Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[aim]

yup sir yun na yung point ko di natin kaya ipakilala sila sa mga taong malapit satin as long as they work there.

 

so do we have to lie about their work? YES only if ONLY they are STILL working there. NO if they're no longer working there, no need to lie just don't/never open it up to your friends, relatives, etc. yun ang ibig kong sabihin, just keep it a secret. keeping a secret doesn't necessarily mean you're lying. you're just hiding something they never thought of asking.

 

pero siguro eto yung maliit na tanong na pinalaki ko. (maybe inespecify at elaborate ko lang)

 

mali kasi yung point niya na pagtitigil mas maraming judgement. MAS mababawasan nga yung judgement pag aalis sa work kesa kung mananatili or tatagal pa siya sa ganong work. diba?

 

 

Lam bro bkit di na lang tayo mag chat? Pagdating ko sa office lagi ko inuunang icheck to.

 

Biro lang. Sana lang Bro magbago isip ng GRO mo. Tingin ko sa kanya dahil bata pa, at bata pa mag icip..

 

Wala pang plano na pang LONG TERM. Pro guide mo pa din, bka mgbago isip.

 

 

Sakit sa puso kasi basahin mga kweto dito .

[truellusion]

Lam bro bkit di na lang tayo mag chat? Pagdating ko sa office lagi ko inuunang icheck to.

 

Biro lang. Sana lang Bro magbago isip ng GRO mo. Tingin ko sa kanya dahil bata pa, at bata pa mag icip..

 

Wala pang plano na pang LONG TERM. Pro guide mo pa din, bka mgbago isip.

 

 

Sakit sa puso kasi basahin mga kweto dito .

hehe kala ko seryoso ka magchat tayo. LOL.

 

sa totoo lang di ko alam kung ano nasa isip niya. oo bata pa bro mag 18 palang this next month bday niya. pero umuwi siya sa province nung sunday. nagka text kami di niya daw alam kung babalik pa siya.

 

wala pa siyang 1 year pero napagod na ata, gabi gabi inom. sabi ko nga sa kanya mas kampante naman ako ng nasa family nya siya kesa sa work niya, kahit di ko na siya makita sa club basta safe sa province with her family.

 

naalala ko nung bagong kilala palang kami bagong dating siya dun (1 week palang). after ng work magtetext siya nasusuka, nahihilo, masakit ulo dahil sa beer. ngayon sanay na di na nagrereklamo kung nakailang bottles siya. kawawa kasi bata pa nasanay na uminom gabi gabi para sa guest. ladies drink pa nila hindi yung may cali, talagang 1 bottle lights.

 

kaya nga nagustuhan ko siya kasi bago palang di pa tumatagal sa ganong work di pa gaano polluted mind. kaya gusto ko siya makaalis habang maaga. pero parang ayaw niya makinig. the more i speak about that the more hindi siya nakikinig. pero kung tamang kulitan, bolahan, asaran, kwentuhan lang topic namin mas ok sa kanya. pagnagiging seryoso na ang usapan tahimik na...

 

kaya ngayon cool nalang ako sa kanya. no need to be serious and talk about getting her out of that work. siya narin may sabi, enjoy nalang namin time namin with each other.

 

siguro nga baka dumaan lang ako sa buhay niya at dumaan rin siya sa buhay ko. ngayong di niya alam kung babalik siya i just text her na if ever maalala niya ko or nasa manila siya just let me know and i'll be glad to meet her at makipag kumustahan. (haha parang ang tagal nawala samantalang kaaalis palang nung sunday. EMO putek).

[aim]

hehe kala ko seryoso ka magchat tayo. LOL.

 

sa totoo lang di ko alam kung ano nasa isip niya. oo bata pa bro mag 18 palang this next month bday niya. pero umuwi siya sa province nung sunday. nagka text kami di niya daw alam kung babalik pa siya.

 

wala pa siyang 1 year pero napagod na ata, gabi gabi inom. sabi ko nga sa kanya mas kampante naman ako ng nasa family nya siya kesa sa work niya, kahit di ko na siya makita sa club basta safe sa province with her family.

 

naalala ko nung bagong kilala palang kami bagong dating siya dun (1 week palang). after ng work magtetext siya nasusuka, nahihilo, masakit ulo dahil sa beer. ngayon sanay na di na nagrereklamo kung nakailang bottles siya. kawawa kasi bata pa nasanay na uminom gabi gabi para sa guest. ladies drink pa nila hindi yung may cali, talagang 1 bottle lights.

