Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[mhengh]

taena...e ako naman ganito pinoproblema ko...yung angel ko, sobrang napamahal na sakin at napamahal na din ako sa kanya...we had this whole plan wherein i would support her studies this coming semester...tas may dumating na Japanese guest na nag-offer ng work sa Japan...kaso may "slight" condition, that they get "married on paper" daw (whatever the f#&k that means in Japan)...ang masakit dun, she is seriously considering the offer to help out her family...it's always the damned family...tsk tsk...i'm doing everything to convince her that the whole setup sounds like a scam, but she still says "pagiisipan pa daw nya ng mabuti"...man, i didn't spend all the time, money, and effort just to be heartbroken in the end...halos talikuran ko na pamilya at lahat ng kaibigan ko para lang sa kanya and ganito lang ang mangyayari...this is messed up...

 

what to do...what to do...kelan tayo inom ulit sir Mon?...maybe you can share some of your knowledge about the marriage laws in Japan...wag mo sya itext about this a...hehehe...

 

in all my years in MTC, i never thought i would post something this serious in this thread...i used to laugh at the people who post their stories of heartbreaks...now it's happening to me...i've always taken pride in the fact that a decades worth of clubbing experience has taught me to wisen up...hayz, it's funny how things turned out in the end...maybe this is my karma for all the rotten things i've done to all the girls in my life...kung sino pa yung talagang minahal ko, sya pa wawasak sa puso ko...

Edited April 19, 2010 by mhengh

[monazario]

taena...e ako naman ganito pinoproblema ko...yung angel ko, sobrang napamahal na sakin at napamahal na din ako sa kanya...we had this whole plan wherein i would support her studies this coming semester...tas may dumating na Japanese guest na nag-offer ng work sa Japan...kaso may "slight" condition, that they get "married on paper" daw (whatever the f#&k that means in Japan)...ang masakit dun, she is seriously considering the offer to help out her family...it's always the damned family...tsk tsk...i'm doing everything to convince her that the whole setup sounds like a scam, but she still says "pagiisipan pa daw nya ng mabuti"...man, i didn't spend all the time, money, and effort just to be heartbroken in the end...halos talikuran ko na pamilya at lahat ng kaibigan ko para lang sa kanya and ganito lang ang mangyayari...this is messed up...

 

what to do...what to do...kelan tayo inom ulit sir Mon?...maybe you can share some of your knowledge about the marriage laws in Japan...wag mo sya itext about this a...hehehe...

 

in all my years in MTC, i never thought i would post something this serious in this thread...i used to laugh at the people who post their stories of heartbreaks...now it's happening to me...i've always taken pride in the fact that a decades worth of clubbing experience has taught me to wisen up...hayz, it's funny how things turned out in the end...maybe this is my karma for all the rotten things i've done to all the girls in my life...kung sino pa yung talagang minahal ko, sya pa wawasak sa puso ko...

i know your sentiments bro!

 

i have no idea sa laws ng japan... but it is strict and its way too chauvenist as compared to Philippine laws. Raises too many questions on the ramification of entering into an agreement such as that.. be on guard. chance favor the prepared mind.

 

di ako maka-inom ngayon.. under meds ulit.. same old upper respiratory tract infection..

hina na ng baga ko kasi kaka bisyo. anyways, after election pa ko as i will be out of town starting this weekend onwards..

 

pag balik ko... one by one lets sort our adventures and mis-adventures with our angels hahahaha...mahaba habang inuman yan bro!

 

Si, si Señor!

[btdeadlock]

taena...e ako naman ganito pinoproblema ko...yung angel ko, sobrang napamahal na sakin at napamahal na din ako sa kanya...we had this whole plan wherein i would support her studies this coming semester...tas may dumating na Japanese guest na nag-offer ng work sa Japan...kaso may "slight" condition, that they get "married on paper" daw (whatever the f#&k that means in Japan)...ang masakit dun, she is seriously considering the offer to help out her family...it's always the damned family...tsk tsk...i'm doing everything to convince her that the whole setup sounds like a scam,

"Married on paper" probably means he said they'd have to get married so they'll have a much easier time of getting her into Japan. He probably promised there are no strings attached and won't touch her.

 

If she believes that, I've got a bridge to sell her.

 

Once he gets her into Japan, she'll be at his mercy. No place to run. No place to hide.

