Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[red60]

logic will tell you it's stupid, but sometimes the heart wants that logic can't explain. pikit na lang isang mata. bulag bulagan... i come from a well off family, i hav a gf who is pretty, smart and anything u could ask, but im attach to this thera from a certain spa. it hurts everytime i knw she has a guest. overtime i learn to just ignore all those things. i see her almost everyday and just enjoy the times together...

 

I have to agree with Mason. I think what you have right now is a fling. It has nothing to do with logic and heart but most likely the head below your waist is doing the thinking for you. If you are serious then I dare you to ditch your GF, introduce her to your family and friends, force her to resign and help her find a decent job. Bulag bulagan in the name of love? I don't believe that crap. Your GF holding, sucking, f*cking stranger's c*cks all day long, ok lang sayo??? Oh come on. Siguro if you were dirt poor, married to her and had no other choice to feed your family, perhaps I'll believe you.

 

One more thing, kung balak mo siyang gawing totoong GF be ready with your answer in case someone asks "Pare, di ba GF mo therapist yan sa _____ spa? Nakuha ko yan noon." If you don't know how to answer better stay in that "secret" relationship. Wag mo na lang seryosohin. In the future, I won't be surprise if you tell us that you found out she has other guest BFs

[bratzky1101]

Ang kawawa dito yung thera ibinahay mo tapos wala ka palang maisuporta sa pamilya niya, kaya yan nagwork sa spa/mp industry to support financially her family, hindi yan nagtrabaho sa spa/mp para mafall in love, tapos sumama sayo si girl pinakilala mo sa pamilya at kaibigan mo, then nalaman nila ganun pala work niya then u decide na iwanan na lang si girl kasi u love ur family, iiwanan mo yung girl na depress kawawa naman, sa umpisa pa lang kung hindi mo kaya wag mo na lang ituloy mahirap makasakit ng babae.

 

Pero kung mahal mo talaga why not, pick her iwan mo pamilya mo, punta kayo sa malayong lugar then live happily ever after.

 

i have a relationship before sa thera, medyo nafall in love na din but nasa matino pa naman ako na pag iisip, not totally love her 100%, mahirap lalo na paglalabas kayo dapat lagi kayo sa malayong lugar and private places, lagi niya iniisip baka may makakilala sa kanya sa ganung lugar, di kayo makapamasyal ng maayos laging may takot siyang nadarama.

[Edmund Dantes]

 

I have to agree with Mason. I think what you have right now is a fling. It has nothing to do with logic and heart but most likely the head below your waist is doing the thinking for you. If you are serious then I dare you to ditch your GF, introduce her to your family and friends, force her to resign and help her find a decent job. Bulag bulagan in the name of love? I don't believe that crap. Your GF holding, sucking, f*cking stranger's c*cks all day long, ok lang sayo??? Oh come on. Siguro if you were dirt poor, married to her and had no other choice to feed your family, perhaps I'll believe you.

 

One more thing, kung balak mo siyang gawing totoong GF be ready with your answer in case someone asks "Pare, di ba GF mo therapist yan sa _____ spa? Nakuha ko yan noon." If you don't know how to answer better stay in that "secret" relationship. Wag mo na lang seryosohin. In the future, I won't be surprise if you tell us that you found out she has other guest BFs

 

Maraming uusok ang tumbong sa init ng ulo dito parekoy, ahahahaha. Hinahapas na nga malamang ulo sa monitor. Pero tama ka sa lahat ng sinabi mo. Its difficult to sugar coat it. Some people will just have to learn to swallow the good and the bad. Ito ang katotohanan. Bakit ka maguumpisa ng isang romantic relationship sa isang taong alam mong pwede rin pansamantalang angkinin ng ibang lalake kung marunong sila magbayad.

 

Pero.... to be fair, hindi ko kahit kelan sinabi na walang karapatan ang mga babaeng ito maghanap ng happily ever after. Of course lahat tayo may karapatan magumpisa ng bagong buhay. Ang pagkakataon umibig, para sakin lagi naman nandyan. Kaya unahin munang ayusin kasi ang buhay di ba?

