iwalkalone Posted April 15, 2007 Share Posted April 15, 2007 i need some help here im really in pain. My girl told me that she still loves me but shes not in love with me but were still in relationship any ideas guys how to fix this thing up? i really dont want to loose her plssss wut made you think she doesn't relly love you? Quote Link to comment
leakage Posted April 15, 2007 Share Posted April 15, 2007 i think she loves me but the thought of not being inlove hurts me more wve been for 3 years Quote Link to comment
iwalkalone Posted April 15, 2007 Share Posted April 15, 2007 i think she loves me but the thought of not being inlove hurts me more wve been for 3 yearsanuh? paki linaw nga? Quote Link to comment
leakage Posted April 15, 2007 Share Posted April 15, 2007 okay this is the story weve talked last night she said to me n mahal nya ako pero ung state n pagiging in love indi n nya nararamdaman pero mahal nya ako un ang sabi nya and i belive her naman Quote Link to comment
iwalkalone Posted April 15, 2007 Share Posted April 15, 2007 (edited) okay this is the story weve talked last night she said to me n mahal nya ako pero ung state n pagiging in love indi n nya nararamdaman pero mahal nya ako un ang sabi nya and i belive her namanoh, i get it, u mean di na sya kinikilig sayo pero mahal ka pa nya,ryt? hmmm...mahirap nga yan...http://www.smileypad.com/v224/Feelings/Wonder.gifdo u have any idea why it happened? aside from matagal na kayo...baka naman napapabayaan mo sya? Edited April 15, 2007 by iwalkalone Quote Link to comment
leakage Posted April 15, 2007 Share Posted April 15, 2007 may background n ganun but im trying my best to make for it. she say na bored n cya ng palabas labas kami kasi malayo ang work nya and she has to commute. may background din na nagkaroon cya ng affair sa kaofficemate nya pero tapos na un sa ngaun kami pa rin pero no commitments, no responsiblities ang weird no Quote Link to comment
moon_bunny Posted April 15, 2007 Share Posted April 15, 2007 It only shows she's not ready to commit herself to you. Kumbaga "Hilaw" ang pagmamahal nya sayo. It's easy to just say you love someone, pwede kasing friendly love yan eh walang pinagkaiba sa "i care for you". There should be attraction or "kilig factor" which is very vital in a relationship. There's nothing really you can do about it, you'll end up being a doormat for sure. It's all up to her. Atsaka niloko ka na nya before tama ba? Don't you think that's a sign? Just my 2 cents. Quote Link to comment
singkit` Posted April 15, 2007 Share Posted April 15, 2007 It's easy to fall in love but hard staying in love. Di kaya nanghihinayang na lang.Tapos na ba talaga yung issue nang affair niya with officemate.Are you being honest with each other. Ikaw ano na nararamdaman mo sa kanya? Quote Link to comment
leakage Posted April 15, 2007 Share Posted April 15, 2007 mahal ko pa ung tao cyempre i wont be trying my best i dont love her. i just dont want to have a regret of losing her without making her feel how much she means to me . Quote Link to comment
moon_bunny Posted April 15, 2007 Share Posted April 15, 2007 mahal ko pa ung tao cyempre i wont be trying my best i dont love her. i just dont want to have a regret of losing her without making her feel how much she means to me .I think you've already proven that for the past three years. Don't make it so hard on yourself. Reality bites talaga but you have to face it whether you like it or not. Dito applicable yung "if you love me set me free" Quote Link to comment
babymaker Posted April 15, 2007 Share Posted April 15, 2007 i need some help here im really in pain. My girl told me that she still loves me but shes not in love with me but were still in relationship any ideas guys how to fix this thing up? i really dont want to loose her plssss Be a man. Don't let her mess with your mind.You decide and make so what you want.If she won't follow you, leave her. Quote Link to comment
iwalkalone Posted April 15, 2007 Share Posted April 15, 2007 may background n ganun [napapabayaan sya] but im trying my best to make for it. guess it's too late now huh? she say na bored n cya ng palabas labas kami kasi malayo ang work nya and she has to commute.so she's bored already.. -may background din na nagkaroon cya ng affair sa kaofficemate nya -no commitments, no responsiblities what do you expect? ganyan naman pala kayo ehit's bound to happen. Quote Link to comment
