Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[Chuk123]

Mahirap talaga Yan. Test of love...

I think that's too late Kung nakadami na. Siguro Kung 1st year nyo palang.. anyway complicated talaga makipagrelasyon sa thera... Kung walang pera umiwas na.

 

i took her out..yung time na nagkita kami was her last time working in that spa...dumating lang siguro ako ng late kasi nauna yung pinsan ko na makuha sya and boy he was her regular..inlcuding his tropa which i think numbered into 15..all of them had more than one time session with her....di ko kaya eh sabihan ka ba naman...insan i had sex with your girl from this spa....and lahat ng tropa nya naservicesan na nya and thanks to the MTC FRs...why she was working there? i never get to ask..pero yug rason na nalaman ko sa bibig ng mga naservicesan nya ay iba iba, hirap sa buhay, sya nag susuporta, pang bayad sa utang ng pamilya nya..self supporting...iba iba eh and yung mga rason na yun ay hindi ko nakita or naitanong sa kanya sa loob ng limang taon na kami....

[paulwalking]

Ok na sana yung post ng isang romantiko dito medyo napa bilib ako sa banat, at sa pag tanggol sa pro thera GMs,kaso pag check ko sa profile at previous posts, naknambaka panay pala banat sa ibat ibang MP..plastic amp. Hahaha. Paka totoo ka bro muntik mo nako mapa bilib.

 

Anyway I've posted this before and I will post again, walang problema kung naulol ka sa thera mo at inibig mong tunay ok lang yun, wala tayong issue dun. Ang problema kung ayaw pala ng labs mo sa trabaho niya at siguro naman ayaw mo rin na dun siya nagtatrabaho, por jos por santo naman, ilabas mo siya dun at buhayin mo in your own terms. Walk the talk bro. Ngayon kung di mo kaya siya buhayin at ang buong pamilya niya e, tiis ka papi, ganun talaga yun.

Edited October 26, 2017 by paulwalking

[Kingkongphils]

 

I'm not saying KISA is bad, what I'm saying is can you honestly fight for her through thick and thin knowing full well her history? In my adult life, the best lesson I've learned is to never ever judge another human being; but I also, never ever give credit that easily. It's practical. And practical works.

 

Situations:

1. Your thera works in a spakol. And her ONLY business is just jacking-off clients' dong, can you honestly as a KISA, that you won't get affected if she does her business regularly?

2. Your thera works in a MP. And we all know that jacking off isn't her only business, can you honestly as a KISA, that you won't get affected if she does her business regularly?

 

A real KISA has to do something about the above situation. And the practical question would be, can you afford subsidizing her while she pursues her studies or whatever she needs doing? If you can, then good for the both of you.

 

If you can't do anything as cited above, then you can't be a real KISA. You might be called a KISA-symphatizer or KISA-admirer. Or you have a KISA-complex personality, but not a KISA in the true sense of the word.

 

And by the way, that's your friend's story. Where's yours?

 

So when you said "youll be one of the many KISAs around" that is a compliment right?

 

Like I said, if you really love her, then you would not think about who or how many dongs he jacked, sucked and took in. Sabi ko nga kahit ung SG nyo ang nakadale dapat okey lang syo, or kung c "john lloyd" GM e may promo na CIM, dapat okey lang din syo. Kasi if not, you will just end up dropping her and leaving her. Pano yun pina in love mo lang syo tpos iwan na, Kasi kung ganun e hindi mo talaga love yan. She is just a convenient girl para syo, sure ball girl mo lang sya, and youll end up hurting her, and its not really you that is hurt. Playing the victim card ka lang, pero sa totoo in as much as pineperahan ka, convenience lang ang kapalit nun syo and you are as worst as people na naghahamak sa kanya. even worst in my opinion.

 

If you dont have the capability na alisin sya e you may be a different KISA. Basta you do your best pa din para sa akin to really love her and support her. Para ka naman ngongo kung GM ka liligawan mo tpos hindi mo pla cya kayang sustentuhan tapos magagalit ka pag ayaw nyang umalis, e hanap ka nlng ng iba or sundin mo ung kanta ni Andrew E. humanap ka ng P..... ibigin mong tunay.