 

kaya nga nagustuhan ko siya kasi bago palang di pa tumatagal sa ganong work di pa gaano polluted mind. kaya gusto ko siya makaalis habang maaga. pero parang ayaw niya makinig. the more i speak about that the more hindi siya nakikinig. pero kung tamang kulitan, bolahan, asaran, kwentuhan lang topic namin mas ok sa kanya. pagnagiging seryoso na ang usapan tahimik na...

 

kaya ngayon cool nalang ako sa kanya. no need to be serious and talk about getting her out of that work. siya narin may sabi, enjoy nalang namin time namin with each other.

 

siguro nga baka dumaan lang ako sa buhay niya at dumaan rin siya sa buhay ko. ngayong di niya alam kung babalik siya i just text her na if ever maalala niya ko or nasa manila siya just let me know and i'll be glad to meet her at makipag kumustahan. (haha parang ang tagal nawala samantalang kaaalis palang nung sunday. EMO putek).

 

 

 

 

Di na daw sya balik work niya? Sana...

 

Mas ok pa nga sa province kesa dito.

[truellusion]

Di na daw sya balik work niya? Sana...

 

Mas ok pa nga sa province kesa dito.

walang kasiguruhan sagot niya. sabi niya lang di niya alam kung babalik siya. so i guess babalik siya di lang alam when...

 

pero yun rin naisip ko sir, sana nga dun nalang siya kung san siya safe. kaso never ko na siya makikita ulit...

[tagalupa]

Siya mismo! nag work siya sa isang fast food chain as service crew.

 

Ofcourse that time ako tlga nagbibigay ng needs nya, like house rent and the other bills and food.

 

Naregular siya sa work nya then after two years gusto na sya ipromote as EMPTY.

 

But 3RD YEAR COLLEGE lang ang natapos nya kylangan pag mapopromote college grad dapat.

 

So pumasok uli sya sa COLLEGE i support her tuition. tlgang MATYAGA. Ntapos ang college.

 

Napromote na siya as EMPTY then STORE MANAGER. Now i only giving her a little help na lng.

 

Syempre nung mga time na nag aaply siya, di nya na sinasabing dati siyang GRO!

 

Di na dapat sabihin yun! Magbabagong buhay na nga tapos uungkatin pa yun db bro?

 

Nag TYAGA din tlga yung GF ko. Nagtulungan kami at tlga namang pinatunayan nya sakin na kaya nya umalis sa

 

pagiging GRO! Kaya naman wala na ko balak iwan siya.

 

Kung may GF ka GRO/MPA magtulungan din dapat kayo. kasi kadalasang naririnig ko yung babae sumama sa

 

matandang may pera, bumalik sa CLUB o MASSAGE PARLOR, di na din nakayanan ng LALAKE dahil si

 

BABAE pinapakain BUONG ANGKAN niya, gs2 maluho ang LIFESTYLE.

 

 

Hay salamat my nagpost din ng HAPPY ENDING or nagwork un relationship nila..AGREE ako sau bro dapat nagtutulungan..Tulungan din nila un sarili nila..Eto un tinatawag na PAREHO KAYO NANGARAP! Im happy for u sir and goodluck...SEE GUYS..MERON HAPPY ENDING DIN...

[Guest]

foxy, be true to yourself take and the risk kasi alam mong ikaw ang talo sa bandang huli. si lalaki walang mawawala sa kanya binata siya. you might get pregnant as well so be careful kasi wala akong nakikita na magiging problema ni lalaki kasi she had you i guess for free, live sex and anything you also bought her shirt maybe. hinay hinay lang if he loves you willing siya mag-antay hindi yung magsawa lang siya sa iyo at iwan ka.

 

what if si lalaki makakita ng babae na katrabaho nya, or pinakilala ng kaibigan na maayos ang trabaho in a glimpse iiwan ka niya. ask him whats his intentions? try nyo mag-live in, this is in a way of mas makilala nyo ang isat-isa, rent an apartment from then on start your plans if youll pursue to more than gf-bf or leave each other nalang.

 

---> pasingit <---

in my case, i was left behind. i love this MPA so much i can even relate to a prodigal son leave my family at nagsama kami ni MPA no regrets at all kasi alam ko minahal nya ako at masaya kaming dalawa but then nalaman ko na may long time relationship pala si MPA in short bumalik sya doon sa kanila at iniwan ako mag-isa sa apartment mabuti na lang at tinanggap pa rin ako ng family ko.... will not hesitate to take the risk again if ever she comes back to me one more time iwan ko ulit family ko just to win her back but this time kapag bumalik siya siguraduhin kong akin na siya.

