Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[Rasc]

pambihira di ko nakita itong post na ito ah. hmmmm......pero nabuyo niya kasi ako sa pagbibigay eh. tsk! haaayyy..... ang masakit nito, sinabi pa sa kin ng magulang ko na sabi sa kanya ng utol ko na "nay, parang di ko yata nararamdamang sumusweldo si kuya...." pati kapatid ko nakalimutan ko dahil sa kanya! dinamay niya na ako....pati pa kapatid ko! am i sourgraping? nah. masakit lang na pati pamilya mo naisakripisyo mo para sa kanya.

 

good thing hindi pa nangyayari sa akin yan... she never ask for money.

 

yun lang hindi na ako nakakabili agad ng gusto ko para sa sarili ko, natuto ako mag budget... :thumbsupsmiley:

[StoicVampire]

good thing hindi pa nangyayari sa akin yan... she never ask for money.

 

yun lang hindi na ako nakakabili agad ng gusto ko para sa sarili ko, natuto ako mag budget... :thumbsupsmiley:

 

galing nga. kelangan niya ng pera pero di siya nag-aask. ako magpiprisinta na magbigay. kinukuha naman niya. haaayyy. langya pati jacket ko. nakuha! hehe! :cry:

[Rasc]

galing nga. kelangan niya ng pera pero di siya nag-aask. ako magpiprisinta na magbigay. kinukuha naman niya. haaayyy. langya pati jacket ko. nakuha! hehe! :cry:

 

ayun lang... nag prisinta ka sa kanya... tried it once but with a valid reason... hindi kasi sya pinasama ng nauna sa akin na guest nya sa dance number nila, thought she was absent... yung nakita ako hindi na umalis, even though hindi pa tapos yung oras nya sa nauna sa akin... i got a habit of waiting, pahabaan talaga ng patience... hinihiram nya ung jacket ko pero binabalik din naman nya...

[TanglewoodBoy]

well they are in it for the money.. thats a given.. but once you are treated by the person as a person

and not as a guest then its a different story... when you search for the common but found an uncommon

what will you do? ...

 

Cheers Bro!

yeah bro, kasi that's the time you become vulnerable...but enjoy it is as it is...then maybe, in the near future, you could live happy ever after...

 

good luck bro!!

 

share ko lang, just recently..i met this mpa whom attracted ako physically and mentally (she speaks good english and di siya yung bastusin na babae) but she's so frank and i got her recently in hoping na to build a relationship with her but she flatly said no to me, maybe di niya ako type, maybe di niay gusto magka BF (and wala naman siyang BF na guest as what she said...)

[Rearden]

galing nga. kelangan niya ng pera pero di siya nag-aask. ako magpiprisinta na magbigay. kinukuha naman niya. haaayyy. langya pati jacket ko. nakuha! hehe! :cry:

 

hahaha! i remembered that i lent my jacket to my angel inside the VIP, when her time was over, she asked if she could keep the jacket! NO WAY! hahaha!

 

didn't give in to her demands for gifts or money! in the end, napasaakin pa rin sya! hahaha!

 

so guys, don't give in to your angels! once you give in, they will suck you dry! it is human nature!

[countrystyle]

gro's can and will fall in love or at least get very infatuated with guests. they're only human. but chances are the relationship won't work. they are not going to stop working in a club because they think they're in love. they will still choose money, even if deep inside they want give in. they need to feed their baby bothers. send their little sisters to school. give their good-for-nothing dads beer money.

 

and if she falls in love with a rich guy who can give her all the money she wants? chances are that rich guy is married or has other women. so even if he is sincere, it's almost impossible to make the relationship work.

 

of course i'm not taking away the fact that things can have a happy ending. but based on what i see in this thread and in real life, happy endings are rare.

[bpc_dnd]

good thing hindi pa nangyayari sa akin yan... she never ask for money.

 

ako din, she never asked anything from me, well except maybe food. Nung nakaraan, chocolate lang at gatorade para may energy daw sa deed (once lang yun). Nung nalaman ko na mahilig sya sa crema de fruta na cake, yun lang ang hiningi nya at kahit anong pasalubong from cebu basta galing cebu (nakafield work kasi ako sa cebu). so sabi ko, dried mangoes lang na pack (wala pa yatang 100 yun) at crema de fruta (na icoconsume din naman naming dalawa).