 

As for my story, I can see myself falling for a thera, I have seen them together and I see how happy they are, its like no bigger problem can break them. Hells they even saw one of her GMs when I was with them, and we laughed at her story on the kink the GM wants, parang... GANNOOOONNNN.... and my friend was mega cool about it. If she was my girl I think Id be mega cool about it too, if I really love her.

Maybe I am not able to see her yet (maybe a thera maybe not) but if that comes I think Id be cool with it. Hell I have done it all except for the relationship, nagpa "utang" na ako ng pang enroll, nag pa "utang" na ako ng pampagamot kay baby, kay papa, kay mama. Nag pa "utang" na ako ng pangenroll ni utol.... May regular thera ako, but I would not say na in love, or in the process, but we do go out, and nagpapa "utang" ako sa kanya. Mahihya ba ko na kasama cya at may nakakilala sa kanya hell no,

 

When I was younger I have devirginized and effed over and over a model, who is now married to a construction tycoon, we even had a video, and 4 times a week we do it, even when she has her period and the relationship spanned for 3 years, that will never make me better than her husband right now, matter of fact Id change places with her husband in a snap of a finger If I had known I could have been that happy (even minus his millions).

 

You have to accept these things if you choose these things. no regrets. We are all malilibog here and we should not judge them else we maybe judge by our peers by just opening manilatonight.com . For me, the fact that they can do these earns them credit, no matter what their reason. I would never suck anybodys dick period.

[edotensei]

Ano yung KISA? Di ko alam eh

[rontan2014]

Ok na sana yung post ng isang romantiko dito medyo napa bilib ako sa banat, at sa pag tanggol sa pro thera GMs,kaso pag check ko sa profile at previous posts, naknambaka panay pala banat sa ibat ibang MP..plastic amp. Hahaha. Paka totoo ka bro muntik mo nako mapa bilib.

 

Anyway I've posted this before and I will post again, walang problema kung naulol ka sa thera mo at inibig mong tunay ok lang yun, wala tayong issue dun. Ang problema kung ayaw pala ng labs mo sa trabaho niya at siguro naman ayaw mo rin na dun siya nagtatrabaho, por jos por santo naman, ilabas mo siya dun at buhayin mo in your own terms. Walk the talk bro. Ngayon kung di mo kaya siya buhayin at ang buong pamilya niya e, tiis ka papi, ganun talaga yun.

Agree. Kung tunay na KISA, ilabas ang thera sa MP or spakol.

 

So when you said "youll be one of the many KISAs around" that is a compliment right?

 

If you dont have the capability na alisin sya e you may be a different KISA. Basta you do your best pa din para sa akin to really love her and support her.

KISA is okay if you walk the talk, meaning you have funds to give her a new beginning. Different KISA, ano yan?

 

Ano yung KISA? Di ko alam eh

Knight In Shining Armor

[Kingkongphils]

 

KISA is okay if you walk the talk, meaning you have funds to give her a new beginning. Different KISA, ano yan?

 

Well hindi lng nmn lahat ng may kakayahan na mag labas sa kanya sa spa ang KISA. Baka kailangan mo muna i define sa sarili mo ang love bro. Sabi nga ng pinag agreehan mo na reply pag hindi mo kaya, tiis tiis... E ngongo ka nmn kung ayaw mong magtiis tpos hindi mo nmn cya kayang buhayin paalisin mo. Again... Watch otherlove story movies, e d sana lahat ng successful love stories mayaman... Ang love story hindi lng para sa mayaman at mga pogi at magaganda. Ang love story para sa lahat. Kung kaya mong alisin at sumama syo e d well and good, pero wag mo nmn kuhanin cya tapos iiwan mo dn cya. Kaya you cant blame them if it takes time na pumayag silang umalis for you Hindi mo pwedeng ipilit ang sarili mo, at ipilit ang gusto mo. You choose then she choose. Pag hindi tugma e d sorry nxt nmn kung thera hunter ka...

[edotensei]

Agree. Kung tunay na KISA, ilabas ang thera sa MP or spakol.

 

KISA is okay if you walk the talk, meaning you have funds to give her a new beginning. Different KISA, ano yan?

 

Knight In Shining Armor

Hahaha, yan pala yun. We I am not a KISA, sadlife.

