fireman9927 Posted October 20, 2012 Share Posted October 20, 2012 me alam ba kayo na nag ooffer ng secret marriage?contacts pls Quote Link to comment
megsyboy23 Posted October 20, 2012 Share Posted October 20, 2012 (edited) 3 months ago, i discovered my wife having an ilicit affair and abandoned me as she had a relationship with a lesbian... the relationship was already running for about 2-3months or so...come that we went to 2 marriage counselors (1 being a nun & 1 being priest) and was advised that while we are seperated we fix ourselves (reflect, pray and learn from what transpired). to my case... i did my part but soon to discover that my wife is still hanging out with the lesbian... though she claims verbally that they are close friends... to which is BS to me i am already tired in fixing the marraige and want an annulment... can this be grounds for such case provided that the reason behind this is that my wife had an affair with a lesbian? Edited October 20, 2012 by megsyboy23 Quote Link to comment
Pinoymale Posted October 20, 2012 Share Posted October 20, 2012 mga GM'sm nay question po sana ako...Pag nag file ba ako ng annulment, ung magiging lawyer ba ng asawa ko ako din magbabayad? kase wala syang work eh? i hope matulungan nyo po ako...thanks. Natural lang na ung wife mo ang magbabayad sa lawyer nya. Quote Link to comment
Pinoymale Posted October 20, 2012 Share Posted October 20, 2012 3 months ago, i discovered my wife having an ilicit affair and abandoned me as she had a relationship with a lesbian... the relationship was already running for about 2-3months or so...come that we went to 2 marriage counselors (1 being a nun & 1 being priest) and was advised that while we are seperated we fix ourselves (reflect, pray and learn from what transpired). to my case... i did my part but soon to discover that my wife is still hanging out with the lesbian... though she claims verbally that they are close friends... to which is BS to me i am already tired in fixing the marraige and want an annulment... can this be grounds for such case provided that the reason behind this is that my wife had an affair with a lesbian? Lesbianism is only a ground for legal separation but if you are able to prove that her lesbianism is merely a symptom of her psychological incapacity then you have a better chance of getting an annulment. 1 Quote Link to comment
MODERATOR bonito99 Posted October 23, 2012 MODERATOR Share Posted October 23, 2012 In short, sexual infidelity nor lesbianism/homosexuality, ALONE, is NOT a ground for annulment. Quote Link to comment
megsyboy23 Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 In short, sexual infidelity nor lesbianism/homosexuality, ALONE, is NOT a ground for annulment. DAMN!!! How do i work out in getting in a relationship if this is my case... Quote Link to comment
MODERATOR bonito99 Posted October 24, 2012 MODERATOR Share Posted October 24, 2012 Contact the lawyer of your choice Quote Link to comment
Captain16 Posted October 25, 2012 Share Posted October 25, 2012 Natural lang na ung wife mo ang magbabayad sa lawyer nya. okay po, thanks sa reply bro..akala ko kase ako pa din since wala kase syang work. thanks.. Quote Link to comment
Pinoymale Posted October 25, 2012 Share Posted October 25, 2012 okay po, thanks sa reply bro..akala ko kase ako pa din since wala kase syang work. thanks.. Normally KKB yan pero may ibang instances na yung isang party sya na rin ang nagbabayad sa lawyer ng kabila. Nangyayari ito pag magkasundo ang mag-asawa at yung isa lang ang may pera pambayad. Quote Link to comment
firewind Posted October 26, 2012 Share Posted October 26, 2012 Sir good day! 9 years na kaming kasal, ang wife ko ay elementary teacher at ako naman ay IT professionals. nahuli ko si wife na may ka relation sa lugar namin at kilala ko pa yung lalaki. nabasa ko lahat sa cp ni wife lahat ng conversation nila. inamin din sa akin ni wife na mag ka relation nga sila at marami ng beses na may nangyayari sa kanila, inamin din nya sa akin kung saan lugar sila nag kikita at saan hotel sila pumapasok recorded yung mga usapan namin nung umaamin sya sa akin. yung anak ko na 6yrs old, nag sumbong sa akin na yung lalaki pinapapsok ng wife ko sa bahay namin sa gabi kapag wala ako dun sa bahay, dahil nag stay ako sa makati. may mga evidence ako like letter,cash at cellphone na pinapadala nya sa lalaki nya for their communication. ngayon 3months na kami hiwalay, sa apartment nya nag pupunta yun lalaki at masama pa nito nakikita ng anak ko mga pinag gagawa nila kahalayan. dahil minsan nagsabi din sa akin anak ko na nakita nga nya mom nya na naka bold pati yung lalaki na pareho umuungol never ko sinaktan ang asawa ko nung nalaman at nahuli ko at inamin nya sa akin lahat lahat, yun pag amin nya na yun ay usapan masinsinan...at walang pilitan. my plan next year is to file an annulment...ang tanong ko lang po ay accepted po ba ito gawin grounds for annulment? sana matulungan nyo ako.Salamat Quote Link to comment
MODERATOR bonito99 Posted October 26, 2012 MODERATOR Share Posted October 26, 2012 Kulang yan. You need to know " Bakit ganyan asawa ko ?" Suggestion: Consult a psychiatrist first. Quote Link to comment
friendly0603 Posted October 26, 2012 Share Posted October 26, 2012 (edited) Just shows how much people know about the definition of annulment and it's applicability when marriage no longer work. Edited October 26, 2012 by friendly0603 Quote Link to comment
firewind Posted October 26, 2012 Share Posted October 26, 2012 Kulang yan. You need to know " Bakit ganyan asawa ko ?" Suggestion: Consult a psychiatrist first. nadala sya sa temptation and betrayed our vows. although pinatawad ko na sya pero hindi ko na sya kayang tangapin pa. Quote Link to comment
Pinoymale Posted October 27, 2012 Share Posted October 27, 2012 nadala sya sa temptation and betrayed our vows. although pinatawad ko na sya pero hindi ko na sya kayang tangapin pa. Sorry to say this but infidelity is not a ground for annulment, only for legal separation. Quote Link to comment
dark_devil Posted November 9, 2012 Share Posted November 9, 2012 Help naman mga idol. last 2005 kaming kinasal. last 2006 naghiwalay kami kasi nagkaroon yung wife ko ng 3rd party nung nasa aboard sya. nagkita kami ulit nung nov. 2010 para gumawa ng block and white letter (kasunduan) na nag papatunay na hiwalay na kami at wala ng pakialaman sa isa't isa. with witness ang mother ko at mother niya s isang law firm sa bulacan. Ngayon ay may ka live-in ako at may anak na isa. Gusto ko sama mag file ng annument: question 1. anong ground ang pwede kong isampa? 2. Magkano po damage ng annulment (ako po kasi ang gagastos sa lahat)? 3. Pwede po bang non-appearance kasi nasa aboard pa rin yung ex wife ko? 4. 6 years na kaming hiwalay. sabi kasi sakin ng kaibigan ko pwede daw po ulit ikasal yung mga naghiwalay ng 7yrs o matagal pa? Maraming salamat. Quote Link to comment
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