sisid69 Posted February 4, 2018 Share Posted February 4, 2018 Sabi nga nung isang poster, its a love at your own risk thing... But on hindsight loving is really a risk you take. Hindi nmn dahil regular na babae e hindi capable na lokohin ka. Yun nga lng mas marami ang sa thera.. So its a matter or perspective kung okey lng na regular chick high chance na isang lalaki ang sideline, thera very high chance na madami ang sideline. Its really about acceptance if you choose to love and moreso if you choose to be in a relationship.Well you are right. It is about taking the risk. But what about if you are already taking the risk but the girl is just enjoying the moment and you dont know if she is also serious about your relationship? Quite confusing, if she also loves you or not. Quote Link to comment
Kingkongphils Posted February 5, 2018 Share Posted February 5, 2018 (edited) Well you are right. It is about taking the risk. But what about if you are already taking the risk but the girl is just enjoying the moment and you dont know if she is also serious about your relationship? Quite confusing, if she also loves you or not.Kung strictly lokohan lang e lahat naman pwede manloko. A thera entertaining a guest as a guest, meaning usual na trabaho ng thera e another different story. Falls under this topic un. Kaya if you fear na lolokohin ka e of course ndyn un risk na yan, just like you risk na regular girl na lolokohin ka. Kung inaalala mo e kung totoo o hindi ung pakita ng thera syo, e thats your judgement call. Look for signs baka nmn sa 20 favors na hingi nya syo e isang small favor lng ang ibinigigay syo e mag taka ka na. Kaya my advise dont go looking for love, go looking for a good time, be a gentleman and treat her with respect, and have a good time then let the pieces fall where they go. Wag mo ibigay ang hindi mo handang ibigay.. NOTE handang ibigay, hindi kayang ibigay.... Edited February 5, 2018 by Kingkongphils Quote Link to comment
sisid69 Posted February 11, 2018 Share Posted February 11, 2018 What do hurt more? Knowing what she does with her client or not knowing at all? Quote Link to comment
Kingkongphils Posted February 11, 2018 Share Posted February 11, 2018 What do hurt more? Knowing what she does with her client or not knowing at all?Knowing what you did not know hurts more if you know what that means. Quote Link to comment
Enzo_Zobel Posted February 11, 2018 Share Posted February 11, 2018 Chill lang...happy happy lang! Quote Link to comment
sisid69 Posted February 11, 2018 Share Posted February 11, 2018 Knowing what you did not know hurts more if you know what that means.Yes I know what you mean sir,so how can I tell her to tell everything to me when she always get irritated or angry when i ask her to be honest to me Quote Link to comment
Kingkongphils Posted February 11, 2018 Share Posted February 11, 2018 Yes I know what you mean sir,so how can I tell her to tell everything to me when she always get irritated or angry when i ask her to be honest to meYun lang.. Well I am all for love or falling in love, pero you have to consider na hindi pa kyo mag asawa kaya d mo cya pwede pilitin to be honest. If she gets irritated and angry baka naman ikaw lang ang may pag tingin sa kanya at cya e you are no more than a client, and you are setting yourself up to a major heart break. If she does not categorically deny it e chances are ginagawa nya un es na un sa clients nya.It all goes back to acceptance. If it bothers you na wala ka nang ibang iniisip kundi yun e baka wag mo nlng ituloy ang nararamdaman mo. You have to learn to accept and trust her, IF you really LOVE her. Being honest is ones choice.Bata ka pa nmn ata, just chill lang, dont get to involved muna. Its hard trying to accept what is happening, but its the only way kung gusto mo na maging kayo. So weather you want her to be yours or palipas oras lng, acceptance should be there. Bsta sabhn mo lng sa kany kung ano gusto mo and let her decide. Because someday when you choose to go down this road, you will also have to make the choice if you can really accept her or not... Quote Link to comment