[EWhin]

Makakaya mo bang tanggapin na ilang tao na nka experience sa kanya? THere's so many fish in the sea. Baka na inlove ka lang sa sobrang sarap. It's not too late for you. Don't search for love, let love search for you. Pag ibig hindi minamadali at hindi dinadaya. Love is a gift.

[rontan2014]

Well hindi lng nmn lahat ng may kakayahan na mag labas sa kanya sa spa ang KISA. Baka kailangan mo muna i define sa sarili mo ang love bro. Sabi nga ng pinag agreehan mo na reply pag hindi mo kaya, tiis tiis... E ngongo ka nmn kung ayaw mong magtiis tpos hindi mo nmn cya kayang buhayin paalisin mo. Again... Watch otherlove story movies, e d sana lahat ng successful love stories mayaman... Ang love story hindi lng para sa mayaman at mga pogi at magaganda. Ang love story para sa lahat. Kung kaya mong alisin at sumama syo e d well and good, pero wag mo nmn kuhanin cya tapos iiwan mo dn cya. Kaya you cant blame them if it takes time na pumayag silang umalis for you Hindi mo pwedeng ipilit ang sarili mo, at ipilit ang gusto mo. You choose then she choose. Pag hindi tugma e d sorry nxt nmn kung thera hunter ka...

 

"Well hindi lng nmn lahat ng may kakayahan na mag labas sa kanya sa spa ang KISA.".... Let's simplify, kung hindi sya KISA at nilabas ang thera sa Spa/MP; eh anong ginagawa nya?... Then it's a simple business transaction: I'll support you but I can have sex with you (thera) anytime. That's it... Kung pumayag si thera, risk nya yun na baka iiwan din sya pag dating ng panahon. Eh kung ganun, balik si thera sa Spa/MP.

 

Balik tayo sa thread: FALLING FOR A THERA. This suggest that you're IN-THE-PROCESS of falling, meaning:

1. You and thera are consistently in contact with each other, you're asking yourself, is this (LOVE) it?

2. You and thera are consistently in contact with each other, you're asking yourself, baka LIBOG lang to kasi ang sarap-sarap nya?

 

Let's define love, yung tunay... For me love is: CONSISTENCY, LONGEVITY, LOYALTY, PATIENCE, RESPECT, and HARD WORK. If you love your thera, as in love your thera, eto:

1. Kaya mo bang ipaglaban sya sa parents mo, relatives mo, friends mo, pastor/pari mo, co-workers mo, etc... ng ilang taon hanggang respetohin nila desisyon mo?

2. Kaya mo bang kontrolin sarili mo kung magkaroon kayo ng matinding away na hindi banggitin yung mga nakaraan nya? Ang nangyayari kasi naging "HISTORICAL" na hindi lang hysterical.

 

If you respect and support the thera, GM (gentlemaniac) ka lang, hindi ka KISA.

 

If you think/feel you love your thera pero wala kang funds para ilabas sya, yari ka at baka masiraan ka lang ng ulo.

Edited October 28, 2017 by rontan2014

[rontan2014]

Hahaha, yan pala yun. We I am not a KISA, sadlife.

 

Ako din. Okay na tong f#&k-pay lang. It's practical and pragmatic.

 

Minsan fubu on rare occasions

 

 

[Kingkongphils]

 

"Well hindi lng nmn lahat ng may kakayahan na mag labas sa kanya sa spa ang KISA.".... Let's simplify, kung hindi sya KISA at nilabas ang thera sa Spa/MP; eh anong ginagawa nya?... Then it's a simple business transaction: I'll support you but I can have sex with you (thera) anytime. That's it... Kung pumayag si thera, risk nya yun na baka iiwan din sya pag dating ng panahon. Eh kung ganun, balik si thera sa Spa/MP.

 

Balik tayo sa thread: FALLING FOR A THERA. This suggest that you're IN-THE-PROCESS of falling, meaning:

1. You and thera are consistently in contact with each other, you're asking yourself, is this (LOVE) it?

2. You and thera are consistently in contact with each other, you're asking yourself, baka LIBOG lang to kasi ang sarap-sarap nya?