 

Isa pa, recently ang epiphany ko, masyado tayong focused sa magiging masamang epekto sa lalake. Di natin gaano napaguusapan sa thread ano epekto nito sa mismong babae. Mahirap na nga yung sitwasyon, guguluhin nyo pa. Papangakuan nyo ng kung ano ano. Bobolahin. Tapos di nyo naman pala kaya panindigan pinasok nyo. Pano na?

[Edmund Dantes]

yea... thanks =) i guess may mga bagay need pag-daanan bago magkarealization. she doesn't ask me to do anything... lam ko lang na part of the package deal syempre is to take care of her family... it was never said, but one can simply generalize n kasama =) anyway, nashare ko lang naman... i know what im getting myself into. hehe...

 

Eh pano yung babae tol?

 

Pano sa perspective nya? Sige di mo nga tinutulungan financially. Sabihin natin mahulog ang loob nya din sayo. Tapos sa huli di mo pala kaya panindigan. Kasi para sayo "enjoy the moment" lang lagi. Syempre pre masasaktan yan, made-depress. Depressing na nga yung trabaho nya, dadagdagan pa rejection dahil sa nature ng ginagawa nya. Tsaka madaming kagaya nya, tingin mo di rin yun mainsecure na madali ka pupunta sa iba?

 

Eto ang lagi kong sinasabi. Happiness is not everything. What good is borrowed happiness that will turn into so much sorrow later on?

[bratzky1101]

 

Eh pano yung babae tol?

 

Pano sa perspective nya? Sige di mo nga tinutulungan financially. Sabihin natin mahulog ang loob nya din sayo. Tapos sa huli di mo pala kaya panindigan. Kasi para sayo "enjoy the moment" lang lagi. Syempre pre masasaktan yan, made-depress. Depressing na nga yung trabaho nya, dadagdagan pa rejection dahil sa nature ng ginagawa nya. Tsaka madaming kagaya nya, tingin mo di rin yun mainsecure na madali ka pupunta sa iba?

 

Eto ang lagi kong sinasabi. Happiness is not everything. What good is borrowed happiness that will turn into so much sorrow later on?

 

Totoo yang depression, i tried a thera before bale pang 3rd time ko na sa kanya, aba parang di ako kilala nakasimangot sabi ko si ano to di mo na ako natandaan...pacencya na mainit ulo ko sabi niya, bakit may problema ka? pwede mo ishare baka makatulong? kasi dati nung kinukuha ko siya palangiti siya, i know she has a problem, di ko na inavail yung b2b hanggang hj lang inavail ko, habang nagmamassage siya tahimik di ko na din kinakausap, pag out ko nalaman ko sa kilala ko na thera may problema pala sa bf, iniwan daw. Pati trabaho nadamay dahil sa depression na yan.

[bratzky1101]

About shalala meron at meron talaga maiinlove sa thera/mpa, di kasi pare parehas damdamin ng lalaki may matigas ang puso at may malalambot din naman, sa iba kasi pag sinabing mahal accept mo lahat kahit ano pa siya, magbingi bingihan ka o bulag bulaga na lang, kaya pagdating sa pag ibig maraming TANGA! wala kang pakialam kung ano sabihin ng ibang tao basta nagmamahalan kayo, ikaw na lang magdedecide sa bandang huli kung hanggang saan itatagal ang relasyon niyo.

[bratzky1101]

Reposting what I post in Client fallling in love since its a similar thread

 

 

This is an opinion thread about Clients falling in love, anything said about it either negative or positive should be respected or just ignore it if you can't take it. If this thread affects anyone what more if your friends or relatives said that in front of you. What more if your mother said that in your face, what will you do? React as you react in here? There is nothing wrong falling in love to these girls, heck I also did, but how can you love her unconditionally if a simple opinions in this thread is making your head spin. What more if its in your real world now. If you guys plan to go with the relationship then go ahead but make sure you have a long term plan or strategy on how to deal with it, Hindi pwede yung bahala na si batman, coz it won't work.