sisid69 Posted February 11, 2018 Share Posted February 11, 2018 Yun lang.. Well I am all for love or falling in love, pero you have to consider na hindi pa kyo mag asawa kaya d mo cya pwede pilitin to be honest. If she gets irritated and angry baka naman ikaw lang ang may pag tingin sa kanya at cya e you are no more than a client, and you are setting yourself up to a major heart break. If she does not categorically deny it e chances are ginagawa nya un es na un sa clients nya.It all goes back to acceptance. If it bothers you na wala ka nang ibang iniisip kundi yun e baka wag mo nlng ituloy ang nararamdaman mo. You have to learn to accept and trust her, IF you really LOVE her. Being honest is ones choice.Bata ka pa nmn ata, just chill lang, dont get to involved muna. Its hard trying to accept what is happening, but its the only way kung gusto mo na maging kayo. So weather you want her to be yours or palipas oras lng, acceptance should be there. Bsta sabhn mo lng sa kany kung ano gusto mo and let her decide. Because someday when you choose to go down this road, you will also have to make the choice if you can really accept her or not...Thank you sir,big help talaga ang advice mu..you're right sir,im still in mid 20s and im falling for a thera, we dont have a commitment to each other, mutual understanding only, i have her my time most of the time but for her arent. Maybe it's because she always with other guys whom she can talk to and get flirt with, yet i dont know if its only flirt or may something na.ang hirap pala talaga ng ganitong sacrifice,risk and difficulty to accept,i just want to give her a new life,away from this world,but she's not helping me.sana talaga kayanin ko pa to before i give up. Quote Link to comment
Kingkongphils Posted February 11, 2018 Share Posted February 11, 2018 Thank you sir,big help talaga ang advice mu..you're right sir,im still in mid 20s and im falling for a thera, we dont have a commitment to each other, mutual understanding only, i have her my time most of the time but for her arent. Maybe it's because she always with other guys whom she can talk to and get flirt with, yet i dont know if its only flirt or may something na.ang hirap pala talaga ng ganitong sacrifice,risk and difficulty to accept,i just want to give her a new life,away from this world,but she's not helping me.sana talaga kayanin ko pa to before i give up.No problem. Chill lang, batang bata, mid 20s, i am early 30s and i still consider myself young.... Hahaha... Kung madaming isda sa dagat mas madaming isda sa dagat ng isda... there are a lot girls out there and there are a lot more theras (kung mas natataypan mo sila). So if she does not help you help her, e easyhan mo na and start trying to let go. Para dn nmn regular relationship yan, sometimes they dont know what they have till its gone, But sometimes too they are happy when its gone.I am pretty sure she allows you to get other theras naman so why not try others. Think of it nlng na you have an open relationship hahaha.... Chill and rekax, its not a sin to fall for them, but its a sin to yourself kung pababayaan mo sarili mo. Quote Link to comment
Acevalentine Posted February 12, 2018 Share Posted February 12, 2018 Just be mentally and emotionally prepared. Your mind must be kept open. Quote Link to comment
sisid69 Posted February 12, 2018 Share Posted February 12, 2018 No problem. Chill lang, batang bata, mid 20s, i am early 30s and i still consider myself young.... Hahaha... Kung madaming isda sa dagat mas madaming isda sa dagat ng isda... there are a lot girls out there and there are a lot more theras (kung mas natataypan mo sila). So if she does not help you help her, e easyhan mo na and start trying to let go. Para dn nmn regular relationship yan, sometimes they dont know what they have till its gone, But sometimes too they are happy when its gone.I am pretty sure she allows you to get other theras naman so why not try others. Think of it nlng na you have an open relationship hahaha.... Chill and rekax, its not a sin to fall for them, but its a sin to yourself kung pababayaan mo sarili mo.Thank you again sir, parang ung song lang "hayaan mu sila,sige sige maglibang,ang problema sa babae ay hindi iniinda...." hahaha 1 Quote Link to comment
Rylie Posted February 12, 2018 Share Posted February 12, 2018 If i have learned anything, it is that acceptance, understanding, and a fresh untainted outlook on what's to come, matter most. If you cannot offer that, walk away because you may just end up wasting time or more if you are not a good judge of character. Quote Link to comment
rontan2014 Posted February 13, 2018 Share Posted February 13, 2018 Money first, emotions later. Siguradohin mo munang may pera ka, bago emosyon. Puno ka nga sa emosyon, hirap naman sa budget. Siguradong talo... Pa bisyo-bisyo, wala namang pambili. Quote Link to comment
Morty Posted February 13, 2018 Share Posted February 13, 2018 Before anything else. Make sure you greet your thera a Happy Valentines Day! 😁💘 Quote Link to comment
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