 

in all my years in MTC, i never thought i would post something this serious in this thread...i used to laugh at the people who post their stories of heartbreaks...now it's happening to me...i've always taken pride in the fact that a decades worth of clubbing experience has taught me to wisen up...hayz, it's funny how things turned out in the end...maybe this is my karma for all the rotten things i've done to all the girls in my life...kung sino pa yung talagang minahal ko, sya pa wawasak sa puso ko...

In all my years in MTC, I never thought YOU would post something serious on this thread. I always saw you as a paragon of reason on these boards. Heck, I still read your old posts whenever I feel I need a slap upside my head. All I can say is...

 

Welcome to the club, pare!

Edited April 22, 2010 by Wyld

[Rasc]

Damned! My fault ... I can find endless reasons not to love her . . . She is a GRO . . . her kisses are for sale . . . abused her in bed in return for some silver (proverbial: money) . . yet she broke my heart . . . DAMNED . . . it is so bittersweet :cry:

 

 

your not the only one who experience that... even you try to bail her out, there's still no guarantee, like sir BTdeadlock post... atleast there is always a path had been change.

[Johnny Drama]

Mahirap tong sitwasyon na to. Akala ko open minded na ko sa mga bagay-bagay pero pag dating dito medyo mahirap lunukin na may ibang kasama ang GF mo gabi-gabi. Na hindi mo alam kung mas naeenjoy nya nga ba yung sex nyo o sa lahat ng lalaki pare-pareho lang. Mahirap kasi hindi mo alam ang ginagawa nila pag di mo sila kasama. Di mo talaga malalaman kung seryoso sila o kung honest talaga sila sa yo.

 

Pero di ako tutol sa mga nagmamahal ng kagaya nila. Sa totoo nga bilib pa ko sa mga ganyang lalaki. Tao rin sila...walang pinagiba sa mga nililigawan nating nagtatrabaho sa ibang industriya. Medyo may mga nababasa akong posts dito na napaka-demeaning sa pagkatao ng mga GRO/PSP. Ito lang masasabi ko sa inyo...ANG LILINIS NYO! Lahat tayo may kanya-kanyang baho. Wag nating ibaba pagkatao nila dahil kahit ganun ang trabaho nila, may karapatan pa rin silang respetuhin.

[StoicVampire]

Mahirap tong sitwasyon na to. Akala ko open minded na ko sa mga bagay-bagay pero pag dating dito medyo mahirap lunukin na may ibang kasama ang GF mo gabi-gabi. Na hindi mo alam kung mas naeenjoy nya nga ba yung sex nyo o sa lahat ng lalaki pare-pareho lang. Mahirap kasi hindi mo alam ang ginagawa nila pag di mo sila kasama. Di mo talaga malalaman kung seryoso sila o kung honest talaga sila sa yo.

 

Pero di ako tutol sa mga nagmamahal ng kagaya nila. Sa totoo nga bilib pa ko sa mga ganyang lalaki. Tao rin sila...walang pinagiba sa mga nililigawan nating nagtatrabaho sa ibang industriya. Medyo may mga nababasa akong posts dito na napaka-demeaning sa pagkatao ng mga GRO/PSP. Ito lang masasabi ko sa inyo...ANG LILINIS NYO! Lahat tayo may kanya-kanyang baho. Wag nating ibaba pagkatao nila dahil kahit ganun ang trabaho nila, may karapatan pa rin silang respetuhin.

 

Bro, lahat ng tao may kanya-kanyang opinyon and we respect that. Like what you've said, tao rin sila. Although may pinagkaiba rin slightly dahil nga sa line of work nila. Given na yun na pwedeng pera lang ang habol di ba? Siguro di ka naman magpopost dito if you haven't experienced it on yourself right? We aren't called GM's for nothing. IMHO kahit sinong babae mapa-within the "industry" or just your average working girl should be given utmost respect. We couldn't blame some posters because of what they have experienced. I fell with a PSP before and it didn't turned out quite well. I'll be lying kung sasabihin kong di ako nagalit dahil sa ginawa niya. Naalala ko pa yung sinabi ni Rasc na santo pa di nagalit. Hehe! Gusto nating lahat umayos ang buhay nila. Katulad nung nangyari kay sir btdeadlock. The girl chose the hard but clean way out. It means hindi lahat ng babae gustong pumasok sa ganitong profession. But it's still the girl's choice if she wants to get out habang maaga pa.

[StoicVampire]

Ok. Just needed an opinion guys. I'll take and consider any of your answers.

 

From the three categories (are there any?) GRO, MPA, PSP.

 

Why do you think someone would choose the last option? Just curious.

