Living Solo/alone

[macaron]

Privacy, independence and freedom! Pero shoulder mo lahat ng gastos and walang makausap kapag mag isa ka lang. Not too bad for an introvert myself, but I do still seek companionship from time to time.

[cynophile]

Okay naman mag isa pero minsan nakakapagod din maging strong independent woman. Minsan gusto ko nalang maging housewife na naka ford raptor panghatid sundo sa mga kids sa school at pang business 😂 tapos naghahumble bragg palagi sa homebuddies fb group. 
 

Pero pag di na ko pagod, wala gusto ko na ulet mag isa hahahahahaha hays. It may sound selfish, pero ayoko kasi ng palaging may kasama akong need iconsider. Masaya na ko mapagod mag isa, kesa may someone na iisipin ko pa kung pagod ba sya. It may sound selfish pero nahihirapan ako magfocus sa sarili kong mga problem pag may iba pa kong need alagaan. Aside sa mga dogs ko 

[HimuraButosay]

On 11/10/2024 at 11:12 PM, cynophile said:

Okay naman mag isa pero minsan nakakapagod din maging strong independent woman. Minsan gusto ko nalang maging housewife na naka ford raptor panghatid sundo sa mga kids sa school at pang business 😂 tapos naghahumble bragg palagi sa homebuddies fb group. 
 

Pero pag di na ko pagod, wala gusto ko na ulet mag isa hahahahahaha hays. It may sound selfish, pero ayoko kasi ng palaging may kasama akong need iconsider. Masaya na ko mapagod mag isa, kesa may someone na iisipin ko pa kung pagod ba sya. It may sound selfish pero nahihirapan ako magfocus sa sarili kong mga problem pag may iba pa kong need alagaan. Aside sa mga dogs ko 

 

Indeed.  Totally concur.

 

Mas madali mag-resolve ng issues if mag-isa ka;  unless of course its life threatening ah...that's a different story.

 

This has been proven time & again;  that only one who can help you is yourself.

So what's my basis on this?

I've been in several failed relationships; the last one (ended in 2022, thank goodness), and all I had was left was me, myself.

I made a vow na hindi na ako dapat makaranas pa ulit ng ganun klase ng pang-aabuso. 

Na dapat mapayapa at  matiwasay ang buhay ng sarili ko lang ang inaasikaso ko;  at syempre, my four doggos.

Which is what I made a reality now;  I live peacefully with my four doggos & albeit nakakabawi na din on the financial side.

Edited November 12 by HimuraButosay

[Marakim]

Living alone is sometimes boring.

[TunogKalye]

Living alone is great and the feeling of freedom that comes with it is the best thing ever.