[bpc_dnd]

buti na lang at never syang humingi ng pera sa akin at hindi rin ako nagbabayad sa kanya pag pumupunta ako sa mp. naiilang nga din ako minsan kasi i know she is in there for money pero never naman nya ako siningil or nagsabi. pinapapunta lang nya ako dun at gusto daw nya ako makasama.

[Guest megalodon]

gro's can and will fall in love or at least get very infatuated with guests. they're only human. but chances are the relationship won't work. they are not going to stop working in a club because they think they're in love. they will still choose money, even if deep inside they want give in. they need to feed their baby bothers. send their little sisters to school. give their good-for-nothing dads beer money.

 

and if she falls in love with a rich guy who can give her all the money she wants? chances are that rich guy is married or has other women. so even if he is sincere, it's almost impossible to make the relationship work.

 

of course i'm not taking away the fact that things can have a happy ending. but based on what i see in this thread and in real life, happy endings are rare.

I would have to agree with you. First and foremost, they'd take care of their family before you. Pretty Woman endings happen only in the movies.

[royginald]

Sa tingin nyo ba mapupunta sila sa ganitong work kundi dahil sa kailangang kailangan nila ng pera?

Kapit nga sa patalim... eh..

 

Pwede bang ipangGrocery ang gandang lalaki nyo?

Ipambayad sa kuryente yung kisig ng katawan nyo?

 

Nalubog sila dahil sa pera... pera ... pera...

Wala ng iba.

 

Mahirap mabuhay at bumuhay kung puro pag ibig lang..

 

Just my 2 cents

 

. . .

[UncleFrancy]

this my opinion on this...very messy ito.....psp gro mp etc- client love....

 

well if a guy gonna fall for such a girl....siguruhin nya muna na sincere person yung girl and hindi liar....malay mo binababoy na sha nun psp and tanga tanga yung in love na lalaki....

[Rasc]

this my opinion on this...very messy ito.....psp gro mp etc- client love....

 

well if a guy gonna fall for such a girl....siguruhin nya muna na sincere person yung girl and hindi liar....malay mo binababoy na sha nun psp and tanga tanga yung in love na lalaki....

 

bro medyo messy nga yung opinion mo... pero isipin mu din kahit paano tao rin sila, yun nga lang napunta sa ibang landas...

 

just my 2 cents

[whiplashmd]

Relationship with MPAs, PSPs etc is like playing RUSSIAN ROULETTE![/size]

 

OR Parang Forrest Gump.. "..It's like a box of chocolates., you'll never know what your gonna get.."

 

hehehe..

[Itto Ogami]

 

nope, that's not her.

was cleaning up my gmail account when i saw this.

this was 10 years ago.

she used to be a GRO in Lucena... the first gurl i fell in love with besides my wife (nung kasal na ko, i mean).

 

last i heard, she was a professional mistress.

palipat-lipat sa ibang lalake pag pinagsawaan na.

 

sad...

[Rasc]

she's a beauty, Master Itto.

 

 

it really sad... sa nangyari, lalo na napamahal na sau... you could not help, but to feel sorry.

 

wonder what she looks like now...

[Guest paul0]

i thought hindi ako maiinlove, sa kahit na kaninong mpa. pero kinain ko lang din ang mga nasabi ko. i gave everything i have, naniwala ako sa kanya. nagkasira na kami ng family ko because nahuli ako ng asawa ko and nagsabi na sya sa magulang nya tungkol sa nangyari. i was decided na iwan na sya, pero nung sinabi ko na sa girl. i found out na hindi pala sya seryoso sa amin. akala nya biro lahat. nasira lang ulo at bulsa ko sakanya. ginamit lang nya ako. sinira lang nya pamilya ko. buong akala ko pa naman totoo sya sakin. attendant nga lang sya mahilig manloko. pareho lang ng iba naakit lang sa pera. MGA MUKHANG PERA. Kaya kung ma inlove kayo huwag nyo pakitaan ng pera. mamahalin lang nila bulsa natin.

right now im in a no-win situation. hindi ko alam pano aayusin buhay ko. my wife is decided na rin to let me go. she doesnt trust me anymore and i cant do something about it. nasaktan ko sya and now nasisiraan na ako ng ulo. i dont know what to do. f#&k! pinagsisisihan ko lahat ng events sa buhay ko.