sweeteenia Posted April 15, 2007 Share Posted April 15, 2007 why would i give malice kung alam ko na friendly lang siya? of course hindi ako gagawa ng move na alam kong ikapapahiya ko rin. kaya ko nga nai-post itong topic na ito kasi hindi ko alam eh... i guess mahilig lang talaga yung ibang girls na mang-B@*lsh&T... I tell you everything was so weird and confusing, even her close friends told me "what the heck was that?"the words are different from the gestures.. I tell you... it's really different and weird. kaya B@*lsh&T na lang sa mga taong katulad nya. Someday I'll be able to understand what's the reason behind that but for now.. i don't have the slightest idea why she has done those things and B@*lsh&T na lang din. :evil:Baka she's waiting for your move.. baka torpe ka.. and di mo sya pinansin talaga..dapat ligawan mo na.. you move.. baka sya lang ang nag move.. you know women use that as a strategy..she'll let you know that she likes you by giving hints and clues..then then expects that it would be your turn to do the next...which is the wooing or courtship...Don't be torpe..go on..move..get her.. Quote Link to comment
goodeye_moody Posted April 15, 2007 Share Posted April 15, 2007 Assumption is the root of all packups... =) I'vebeen in the same situation before and i never forgave myself for not asking her upfront.. sabi nga ni sweet tania. go and get her... good luck pare.. Quote Link to comment
Boysbe Posted April 15, 2007 Share Posted April 15, 2007 What's the deal with women who's giving you signals and doing moves that you think they're in love with you but all they can say is "hindi naman eh" or "wala naman talaga".... they are so weird... :grr: :thumbsdownsmiley: Why some girl's do this? Easy, its a game, predictability game. You make the 1st move, she knows you like her, you end up being someones Bi***, you act slow, they say you're to slow for them, they leave you. Answer to that problem is try not to be so predictable, if you have to text her, do it once a day, dont give clues on what you're next move is, if you act as if you want her and act and talk as if you are craving for her, they'll think that you are too easy. Women dig challenge, so if you dont play their game, you end up being somebody's bi***. 2nd senario, she gives signals, dont presume right away that she likes you, giving you false conclusions, then moving in for the k*ll. Skip it, check very clearly if she is indeed interested, if she likes to play the eye game, then play with it. Look deep into her eyes, but dont stare. Then dont act as if you are again so predictable. If she grabs another guy, then grab a girl and lets see if who gets jealous 1st. why would i give malice kung alam ko na friendly lang siya? of course hindi ako gagawa ng move na alam kong ikapapahiya ko rin. kaya ko nga nai-post itong topic na ito kasi hindi ko alam eh... i guess mahilig lang talaga yung ibang girls na mang-B@*lsh&T... I tell you everything was so weird and confusing, even her close friends told me "what the heck was that?"the words are different from the gestures.. I tell you... it's really different and weird. kaya B@*lsh&T na lang sa mga taong katulad nya. Someday I'll be able to understand what's the reason behind that but for now.. i don't have the slightest idea why she has done those things and B@*lsh&T na lang din. Well some friends end up as lovers, you could play her game for a long time, but still you wouldnt know what the hell shes thinking. So if im in your position ill do it the easiest way possible, ask her to dine with me, ask for her number then court her, yun lang yun. Pag nagumpisa ka nang manligaw, dun mo lang malalaman ang feelings niya sa iyo. Sa dating process kasi, parang report card yan, pag trip ka niya at actions mo, malalaman mo nalang sa katapusan ng clase, pero kung pakipot siya ng matagal na panahon, sabihin mo na 2-3 months, mabuti pang lumipat ka na ng school, di ba? Kasi pag nakita rin niyang nakikipagusap ka sa iba, malalaman mo rin kung naiingit siya sa iyo o talagang ayaw lang niya. i need some help here im really in pain. My girl told me that she still loves me but shes not in love with me but were still in relationship any ideas guys how to fix this thing up? i really dont want to loose her plssss What?bro, if a woman says she love you, then it means she loves you, period. If she says shes not IN love with you, then you are not that sweet as she predicted you would be, another is that you lack qualities that she like, she digs gorgous guys like Tom cruise or Brad pitt, but dont be afraid, they dont have no chance in hell dating those type of guys, ako nga makikipagpatayan pa gf ko para lang sa akin, ingit siya pag may tumitingin,, what you do is try to be sweeter but dont torture her too much, kung magtetext ka or call, 1 lang sa isang araw tapos isang I love you, pag nagalala na yun magkakagulo yung pagiisip niya, yun naman ang secret sa ladies, pag nagkagulogulo yung feelings nila bababa yung defense nila tapos dun ka na pwedeng mag-in for the k*ll. They think na sobra silang lufet pero in the end maiisip din nilang di sila pwede ng crush nila kaya yun,malulungkot then magiging desperate eventually kahit sino papatulan na nila. Thats how love and dating works. Quote Link to comment
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