Chocolates Posted October 17, 2014 Share Posted October 17, 2014 mahirap pero masarap Agree. Quote Link to comment
markjoycehailey Posted October 17, 2014 Share Posted October 17, 2014 Mas masarap kung unexplored territory being drllled for the first time. Quote Link to comment
ghidolkod2 Posted October 21, 2014 Share Posted October 21, 2014 hindi naman siguro ako falling in love with a thera pero wala akong nakitang thread para sa konsensiya. sa ngayon kasi kinokonsensiya ako sa ginagawa ko at ayaw ko nang magpaservice sa kanya (ok lang ako sa masahe at kwentuhan pero wala na yung extra). bago niyo husgaan siguro dapat siguro mag-elaborate muna ako. kinokosensiya ako dahil: 1. hindi naman talaga ako pumupunta sa MP o eSpa (regularly or sa tanan ng buhay ko), pumunta lang ako out of curiosity o siguro tawagin na lang nating "for experience's sake". pagkatapos ng ilang session sa same thera, nasatisfy na yung curiosity ko at okay na ako. Hindi naman ako naghahabol ng mileage o kung ano man. 2. tinuturing ko yung thera bilang kaibigan o "friend" ko dahil hindi naman ako discriminatory o baka talagang friendly lang ako. Hindi naman hadlang yung kanyang line of work para maituring ko siyang kaibigan (baka nga tumaas pa yung tingin ko sa kanya dahil sa ginagawa niya para sa kanyang pamilya). Hindi rin naman malayo yung agwat ng edad namin para magkaroon ng questionable friendship. Alam kong napasok lang siya sa ganito sa hirap ng buhay. At bilang kaibigan, hindi dapat ako mag-take advantage sa sitwasyon niya. hindi ko pa nasasabi na kinokonsensiya ako dun sa thera. dapat ko bang sabihin o dapat huwag na akong makonsensiya?mali rin bang ituring na kaibigan ang isang thera at dapat strictly business (guest-thera relationship) kayo? sana hindi taboo pag-usapan ang konsensiya dito sa forums. lahat naman tayo ay tao. maganda rin sana mabasa yung opinyon ng mga thera. Quote Link to comment
great_escape Posted October 21, 2014 Share Posted October 21, 2014 hindi naman siguro ako falling in love with a thera pero wala akong nakitang thread para sa konsensiya. sa ngayon kasi kinokonsensiya ako sa ginagawa ko at ayaw ko nang magpaservice sa kanya (ok lang ako sa masahe at kwentuhan pero wala na yung extra). bago niyo husgaan siguro dapat siguro mag-elaborate muna ako. kinokosensiya ako dahil: 1. hindi naman talaga ako pumupunta sa MP o eSpa (regularly or sa tanan ng buhay ko), pumunta lang ako out of curiosity o siguro tawagin na lang nating "for experience's sake". pagkatapos ng ilang session sa same thera, nasatisfy na yung curiosity ko at okay na ako. Hindi naman ako naghahabol ng mileage o kung ano man. 2. tinuturing ko yung thera bilang kaibigan o "friend" ko dahil hindi naman ako discriminatory o baka talagang friendly lang ako. Hindi naman hadlang yung kanyang line of work para maituring ko siyang kaibigan (baka nga tumaas pa yung tingin ko sa kanya dahil sa ginagawa niya para sa kanyang pamilya). Hindi rin naman malayo yung agwat ng edad namin para magkaroon ng questionable friendship. Alam kong napasok lang siya sa ganito sa hirap ng buhay. At bilang kaibigan, hindi dapat ako mag-take advantage sa sitwasyon niya. hindi ko pa nasasabi na kinokonsensiya ako dun sa thera. dapat ko bang sabihin o dapat huwag na akong makonsensiya?mali rin bang ituring na kaibigan ang isang thera at dapat strictly business (guest-thera relationship) kayo? sana hindi taboo pag-usapan ang konsensiya dito sa forums. lahat naman tayo ay tao. maganda rin sana mabasa yung opinyon ng mga thera. konsyensya kasi she sees you as a friend and though you may claim to only have platonic feelings for her, you also want to avail of her extra service? Tama ba? Hence, that feeling of being conflicted. If i may just say so.friendship like any other relationship has boundaries. Kaso ngayn parang wala ng ganun. Friends pero may fubu.ideally, if you decide to be as friends sana hanggang dun na lang un unless she doesnt mind or doesnt feel any awkwardness sa ganun arrangement.. Quote Link to comment
mjtolentino(retired) Posted October 22, 2014 Share Posted October 22, 2014 mahirap pero masarapYes mahirap pero masarap.. Kakaibang sarap.. Quote Link to comment
ghidolkod2 Posted October 22, 2014 Share Posted October 22, 2014 konsyensya kasi she sees you as a friend and though you may claim to only have platonic feelings for her, you also want to avail of her extra service? Tama ba? Hence, that feeling of being conflicted. If i may just say so.friendship like any other relationship has boundaries. Kaso ngayn parang wala ng ganun. Friends pero may fubu.ideally, if you decide to be as friends sana hanggang dun na lang un unless she doesnt mind or doesnt feel any awkwardness sa ganun arrangement.. tama yata yung intindi ninyo na merong platonic feelings pero dun sa part na gusto kong i-avail yung extra service niya hindi. hindi ko na gustong i-avail yung extra as mentioned sa post ko. Quote Link to comment