[slimboy]

i thought hindi ako maiinlove, sa kahit na kaninong mpa. pero kinain ko lang din ang mga nasabi ko. i gave everything i have, naniwala ako sa kanya. nagkasira na kami ng family ko because nahuli ako ng asawa ko and nagsabi na sya sa magulang nya tungkol sa nangyari. i was decided na iwan na sya, pero nung sinabi ko na sa girl. i found out na hindi pala sya seryoso sa amin. akala nya biro lahat. nasira lang ulo at bulsa ko sakanya. ginamit lang nya ako. sinira lang nya pamilya ko. buong akala ko pa naman totoo sya sakin. attendant nga lang sya mahilig manloko. pareho lang ng iba naakit lang sa pera. MGA MUKHANG PERA. Kaya kung ma inlove kayo huwag nyo pakitaan ng pera. mamahalin lang nila bulsa natin.

right now im in a no-win situation. hindi ko alam pano aayusin buhay ko. my wife is decided na rin to let me go. she doesnt trust me anymore and i cant do something about it. nasaktan ko sya and now nasisiraan na ako ng ulo. i dont know what to do. f#&k! pinagsisisihan ko lahat ng events sa buhay ko.

 

Dont lose hope Bro. I am sure you can do something to be with your family again.. There is always the second chance for everything.. As for me , I almost lost my family too . I was thankful na di kami ng girl (MPA) nag katuluyan otherwise I may have the same story as tours.. Just do your best to win again the trust of your wifey.. Good luck

[royginald]

Hasa na sila ng panahon at pagkakataon..

Matutulis na.

 

Bawas na rin ang kahihiyan nila sa pagpasok ng ganitong trabaho.

Wala na hiya hiya.

 

Puno na rin ng katapangan ang mga kalooban nila.

Matatapang na.

 

At kung papasok ka ng tatamlay tamlay, galing sa heart break, naghahanap ng masisilungan sa kalungkutan.

KAKAININ KA NILANG BUONG BUO!

 

Na akala mong nilalaro mo sila.

It all part of their game.. ikaw ang lalaruin nila mula umpisa hanggang sa huli.. hanggang said ka na.. hanggang sirang sira ka na.

After all that.. their cycle will continue... ikaw ???

back to Zero.. minsan negative pa.

 

 

Never dive into a pool without checking first all the precautions..

Na baka ang akala mong pagkasarap sarap , umuwe kang dugo ang ulo

 

 

. . .

Edited February 11, 2010 by royginald

[bpc_dnd]

naniwala ako sa kanya. nagkasira na kami ng family ko because nahuli ako ng asawa ko and nagsabi na sya sa magulang nya tungkol sa nangyari. i was decided na iwan na sya, pero nung sinabi ko na sa girl. i found out na hindi pala sya seryoso sa amin. akala nya biro lahat. nasira lang ulo at bulsa ko sakanya. ginamit lang nya ako. sinira lang nya pamilya ko. buong akala ko pa naman totoo sya sakin. attendant nga lang sya mahilig manloko. pareho lang ng iba naakit lang sa pera. MGA MUKHANG PERA. Kaya kung ma inlove kayo huwag nyo pakitaan ng pera. mamahalin lang nila bulsa natin.

right now im in a no-win situation. hindi ko alam pano aayusin buhay ko. my wife is decided na rin to let me go. she doesnt trust me anymore and i cant do something about it. nasaktan ko sya and now nasisiraan na ako ng ulo. i dont know what to do. f#&k! pinagsisisihan ko lahat ng events sa buhay ko.

 

ouch. wala pa naman akong family kaya okay lang. pero i promised myself never will i be in a position that that she will suck me dry, i mean with regard to my wallet he3.

 

the moment she asks fro money from me, i will let her go. siguro, magbibigay ako pag may emergency (pero wag naman sunod sunod na emergency, kalokohan yun). i still believe that money should not be the basis of a relationship.

