Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[Kryte]

19 minutes ago, BlackDiamond said:

Actually, walang safe assumption e. 

Parang laban lang to, "protect yourself at all times" may it be physically or emotionally.

You're right, di natin alam. 

But at the end of the day, ikaw ang nagdedecide what type of meaning you want to place in it. 

Sabi mga ni @Kryte,

Kapag nadale ka ng feeling mo you are "special".. delikado na.. albeit thays the dopamine hit that makes people addicted to "falling".. yung nakakagawa ka ng mga bagay na di mo usually ginagawa 🤭.

Exactly Sir.  At some point kasi we’re all addicted to something and or someone that takes the pain away.  We choose our own poison. 

16 minutes ago, dominickcruise said:

tama ka dito sir, it's just a matter of expanding your circle of acquaintances..

thanks sir kaya I always try to treat it as a transaction nothing more and nothing less though I think there is someone whom I am falling for because of the overall experience.

have a safe day sir @BlackDiamond

Regardless yan kung ano gustuhin mong gawin, Binahagi ko lang past experience ko pero it may be hella different from your experience lalong lalo na yung outcome. 
 

P.S. I want Lason din ee 🥹👉🏽👈🏽

Have a great day Mga Sir.  @BlackDiamond

@dominickcruise

[BlackDiamond]

17 minutes ago, Kryte said:

Exactly Sir.  At some point kasi we’re all addicted to something and or someone that takes the pain away.  We choose our own poison. 

Regardless yan kung ano gustuhin mong gawin, Binahagi ko lang past experience ko pero it may be hella different from your experience lalong lalo na yung outcome. 
 

P.S. I want Lason din ee 🥹👉🏽👈🏽

Have a great day Mga Sir.  @BlackDiamond

@dominickcruise

Di ba? Pick your own poison. 😁

Cheers! 

[D0dong]

I agree n transactional lng talaga. That’s their source of living. 

[dominickcruise]

thank u so much for the insights @BlackDiamond and @Kryte 

learned a lot

[Mang Ricky]

On 11/5/2023 at 11:26 AM, Kryte said:

Una mag aapologize na agad ako. marupok at assuming eh HAHAHAH . Eto, Share ko na experience ko before.

I fell for my thera before. Nagtrabaho kasi ako sa ibang bansa for 2 years.  so paguwi ko, typical na ilabas parents inom kasama mga tropa, catching up ba. Tas ayun naalala ko MTC. kaya nagbukas ako, Hanap hanap. Pm dito pm doon. Gang may tugma sa trip ko. Usap and book.

Nung una kasi naming session, parang nabigla ako na may nagcacare kasi wala naman akong jowa for a long time e. Kahit sabihin mong natural sa script yung ganyang galawan. Na enjoy ko moments kasi outcall kami after ng bakbakan, kwentuhan at tinanong ko kung what time siya aalis. wala pa naman daw siyang client after.

so niyaya ko kumain since malapit lang naman kami sa gateway. Habang naglalakad kami and papuntang gateway, may sense pala kausap. Makwento akong tao at Nalaman ko storya nya and all. Every now and then tinatanong ko baka may lakad na siya and more than free to go siya since tapos naman na session namin an hour ago. Wala pa naman daw, so tuloy lang tas niyaya ko na mag tea or kape kasi tinatamad pa ko umuwi, pero technically nageenjoy pa naman ako tinatamad tamad pa ko bumyahe pauwi non kasi pagod din. Nabanggit nya lang na baka naman daw maningil ako in terms of service 🤣 sabi ko hindi naman. Pero kung iisa pa, bakit hindi? kaya naman e. tawa lang siya sabay tanong ng weh? tara na. Hayok din dahil panay trabaho ako for the past 2 years e.

Gang nasundan naman ng outcall 3 days after. Typical deed tapos chill sa room na nga lang tas umorder nalang ng food. Kwentuhan, Hanggang sa nagsheshare na siya ng problems niya. Tas maya maya nagpart ways na kami kasi may bisita akong dadating sa bahay e.

After a week outcall ulit. Same thing, nuod naman sine naging trip after. Kaso napapansin ko na sa sarili ko na parang gusto ko lagi kausap yung tao 😩😩 Naiirita na ko pag antagal sumagot sa reply. Kaya ayun, nung nag deed talagang performance level. Tas nung naliligo na siya, kasi babalik na sa place nila. nalungkot ako. napansin niya na parang nagiba mood ko at sabi ko wala problema hehe. Kaya tinanong kung bitin daw ba ko. Sabi ko nalang oo. kaya nag oral pambawi daw.

 

Pag kauwi ko, nag mesage lang ako ng thank you for her time today. Tas di na ko nagmessage. Naghanap nalang ako libangan which is yung oto ko nga. After a few days may message na ngangamusta. From time to time nangangamusta din, kaso alam mong di dahil sa kaya mong iprovide na presence kundi dahil easy money ka sakanya. I don’t blame her ha, worth every peso yung services nya. Assuming lang talaga ako na may meaning, nagdevelop lang din ako ng feelings na alam ko namang hindi dapat in the first place. Kaya I decided to cut connections for the reasons:

1. kasi di ko mapigilan nararamdaman ko e. Nahuhulog ka para sa service lang naman.

2. I can’t change her whole situation. Temporary solution lang meron ako and wala akong pang dulo-han, atleast not yet nung time na yon (2016)

3. I don’t have it in me to build from scratch. Considering na aalis din ako from time to time  para magwork. Syempre anjan yung possibility na bumalik ng industry yan pag nabored or am I overthinking things. Ewan haha

4. I do not mean to offend or anything lalo na sa mga thera na makakabasa neto, pero what if may nameet kaming former client nya sa labas diba? ano sasabihin/irereact ko sakanya, “client mo pala dati” tas andyan na yung kung ano ano pinag gagawa nyo and I’ll go full on bad mood na sakanya kahit nakilala nya way before sakin yon and di nya naman kasalanan kasi wala naman siyang choice before dahil sa ganong industry ko siya nakilala e. 

5. Siguro kasi andami pang possibility na pwede mangyari noon and I didn’t try. Dont get me wrong ha? Masaya ako sa outcome. 

 

(P.S. Nakita ko siya, and nasa industry padin at present, 2023)

 

Natuwa lang ako sa thread na to kasi naalala ko yung moments a few years ago. HAHAHAH

pero yun na nga, most of the reasons din ng nastate ko is advices din ng iba. If there’s anything I can leave for you guys, probably 80/20 yan. medyo forgiving pa nga yang percentage ko hahah. 80 alanganin, 20 pwede pero it will be hard and tough.  ikaw na makakapagsabi kung worth it ba or hindi. Pero mostly on the losing side ka. 

 

 

Salamat sa share. Gandang experience.

[BlackDiamond]

6 minutes ago, Mang Ricky said:

Salamat sa share. Gandang experience.

Ang realtalk no?

[Prinsloo]

On 11/5/2023 at 11:26 AM, Kryte said:

Una mag aapologize na agad ako. marupok at assuming eh HAHAHAH . Eto, Share ko na experience ko before.

I fell for my thera before. Nagtrabaho kasi ako sa ibang bansa for 2 years.  so paguwi ko, typical na ilabas parents inom kasama mga tropa, catching up ba. Tas ayun naalala ko MTC. kaya nagbukas ako, Hanap hanap. Pm dito pm doon. Gang may tugma sa trip ko. Usap and book.