Pwede naman mahalin si thera, baka yung iba nga pagnasaktan pupunta sa thread na ito tapos titirahin si thera ng masasakit na salita tulad ng mukhang pera, sinungaling, blah blah...alam mo pala kahahantungan ng ginawa mo bakit mo minahal, saka alam mo naman na nagtrabaho yan dahil sa pera tapos sasabihan mukhang pera, nung nililigawan niyo siya sa spa naglalabas kayo ng pera, pinapakain niyo sa mga restaurant, dinadalhan ng pasalubong, nung naging kayo na naglalabas kp din ng pera nung wala na kayo mukhang pera na sasabihin amputa...tapos mag eemote emote sa thread titirahin niyo si thera, pinakialaman niyo siya sa spa nananahimik yung tao nagtratrabaho para sa pamilya nila tapos sasabihin ng iba nagulo buhay nila dahil sa lintik na pagmamahal na yan.

[jkjensen]

ako, naka anim na girlfriends na. pero sa kung ano mang dahilan, first time ko pa lang ma-inlove, sa thera pa. eto, laging masakit puso ko. pero, iba talaga ang love, mas nangingibabaw yung saya kesa sa dusa..

[jkjensen]

ako, naka anim na girlfriends na. pero sa kung ano mang dahilan, first time ko pa lang ma-inlove, sa thera pa. eto, laging masakit puso ko. pero, iba talaga ang love, mas nangingibabaw yung saya kesa sa dusa.. ...

[Wanderlusting]

Wow - I can see several people have been spending hours upon hours on this thread. Amazing what people can only say when hiding behind anonymity. I wonder how this thread would be if identities were revealed...

 

Anyway, on the topic: this is very dangerous territory - best be prepared to handle the worst you can imagine. Take this thread as an example - I would say it's 50/50 here. People close to you might not say it out openly to you (as they do here) but some of them will think the same thing (even without telling you). Are you prepared for that? Ponder on this question...

[bratzky1101]

ako, naka anim na girlfriends na. pero sa kung ano mang dahilan, first time ko pa lang ma-inlove, sa thera pa. eto, laging masakit puso ko. pero, iba talaga ang love, mas nangingibabaw yung saya kesa sa dusa..

Ok lang mahalin wala naman masama diyan, pag wala na kayo at nasaktan kn tapos sasabihan ng masasakit na salita yung thera p#ta, cnungaling, mukhang pera bakit p kita minahal, kailangan ba pagsalitaan ng masasakit di ba pwedeng manahimik na lang, nung nanliligaw kp lang pinapakita mo pagiging maginoo mo nung wala na kayo bastos kn, dahil sa depress nung thera hindi na pumapasok, pagpasok niya hindi na maganda serbisyo, nag iba ugali parang naging mataray na, dating naman palangiti.

[Wanderlusting]

Well said.

 

This is an opinion thread about Clients falling in love, anything said about it either negative or positive should be respected or just ignore it if you can't take it. If this thread affects anyone what more if your friends or relatives said that in front of you. What more if your mother said that in your face, what will you do? React as you react in here? There is nothing wrong falling in love to these girls, heck I also did, but how can you love her unconditionally if a simple opinions in this thread is making your head spin. What more if its in your real world now. If you guys plan to go with the relationship then go ahead but make sure you have a long term plan or strategy on how to deal with it, Hindi pwede yung bahala na si batman, coz it won't work.

[awesome24]

Today is my parents' 28th year wedding anniversary. Little did I know that I would be remembering this day for something else at least for the next two years.

 

She was a spa therapist, and I was one of her clients. I used to look at "theras" as just any other service provider, someone who's for rent, but it all changed when I met her. Honestly, she didn't strike me as someone who would turn my world upside down the first time we met, though I felt weird when I was on my way home, though I didn't know then what to make of it. It would all come together when we met again.