[bpc_dnd]

i thought hindi ako maiinlove, sa kahit na kaninong mpa. pero kinain ko lang din ang mga nasabi ko. i gave everything i have, naniwala ako sa kanya. nagkasira na kami ng family ko because nahuli ako ng asawa ko and nagsabi na sya sa magulang nya tungkol sa nangyari. i was decided na iwan na sya, pero nung sinabi ko na sa girl. i found out na hindi pala sya seryoso sa amin. akala nya biro lahat. nasira lang ulo at bulsa ko sakanya. ginamit lang nya ako. sinira lang nya pamilya ko. buong akala ko pa naman totoo sya sakin. attendant nga lang sya mahilig manloko. pareho lang ng iba naakit lang sa pera. MGA MUKHANG PERA. Kaya kung ma inlove kayo huwag nyo pakitaan ng pera. mamahalin lang nila bulsa natin.

right now im in a no-win situation. hindi ko alam pano aayusin buhay ko. my wife is decided na rin to let me go. she doesnt trust me anymore and i cant do something about it. nasaktan ko sya and now nasisiraan na ako ng ulo. i dont know what to do. f#&k! pinagsisisihan ko lahat ng events sa buhay ko.

 

medyo matindi ito sir ah. it even came to a point that you want to leave your wife for her. ang hirap talaga pagtiwalaan ang mpa but we cant help but do. sugal nga lang talaga sir.

[countrystyle]

i thought hindi ako maiinlove, sa kahit na kaninong mpa. pero kinain ko lang din ang mga nasabi ko. i gave everything i have, naniwala ako sa kanya. nagkasira na kami ng family ko because nahuli ako ng asawa ko and nagsabi na sya sa magulang nya tungkol sa nangyari. i was decided na iwan na sya, pero nung sinabi ko na sa girl. i found out na hindi pala sya seryoso sa amin. akala nya biro lahat. nasira lang ulo at bulsa ko sakanya. ginamit lang nya ako. sinira lang nya pamilya ko. buong akala ko pa naman totoo sya sakin. attendant nga lang sya mahilig manloko. pareho lang ng iba naakit lang sa pera. MGA MUKHANG PERA. Kaya kung ma inlove kayo huwag nyo pakitaan ng pera. mamahalin lang nila bulsa natin.

right now im in a no-win situation. hindi ko alam pano aayusin buhay ko. my wife is decided na rin to let me go. she doesnt trust me anymore and i cant do something about it. nasaktan ko sya and now nasisiraan na ako ng ulo. i dont know what to do. f#&k! pinagsisisihan ko lahat ng events sa buhay ko.

 

bro, my humble advice: tapos na yan, wag mo na pagsisihan. marami kang natutunan sa experience na yan. there's nowhere to go but up. ikanga nila, what doesn't k*ll you makes you stronger. this experience has made you wiser. just go on with your life. focus on your career. if you want to reconcile with your wife, show her that you're worthy, that you can still be trusted, but it will take time. if it doesn't work out, then what can you do. life sucks sometimes, no? but life must go on. you'll find a way to be happy. i know this is easier said than done, but it must be done.

[pixel888]

i thought hindi ako maiinlove, sa kahit na kaninong mpa. pero kinain ko lang din ang mga nasabi ko. i gave everything i have, naniwala ako sa kanya. nagkasira na kami ng family ko because nahuli ako ng asawa ko and nagsabi na sya sa magulang nya tungkol sa nangyari. i was decided na iwan na sya, pero nung sinabi ko na sa girl. i found out na hindi pala sya seryoso sa amin. akala nya biro lahat. nasira lang ulo at bulsa ko sakanya. ginamit lang nya ako. sinira lang nya pamilya ko. buong akala ko pa naman totoo sya sakin. attendant nga lang sya mahilig manloko. pareho lang ng iba naakit lang sa pera. MGA MUKHANG PERA. Kaya kung ma inlove kayo huwag nyo pakitaan ng pera. mamahalin lang nila bulsa natin.

right now im in a no-win situation. hindi ko alam pano aayusin buhay ko. my wife is decided na rin to let me go. she doesnt trust me anymore and i cant do something about it. nasaktan ko sya and now nasisiraan na ako ng ulo. i dont know what to do. f#&k! pinagsisisihan ko lahat ng events sa buhay ko.