Nung una kasi naming session, parang nabigla ako na may nagcacare kasi wala naman akong jowa for a long time e. Kahit sabihin mong natural sa script yung ganyang galawan. Na enjoy ko moments kasi outcall kami after ng bakbakan, kwentuhan at tinanong ko kung what time siya aalis. wala pa naman daw siyang client after.

so niyaya ko kumain since malapit lang naman kami sa gateway. Habang naglalakad kami and papuntang gateway, may sense pala kausap. Makwento akong tao at Nalaman ko storya nya and all. Every now and then tinatanong ko baka may lakad na siya and more than free to go siya since tapos naman na session namin an hour ago. Wala pa naman daw, so tuloy lang tas niyaya ko na mag tea or kape kasi tinatamad pa ko umuwi, pero technically nageenjoy pa naman ako tinatamad tamad pa ko bumyahe pauwi non kasi pagod din. Nabanggit nya lang na baka naman daw maningil ako in terms of service 🤣 sabi ko hindi naman. Pero kung iisa pa, bakit hindi? kaya naman e. tawa lang siya sabay tanong ng weh? tara na. Hayok din dahil panay trabaho ako for the past 2 years e.

Gang nasundan naman ng outcall 3 days after. Typical deed tapos chill sa room na nga lang tas umorder nalang ng food. Kwentuhan, Hanggang sa nagsheshare na siya ng problems niya. Tas maya maya nagpart ways na kami kasi may bisita akong dadating sa bahay e.

After a week outcall ulit. Same thing, nuod naman sine naging trip after. Kaso napapansin ko na sa sarili ko na parang gusto ko lagi kausap yung tao 😩😩 Naiirita na ko pag antagal sumagot sa reply. Kaya ayun, nung nag deed talagang performance level. Tas nung naliligo na siya, kasi babalik na sa place nila. nalungkot ako. napansin niya na parang nagiba mood ko at sabi ko wala problema hehe. Kaya tinanong kung bitin daw ba ko. Sabi ko nalang oo. kaya nag oral pambawi daw.

 

Pag kauwi ko, nag mesage lang ako ng thank you for her time today. Tas di na ko nagmessage. Naghanap nalang ako libangan which is yung oto ko nga. After a few days may message na ngangamusta. From time to time nangangamusta din, kaso alam mong di dahil sa kaya mong iprovide na presence kundi dahil easy money ka sakanya. I don’t blame her ha, worth every peso yung services nya. Assuming lang talaga ako na may meaning, nagdevelop lang din ako ng feelings na alam ko namang hindi dapat in the first place. Kaya I decided to cut connections for the reasons:

1. kasi di ko mapigilan nararamdaman ko e. Nahuhulog ka para sa service lang naman.

2. I can’t change her whole situation. Temporary solution lang meron ako and wala akong pang dulo-han, atleast not yet nung time na yon (2016)

3. I don’t have it in me to build from scratch. Considering na aalis din ako from time to time  para magwork. Syempre anjan yung possibility na bumalik ng industry yan pag nabored or am I overthinking things. Ewan haha

4. I do not mean to offend or anything lalo na sa mga thera na makakabasa neto, pero what if may nameet kaming former client nya sa labas diba? ano sasabihin/irereact ko sakanya, “client mo pala dati” tas andyan na yung kung ano ano pinag gagawa nyo and I’ll go full on bad mood na sakanya kahit nakilala nya way before sakin yon and di nya naman kasalanan kasi wala naman siyang choice before dahil sa ganong industry ko siya nakilala e. 

5. Siguro kasi andami pang possibility na pwede mangyari noon and I didn’t try. Dont get me wrong ha? Masaya ako sa outcome. 

 

(P.S. Nakita ko siya, and nasa industry padin at present, 2023)

 

Natuwa lang ako sa thread na to kasi naalala ko yung moments a few years ago. HAHAHAH

pero yun na nga, most of the reasons din ng nastate ko is advices din ng iba. If there’s anything I can leave for you guys, probably 80/20 yan. medyo forgiving pa nga yang percentage ko hahah. 80 alanganin, 20 pwede pero it will be hard and tough.  ikaw na makakapagsabi kung worth it ba or hindi. Pero mostly on the losing side ka. 

 

 

May something yan kahit papaano.

Ang general rule is if sumama sayo tapos walang hiningi na extra charge.