 

Just a week before that faithful night she was already texting me asking me to come visit her, but then I had problems with my schedule and some budget constraints led me to say no to her that night. I told her I would be coming the week after, and when that day came I texted her if she was available and I was delighted when she said yes. I was under no illusions that she liked me (remember that "weird" feeling the first time we met?) and I was in the middle of a spa rampage back then so all I was thinking about was getting laid that night, though for some reason I was little more excited, and again it felt weird. After paying at the spa's counter I was escorted to my room, and I nervously waited for her to appear. When she did, all I know is that something inside me instantly "clicked", and I looked at her differently from then on, like she was someone I have known all my life, and we hit it off. We had a nice session to say the least, and to my horror my mouth just went rapid fire, firing off flowery words that she would dismiss as "pambobola", and in between smiles she would warn me that I was a guest and that she wouldn't date one. Believe me, my dick was then limp after the session so it wasn't as if I was doing it "para makalibre" on our next session and I would just take one look at her and my mouth would then say things I never knew I could. What I did know, however, was that I was speaking from the heart.

 

We had yosi after that and since she was on her way home I offered to take her, though she said no because she was on a way to a party with her friends that night. I just waited for her to get a cab, and after sharing a rather innocent kiss, I turned around and went on my way.

 

What she didn't see was that when I turned around and walked away, I was smiling. For reasons my heart can only explain and also horrified me.

 

to be continued.

[awesome24]

...

 

It horrified me that she made me feel that way even though I barely knew her, though I've had exes in the past that I courted for less than a week that lasted a few years. Somehow my gut was telling me that this was wrong, and that I should k*ll it before it went out of hand. She was a therapist, and all that we shared that night could have been the same with what she and many of her clients shared before me. I was telling myself this that night, and we texted some more before I dozed off, feeling a little different the next day. It was as if that the warnings I myself thought of the previous night never made a difference, and I was already texting her that I miss her and that I wanted to see her again, and to my delight she would reciprocate those. It was ecstasy, and it goes without saying that I returned to the spa that night to surprise her. She called me on my way there, telling me that she just wanted to talk to me since she was bored of doing nothing for most of her shift. Little did she know that I was on their spa's entrance when she called, and I motioned to the receptionist (who recognized me immediately) not to tell her that I was there. I was again escorted to my room, and when we saw each other, I just smiled, though I knew that other than that smile on my face my heart was smiling as well, and when she smiled back I immediately stood up and hugged her like those scenes at the airport when two lovers embrace after not seeing each other for a very long time. I kissed her, and I looked straight to her eyes as if to telepathically tell her how much I missed her and how I wanted to never let go of her.

 

I kissed her again, and all I could think of at that moment was how I was falling to this woman I never knew in my wildest dreams I'd fall for.

 

..to be continued..

Edited April 18, 2015 by awesome24

[awesome24]

..to be continued..

 

I was a fan of a thread here somewhere called "Trabajo lang" that I saw as an idiot's guide of telling if a thera is into you or she's just doing it so you'd come back, and I carefully detected each and every flag that she raised in the short time we shared. I came up with these flags:

 

red flag = it's all business

green flag = she likes me

- the week before our session when she texted me, I told her I can't come and she answered "Ok, Ingat" - red flag

- after our first session, we had yosi at the stairwell beside the spa entrance and made out like teenagers - green flag

- she called me on my way back the night after our first - now, she didn't ask me to come back. she just asked if we could talk. In the Trabajo lang thread I read that if a thera asks you anything and after you answer her she would follow it immediately with "balik ka naman dito". She didn't say anything close to that, so this is a green flag.

 

No, we didn't have sex on our second night. I was determined to prove to her that I wasn't making "bola" to her the previous night, and I took it up a notch when I asked her to just lay beside me and talk about anything. I would kiss her from time to time, while talking as if she's my girlfriend, and she would return those kisses with soft pecks at my cheeks and my forehead, as if we were lovers. Time passed quickly and it was time for me to go, and before we parted ways I started fiddling through my pocket to at least give her some money for her time but before I could do that she told me "wag na" (green flag). We had another make out session on the stairs again, and when it was time for me to go I told her to text me and she said yes.

 

In my mind, while I on my home, she wasn't a spa therapist anymore. All my inhibitions have gone down the drain and all I ever wanted was to be with her. And oh, since the holy week was fast approaching then I invited her on a date on good friday, and again the woman didn't say no.

