint]

there are 3 things ive learned in this industry:

 

1. we need to Respect one another- GM to Thera and vice versa. equal rights lang👍

 

2. Manage expectation - Not all Thera can provide the same services. It all boils down to GM's Personality, Character, and hygiene 😁 pwede nyo pa dagdagan.. hehehe

 

3. Make Good Memories not Love,Love, Love Relationship para less complicated.. Happy and enjoy lang.😊 huwag din awayin ang mga Thera - mahirap din ang kalagayan nila db?

 

pacencya na mga GM's medyo "out of the Topic" hehehehe

[Mr.Bing]

Let me put it this way, It's like the buttons on the calculator that you don't push

[Kingkongphils]

Let me put it this way, It's like the buttons on the calculator that you don't push

Very nice analogy.. However.... When you know why or what is the function of that button, it may be wow, or a okey... 😁

[10speed]

Loyal ako sa thera ko. Siya lang.

[IgniT1on]

Siguro medyo OT ako haha but who experience "First therapist you ever with, never dies?" I remember my first spa therapist, still remember that session until now gusto ko ulit maulit yung session namin, yun nga lang di na siya active sa spa kapag tinatanong ko sa thread. hehe

Edited April 16, 2018 by Romant1co