 

 

First Bro I feel for you...

 

Now you need to move on. Empathize what your wife is experiencing right now. Is this your first offense? If not, I dont think she will give you another chance if this was your 3rd offense to her. Trying to regain her trust is difficult but not impossible. But as I said if you did this before more than 3 times, I suggest you move on. Suck it up. See your children and attend to their needs even if you are separated. And most of all Pray...It works.

[StoicVampire]

i thought hindi ako maiinlove, sa kahit na kaninong mpa. pero kinain ko lang din ang mga nasabi ko. i gave everything i have, naniwala ako sa kanya. nagkasira na kami ng family ko because nahuli ako ng asawa ko and nagsabi na sya sa magulang nya tungkol sa nangyari. i was decided na iwan na sya, pero nung sinabi ko na sa girl. i found out na hindi pala sya seryoso sa amin. akala nya biro lahat. nasira lang ulo at bulsa ko sakanya. ginamit lang nya ako. sinira lang nya pamilya ko. buong akala ko pa naman totoo sya sakin. attendant nga lang sya mahilig manloko. pareho lang ng iba naakit lang sa pera. MGA MUKHANG PERA. Kaya kung ma inlove kayo huwag nyo pakitaan ng pera. mamahalin lang nila bulsa natin.

right now im in a no-win situation. hindi ko alam pano aayusin buhay ko. my wife is decided na rin to let me go. she doesnt trust me anymore and i cant do something about it. nasaktan ko sya and now nasisiraan na ako ng ulo. i dont know what to do. f#&k! pinagsisisihan ko lahat ng events sa buhay ko.

 

bro, i didn't hesitate to tell all the things that happened to my mom. bro, even though meron na tayong sariling mga pamilya, pamilya pa rin na kinakalakhan natin ang babalikan natin. di ko ikinahiya na sabihin sa ermats ko kung pano ko siya nakilala, at sa paanong paraan. you know what? imbes na sabihing iwan ko, dapat yung mga taong ito pa raw ang mas dapat yakapin. dahil nadapa na nga sila, iiwan mo pa. di mo pa tutulungan na makaalis sa kinasadlakan nila. e di yun ang ginawa ko. ang kaso, sa akin, she's insincere and chose another path. mahigit isang buwan akong wala sa ulirat nung akala kong "kami" dahil yung ginagawa niyang "service" ang dilemma ko. she has reason of course. haka haka ko lang naman ito. she may have a guy who's behind all of these. at first, di ako naniwala. but when the truth came out, napagkabit kabit ko lahat ng mga pangyayari. at least ngayon alam ko na umiwas. di ko sinasabing wag makipagrelasyon sa kanila. but we should know the boundaries and how far we should go. though she was my first heartbreak, i am still thankful for her dahil kahit papano, binigyan nya ako ng chance na magmahal ng tao kahit ano pa katayuan niya sa buhay. im still recovering and who knows what will happen. just keep your hopes up and everything will be fine.

 

cheers!

[StoicVampire]

hahaha! i remembered that i lent my jacket to my angel inside the VIP, when her time was over, she asked if she could keep the jacket! NO WAY! hahaha!

 

didn't give in to her demands for gifts or money! in the end, napasaakin pa rin sya! hahaha!

 

so guys, don't give in to your angels! once you give in, they will suck you dry! it is human nature!

 

di bale. ilang swelduhan lang naman to eh. may jacket uli ako bago. tsaka summer na. di muna advisable bumili ng jacket. wahehehe!

[StoicVampire]

yeah bro, kasi that's the time you become vulnerable...but enjoy it is as it is...then maybe, in the near future, you could live happy ever after...

 

good luck bro!!

 

share ko lang, just recently..i met this mpa whom attracted ako physically and mentally (she speaks good english and di siya yung bastusin na babae) but she's so frank and i got her recently in hoping na to build a relationship with her but she flatly said no to me, maybe di niya ako type, maybe di niay gusto magka BF (and wala naman siyang BF na guest as what she said...)

 

mas ok na tong sagot nito....

dapat binasted na lang niya ako nung umpisa pa lang..... :cry: