Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[scorpioklein]

 

[AngGwapo]

2 hours ago, LookingOswald said:

Trophy for you - this is a great entry from yourself. Unlike what John Lennon claims, love is not all you need. Exceptional chemistry or being able to outcall isn't equivalent to love, it just means you are highly preferred. It's good to enjoy that for what it is and not look at it with rose-tinted glasses and believe that it is something more. Sometimes we get so caught up in the moment that we mistake which is which - even after many years in this diversion I still make this mistake occasionally. Great treatment from a lady within the bounds of transactional work is no different than a person that they enjoy looking forward to working with in the corporate setting. In reality, it is just a good working relationship.

 

As said in our private discourse, if you're not sustaining or taking the girl out of the industry, it's a meaningless venture to entertain these misplaced feelings. To believe otherwise would be placing yourself voluntarily in a state of cognitive dissonance. See you around AG and have a great holiday season.

See you around @LookingOswald.

Happy holidays.

[AngGwapo]

Has anyone here in a relationship where you are the real BF and the girl you met has had a sponsor for years? Sponsor who provides support to the partner and her family.

Curious to know how you and your partner handled things - not the part between yourselves but the girl and her sponsor?

Would appreciate insights.

Salamat!

 

[Prinsloo]

8 hours ago, dominickcruise said:

add to this the ability to bond on a more intimate level...the high body count removes all of this factor.

A popular thera here seems to be happy and contented with her bf. Flexing him in her fb stories with a lot of dinnerdates, mall dates, tattoo sessions, and bed shots where the dude is passed out due to fatigue hahahaha

[chnky]

Mahirap idefine ang true love. Minsan nga nag asawa ka na lahat lahat d pa rin pala un ang true love mo.

[papagur0]

Yun prend ko nga may isang beses na book na thera. Nakailang bookings na sya ibang thera. Hindi pa rin nya makalimutan yun thera. In that moment daw parang time stopped sila lang dalawa at hanggang ngaun nakaburn sa memory yun moment na yun. Sinubukan nya daw try sa ibang thera kaso wala daw yun"magic". Sabi ko try ulet ibook baka post nut clarity eklavuh lang yun. Ayun di pa rin nya mabook, ayaw ma-fall. Mainam naman utak ang pinakagana.

[Prinsloo]

Minsan talaga you have to look elsewhere muna.

I tried flirting with a ypung doctor parang kakagat pa at papayag na lumabas hahaha. Good luck kung may papayag lumabas ng libre sa current generation of theras hahsha

[manoy buknoy]

22 hours ago, scorpioklein said:

 

You can actually die of a broken heart. Karaniwan to sa mga matagal ng mag asawa pag namatay Yung Isa after a few days Bigla na lng din mamamatay Yung naiwan na asawa.

[Prinsloo]

On 12/16/2023 at 7:52 AM, manoy buknoy said:

When I speak of TRUE LOVE  ang tinutukoy ko Yung Nararamdaman natin sa sarili natin hiwalay sa usapin ng pakikipagrelasyon.

We can love someone even if ur not in a relationship with that person. In fact, u can love that person even if he or she is having a relationship with someone else,true? Sabi nga ng kanta,it's sad to belong to someone else when the right one comes along dba nga. 
 
Sa pakikipagrelasyon importante Ang pera syempre. It can make or break a relationship. Pero Kung nakikipagrelasyon ka for financial security then Ang minamahal mo Yung pera nya,correct? 
 
Kaya nga c Iceman7 takang taka Kung bakit maraming mga thera Ang mga totoong boyfriend mga tambay mga walang trabaho. Ganun Ang totoong pag ibig eh. Tama tong si florante eh...hahamakin ang lahat masunod ka lamang. Love is blind nga dba that's why I said money has nothing to do with it.
 
Now,that's TRUE LOVE for u. TRUE being the operative word.

I have several thories on why theras ho for broke boys.

*They always mention to me ( theras.from the early 2010s,  before the pandemic, and present day) that they dont want to fall for their guests. This could mean that they go for men with no financial capability to sample the flesh trade. Even with the consequence of having very low or even zero income for their man.

*They are avoiding the "sumbat" from partners who are former clients. I have heard this from a handfull of theras and stories here at MTC.

*They want a man that is a houseboy or homedad type that will guide their kids, clean their house, or feed their pets while they grind (No pun intended). They dont want to deal with the household BS upon arriving home.

Edited December 18, 2023 by Prinsloo

[Bonked]

yung magkasama kayo sa room ng gf mo na thera... then habang nag kkwentuhan kayo na bangit nya isa nyang client. biglang nagbago mukha eh, biglang nag apologize sya sa iyo dahil na bangit nya work nya.

then na realize mo hindi ka parin ang nag iisa sa buhay nya. 

[manoy buknoy]

20 hours ago, Prinsloo said:

I have several thories on why theras ho for broke boys.

*They always mention to me ( theras.from the early 2010s,  before the pandemic, and present day) that they dont want to fall for their guests. This could mean that they go for men witj no financial capability to sample the flesh trade. Even with the consequence of having very low and even zero invome for their man.

*They are avoiding the "sumbat" from partners who are former clients. I have heard this from a handfull of theras and.stories here at MTC.

*They want a man that is a houseboy or homedad type that will guide their kids, clean their house, or feed their pets while they grind (No pun intended). They dont want to deal with the household BS upon arriving at home.

Gusto ko Yung pangatlong theory mo Yung naghahanap Sila ng kasambahay for a bf haha.
Ako I just go by what Iceman said and used it to emphasize a point. Whether that holds true for the majority of the theras or just for a handful of cases is not for me to say. You need a statistician for that haha...and hard empirical data!
Naniniwala ako sa nasabi sayo ng mga therang nakausap mo na nandun Yung takot nilang makipagrelasyon sa mga gm. (But I don't think there's a conscious effort to look for "broke boys" as much as they just want to avoid any sort of entanglements with gms in general) Alam nila Yung kalakaran eh being in the same industry. Our reputation precedes us, pero naniniwala rin ako pag tinamaan ka talaga ng matindi magagawa mo Yung mga bagay na Hindi mo maiisip na magagawa mo.

We get into relationships for a variety of reasons, from the sublime to the mundane to the downright filthy, the whole nine yards. Intentions can be inferred from anyone's actuations but u can have ur most educated guess and still be wrong because appearances can be deceiving lalo na sa industry na to where intentions are not always what they appear to be on the surface, where not everything is at it seems most of the time.
 

Edited December 18, 2023 by manoy buknoy

[AngGwapo]

On 12/16/2023 at 5:15 AM, BlackDiamond said:

For those who go to these places as an escape, a break from real world responsibilities, at times you go in there really vulnerable and trying to fill some sort of void.

Basically, you're exposed and vulnerable.. then you walk straight into the lion's den.. and these lions they all look oh so majestic, in your mind, you have tamed them.. as they slowly nibble at you. 

Again, @AngGwapo said it best..

A GM will believe what he wants to believe..

Yes, and I will keep repeating that since it has come from a former regular after I asked her what happened to us @BlackDiamond

If one thinks we're the only ones In their eyes, so be it.

If we think we're one of dozens, so be it.

[Midlurker2005]

This thread is such an entertainment. Where can you find a place where you rationalize orgasm as an exercise of altruism? Or virtue signal after a paid s3xua1 activity? Or mask egoism as social responsibility?
 

The reason why their profession is considered the oldest: It fills the void brought about by illusion (or delusion) that starts from the head above and ends at the tip of the head below. 
 

Just keep on hunting. If you’re serious, marry her. Otherwise, bawasan ang katol.  

Edited December 19, 2023 by Midlurker2005

[papagur0]

32 minutes ago, Midlurker2005 said:

This thread is such an entertainment. Where can you find a place where you rationalize orgasm as an exercise of altruism? Or virtue signal after a paid s3xua1 activity? Or mask egoism as social responsibility?
 

The reason why their profession is considered the oldest. It fills the void brought about by illusion (or delusion) that starts from the head above and ends at the tip of the head below. 
 

Just keep on hunting. If you’re serious, marry her. Otherwise, bawasan ang katol.  

Fueling our deepest delusion..haha

[chnky]

6 hours ago, Midlurker2005 said:

This thread is such an entertainment. Where can you find a place where you rationalize orgasm as an exercise of altruism? Or virtue signal after a paid s3xua1 activity? Or mask egoism as social responsibility?
 

The reason why their profession is considered the oldest. It fills the void brought about by illusion (or delusion) that starts from the head above and ends at the tip of the head below. 
 

Just keep on hunting. If you’re serious, marry her. Otherwise, bawasan ang katol.  

Hahahaha sick