 

Let's define love, yung tunay... For me love is: CONSISTENCY, LONGEVITY, LOYALTY, PATIENCE, RESPECT, and HARD WORK. If you love your thera, as in love your thera, eto:

1. Kaya mo bang ipaglaban sya sa parents mo, relatives mo, friends mo, pastor/pari mo, co-workers mo, etc... ng ilang taon hanggang respetohin nila desisyon mo?

2. Kaya mo bang kontrolin sarili mo kung magkaroon kayo ng matinding away na hindi banggitin yung mga nakaraan nya? Ang nangyayari kasi naging "HISTORICAL" na hindi lang hysterical.

 

If you respect and support the thera, GM (gentlemaniac) ka lang, hindi ka KISA.

 

If you think/feel you love your thera pero wala kang funds para ilabas sya, yari ka at baka masiraan ka lang ng ulo.

" Let's simplify, kung hindi sya KISA at nilabas ang thera sa Spa/MP; eh anong ginagawa nya?... Then it's a simple business transaction: I'll support you but I can have sex with you (thera) anytime." If you CONSISTENTLY have sex, for the LONGEVITY of the time you knew her you will learn to RESPECT her (otherwise parang gamit lang ang tingin mo sa kanya). PATIENCE and HARDWORK will come if you indeed choose to be with her. LOYALTY will be when you own her (that is when you get married, why married, because only married people are supposed to be exclusive, and dont be sila nga madami kasama lalaki araw araw, to which tayo lahat dito sa MTC ay multiple partner, so the LOYALTY part should be not important, for guys here in MTC unless single ka at pag nagkaroon ka ng GF e tumitigil ka to which I say..... CAAAAMMMMMMOOOOOONNNN...

1. Kaya mo bang ipaglaban sya sa parents mo, relatives mo, friends mo, pastor/pari mo, co-workers mo, etc... ng ilang taon hanggang respetohin nila desisyon mo?

“Cause all of me loves all of you. Love your curves and all your edges, all your perfect imperfections.”

“Cause, honey your soul could never grow old, it’s evergreen and, baby, your smile’s forever in my mind and memory.”

“I’ll be better when I’m older. I’ll be the greatest fan of your life.”

“You’re still the one I run to, the one that I belong to, you’re still the one I want for life.”

“Baby, you’re all that I want when you’re lying here in my arms, I’m finding it hard to believe we’re in heaven.”

See the common her, the only common here is YOU and I/ME there is no relatives there is no friends, no pari/pastor no co workers. Its just you and I. Pag nakinig ka sa sabi ng iba, e walang mangyari syo. Mas malaki ang sira mo sa ulo pag ung sinasabi ng iba ang magdidikta sa HAPPINESS mo. Nanay ko nga e andami ko nang pinakilalang babae e lahat may nasasabi cya. Kaptid kong babae, lahat ng pinakilalang lalaki sa relatives namin, mukhang hindi daw gagawa ng mabuti sabi ng mga tyuhin ko.

2. Kaya mo bang kontrolin sarili mo kung magkaroon kayo ng matinding away na hindi banggitin yung mga nakaraan nya? Ang nangyayari kasi naging "HISTORICAL" na hindi lang hysterical.- this happens to everyone. Imy exes has done this, ung mga may anak sa pagkadalaga, felt this. Mas masakit most def pag sa thera mo sabihin pero tao lang tayo and we may be guilty of this. Pag galit ka kasi you will never know what you will say.

TAMA naman, lahat may point, kaso what frustrates me is yung mga tao na sinisisi ang thera at ang trabaho nila for the love that failed. Parang ung isang poster dito, sabi nya 5 years sila, tpos after narining nya na tinira ung thera nya ng pinsan niya at 15 na kaibigan nila e iniwan nya, I mean seriously after 5 years hindi mo naisip na malamang nagalaw na yan ng pinsan mo tropa mo, kapatid mo, tatay mo o boss mo na hindi naliligo?

