Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[Kaleidoscope14]

Wouldn't it be funny if all of the guys here (or at least a couple of em) fell for the same thera? Nakakacurious sino tuloy mga thera na yan.

[King Koopa]

Wouldn't it be funny if all of the guys here (or at least a couple of em) fell for the same thera? Nakakacurious sino tuloy mga thera na yan.

 

Comedy nga yun bro pero feel ko hindi naman.

[d i e g o]

my favorite mistake

[rontan2014]

I'm in love with a thera, but there are circumstances that forbids us to be together.. Tanggap ko siya at mahal ko siya... i told her that she is very special to me... sent her gifts, flowers, went to the her spa to do nothing but talk to her and just gaze at her (promise wala kaming ginagawa natunaw lang ako sa titig nya but I give her money still every time I visit her.. )... but i never told her yet that I Iove her dahil alam ko namang hindi pwede.... I have never been to any other spa or mp.. I am also not a regular spa goer... i visit this site mainly to check her.. first and most likely last thera ko na siya.... it breaks my heart to read FRs about her, parang dinudurog yung puso ko pagnababasa ko ung mga FR... sa ngayon, i stopped communicating with her... 15 days na kami hindi naguusap sa FB... nakakalungkot lang kasi hindi niya ko kinakamusta.. it made me feel like she was just being nice to me because its her job.... saklap... i am well educated.. i came from a prestigious school and took a career which only a few can ever afford... i am financially stable.. lahat ng naging GFs ko were her opposite.. lahat ng GFs ko were aggressive and sophisticated as our profession requires... but there is something about this thera which made me fall head over heels... I feel like she's my damsel in distress and I'm her knight in shining armor... kaso mukang high paying client in a nice car lang ang tingin niya sakin.... i'm not ugly, pero hindi din naman ako artistahin.. i've had 5 GFs.. hindi din naman ako DOM, I'm only 30yrs old... saklap...

You're only 30 so you're still in good shape. Charge to experience lahat yan. Ang masaklap nasa 70 ka na, na-iinlove ka pa rin sa isang thera at nag-mumukhang tanga.

 

Kung kasalan pinag-uusapan, divorce law = marriage. Kung walang pang divorce law, wag muna papakasal.

 

Golden Rule: Take the plunge with both eyes wide open.

[kenshinhimura]

I'm in love with a thera, but there are circumstances that forbids us to be together.. Tanggap ko siya at mahal ko siya... i told her that she is very special to me... sent her gifts, flowers, went to the her spa to do nothing but talk to her and just gaze at her (promise wala kaming ginagawa natunaw lang ako sa titig nya but I give her money still every time I visit her.. )... but i never told her yet that I Iove her dahil alam ko namang hindi pwede.... I have never been to any other spa or mp.. I am also not a regular spa goer... i visit this site mainly to check her.. first and most likely last thera ko na siya.... it breaks my heart to read FRs about her, parang dinudurog yung puso ko pagnababasa ko ung mga FR... sa ngayon, i stopped communicating with her... 15 days na kami hindi naguusap sa FB... nakakalungkot lang kasi hindi niya ko kinakamusta.. it made me feel like she was just being nice to me because its her job.... saklap... i am well educated.. i came from a prestigious school and took a career which only a few can ever afford... i am financially stable.. lahat ng naging GFs ko were her opposite.. lahat ng GFs ko were aggressive and sophisticated as our profession requires... but there is something about this thera which made me fall head over heels... I feel like she's my damsel in distress and I'm her knight in shining armor... kaso mukang high paying client in a nice car lang ang tingin niya sakin.... i'm not ugly, pero hindi din naman ako artistahin.. i've had 5 GFs.. hindi din naman ako DOM, I'm only 30yrs old... saklap...

 

bro oks lang yan... pero if mahal mo talaga yung girl kauspin mo sya ng masinsinan.kung parehas kayo ng nararamdaman , aba jackpot kung hindi move on... sbi mo tanggap mo lahat sa kanya pati ba nature ng work nya? handa ka na ba sa mga posibleng mangyayari? IF you and her have the same feelings then why not get her out the industry if you're really decided... I had same situation before... but sadly it didn't work out... my fault... but who knows.. it might be a different story for you ... cheers !!!

[japanboy]

Wow

[Diluc30]

kung may YMMV dapat sa ganitong situation...YHMV...YOUR HEART MAY VARY...patigasan at patibayan ng puso. hehe

[Tom Hiddleston]

This is not OT, I want to share something I read from a blog by a former thera about clients & theras. I just need to know first. How much does a thera earn a day?

Edited April 5, 2018 by Tom Hiddleston

[spartansprint]

Min TIP P500 @ 8-10 hours service a day.

500x10= 5,000 (mataas pa sa VP ng isang Firm) hehehehe

[Kingkongphils]

nako wag kang tumulad sakin more than 10 years na kaming paikot ikot. If ako sayu. Any given chance talagang gusto mo at me pera ka. Nobody is stopping you go for it go for her. Problema lang be ready to face the music iba buhay ng mga yan wala satisfaction. Coz me scar sila at lamat emotionally mahirap sila pakisamahan kaya be prepare bro.

Tama ka dyn idol pati words mo. Generally wala sila satisfaction. Lalo na kung top thera at wala silang personal limit. Kasi whatever you can give there is always someone who can give more. E alam nmn natin na in general dn ang mga babae e hindi alam ang gusto nila. At tama emotionally scared na dn sila. They tend to think na niloloko o binobola lng sila parati, kaya naka guard agad sila. Kaya correctness again na maging handa ka.