[Itto Ogami]

Ok. Just needed an opinion guys. I'll take and consider any of your answers.

 

From the three categories (are there any?) GRO, MPA, PSP.

 

Why do you think someone would choose the last option? Just curious.

 

do we actually get to choose who we fall in love with?

[StoicVampire]

do we actually get to choose who we fall in love with?

 

You got me wrong sir itto. I'm pertaining to the girl. Why would she choose being an escort girl rather than the two other options. Sorry for not being specific.

 

I did not choose to fall in love with a PSP. It just happened.

[dirtypop]

i've learned something after back reading this thread...

 

it is indeed a gamble to love these girls, why? 1st they might think that you just want to get free sex from them. 2nd, you might end up getting sick (std) rather that having their love, 3rd, social stigma, papaano mo sila ipapakilala sa mga kaibigan and family mo? i don't think sasabihin nyo ung totoo.

 

after all tao pa rin sila, they deserve love too, but when we make a decision we need to weight everything. nasa huli ang pag sisisi

[Itto Ogami]

You got me wrong sir itto. I'm pertaining to the girl. Why would she choose being an escort girl rather than the two other options. Sorry for not being specific.

 

I did not choose to fall in love with a PSP. It just happened.

 

same with me, hijo.

didn't expect to fall in love with an MPA.

 

regarding your question, i think PSP would be the best option.

why? kasi di siya masyadong gamit. (i think...)

on the other hand, there is that pressure on her

to provide GFE (kissing, cuddling, etc.)

which you don't normally expect from an MPA.

 

ang mahirap naman pag GRO, dapat bakal ang atay mo

from daily drinking binges associated with the job.

[btdeadlock]

Ok. Just needed an opinion guys. I'll take and consider any of your answers.

 

From the three categories (are there any?) GRO, MPA, PSP.

 

Why do you think someone would choose the last option? Just curious.

I've never gotten the service of a PSP so all of this is theory so don't quote me.

 

I think of the three, PSPs are the most discreet. If you're living a double life, PSPs are the way to go. That's from the perspective of the PSP and client.

[Rasc]

Ok. Just needed an opinion guys. I'll take and consider any of your answers.

 

From the three categories (are there any?) GRO, MPA, PSP.

 

Why do you think someone would choose the last option? Just curious.

 

Sir BTdeadlock, right PSP they have a double life, sometimes they are very discreet, very limited clients, and some not so discreet. base from my experience...

 

for MPA, I just tried the recommendation of the one the true Master, the MPA resident. well experience is good but causes to much for me for 1 pop.

 

for GRO, well for the first time I've fallen for one... Sir Itto is right, bakal dapat ang atay, but luckily for me... she's not drinker, but sometimes good girls gone bad, ended up black and blue mildly hehe.

 

But all in all you should know where you stand, because of their work, you need to swallow the pride. and have a blind eyes and deaf ears...

[Johnny Drama]

If ever I have the option, I'd rather not fall for a PSP. Sa kanila kasi to get a good client base, either they provide PSE or GFE. I cant imagine my girl providing either one to other guys.

 

GRO is somehow the best option amongst the 3. Kasi ang sextra sa kanila e hindi automatic unlike sa other 2 girls.

[Rearden]

Pero di ako tutol sa mga nagmamahal ng kagaya nila. Sa totoo nga bilib pa ko sa mga ganyang lalaki. Tao rin sila...walang pinagiba sa mga nililigawan nating nagtatrabaho sa ibang industriya. Medyo may mga nababasa akong posts dito na napaka-demeaning sa pagkatao ng mga GRO/PSP. Ito lang masasabi ko sa inyo...ANG LILINIS NYO! Lahat tayo may kanya-kanyang baho. Wag nating ibaba pagkatao nila dahil kahit ganun ang trabaho nila, may karapatan pa rin silang respetuhin.

 

I agree! What I want to know is what the hell made sex so special? Why does society care so much about who we're f#&king? Sex by people is not more special than sex by dogs! Both are driven by the biological imperative to procreate! The only thing that differentiates us from the dogs, is that we can use the act of sex for deriving pleasure, circumventing its main purpose, Reproduction!

 

Let's realize the fact that we have the Catholic-Christian(and it's predecessor Judaism) tradition to blame! If it wasn't for the pompous, self-righteous St. Agustine, who he himself was a dog and f#&ked anything wearing a skirt, and later at old age suddenly "realized" that abstaining for sex is the way to be "holy" (how convenient for him), that our society now suffers from this glorification of the act of SEX.