 

i miss you so much mhie, if only you can read this.

tama ba ako ng intindi you left your family to be with this girl, then came back to your own family when she left... now you plan on leaving your family the second time if this girl comes back???? hindi kaya ito ang the height ng pagiging segurista at manggagamit mo? omg you don't deserve your family kung ganyan ang thinking mo... might as well leave them for good

[aim]

tama ba ako ng intindi you left your family to be with this girl, then came back to your own family when she left... now you plan on leaving your family the second time if this girl comes back???? hindi kaya ito ang the height ng pagiging segurista at manggagamit mo? omg you don't deserve your family kung ganyan ang thinking mo... might as well leave them for good

 

 

I really feel pity for them bro, they didnt know whats wrong and right. :thumbsdownsmiley:

[truellusion]

I really feel pity for them bro, they didnt know whats wrong and right. :thumbsdownsmiley:

it can only be right when there's no other parties involved. no third party on the guy's side and there should be no third party on the girls side too.

 

then they can start helping, understanding each other, no one sided effort that might wear out the other person and spoil the other. kayo rin naman makakaalam kung may patutunguhan yung effort nyo. lalo na kung nagtutulungan nga.

 

but who am i to say this? i have my own issues too...

 

basta at least meron nang isang happy ending...

[lankaface]

I really feel pity for them bro, they didnt know whats wrong and right. :thumbsdownsmiley:

Bro , maybe its your family who knows wats wrong or right. You have to think it over and come back to reality, cause you have been ncarried away by your emotions. Think back at your roots and remember where you came from, cause doing it all over again could cause permanent damage. Sorry to cut into this scene of yours, cause it reminds mke of what i went through, and am glad to get out mat the right timing when all was not so bad yet. Just my thought.

[aim]

Bro , maybe its your family who knows wats wrong or right. You have to think it over and come back to reality, cause you have been ncarried away by your emotions. Think back at your roots and remember where you came from, cause doing it all over again could cause permanent damage. Sorry to cut into this scene of yours, cause it reminds mke of what i went through, and am glad to get out mat the right timing when all was not so bad yet. Just my thought.

 

 

Bro, what do you mean by saying THINK BACK AT YOUR ROOTS AND REMEMBER WHERE YOU CAME FROM???

 

Ano bang sinabi ko? Wala naman ako pangyayabang ah?

[roguetrader]

Similar topic but a little twist. Anyone here can relate:

 

What about an ex-GRO? Now has a respectable sales job, where you met, started to date, and are now serious with. What if you learned the girl you're seeing for several years now used to work in a sexy bar once upon a time? The thought never crossed your mind until she admitted it one day.

 

Then you put things together:

 

1. She knows a number of rich old men, who are her current clients and acquaintances now (she's a sales person).

2. She's very attractive, starlet material (that's why you've beem dating her)

3. She's very street-smart, and acts like she went through a hardened life in the past.

4. There's this curious 2-year gap in her resume--her first job (as a salesperson) started about a year and a half after she graduated.

5. She has many stories about her past suitors, whom she all turned down at one point or another.

6. She is a loner, for an attractive girl she keeps to herself, has no regular friends. She keeps away from her family, although remains in easy contact with them.

 

She claims:

 

1. She only did it for a year, just to pay for college tuition (between 3rd year to 4th year)

2. She never had sex for pay. Just entertained bar-goers (i.e. GRO).

3. She never had a sugar-daddy, or a boyfriend from a bar.

4. She never shared it with you until now, because she feared to be judged (and you are on the verge of judging her)

 

You've had a good relationship up to this point. You've been with each other through ups and downs, but you never had reason to doubt her. She is almost wife material already.

 

What do you think the real score is? Would you still trust her? Is she worth it?

[martin_d_martian]

roguetrader, what if you dont know anything? ang alam mo lang e maganda ang work nya at ang past nya e hindi masyadong detalyado sa iyo? youll love her di ba parang disregarded na yung past nya because of what she is right now.

 

when you love youll also think for yourself as well though sometimes love is blind talaga (it happens to me), do you think gagamitin ka lang ba nya? or kapag naging kayo then somehow may makaalam ng nakaraan nya and will ruin your integrity or reputation? or you can give it a try and if it works masaya ang katapusan love talaga ang nabuo sa inyong dalawa. invite mo ako sa kasal nyo ha hehe.

