Living Solo/alone

[macaron]

Privacy, independence and freedom! Pero shoulder mo lahat ng gastos and walang makausap kapag mag isa ka lang. Not too bad for an introvert myself, but I do still seek companionship from time to time.

[cynophile]

Okay naman mag isa pero minsan nakakapagod din maging strong independent woman. Minsan gusto ko nalang maging housewife na naka ford raptor panghatid sundo sa mga kids sa school at pang business 😂 tapos naghahumble bragg palagi sa homebuddies fb group. 
 

Pero pag di na ko pagod, wala gusto ko na ulet mag isa hahahahahaha hays. It may sound selfish, pero ayoko kasi ng palaging may kasama akong need iconsider. Masaya na ko mapagod mag isa, kesa may someone na iisipin ko pa kung pagod ba sya. It may sound selfish pero nahihirapan ako magfocus sa sarili kong mga problem pag may iba pa kong need alagaan. Aside sa mga dogs ko 

[HimuraButosay]

On 11/10/2024 at 11:12 PM, cynophile said:

Okay naman mag isa pero minsan nakakapagod din maging strong independent woman. Minsan gusto ko nalang maging housewife na naka ford raptor panghatid sundo sa mga kids sa school at pang business 😂 tapos naghahumble bragg palagi sa homebuddies fb group. 
 

Pero pag di na ko pagod, wala gusto ko na ulet mag isa hahahahahaha hays. It may sound selfish, pero ayoko kasi ng palaging may kasama akong need iconsider. Masaya na ko mapagod mag isa, kesa may someone na iisipin ko pa kung pagod ba sya. It may sound selfish pero nahihirapan ako magfocus sa sarili kong mga problem pag may iba pa kong need alagaan. Aside sa mga dogs ko 

 

Indeed.  Totally concur.

 

Mas madali mag-resolve ng issues if mag-isa ka;  unless of course its life threatening ah...that's a different story.

 

This has been proven time & again;  that only one who can help you is yourself.

So what's my basis on this?

I've been in several failed relationships; the last one (ended in 2022, thank goodness), and all I had was left was me, myself.

I made a vow na hindi na ako dapat makaranas pa ulit ng ganun klase ng pang-aabuso. 

Na dapat mapayapa at  matiwasay ang buhay ng sarili ko lang ang inaasikaso ko;  at syempre, my four doggos.

Which is what I made a reality now;  I live peacefully with my four doggos & albeit nakakabawi na din on the financial side.

Edited November 12, 2024 by HimuraButosay

[Marakim]

Living alone is sometimes boring.

[TunogKalye]

Living alone is great and the feeling of freedom that comes with it is the best thing ever. 

[cynophile]

I love people that just go and wait for no one. (Like meeee)

The solo travelers, the people that go to bars and beach alone. Life will pass you by waiting  to always have someone to go places with you.

[PaulCali]

I enjoy traveling alone, I go where I want, when I want. Although sometimes certain experiences are better when shared with someone, but for the most part, I enjoy solo travel.

[chessboxin]

On 11/10/2024 at 11:12 PM, cynophile said:

Okay naman mag isa pero minsan nakakapagod din maging strong independent woman. Minsan gusto ko nalang maging housewife na naka ford raptor panghatid sundo sa mga kids sa school at pang business 😂 tapos naghahumble bragg palagi sa homebuddies fb group. 
 

Pero pag di na ko pagod, wala gusto ko na ulet mag isa hahahahahaha hays. It may sound selfish, pero ayoko kasi ng palaging may kasama akong need iconsider. Masaya na ko mapagod mag isa, kesa may someone na iisipin ko pa kung pagod ba sya. It may sound selfish pero nahihirapan ako magfocus sa sarili kong mga problem pag may iba pa kong need alagaan. Aside sa mga dogs ko 

Bihira na ang ganyan ngayon. Kung sino ang lalakeng may pera, sila pa ang wais sa pagpili ng asawa. Usually kapwa nilang mayaman ang napapangasawa nila. Hanggang gf or jowa lang yung mga babaeng they find attractive pero hindi "same pedigree" sa kanila.

[ilustrisimokolakes7]

Ang konti ng pros for a guy unless sobrang toxic sa bahay nyo o wala kang sariling room. Bukod sa gastos,ikaw pa sa lahat ng chores. Mentally draining rin pag wala kang makausap. Maprapraning ka. Main motivation lang talaga ng guy is yung hookup,kung may 3-4 fubu ka,sulit na sulit.

[ilustrisimokolakes7]

On 11/1/2006 at 9:07 PM, strydent said:

I was just wondering, sa western culture specially ung mga kano, they tend to go solo when they turn 17 above, sa pinoy kasi parang hindi kasama sa kultura nila ang humiwalay..like me..eheheh

 

Meron ba rito sa MTC ang solo flight na..whats the perks?? :mtc:

Third world country tayo,breadwinners are everywhere

[totits]

Got bored

[jedimaster]

On 12/28/2024 at 1:50 AM, cynophile said:

I love people that just go and wait for no one. (Like meeee)

The solo travelers, the people that go to bars and beach alone. Life will pass you by waiting  to always have someone to go places with you.

Ibang topic yan.  Living alone in a safe confine of home work and daily life is great.  Pero for adventures, I would always go out with an adventure buddy/buddies.

[jedimaster]

On 1/2/2025 at 8:39 AM, ilustrisimokolakes7 said:

Ang konti ng pros for a guy unless sobrang toxic sa bahay nyo o wala kang sariling room. Bukod sa gastos,ikaw pa sa lahat ng chores. Mentally draining rin pag wala kang makausap. Maprapraning ka. Main motivation lang talaga ng guy is yung hookup,kung may 3-4 fubu ka,sulit na sulit.

Makahanap nga ng 3 fubus.  🤣

[Alfonso Fundador]

With freedom.

[jedimaster]

Ipon lang ako 4 years pang-retire tapos tipid lang, rent ng room sa low-income areas.  Bili lang ako TV, electric fan, saka mini-fridge.  Me laptop naman na ako.  Kain lang sa kanto at palaba. 

Initial Budget:  P10K/month.  P120K/year.  P1.2M/10years. 

P1.2M  Y1-10
P1.5M  Y11-20
P2.0M  Y21-30
P2.5M Y31-40

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Total:  P7.2M

 

 

  

 

 

Edited January 6 by jedimaster