 

This has been one wild romantic story up until this point. But no, I would you short of your tracks and tell you that this love story doesn't have a happy ending. Sure, it could pass as something made out of scenes you see just in the movies, and just like in some this story has a heart-breaking end.

 

..to be continued..

[awesome24]

I'm having trouble sleeping right now, that's why I'm on my laptop at 2 AM turning my now ex-girlfriend into literature in an uncanny attempt to distract my heart from unraveling. My heart has been beating a lot faster since this afternoon, the same afternoon that she ended our relationship. I'm on that phase right now where I ask myself a million times what did I do wrong, or what could have I done to make her change her mind. She just texted me two hours ago, telling me to take care of myself wherever I was, though I'm pretty sure that it's just her guilty conscience talking rather than her heart. I can still remember the days we shared, the moment she said "yes" and the nights we spent lost in each other's arms. It still wasn't a normal relationship, at least in the naked eye as she was still a spa therapist. It wasn't easy for me and I had to get my mind around that, though I found my bearings quickly and I just laid down a certain set of rules for her to follow which she agreed to. Still, it wasn't easy for me when she tells me "Babe wait lang ah may guest ako" and I'm pretty sure a lot of you would agree, but my belief in our relationship was something as high as the Eiffel Tower, and I just swallowed it each and every time, patiently waiting for her text. It also wasn't easy to act as if nothing happened, but as the days went by I kinda get used to it.

 

Just like in any other relationships, we would fight, and when we did it was just ugly. One instance that made me really see red was when she first lied to me. It was really something petty, as simple as facebook profile, but then when you're in a kind of relationship we were in it was hard not to go crazy at the smallest of things. She was supposed to be sleeping, but the next morning I saw her update her profile picture though I waited for her to deny it at first before laying down my evidence. When she did deny it I just went off, though in the end I just kinda got sick of it and I just told her not to do it again. Questions began rising on the surface that night, and I put it at the back of my mind to always be on the look out if she was lying, which of course made me feel wrong inside since it was my belief to trust her word. Love comes with trust, and though I tried to dismiss it as something really petty the next events of our relationship didn't really make it any easier.

 

..to be continued..

[awesome24]

..to be continued..

 

She always gave me reasons to think she's being unfaithful, and what made it worse was that she didn't make any effort to give me some assurance, though when I confronted her she would always tell me that she's with me 100%. Honestly, part of me always believed her, and the rest takes everything she says with a grain of salt. The fights would worsen each and every time, and she would accuse me of suffocating her, that I was blowing things out of proportion. She had a habit that when I was angry, she would get angrier and later on I would be sick of it and in the end it would appear it was me who was at fault. At first I looked at it as something of an effect of her immaturity (we're 6 years apart), but now looking back I realize it was her way of avoiding getting caught. She would always strike me as if she's hiding something from me, and being a person who hates arguments I would just overthink and suppress everything.

 

But we had our moments. Through all the bitter fights we had I can say that we were really happy when we're together, like teenagers falling in love for the first time, and I would hold her around her waist and she would hold her arms around my neck as if we're ready to dance. We would stay that way for a while, not saying anything while playfully stealing glances at each other. It was in these moments that I truly felt that I loved her and she loved me, and though we were just starting as a couple I already told her my plans for us, to which she would answer affirmatively with a longing look in her eyes. Their spa was now a common hangout for me, though I would just stay there for a few minutes since I was no longer considered a client, but rather a "dalaw". Though I've gotten used to it, however, all I could think of when I was there was that I couldn't wait to take my gf away from that place, away from that job and out of that industry to live a simple and quiet life together. It was my dream for us, and I was telling her how I think highly of her and that she was so much better than a thera, and I would always encourage her to go back to school and get a decent job.

 

Looking back, it was really fun while it lasted, or was it? Yes, when we were together we were happy and I could see the innocent happiness in her eyes that didn't really have a glimmer that it was fake. Still, I felt as if at times I was being kept in the dark and that she wasn't being completely honest, though at first I thought of it as something that takes time, that eventually we're gonna get there and that all my questions will be answered.

 

The answers did come. Crashing down from the heavens above, along with the destruction of our relationship.