[truellusion]

What do you think the real score is? Would you still trust her? Is she worth it?

She's really worth it dude. overlooking the past you can see clearly na ang taong ito ay minsan nangarap makaalis sa ganong work and what makes her "worth it for you" is NATUPAD niya yung pangarap niya wala na siya dun sa ganong work niya, long before you came into her life.

 

tinupad niya yun para sa sarili niya not para sa karelasyon. you can conclude that she has a strong personality, hindi niya kelangan ng lalake as inspiration para huminto sa ganitong work.

 

and if now she's sharing this with you siguro dahil gusto niya maging totoo and ngayon nangangarap ulit siya... nangangarap siyang magkaroon naman ng guy who will trust her, accept her and take her...

 

this is the kind of girl who dream t of something and tried to reach it, and became successful on it. tulad ng sabi dito mahirap umalis sa ganitong work lalo na kung dito malaki kita ng girl. pero napagtagumpayan ng girl mo yung temptation na yun.

 

and you already said it, she's almost wife material now. bakit ganyan tingin mo sa kanya in spite of her past? kasi she's dreaming of becoming that kind, to be a "wife". and you should be proud of her, kasi you have a woman who will continue on dreaming to be a better person than she was before. :thumbsupsmiley: we are what we dream of...

[JustInnCase]

mahirap.. pero depende sa tao yan kung magpapadala siya sa emotions niya.

[temple fugate]

perhaps people are just confusing "love" from "infatuation"

 

infatuation - # puppy love: temporary love of an adolescent

# an object of extravagant short-lived passion

[roguetrader]

martin, trueillusion--thanks for the replies. Pareho ang ramdam ko with what you both said.

 

There's always still that lingering thought about her past--pero I guess male ego na lang yun. Mahirap talaga ang buhay, and I guess people deserve as many "second chances" as they can.

 

Thanks mga bro.

[martin_d_martian]

martin, trueillusion--thanks for the replies. Pareho ang ramdam ko with what you both said.

 

There's always still that lingering thought about her past--pero I guess male ego na lang yun. Mahirap talaga ang buhay, and I guess people deserve as many "second chances" as they can.

 

Thanks mga bro.

 

ikaw na ang sumagot sa mga tanong mo sir, tama ka she deserve a second chance, at mas lalong tama ka kasi nga lalaki tayo iniisip natin na marami na itong guy na nakasama. hindi mo maalis ang past nya pero pwedeng kalimutan hehe

 

let the love begin yipeeee. congrats sir :thumbsupsmiley:

[jambalaya]

Love is blind and a lover can not see. Remember niyo yan guys.

[EPJ]

i just want to similar to this just curious talaga po pag pag pasyensya na lang po

sobrang spolied brat talaga they dont want to stand own there own pagniluloko

kayo ibig sabhin yan ayaw sa lalaki kuripot gusto ata nila yung dom na mayaman

na malaking umiikot yung pera yung di na sumasagot yung regular mo sa text ibig

sabhin yan meron na syang night and shining amor na dom na filipino chinese gusto ata nila yung

earn of leaving na sobrang taass kung baka big time ang gusto nila kailangan pag isponsor nyo

sila o sya dapat ang pera mo nasa 145k o 200k yung big time busness man talaga

dapat yung looks iyo dapat maraming kang salapi at mukahang dom dapat di kuripot lalo na yung gwapo

na di kaya yung finacial suport dahil lolokohin ka nila

 

Got This From The another Thread From Missing MPA

From Ariba he says that Heard from an MPA at Wilderness that Eula is now under the wing of a rich chinese...tsimis lang yan ng isang MPA...don't know how reliable but could be given 116's reputation for wanting to earn big time

 

and also from http://www.ktvphil.com/forum/forum_posts.a...;PN=1&TPN=1

From jedicastro he says that I have this experience about a MPA and I'm only writing it here. No worries, I'll keep it short.

 

About a 2 years ago, I've had a text mate who my friend referred to me. Yes, just a text mate until she confessed that she's an MPA. Sa isip ko OK lang kasi SEX lang talaga ang habol ko.

 

I meet her after 2 weeks of texting and maganda pala siya. Yun tipong alam niyo na. malakas talaga ang dating.

 

I was thinking at that time na kailangan lang neto ang pera ko so yun, ride lang ako. Ligaw kunwari then eventually naging GF ko.