Kay idol mikebustos May nagsabi na masarap ang kape habang mainit, pero kung talagang mahal mo siya and I mean MAHAL mo siya, walang matigas na tinapay sa mainit na kape. Kahit anong tigas ng puso nya kung kaya mong isustain ang init lalambot dn yan.... Anyway nasasawsawan mo nmn ata... (hahaha... Joke lng sa last part, masyado seryoso e.. Hehehe)

[Kingkongphils]

This is not OT, I want to share something I read from a blog by a former thera about clients & theras. I just need to know first. How much does a thera earn a day?

Care to share boss.... Pati kung sino nagsulat or san?

 

Varying ung kita nila e. Minsan kasi madami minsan kht na pinaka malakas nila zero. Pero sa 1year nila kaya nila makakuha ng 100k easy, bka nga kht 1M. Kaso i hope i dont offend our thera friends pero easy come easy go dn kasi sila, and sad part is they only realize it kung kailan may edad na sila and no one wants to get them na. May mga may edad na andito pa dn pero either sobrang mahal na ng gastos nila sa katawan nila para lng patigin ang panahon.

 

Relating to the topic, kung ang purpose mo e ibigay kay lovely thera ang kita nya para tumigil na sya i dont think matatapatan mo yun. May GM nga will give as high as 40k para matikman lng, kaya kng kaya mo magbigay ng 40k weekly e good. Kaso e kung ganun nmn kalalim bulsa mo tambay ka nlng sa golds gym or fitness first may mga trainer at front desk silang panalo, good ol fashion ligaw ka lng kaya yun kht na mukha kang tinabla ng tadhana. Point is love should come full circle, kung gusto mo siyang tanggalin sa industry kailangan gusto dn nyang umalis...

 

Hehehe.. OT sa tanong mo idol pero okey lng OT dn nmn ung tanong mo e, hehehe..

[Tom Hiddleston]

Meron kasi kwento noon, yung GM, na inlove sa thera at vice versa din naman. Nag live in sila at umalis na rin si thera ng Spa. Nagulat si GM nung may nagsabi na sumasideline ulit si thera. Yun pala, di ni GM matapatan ang kita ni thera (5k x 6 x4 x12 = P360k/ year) kaya bumalik kasi kailangan ng pera.

 

Yung former thera dito rin sa MTC, matagal na, di ko na maalala pangalan.

[Kingkongphils]

Meron kasi kwento noon, yung GM, na inlove sa thera at vice versa din naman. Nag live in sila at umalis na rin si thera ng Spa. Nagulat si GM nung may nagsabi na sumasideline ulit si thera. Yun pala, di ni GM matapatan ang kita ni thera (5k x 6 x4 x12 = P360k/ year) kaya bumalik kasi kailangan ng pera.

 

Yung former thera dito rin sa MTC, matagal na, di ko na maalala pangalan.

yun na nga yun... Kailangan din gusto din nyang umalis hindi lang ung GM. Otherwise e tanggapin na ni GM ang kapalaran nya. Sabi nga ni Winter Soldier, wala silang satisfaction. Well hindi naman siguro lahat ng thera, but I think in general, maliban cguro sa ibang cases na sila lang ang inaasahan ng family nila. sa case ng GM, ikaw lang makakapag sabi kung tatanggapin mo talaga si thera. Kahit magulang mo na nag luwal at nag alaga syo, hindi nila masasbi kung ano makakapag paligaya syo. Sa case n thera. siya lang din ang makakapag sabi kung handa na nuyang talikuran ang dating buhay nya o hindi. Pwedeng magkatugma kyo ng decision, pwedeng hindi, pero ganun talaga ang mag mahal.

[Kaleidoscope14]

Wish you all the luck, man. Go and make yourself happy.

[mikebustos]

thanks for everyone's insights. really appreciate this site. Kingkongphils, yes, tama ka "maliban cguro sa ibang cases na sila lang ang inaasahan ng family nila." kasi si thera ko, siya talaga ang inaasahan.. Actually, gusto nya na umalis, parati siya nag aapply kung saan saan na mall as sales lady kaso hindi siya matanggap tanggap... minsan nabiro nya ko, sabi nya i-hire ko nalang siya sa isa sa mga store ko.. sabi ko kung pwede lang, kaso joint namen un ng wife ko ung mga businesses namen, hangga't hindi kami annulled I can't just take you in... tumawa lang siya saba'y kabig, joke lang ito naman... pero i felt her strong desire to leave the spa.. ayaw nya din yung ginagawa nya, minsan naiiyak siya saken... breaks my heart... feeling ko minsan kaya ayaw nya din i-entertain ako mashado dahil gusto niyang magkabalikan kami ng wife ko kasi sabi nya sayang kasal na kami.. mashado siyang mabait.. kaya ganun nalang ung pagkahinayang ko sa kanya.. she's too kind.. too loving.. too wonderful to deserve that kind of life.... napaka buti niyang tao.. halos ibigay na niya lahat ng income nya sa pamilya nya.. but there were times na nagmemessage siya asking me to come over.. minsan nasabi nya pa sakin, punta daw ako dun wag na ko magbayad kahit sa lobby lang kami magusap.. whenever I visit her kasi I still pay at the front desk for a regular massage and still give her cash though we don't really do anything, we just talk.. i feel guilty taking her time at work and not give her money.. minsan pa i visited her, she didnt accept the money i gave.. kaya i dont know why suddenly she stopped communicating with me..

 

Pero yung ibang thera talagang alam mo na luho lang and just plain lack of effort.. ayaw nalang maghanap ng ibang trabaho.. dahilan nila un nalang ang nakasanayan nila na trabaho... i dont judge them nor their decision.. i just feel sorry for them.. when they hit 30, what will they do if no one avails them anymore? put a low ball price tag on their dignity?

Edited April 6, 2018 by mikebustos