 

..to be continued..

[awesome24]

..

 

Well, like I said before it was fun while it lasted. I can still feel the pain slicing through my heart like a knife as I'm typing this, but it feels rather good to get this off my chest. I keep telling itself that it's over now, that she's none of my business anymore, but then after a while I would come back to thinking if she came home safe, and looking at the clock I'm wondering what she's doing right now. Sleeping, perhaps? I was actually supposed to fetch her tonight, but then just this afternoon we broke up. It all started this morning when I woke up and I saw that there were no messages from her. It was 6:48 in the morning, and I was expecting a text from her that she's already home, but it never came. I tried calling her, but she didn't pick up, and I was worried. Instead, what I received at half past 10 was a message from an unregistered number asking me why I was calling HIS girlfriend. This was someone in the past who has texted me many times before, asking me to stay away from her girlfriend, though when I confronted MY gf about it she told me she didn't know who it was. Needless to say, I was angry, though I figured I got to use my head to confirm this. So what I did was to feign innocence as to what he was talking about, while at the same time dialling my girlfriend's number. It broke my heart --- absolutely tore it to pieces --- when a man answered at the other end of the line. I quickly hung it up, satisfied with the evidence I have in hand, and patiently waited for her text.

 

To cut the long story short, it was her ex, an ex who she lived with for almost two years and cheated on her by impregnating another woman. I confronted her about it, and she said that she was drunk the night before that her friend had no choice but call her ex (she didn't have my number) and take her home. She finally said that she wasn't really over this ex even when we started dating, and that she couldn't keep on doing this to me and that we should break up. It was in this painful moment that I knew I loved SO MUCH, to the point where I was willing to forget everything and just start over, given that she'd do everything to stay away from that ex. But alas, she said no, and I had no choice but to walk away.

 

Thank you for reading my story. Trust me, you've done me a favor that not even my mother could have given me. She wouldn't understand, just as others and few would do, and just as I still can't accept right now. I never thought I'd love a woman from this industry, and when I knew I did I looked at her as if she's just a normal woman, with the same hopes and fears as I have.

 

Through it all, I want her to be happy, and if that means being happy with someone else, then I'd have no choice but to let her go. There was a time when I told her I'd do everything for her happiness, and I guess this is one of those. I love her way too much to keep her from getting my own happiness in the way of hers. I guess I love her like that. I love her so much, I really do.

 

This was what I wanted to tell her when she texted me telling me that she still loves me but that she has to go, but I figured that if I did say these things it wouldn't do good to any of us, so I'm just writing it here anyway. She's an mtc member herself, who knows if she'd come across my story some day?

[toruk makto]

one question, how long did you stay together? seems not too long before things started unraveling. you must really take time to know the person. i made the same mistake, its so easy because you get intimate the moment she walks in the room. if its a decent girl, takes time to get her to that point and at that point you know already more or less the person youll having intimate moments with.

[bratzky1101]

Chucky is correct!

@awesome24 you've not stay too long together right! it seems that couple of weeks or months only based on your story.
Don't offend for what im saying dre, im something given to soothe you in that situation, i thought your
personality can be easily in love to opposite sex right??? Very painful dre...hope you overcome this kind of situation.

 

Share ko lang...

Bf din ako ng thera ko madami kaming bf niya, never confronted her for what shes doing bahala ka sa buhay mo, kahit hindi ka magtext wala akong pakialam basta pag magkasama tayo sa akin ka, pag kasama mo iba dun ka sa kanila!!! Bakit mo sisirain ang sarili mo, diyan lang ba umiikot ang buhay mo!!! minsan siya pa nga magtetext bakit di na daw ako nagpaparamdam busy lang...minsan when i calling to her i speak a word i love you then she call me back and saying i love you too babe! naks ang sweet noh! alam niya na ibig sabihin nun lalabas kami...pagmagkasama kami sa motel kahit may mga text message o call in her mobile phone never niya sinasagot, nilalagay pa niya mobile phone sa bag, minsan sinasabi ko pa sagutin mo baka emergency, sasagot yun wala naman importante tapos kikiss pa yan ganun cya kasweet ang sweet noh nakaka inlove haha...mahal ko din siya but not totally in love with her.