 

We go to motels and also I visit her sa MP. Mga 2 months din when she actually brought me to her home (with family) in Malolos Bulacan. From then, na in-love na ako sa kaniya.

 

Pinipigilan ko na siya mag work sa MP because I seriously care for her but It always resulted to misunderstanding and quarrel. I told her na kaya ko siyang suportahan financially pero hindi yun umubra. Nagkahiwalay rin kami after 8 months.

 

Nowadays naalala ko parin siya. Miss na miss ko though madali naman magka-chic anytime, talagang na aalala ko parin siya. Minsan dumalaw ako sa houde nila sa Bulacan then ang sabi ng kapatid niya may kinakasama daw na Chinese. Ewan ba pero yun ang huli kong balita. Hindi na rin siya nag work sa MP at this time.

 

1st time ako nag drive to Bulacan the back to QC just to know about the whereabouts of an EX. And also, 1st time ako ng isip ng ganito sa babae.

 

Isang tanong mga bro:

 

Normal ba ito? o May topak na ako?

 

Mga bro, magnda talaga itong EX ko and sobra ang bait. Kung hindi siya MP eh tipong pakakasalan talaga. Kahawig ni Bea Alonzo.

 

Ano sa tingin niyo mga bro?

 

 

Jed

 

 

 

just a question for you guys bakit sa mga mpa's /gro's/psp's ang gusto nilang night and shining amor nila

na dom na negosyante na malaki umiikot ang pera o di kaya mga forigner kasi dollars bakit ? but mostly ang gusto nila night and shining amor nila na dom negosyante yung mga filipino chinese na malaking umiikot na pera gusto ata nila

yung spoon feed (spolid Brat ) at luho ang lifestyle maganda ang buhay namakakahon nila sa hirap na buhay pag pilpino naman dapat transport operator katulad ng aircon pub bus at tourist bus pag sa aircon pub bus

200k in 1 unit ang kita pag tourist naman pag peak season 800k at dapat daw marami kang units

kaya pala mostly yung guest at katable sa mga mp's at ktv's lalo na yung hi class na mp at ktv yung mga dom na mayaman yung malaki umiikot ang pera sample lang to

 

one time during my mp's and ktv tours one example is Wilderness inside in wildeness is one aqaurium wierd lang ang

loob nya pero okay yung place pero mostly ang mga parukayano nila is dom na mayaman lalo na yung mga filipino

chinese noong tinignan ko yung aquarium i heard na sinasabi na tinatawag yung #55 meron daw guest thats what i heard pero i dont ask the bisor the name of the mpa so he take me tour whats inside the room and the whole area

while he tour me i saw this dom na mayaman when i saw his face he is a filipino chinese with a another bisor take him

inside the room while wating for mpa#55 after the tour chance to talk to him and i ask sino karamihan yung mga

parukyano dito sabi nya mas marami daw filipino chinese na dom mayaman sabi pa nya dapat kung magligaw

ka daw sa isang mpa doon dapat maraming kang salapi karamihan pa daw sa mga mpa,s doon masyado

suplada daw sabi nya daw at dapat meron kang negosyo na malaking umiikot na pera di lang daw silang

magiging suplada pag meron silang guest na dom na night and shining amor one thing daw pag kuripot ka

daw ayaw sayo yung mpa may konti silang limitation sa yo pero pag sa dom na mayaman na malaking umiikot na pera walang silang limitation karamihan daw pag peak hours pag full daw yung kwarto yung mga parukyano nila

yung dom filipino chiniese according to him walang gwapo daw doon

 

yung lang po curious lang po paki similar lang po yung dalawa

salamat po

[xxxPAPZxxx]

lahat tau my puso, so khit cno pede mgmahalan gro mpa janitor president mging sino man yan. pg pinana ka na ni kupido, wala ka na magagawa :heart:

[masternikki]

tanggalin sa isipan, never fall in love, iisa lang habol natin

[eyeball29]

why not.....love is love, better to love and lost than not to love at all

[X3ME15]

ok lang ma-inlove.. don't expect highly lang bec. they're treated like spoiled brats and now acting like one

[mikeramblings]

sometimes you get carried away with the show... yung iba kasi magaling talaga, huli kiliti mo... the reason you visit those places, vulnerable ka na talaga... so, dapat, always on the guard... :hypocritesmiley:

[X3ME15]

MPs & GROs are great in manipulation.. they tend to give you signals that surely make you feel good, we're just blinded by that and don't see the picture that we're just being played by their manipulative hands