Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[asongitim]

Yes. Kung na-in love kayong dalawa, maswerte kayo and you should go for it (seen too many people get married for wrong reasons - same social standing, girl's expectations, etc). Hindi ko sinasabi na walang problem haharap sa inyo - but if feeling is mutual, then you should trust love.

[vicious0812]

Yes. Kung na-in love kayong dalawa, maswerte kayo and you should go for it (seen too many people get married for wrong reasons - same social standing, girl's expectations, etc). Hindi ko sinasabi na walang problem haharap sa inyo - but if feeling is mutual, then you should trust love.

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thanks pare for the encouragement. i really want to give it a try. don't know if it turns out alright. but at least i tried. thanks a lot.

[hilars888]

Stick to one time policy, and uphold it even in your horniest hours........

[RollsRoyce]

Watch "Ligaya ang tawag nila sa Akin" or "They call me Joy" of Rosanna Roces. Relationships like this only work if you start else where like in the US so that there won't be any prying eyes. That is if she is truly reformed and really loves you. (or if just using you,...that will never work )

[obonggaman]

for most of you guys, this is a no no. but what if you got interested in one and fell in love with. and also found out that the lady really love you. to yuo married guys this is not feasible, it can ruin your marriage. but to the unmarried and seperated ones. you have to weight the pros and cons for such a relationship. are you willing to accept the past of your loved one, can shoulder the financial burden that will be put upon you once she quits the job? or be willing to sacrifice relatives, friends or even lovers in order to have this relationship work out. pls. share your views with me as i discover her true feelings for me.

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My suggestion: find out first why she got into that job in the first place.

 

If she is doing this to help out her family, then be prepared to support her AND her family for a looooooong time.

 

And be careful, make sure the girl is sincere about her feelings.

[batnball2005]

as long as di maraming excess baggage walang problem.

[daredevil23]

The answer is NO.

i want a decent girl.. sorry.. but I can't find a decent girl in these sauna joints.

[Bert tawa]

if you were meant for each other i dnt c anything wrong w/ dat

[salbahe88]

For me, I truly admire a woman that will use whatever she has to get ahead or just plainly survive in life... There are those too who we might find decent but resort to a different kind of strategies. I recently read an autobiography of a famous US news anchor woman for "screwed" her way up the corporate ladder, eventually becoming America's top news woman. Diba, pareho din yun?

 

I really don't want to judge people. Trust your gut feel... Everyone deserves a break in life... but just be ready for the consequences dahil maraming taong makitid ang pagiisip.

 

Hope this helps...

[daredevil23]

I want to start this is topic, because i am experiencing it in this crucial stage in my life.

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Pare... pag-isipan mo mabuti... I fell in love once with a GRO from Heartbeat... twas perfect.. until nauntog ata ako. I just realized that it will go nowhere. Malabo sa kasalan mauuwi. I started to ask myself... Would I introduce this girl to my parents? siblings? During family gatherings... what will they ask? I come from a close-knit family. My elder brothers are all married and I have a good relationship with their wives (even my brothers' in-law play basketball with me). I just find it hard to imagine this scenario with the GRO who got my heart once upon a time.

 

Sorry.. but just my 2 cents... for me.. its really a no-no. Mind over heart pare... I know how it feels. Be strong.. and think of the entire picture..

 

Good luck, bro.

[Jsquared11]

I want to start this is topic, because i am experiencing it in this crucial stage in my life.

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I too have had to go through this situation too. It's by no means easy. I live in the US and visit the Philippines quite often. I have a girlfriend who I am absolutely crazy about whom lives in the Philippines as well. Before we got together I did my routes through the different mp's and still do now when she isn't looking. The MPA I fell for and eventually had a relationship with is still in the business and is mentioned in other threads. Initially when I would see her name come across it would feel like a dagger in my heart everytime somebody mentioned her. Whether it was a full fledged FR or simple "get her pare". This was all while I was still single. But even now, with my girlfriend whom everyone in my family loves and her family loves me...when I see my ex MPA's name mentioned...I can't help but wonder what could have been if we didn't end our relationship. I learned alot from her. Not just physically but just about life. I would be paranoid when I was away, I would wonder if my family knew what she did, I wondered if my cousin's who frequented the MP's with me tried her. It tore me up inside. But it also made me realize what is most important. There is no set way to live your life...and I'm sure these MPA's never grew up imagining what they would end up doing for a living. I never dreamed of falling for one either, yet I have to say it is as a much of what makes me; me today as anything else in my life. It's your life...live it. Understand the consequences and ask if you can live with them. If not, then walk away. All these people can give you advice on anything, but only you will know if it makes you happy.

[kupalking]

ang dali talaga mahulog sa mga mpa,gro o escort kung hahayaan mo mahulog ka, yun nga lang eh pag narinig mo pinag uusapan ng mga ibang lalake na naka sex na siya eh parang dinidurog puso mo nun, minsan maiinlove ka dahil lang sa awa dun sa girl, lalo na kung maganda talaga

[preacher]

pareng vicious, eto lang ang masasabi ko jan. no matter what everybody else here says, kahit ako, the final outcome, the decision is still yours to make. if your really decided on your course of action, there's nothing anyone here can say to change that.

 

now, if you really love the person, tao din sila pare, kahit sabihin natin na madami na talagang dumaan na lalaki sa kanila, hindi impossible na sa dami ng lalaking yun, mayroon syang nakitang kakaiba sayo. ang tanong ko, kaya mo bang tanggapin na un ang line of work nya dati?

 

the bottom line is, if your really decided, and your happy, then go for it. it's your life. never let anyone tell you what to do with your own life. kaming mga mtc buddies mo andito lang para gabayan ka, hindi para rendahan ka. tandaan mo yan pre. go for what you truly want. if in the end walang nagyari, ganun talaga eh, charge it to experience na lang, at least you know better na. amen?

[vicious0812]

pareng vicious, eto lang ang masasabi ko jan. no matter what everybody else here says, kahit ako, the final outcome, the decision is still yours to make. if your really decided on your course of action, there's nothing anyone here can say to change that.

 

now, if you really love the person, tao din sila pare, kahit sabihin natin na madami na talagang dumaan na lalaki sa kanila, hindi impossible na sa dami ng lalaking yun, mayroon syang nakitang kakaiba sayo. ang tanong ko, kaya mo bang tanggapin na un ang line of work nya dati?

 

the bottom line is, if your really decided, and your happy, then go for it. it's your life. never let anyone tell you what to do with your own life. kaming mga mtc buddies mo andito lang para gabayan ka, hindi para rendahan ka. tandaan mo yan pre. go for what you truly want. if in the end walang nagyari, ganun talaga eh, charge it to experience na lang, at least you know better na. amen?

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thanks a lot guys for all replies, whether it' s positive or negative. i really appreciate it.

[bmt216a]

Pare,

 

Just be careful lang, kasi sabi ng nang iba, hindi mo alam yung history or kung ano yung nasaisip ng MPA mo. Ako I had an MPA girlfriend for almost 4 months (na meet ko pa nga parents niya). tapos I eventually broke - up with her since I found out little by little na marami pala siyang tinatago sa akin. like mey anak na pala siya, iba name niya dito at doon etc. etc. I eventually broke up since hindi ko na talaga kilala ang pagkatao niya. :cry:

 

Would you believe mey nililigawan ako ngayon na MPA? pero ganun lang, nanlalandi lang nothing serious.

 

Pero on the other hand, masaya rin naman yung mey minamahal ka. yung nasaksaktan ka paminsan-minsan, mey iniiyakan ka... just be sure lang that you know what you are getting into and handa ka sa feelings mo.