[ranoy]

There was one time na na fall din ako sa isang mpa akala ko sincere ang feelings tapos i asked a fellow mpa not magkakilala and she told me possible pera lang ang habol sa akin so ayun i did not push thru with it pero till know friends pa din kami

[Bad_Influences]

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Well, like I said before it was fun while it lasted. I can still feel the pain slicing through my heart like a knife as I'm typing this, but it feels rather good to get this off my chest. I keep telling itself that it's over now, that she's none of my business anymore, but then after a while I would come back to thinking if she came home safe, and looking at the clock I'm wondering what she's doing right now. Sleeping, perhaps? I was actually supposed to fetch her tonight, but then just this afternoon we broke up. It all started this morning when I woke up and I saw that there were no messages from her. It was 6:48 in the morning, and I was expecting a text from her that she's already home, but it never came. I tried calling her, but she didn't pick up, and I was worried. Instead, what I received at half past 10 was a message from an unregistered number asking me why I was calling HIS girlfriend. This was someone in the past who has texted me many times before, asking me to stay away from her girlfriend, though when I confronted MY gf about it she told me she didn't know who it was. Needless to say, I was angry, though I figured I got to use my head to confirm this. So what I did was to feign innocence as to what he was talking about, while at the same time dialling my girlfriend's number. It broke my heart --- absolutely tore it to pieces --- when a man answered at the other end of the line. I quickly hung it up, satisfied with the evidence I have in hand, and patiently waited for her text.

 

To cut the long story short, it was her ex, an ex who she lived with for almost two years and cheated on her by impregnating another woman. I confronted her about it, and she said that she was drunk the night before that her friend had no choice but call her ex (she didn't have my number) and take her home. She finally said that she wasn't really over this ex even when we started dating, and that she couldn't keep on doing this to me and that we should break up. It was in this painful moment that I knew I loved SO MUCH, to the point where I was willing to forget everything and just start over, given that she'd do everything to stay away from that ex. But alas, she said no, and I had no choice but to walk away.

 

Thank you for reading my story. Trust me, you've done me a favor that not even my mother could have given me. She wouldn't understand, just as others and few would do, and just as I still can't accept right now. I never thought I'd love a woman from this industry, and when I knew I did I looked at her as if she's just a normal woman, with the same hopes and fears as I have.

 

Through it all, I want her to be happy, and if that means being happy with someone else, then I'd have no choice but to let her go. There was a time when I told her I'd do everything for her happiness, and I guess this is one of those. I love her way too much to keep her from getting my own happiness in the way of hers. I guess I love her like that. I love her so much, I really do.

 

This was what I wanted to tell her when she texted me telling me that she still loves me but that she has to go, but I figured that if I did say these things it wouldn't do good to any of us, so I'm just writing it here anyway. She's an mtc member herself, who knows if she'd come across my story some day?

nice share brah...

i feel for you...

[jtj214]

any experience?

[toruk makto]

theyre really good at what they do. some are born or have inherited genes from their parents that at such a young age they can spin you around at their whim and call. sometimes i can almost believe her and if im not careful enough she can manipulate me and im a lot older and i know wiser than her. emotions takes over and logic doesnt compute as dr spock says. GOD help us all.

[kaelthas18]

I fell inlove with a thera way back 2013. As in naniligaw talaga. ang hirap dahil sa oras na nasa trabaho sya mgsselos ka dahil nga syempre ibang customer ang ksma nya. Bandang huli si thera din nag give up sakin dahil wla daw akong future sa kanya and madami pa dw ako di alam sa knya. Most of the theras nga pala ay may anak na so for me as 28years old, if papatol sya sakin ang kasunod na tanong is if kaya ko bang sustentuhan sya and syempre ssunod na ung obligation with her family. Most of theras ay talaga kakapit sa may pera. Wala nmn sila dyan sa work na yan if mejo nakaangat sila sa buhay. Kaya ingat lng sa mafall in love. LOVE IS BLIND ika nga.