Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[D'Greyman]

For me, rule #2 does not make sense. Ano bang ginawa ng thera para hindi siya pwedeng ibigin? Goes the other way din, ano bang ginawa ng client para hindi makaranas ng love?

 

Coming from current experience, I would describe it simply as the thera and the client goes into a special relationship. The complication comes from how special is defined and verified. Sa side ng thera, kasama sa trabaho niya to make all her clients feel special. Wag na nating pare-parehas i-deny na ganun ang kalakaran. Kaya di mo rin masisisi si GM kung maging paranoid siya at feeling niya he is just being played. Pero ganun din naman sa side ng GM, how can the thera be assured of everything he says kung nasa ganito siyang bisyo? She knows how her clients think and what happens inside these cubicles, kaya di mo rin masisisi na maging paranoid siya at feeling din niya she is just being lied to.

 

If both of you find love in this situation, then good for you. Celebrate it, take care of it, but most of all respect it. Kung meron pa ring uncertainties - or in my case added layers of complications since we are both taken, it does not necessarily mean that you need to immediately close it off and k*ll your feelings. Continue to respect it - be clear with your intentions and agree on limits. Have an open mind and kung di kayo agree, accept it and let go. Dito na papasok yung enjoy from moment to moment. And hey, its never really love until you feel pained.

 

And to you Ms. R, kung alam mo lang kung paano na paikot-ikot at bumabalentong yung feelings ko para sayo. Heck, why am I even dedicating this to you eh baka di mo naman din mabasa haha. Pero just in case na mapadaan ka, I want you to know that you are always loved. Salamat sa tiwala (kahit na parang wala naman haha joke!) at sana wag ka muna magsawa.

Well said sir

[margarito23]

For me, rule #2 does not make sense. Ano bang ginawa ng thera para hindi siya pwedeng ibigin? Goes the other way din, ano bang ginawa ng client para hindi makaranas ng love?

Coming from current experience, I would describe it simply as the thera and the client goes into a special relationship. The complication comes from how special is defined and verified. Sa side ng thera, kasama sa trabaho niya to make all her clients feel special. Wag na nating pare-parehas i-deny na ganun ang kalakaran. Kaya di mo rin masisisi si GM kung maging paranoid siya at feeling niya he is just being played. Pero ganun din naman sa side ng GM, how can the thera be assured of everything he says kung nasa ganito siyang bisyo? She knows how her clients think and what happens inside these cubicles, kaya di mo rin masisisi na maging paranoid siya at feeling din niya she is just being lied to.

If both of you find love in this situation, then good for you. Celebrate it, take care of it, but most of all respect it. Kung meron pa ring uncertainties - or in my case added layers of complications since we are both taken, it does not necessarily mean that you need to immediately close it off and k*ll your feelings. Continue to respect it - be clear with your intentions and agree on limits. Have an open mind and kung di kayo agree, accept it and let go. Dito na papasok yung enjoy from moment to moment. And hey, its never really love until you feel pained.

And to you Ms. R, kung alam mo lang kung paano na paikot-ikot at bumabalentong yung feelings ko para sayo. Heck, why am I even dedicating this to you eh baka di mo naman din mabasa haha. Pero just in case na mapadaan ka, I want you to know that you are always loved. Salamat sa tiwala (kahit na parang wala naman haha joke!) at sana wag ka muna magsawa.

ganda. eloquent, from the heart, sincere.

[Okita Sougo]

Ang mahirap lang minsan, kapag magaling umakting ang thera. Yung alam nyang kaya kang paikut-ikutin sa palad nya. Na kaya lang nya ginagawa yun para dagdag kita. Hindi lahat ha, pero may mga ganyan talaga. Kaya ako I stay away na lang from theras na magaling daw sa GFE. At first lang nakakatuwa pero once you take a second look, it is all bullshit.

[chefcurry]

Ang mahirap lang minsan, kapag magaling umakting ang thera. Yung alam nyang kaya kang paikut-ikutin sa palad nya. Na kaya lang nya ginagawa yun para dagdag kita. Hindi lahat ha, pero may mga ganyan talaga. Kaya ako I stay away na lang from theras na magaling daw sa GFE. At first lang nakakatuwa pero once you take a second look, it is all bullshit.

mapapa GGWP ka na lang talaga minsan

[rontan2014]

Ang mahirap lang minsan, kapag magaling umakting ang thera. Yung alam nyang kaya kang paikut-ikutin sa palad nya. Na kaya lang nya ginagawa yun para dagdag kita. Hindi lahat ha, pero may mga ganyan talaga. Kaya ako I stay away na lang from theras na magaling daw sa GFE. At first lang nakakatuwa pero once you take a second look, it is all bullshit.

 

Eh di bigyan mo rin ng matinding BFE para patas ang laban.

 

If you think she's bullshitting, you're bullshitting her as well.

[philipsesar]

For me, rule #2 does not make sense. Ano bang ginawa ng thera para hindi siya pwedeng ibigin? Goes the other way din, ano bang ginawa ng client para hindi makaranas ng love?

 

Coming from current experience, I would describe it simply as the thera and the client goes into a special relationship. The complication comes from how special is defined and verified. Sa side ng thera, kasama sa trabaho niya to make all her clients feel special. Wag na nating pare-parehas i-deny na ganun ang kalakaran. Kaya di mo rin masisisi si GM kung maging paranoid siya at feeling niya he is just being played. Pero ganun din naman sa side ng GM, how can the thera be assured of everything he says kung nasa ganito siyang bisyo? She knows how her clients think and what happens inside these cubicles, kaya di mo rin masisisi na maging paranoid siya at feeling din niya she is just being lied to.