Medyo may gray area ngayun dahil sa outcall service na pwede tlaga kayo na kumain sa labas or maihatid mo sya after ng session

[Zack Unfair]

Good Read!

[AngGwapo]

2 hours ago, Prinsloo said:

May something yan kahit papaano.

Ang general rule is if sumama sayo tapos walang hiningi na extra charge.

Medyo may gray area ngayun dahil sa outcall service na pwede tlaga kayo na kumain sa labas or maihatid mo sya after ng session

Bro, @Prinsloodon't get me started. I have so many REAL stories this year. As in...

But I cannot divulge ATM. Maybe in several years. Maybe never.

I am true to my word na keeper of secrets kasi.

[BlackDiamond]

3 hours ago, AngGwapo said:

Bro, @Prinsloodon't get me started. I have so many REAL stories this year. As in...

But I cannot divulge ATM. Maybe in several years. Maybe never.

I am true to my word na keeper of secrets kasi.

This is what respect means.

The story may or may never be told.. 

What happens between you and another person only gets out based on permission.

[dominickcruise]

as in any relationship, you can fake it naman and some therapists are like this, they treat you like genuine yung feelings nila sa iyo but in reality, nakikinabang siya sa iyo financially and the guy will believe what he wants to believe as evidenced by @AngGwapo signature so, he falls....

the only solution is to get a rotation of women para in that way, hindi ka mahuhulog but when the time comes, there will be an exception to that rule

[knightdavion]

On 10/14/2023 at 1:16 PM, Iceman7 said:

For all the newbies even thinking about pursuing a Thera for a stable relationship all you need to do is back read there is plenty of stories of failure and hurt and loss of money.

To keep things simple. GM gives money to Thera. Thera gives money to real boyfriend. This here is the reality!! 

Like just today one of my regulars BF tag her on a post thanking her for the new nike shoes she bought him saying that he was going to give her sex when she gets home for as a reward 😂 Not like she gets enough of it at her work place.

What is really troubling if you guys can find it. Someone here bought a Thera a car. And of course who is the one driving it? The real boyfriend.

Not saying it's always like this there are high value Theras that know their worth won't mess around with broke asses. I myself somewhat pursued a legendary top Thera but kudos to the guy she is with now because I don't think I could spend the kind of money to keep her. Because I also had to consider the big family as well. Not sure if he is a GM and knows about her past but so far they been together for a while now.

Other high value Theras I spoke to told me this was their dream to be swept off their feet and taken cared off by a GM. Like what happened with Ms.Gem at tokyo Spa and I think Mariel. 

But to each his own you have been warned. If you don't have to deep pockets to play this game. Best to just be a regular customer.

 gem and mariel with GM? 

[boserokid]

My take on this has always been on my signature below.

[MartinAvedis3]

Being a relationship with a Thera, no difference and exact same thing having a relationship with a model, celebrities, beauty queens and etc. 3 Things they look for in a man. These things 1st are Character,  Personality, looks, Pocket/Materialism (enough to support what they want at 1st). Then, 2nd stage there goes emotional feelings/love..if you reach this point. Then sila na hahabol sayo kahit less na ang bigay mo or kahit d ka magbigay. Sila na hahabol sayo. It’s like an investment and trust. 

[ShaiderRukawa]

On 10/28/2023 at 8:00 PM, BrosTayoDito said:

Haaaays mga newbie "first time in the industry" talaga mahirap ispelengin.. 🤨

so ayun na nga, nag-fa-fall na si Bro nyo... sa isang newbie "first time in the industry", syempre medyo close na at dahil bago nga e hindi pa nya naayos ang mga necessary arrangements like housing near the spa base of operations, pang-deposit, advance, rolling funds etc.. so ayun na nga, nangutang...

Pinautang ko naman, sabi ko pa "SAKA MO NA BAYARAN KAPAG MALUWANG KA NA" 😇

Abe e sinampal ako?! hays.. ako na nagpautang ako pa ang nasampal 🤪 🤪 🤪

 

Pang KMJS haha!