 

Of course let us also realize that, the reason we don't want our women f#&king around with all the men in town, has nothing to do with the naive notions of PURITY nor HONOR nor DECENCY, but rather it is because of our natural instinct of TERRITORIALITY! MY WOMEN! MY PROPERTY! This is the male ego!

[Typoun]

simple lang ang sagot ko dyan. Its a big risk. Because she knows that she can always get someone better like better in bed and a bigger pocket. They have a big tendency to be free spirited because they know they always have the option.

 

Thats one big lesson for me though.

[LecheFlan]

Madaling sabihin , mahirap gawin.....

 

Minsan akala mo tama ...mali pala...pero kapag puso ang umiral...nawawala na ang libog.

 

Mas madaling tikisin ang libog kaysa sa pag ibig.

 

Nagkakape sa Net Kape,

Leche Flan

[Johnny Drama]

Masyado nating ginegeneralize ang mga nasa line of work na to. We tend to think that they are not capable of true love. Na they will just use us. For sure marami sa kanila ang "mautak" na. Pero it's our fault as GMs. They tend to generalize us na we will just treat them like trash because of their line of work. So in return, they dont take love seriously kasi may defensive mechanism na sila. They all feel that all men will not respect and love them truly. Pero if the question is are they capable of giving true love to us men...tao din sila...and I am sure they are capable. Try to treat them differently and they will treat you differently. Treat them like a whore and they will treat you like a customer. Kung lolokohin nila kayo despite loving them, it's not because of their line of work, but it's more of their true personality. Kahit naman sa ibang profession may manloloko. Wag natin igeneralize sa linya nila.

[btdeadlock]

I just want to throw out this question...

 

Have you guys found any differences between courting a GRO/MPA/PSP as opposed to courting a girl not in the same line of work? Are there some things easier/harder to do? Moves that work/don't work? Any special considerations?

[Itto Ogami]

i think they're less trusting.

 

most of the girls i've met

already have the mindset that

they're not allowed to fall in love

in their kind of work.

[Itto Ogami]

I just want to throw out this question...

 

Have you guys found any differences between courting a GRO/MPA/PSP as opposed to courting a girl not in the same line of work? Are there some things easier/harder to do? Moves that work/don't work? Any special considerations?

 

in my experience, a special consideration ay yung

wag mong sanayin yung babae sa luho.

 

that's a surefire way of knowing if she has

genuine feelings for you or just in it for the money.

ps. pls merge this with my earlier entry.

Edited May 4, 2010 by IttoOgami

[royginald]

^

So everything's part of "THE JOB"!

 

Walang personalan ,trabaho lang .

 

 

. . .

[blow_gobi]

A GRO/model I used to see in a bar and continues to see up to now (ka lab-team pa rin ) even though she already left the bar scene 1-1/2 years ago told me that her former club guests still texted her.

 

And their text to her is mostly: "Bakit nung nasa club ka pa e ang bait at ang lambing mo, ngayon e may pagka isnabera ka na?"

 

To which she said she answered: "Nung nasa club pa ako e mga guests ko kayo kaya dapat pakitaan ng maganda. Pero ngayon wala na ako sa club hindi ko na kailangang mag-PR pa."

[StoicVampire]

Masyado nating ginegeneralize ang mga nasa line of work na to. We tend to think that they are not capable of true love. Na they will just use us. For sure marami sa kanila ang "mautak" na. Pero it's our fault as GMs. They tend to generalize us na we will just treat them like trash because of their line of work. So in return, they dont take love seriously kasi may defensive mechanism na sila. They all feel that all men will not respect and love them truly. Pero if the question is are they capable of giving true love to us men...tao din sila...and I am sure they are capable. Try to treat them differently and they will treat you differently. Treat them like a whore and they will treat you like a customer. Kung lolokohin nila kayo despite loving them, it's not because of their line of work, but it's more of their true personality. Kahit naman sa ibang profession may manloloko. Wag natin igeneralize sa linya nila.

 

How to treat them differently sir would be the question. Ain't it? True enough, kahit saang profession may manloloko. Ang masakit lang talagang katanungan eh "bakit siya pa?"

[StoicVampire]

 

she is the one who started saying those three (3) words

 

It is really really darn hard to 'establish beyond reasonable doubt' that her kisses for you are genuine . . . because at the back of your mind you are darn sure that she can show affection 'professionally'

 

I remembered one week after I confessed my true feelings to her. Wala pa kong itinatanong sinagot na ako.

 

Then when I started asking "Mahal mo ba ako"... no reply....