 

If both of you find love in this situation, then good for you. Celebrate it, take care of it, but most of all respect it. Kung meron pa ring uncertainties - or in my case added layers of complications since we are both taken, it does not necessarily mean that you need to immediately close it off and k*ll your feelings. Continue to respect it - be clear with your intentions and agree on limits. Have an open mind and kung di kayo agree, accept it and let go. Dito na papasok yung enjoy from moment to moment. And hey, its never really love until you feel pained.

 

And to you Ms. R, kung alam mo lang kung paano na paikot-ikot at bumabalentong yung feelings ko para sayo. Heck, why am I even dedicating this to you eh baka di mo naman din mabasa haha. Pero just in case na mapadaan ka, I want you to know that you are always loved. Salamat sa tiwala (kahit na parang wala naman haha joke!) at sana wag ka muna magsawa.

Sir, kung tanggap mo na hindi lang para sa iyo ang katawan niya, sana maisip mo rin na may dignidad ka bilang taong nagmamahal. Na may karapatan ka ring magdemand na sa iyo lang ibigay ang buong sarili niya -- isip, puso, at katawan. Kung true love nga yan, hanapan niyo ng paraan. Ikaw rin Sir, sana sa kanya mo lang binibigay ang buong sarili mo. Edited March 5, 2018 by philipsesar

[BlackHoleSun]

Sir, kung tanggap mo na hindi lang para sa iyo ang katawan niya, sana maisip mo rin na may dignidad ka bilang taong nagmamahal. Na may karapatan ka ring magdemand na sa iyo lang ibigay ang buong sarili niya -- isip, puso, at katawan. Kung true love nga yan, hanapan niyo ng paraan. Ikaw rin Sir, sana sa kanya mo lang binibigay ang buong sarili mo.

Agreed. Dito yung part kung saan magkakasundo kayo on bounds and limits. You can demand such a thing pero definitely it takes time at dapat pag-isipan mo talaga. The whole relationship bit is not as simple as 1 or 0, maraming gray area yan hehe. Pero di ako kokontra Sir, kung nasa ganung lebel kayo everything you have should be on the table.

[Drazzy]

Just know your limitations and what you are getting yourself into. You'll be fine.

[D'Greyman]

mapapa GGWP ka na lang talaga minsan

Mataas pa KDA nyan

[Chupapi Muñañio]

Tanong ko lang para sa mga thera..

Pano namin malalaman na totoo yung feelings niyo para samin kung inlove na kayo sa GM..

Ano ang mga hint na you are willing to be in relationship with us..

Edited March 17, 2018 by Thugsoulja6g

[spartansprint]

Good Morning!

IMHO, this will be the hardest thing you might get into. kasi wala kang control or assurance kung same kayo ng feelings ng Thera. para sa akin, Trabaho lang talaga ang ginagawa nila for us.

kaya mahirap pumunta sa SPA with GFE kapag lonely ka dahil it will create initial attraction tapos unti-unti na.

 

lagi natin iisipin na Trabaho lang at walang personalan. nandun tayo para mag relax and not to find love.. ganun din sila - nandun sila to earn money for their financial needs.

 

pero kung ma-inlove nga kayo sa isat-isat abah, e di wow! Destiny yun mga kapatid esp kung single ka.. hehehehe

[Kingkongphils]

Tanong ko lang para sa mga thera..

Pano namin malalaman na totoo yung feelings niyo para samin kung inlove na kayo sa GM..

Ano ang mga hint na you are willing to be in relationship with us..

I asked this many of times dito at sa mga kaibigan kong thera. I dont think they will answer this. Cguri just like any pagsuyo sa ibang babae e you just do what you feel, you cant really know if she loves you or not. Kasi nga naman what if she says gusto ka lagi kasama. Would an invitation mean she loves you. E ayaw nya naman sabihin syo na love ka niya kaya libre ka, and then dahil wala cya makuha syo she DOs another man, at ikaw naman ang magagalit sa kanya. So I think there is no real answer for this. Baka pag sumama na sya syo at talikuran ang work na ito tska mo masasabi na love ka nya but you have long ways to go my friend. You cant have your cake and eat it too.

[R i r i]

Tanong ko lang para sa mga thera..

Pano namin malalaman na totoo yung feelings niyo para samin kung inlove na kayo sa GM..

Ano ang mga hint na you are willing to be in relationship with us..

Hindi lahat showy so sa tingin ko, if she's willing to go out with u i mean for dates ba, then kung okay lang sakanya na wag pumasok just to be with you, pag madami siyang time magreply sayo.

[JegaJega]

Tanong ko lang para sa mga thera..

Pano namin malalaman na totoo yung feelings niyo para samin kung inlove na kayo sa GM..

Ano ang mga hint na you are willing to be in relationship with us..

 

I am not a Thera, taga-tira lang ako.

 

You will know that in-love na iyo si Thera if she goes out with you without any expectation of moneys.

 

You will know that in-love na sa iyo si Thera if she is the one supporting you financially.

[Kingkongphils]

Hindi lahat showy so sa tingin ko, if she's willing to go out with u i mean for dates ba, then kung okay lang sakanya na wag pumasok just to be with you, pag madami siyang time magreply sayo.

Is this true? Is this a theras perspective?