TAMA din na dapat kung tunay ang pagmamahal mo e ilayo mo na sya sa trabaho na yan, pero hindi naman magic yan e, hindi naman pagdating mo sa buhay nya, "andito na ako ang iyong KISA, ayaw ko nang mag ganyan ka sumama ka na sa akin"... syempre hindi agad sasama syo yun, e dahil yun ang trabaho niya, hindi agad bibitiw yun, unless gumawa ka ng sarili mong spa at sya gawin mong recep, That is where your PATIENCE and HARDWORK test comes. Ang mga thera pag may nararamdaman na para syo yan, at naibibigay mo nmn ang financial nya, though hindi sya bumibitiw, nag sisimula na yan mag absent, yan na ung mapapansin natin na pasulpot sulpot nlng sila, ung iba nagbabawas ng mga regular customers nila, Hindi isang iglap yan. yung iba sabi nag coconcentrate sa pag aaral, e malamang yun na yun.

Ang pangit lang etong FALLING FOR A THERA THREAD naging platform para ipamukha sa thera na hangang diyan ka lang, swerte ka pa nga pag may lumapit syo na GM at nag alok na bubuhayin ka niya kaya dapat head over heels ka na sa kanya. Parang kasalanan nila yan kaya walang megseseryoso dyn, pag may nagkwento ng karansan nila sa thera na "love" daw nila pero pinagpalit sa mas mapera o ayaw iwan ung trabaho, ung ibang poster dito kasalanan ng thera yan, ganyan kasi sila pera pera lang. Which is hindi dapat, tao lang din sila, capable of feeling love and wanting love, kaya dapat etong thread na ito is not about the thera and their job, it is about what the GM should expect and should feel.

The first question was

I want to start this is topic, because i am experiencing it in this crucial stage in my life.

for most of you guys, this is a no no. but what if you got interested in one and fell in love with. and also found out that the lady really love you. to yuo married guys this is not feasible, it can ruin your marriage. but to the unmarried and seperated ones. you have to weight the pros and cons for such a relationship. are you willing to accept the past of your loved one, can shoulder the financial burden that will be put upon you once she quits the job? or be willing to sacrifice relatives, friends or even lovers in order to have this relationship work out. pls. share your views with me as i discover her true feelings for me.

 

 

Let us remember na si romantiko GM ang lumalapit sa thera and hindi si thera ang lumlapit kay GM. Kaya let us spare the rude comments for theras and their jobs, let this not be the platform para hamakin sila. Ung rude comments baka mas maganda pag usapang tropa tropa pero pag may nakakabasa na involved person e thats just plain rude, especially sila ang main reason kung bakit tyo naging member ng MTC. Its right to call spade a spade, but its rude to call a panget person panget. Alam nmn natin lahat na f#&k and pay, paulit ulit pa na f#&k and pay.

Edited October 28, 2017 by Kingkongphils

[TheDuke04]

Really interesting topic we got here.

[Kingkongphils]

Great for the first 3-6 months. Then the guy will look for a replacement afterwards.

Agree... Awkward nga lng pag nagkita kyo sa hallway tpos nung last 3-6 months super sweet ka sa kanya at BFE ang bigay mo 😁 😁 parang anyare? If the walls of spas could talk ang ganda dn cguro ng mga lines hahaha. Kaya dont go full romantic enjoy the company and let the pieces fall where they may,

[Chuk123]

Awkward talaga Yan. Eh Yung nakuha mo xa ilang beses tapos nag try ka ibang thera, tapos ung day na un nakita ka nya sa lobby, pero di pala sya Yung kinuha mo. Hahaha

 

Pagbalik mo sa kanya awkward na Kung marami Kang promises. Hahaha

 

Agree... Awkward nga lng pag nagkita kyo sa hallway tpos nung last 3-6 months super sweet ka sa kanya at BFE ang bigay mo parang anyare? If the walls of spas could talk ang ganda dn cguro ng mga lines hahaha. Kaya dont go full romantic enjoy the company and let the pieces fall where they may,

[Kingkongphils]

Awkward talaga Yan. Eh Yung nakuha mo xa ilang beses tapos nag try ka ibang thera, tapos ung day na un nakita ka nya sa lobby, pero di pala sya Yung kinuha mo. Hahaha

 

Pagbalik mo sa kanya awkward na Kung marami Kang promises. Hahaha

 

Pano kung nagtext sumunod na week C Thera 1, sabi kailan ka balik? I miss you na e? may surprise ako syo.... e nakuha mo na ung number ni Thera #2, at nag set ka na...... hahahaha... withdraw x2...... hahahaha.... play on player.....