1 Month Without Sex

[SiLvErClAw]

hhmm...

 

that's a tough one, although the length of time without sex is not that hard, but that is not the real issue

 

I suggest you talk it out, a real, honest to goodness heart to heart talk

[bene_factor]

sige lang, mag-diet and exercise ka that is a good thing. try to do it for yourself, to be healthy and feel good about yourself and how you look. either you will regain his interest or if he is really 'gone' then ready ka na rin to be single at maghanap ng bago!

[alloy v7.6]

Ms. Inday, sa tingin ko naman nasa iyo pa rin ang atensiyon niya. Sa mga tulad kasi naming Workaholic, yung life partner ang primary motivation para mas tumindi drive sa work.

 

Malamang sinabi na rin niya sa iyo na "Para rin naman sa kinabukasan natin tong ginagawa ko eh." or something like that... If he did, he really means it. Kaso malamang hard times talaga sa Business dahil pasimula pa lang.

 

Hay, baliktad naman tayo ng sitwasyon. Misis ko naman naging frigid. so bihira na lang kami may action pero the love is still there. The affection is still present... Its just that there's no sex anymore.

 

Pero kung ako naman yung nasa kalagayan ng partner mo, I'd still make sure I satisfy you every night. Kaso baka hindi kaya ng katawan niya. I think he's under a lotta stress lately.

 

Have you tried giving him a teasing massage? That might work.

 

 

Also, sometimes its not enough to just ask your partner for sex. You have to put him in the right mood. Foreplay is very crucial.

 

About sa suspicions mo na may significant other siya, forget about that thought. Habang iniisip mo yan, lalo ka lang magmumukhang insecure. Kapag nahalata naman niyang insecure ka, lalo na kung ipinahalata mong naghihinala ka, baka mauwi lang sa away at lalong lumala sitwasyon.

 

I remember being hurt the most whenever my wife doesn't realize that I'm making sacrifices for our future while she selfishly demands for all of my time. Minsan ayaw ako papasukin. Mas pinagseselosan pa nga trabaho ko eh.

[friendly0603]

As a guy, i think there's something wrong. Is he old enough to be having sexual problems?

 

Even for a girl, i seriously think that the missing sexual attraction is pointing to something.

[darksoulriver]

INDAY any news update???

[Inday]

INDAY any news update???

 

Well sinunod ko yung mga payo nyo to talk to him muna bago mag isip ng kung ano-ano,nag usap na kami, I asked him bakit hindi na kami nag sesex, sabi nya masyado nga raw syang maraming iniisip tungkol sa negosyo at medyo nape-presurre din sya, and he assured me na wala talagang iba, napapraning kasi ako kapapanood ng My Husband's Woman , anyway I'm trying to regain the sweetness again.

[Inday]

As a guy, i think there's something wrong. Is he old enough to be having sexual problems?

 

Even for a girl, i seriously think that the missing sexual attraction is pointing to something.

 

Actually may sinabi sya sa akin, hindi na daw katulad ng dati ang erection nya, minsan daw nawawala , kalungkot nga, awa ako sa kanya, hindi ko alam kung anong pwedeng gawin sa problema na yon.

[kikay28]

there are times na kapag sobra pagod ng lalake hnd talaga pwede eh kasi they don't get erection at all, they'd rather sleep. same scenario here, nakakalungkot lang tlaga kasi hindi mo mapilit.

[youknowme]

done this last month... hehe! :thumbsupsmiley: 32 days to be exact...

[1badhabit]

Actually may sinabi sya sa akin, hindi na daw katulad ng dati ang erection nya, minsan daw nawawala , kalungkot nga, awa ako sa kanya, hindi ko alam kung anong pwedeng gawin sa problema na yon.

 

inday, you can seek professional help for his erectile condition if its ok with him. meron naman gamot to help him with your concern

[jetlag143]

it's hard especially if you have a partner or gf

[pixel888]

posible lalo na pag mabaho ang partner mo. Laging may amoy dun.

[migzmadrid]

Actually may sinabi sya sa akin, hindi na daw katulad ng dati ang erection nya, minsan daw nawawala , kalungkot nga, awa ako sa kanya, hindi ko alam kung anong pwedeng gawin sa problema na yon.

 

I don't know if this is still relevant, but I guess there are quite a few steps to trying (emphasis on "trying") to solve this problem:

 

1. Understand that it is not a one-way problem - this has got to be a two-way issue - after all, it takes two to make a relationship work. So if one party just clams up and does not even bother to try talking about the issue, then it's already doomed from that point:

 

1.1 On that point, clamming up does not necessarily mean that party just doesn't want to talk - there may be reasons for this. For men, erectile dysfunction IS a reason not to talk. Assure him that you love HIM and not just the PLEASURE he brings.

 

1.1.1 On THIS point - ask yourself: "Do you LOVE him?" or "Are you IN LOVE with him?" There's a world of difference here.

 

1.2 Once you have answered THAT question beyond doubt, sit down with him and ask him how his life is: What's keeping him so busy? What's bothering him? What can you do to help him out? After all, you are TOGETHER, so he has to accept that you must share in each other's issues and challenges. Unless (and this may be a painful realization), your togetherness is based more on the "I'm IN LOVE with you" stage.

 

1.3 If he cannot share the challenges of his life with you, then you may have to re-think your relationship.

 

2. Once you have moved on and finally accepted that it takes two to make things right in a relationship (there is no relationship if it's only one-way), then there isn't much to do anymore. Why? Because by now he should know that you share everything: happiness, sadness, tirumphs and challenges. By now also, you should be able to already help him ease up on whatever it is that's keeping him hung-up.

 

3. From here, it should get better. When there is a stronger and deeper appreciation of each person for each person in the relationship, things become smoother, sweeter and more fulfilling.

 

My two cents worth.

[scam]

Actually may sinabi sya sa akin, hindi na daw katulad ng dati ang erection nya, minsan daw nawawala , kalungkot nga, awa ako sa kanya, hindi ko alam kung anong pwedeng gawin sa problema na yon.

 

actually, you should be able to prove this your self base on his performance for the past 2 yrs. is he really having a hard time getting an erection;

or just plain excuse. ikaw dapat makasagot nyan and i wonder bakit he need to tell you that. it does not happen overnight or not even in aspan of

a month. you have to access the performance from ur first sex vs last year vs now. if his performance is deteriorating, may be but kung hindi naman,

there's something going on.

 

i have the highest doubt about being too busy. i'm damn hell as busy my self, pero when wifey get's the right moves, we go for it kahit 1 round lang.

di ba masarap matulog after sex, so that's the lamest excuse for a 1 month no sex. read his other moves. para u can derive on a much better conclusion.

here's one test you can do. force him for even a 1 rounder. if he don't produce so much juice, it only mean's meron other area of discharge.

[lances]

i believe sex is important in one's healthy living, it's normal that as a person aged, sex becomes occasional or rare.