Diesel99 Posted October 22, 2014 Share Posted October 22, 2014 Yes mahirap pero masarap.. Kakaibang sarap.. Yes! Andyan kasi yung THRILL!Sa Married Men, Yung bthrill na baka mahuli ka. Sa mga singles naman, the thrill of not knowing kung saan kayo makakarating sa relationship nyo. Quote Link to comment
BB-8 Posted October 25, 2014 Share Posted October 25, 2014 tama yata yung intindi ninyo na merong platonic feelings pero dun sa part na gusto kong i-avail yung extra service niya hindi. hindi ko na gustong i-avail yung extra as mentioned sa post ko. kung ayaw mo ng ES at sa tingin mo maiintindihan nya na gusto mo lang syang kaibigan, bkit dmo yayain lumabas pra mas mahaba ang panahon ninyo together. lay your cards on the table but i warn you, you will ultimately fall for her. at ang kataposan nyan ay hindi maganda pra sa inyong dalawa. mas lalo n syo. Quote Link to comment
pompaman Posted October 25, 2014 Share Posted October 25, 2014 kung ayaw mo ng ES at sa tingin mo maiintindihan nya na gusto mo lang syang kaibigan, bkit dmo yayain lumabas pra mas mahaba ang panahon ninyo together. lay your cards on the table but i warn you, you will ultimately fall for her. at ang kataposan nyan ay hindi maganda pra sa inyong dalawa. mas lalo n syo. +1 Quote Link to comment
rhubs Posted October 25, 2014 Share Posted October 25, 2014 Sa mga singles naman, the thrill of not knowing kung saan kayo makakarating sa relationship nyo. Yun nga ba? Nag backtrack ako a few pages back.. And sa lahat ng nabasa ko.. I am left with more uncertainty than answers. Pang 4 na sunod sunod ko nang balik sa kanya as of kanina. Di ko matanggal yung fact na masaya ako. Pero alam ko rin na this would be a complicated thing... I don't even know in what multiple aspects or levels but I know na maraming complications ang mabribring up nito. I don't want it to be... Pero it is what it is.. I dunno what the hell is this or what we're doing or what we are getting into. I barely know her, she barely knows me. All on the basis na mabit ako and totoo ako. Yun sabi niya... Well wala naman kasi akong tinago. Open book ako to my knowledge.. Quote Link to comment
Wanderlusting Posted October 26, 2014 Share Posted October 26, 2014 I couldn't find any other more appropriate forum topic than this so will post my question here: Guys, I'm curious - there are a lot of references to "ibahay" or "binahay" or "ginarahe"; but what does it exactly mean? You give the girl a literal house? Or at least rent a unit for her I suppose. Then you give her money month-on-month, is that it? On this note though, how much would someone (MP, GRO, or Thera) expect to receive to compel her to quit? For example, let's say she's the top-earner for the establishment - how much does she make per month? Do you match what she earns or give a portion of it only? Thanks! P.S. It occurs to me my post here implies I am pondering "ibahay" one girl. But to be quite frank, I am more curious really. Any inputs / replies are highly appreciated - as long as what you post are real information or honest opinions. If financial information you will share are confidential, please PM me and trust that I will keep it in close confidence. Quote Link to comment
markjoycehailey Posted October 26, 2014 Share Posted October 26, 2014 (edited) I couldn't find any other more appropriate forum topic than this so will post my question here: Guys, I'm curious - there are a lot of references to "ibahay" or "binahay" or "ginarahe"; but what does it exactly mean? You give the girl a literal house? Or at least rent a unit for her I suppose. Then you give her money month-on-month, is that it? On this note though, how much would someone (MP, GRO, or Thera) expect to receive to compel her to quit? For example, let's say she's the top-earner for the establishment - how much does she make per month? Do you match what she earns or give a portion of it only? Thanks! P.S. It occurs to me my post here implies I am pondering "ibahay" one girl. But to be quite frank, I am more curious really. Any inputs / replies are highly appreciated - as long as what you post are real information or honest opinions. If financial information you will share are confidential, please PM me and trust that I will keep it in close confidence. I know of several theras who had been "given" condo units or apartments. The GMs iof course are expected to coff up the rent money and a very generous allowance, enough to support the thera, all her dependents, if any, and all her "bisyo" or else she"ll be moonlighring. I am frequently contacted by these moonlighters kaya kilala ko kung sino maliit magbigay ng allowance. A very lucky thera was given an apartemt in Paranaque and an actual house in Cavite. This was after she left a Makati apartment given to het by another GM. Kung top thera ibabahay mo, to give you an idea, i know of one thera who makes close to 150k a month easily. A couple of years ago, when business was better, i know of a thera who made 250k in one month. Edited October 26, 2014 by markjoycehailey Quote Link to comment
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