Raising Children

[Itto Ogami]

change FRIENDS to CHILDREN na lang, pls.

 

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[ndn]

Mahirap talagang magpalaki ng bata bro. Doble lalo ang hirap lalo na kapag isang parent lang ang available(in my case im separated from my wife and nasa akin anak ko at babae pa). I think ang mahalaga is to always have TIME kahit gaano ka pa kapagod and busy. Ako nga b4 i left tuwing umaga mismong ako nagpapaligo,nagpapakain,nagbibihis,naghahanda ng gamit ng kid ko for school. Ganun din sa gabi kahit gaano ako kapagod i always make it a point to spend some QUALITY TIME with her. Mahalaga din na everyday sbhn mo sa anak mo na you LOVE him/her. Naniniwala kasi ako na ang batang alaga sa pagmamahal lalaking walang INSECURITIES. Of course DISCIPLINE is a must din,sabi nga di b"SPARE THE ROD,SPOIL THE CHILD". Basta yung tamang pagdisiplina lang wag naman yung sobra to the point na magiging ilag na sayo kid mo. With regards naman to your son na ayaw gaano magsimba,my advice is hayaan mo muna cguro. Lahat naman ng tao at some point in their life e maghahanap ng DIYOS lalo na kapag nasa lowest point ng buhay. Although continue pa rin to encourage him to go to church. Mas ok kasi yung may kusa hindi yung pilit di b. Wala naman talagang SMART and RIGHT PARENTING eh,basta bilang parents gawin lang natin ang sa tingin nating makabubuti for our children and always be THERE for them. In the end naman,nasa bata pa rin yan kung lalaking maayos at responsableng tao na may takot sa DIYOS. Let's just DO what we need to DO as PARENTS and let's ask din from the ALMIGHTY for GUIDANCE. Hope this helps,good day bro.

[Itto Ogami]

@ndn:

thanks, saer. helpful tips.

 

I WILL RAISE MY CHILDREN KNOWING

THAT MONEY IS NOT THE ONLY MEASURE

OF A PERSON'S SUCCESS.

 

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[Itto Ogami]

LET YOUR CHILDREN DEVELOP THEIR OWN IDENTITY.

my mom came to visit us recently and in one of her discussions with

my son, the following exchange ensued:

LOLA: ano gusto mong kuning kurso, anak?

APO: di ko pa po alam, basta gusto ko po mag-aral sa Mapua o Adamson.

LOLA: your parents went to those schools, so you'd better make good.

that kinda pissed me off, but i didn't talk (yet) to my mom about it.

there is no need to put that kind of undue pressure on a child.

he doesn't have to live up to his father's reputation or his mother's.

he has to create his own.

Edited July 31, 2010 by Itto Ogami

[ndn]

LET YOUR CHILDREN DEVELOP THEIR OWN IDENTITY.

my mom came to visit us recently and in one of her discussions with

my son, the following exchange ensued:

LOLA: ano gusto mong kuning kurso, anak?

APO: di ko pa po alam, basta gusto ko po mag-aral sa Mapua o Adamson.

LOLA: your parents went to those schools, so you'd better make good.

that kinda pissed me off, but i didn't talk (yet) to my mom about it.

there is no need to put that kind of undue pressure on a child.

he doesn't have to live up to his father's reputation or his mother's.

he has to create his own.

Very true sir. If all fathers can be like you,mababawasan ang mga rebeldeng anak. Unfortunately,i used to be one.

[Itto Ogami]

Very true sir. If all fathers can be like you,mababawasan ang mga rebeldeng anak. Unfortunately,i used to be one.

i'm proud to say, saer, na laking probinsya yung mga anak ko -

i'd like to believe their core values are well-grounded.

nalipat man sila rito sa Maynila nung nag-high school sila,

i trust that much of their character is already formed na.

LET YOUR CHILDREN KNOW IT'S OK TO HAVE OUR OWN LITTLE IDIOSYNCRASIES.

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Edited August 3, 2010 by Itto Ogami

[Itto Ogami]

I TELL MY CHILDREN WE WON'T BE AROUND ALWAYS;

THE SOONER THEY LEARN TO STAND ON THEIR OWN,

THE BETTER IT WILL BE FOR THEM.

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[Itto Ogami]

my children,

there will always be people greater and lesser than you.

make us proud by giving your best.

that's all we ask of you.

tatay

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Edited August 7, 2010 by Itto Ogami

[Itto Ogami]

TEACH YOUR CHILDREN THE VALUE OF HAVING A SOLID WORK ETHIC.

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Edited August 9, 2010 by Itto Ogami

[Itto Ogami]

ADVISE YOUR CHILDREN TO CHOOSE THEIR FRIENDS CAREFULLY.

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[deepdiverboy]

Ito motto ko for my kids when they start to stand on their own feet:

"Human nature will not flourish, any more than a potato,

if it be planted and replanted for too long a series of

generations in the same worn-out soil. My children have

had other birthplaces, and, so far as their fortunes may

be within my control, shall strike their roots into

unaccustomed earth."

--Nathaniel Hawthorne

Edited August 15, 2010 by deepdiverboy

[Itto Ogami]

STILL ON THE SUBJECT OF FRIENDSHIP...

 

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[unpr3tty]

I guess what kids need these days is an assurance that they are also listened to. Like any other relationships, hearing each other out, more often than not, solve or at least help solve issues. There will never ba a perfect method but communication never fails... Tama, raising kids is never easy... I just try to be what my 11 year old daughter needs me to be, a Friend and a Mom.

Edited August 18, 2010 by unpr3tty

[Itto Ogami]

EXPLAIN TO YOUR CHILDREN THE IMPORTANCE

OF THE POWER OF CONVICTION.

this is especially true for my children who are in their teens

and peer pressure is great.

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