2hot4yah Posted January 6, 2011 Share Posted January 6, 2011 for me its 50% lonely and 50% feeling of being free again.. yeah, youre happy because youre free again, being able to do things na hindi mo magawa noong kayo pa.. masaya kapag syempre nasa labas ka.. pero once na pag uwi mo and youre alone na, jan papasok yung 50% na loneliness.. lalo na when you start thinking about yung memories nyo together, then you'll miss him, then suddenly, tutulo na lang luha mo.. its been two months since he left me and our kid.. hay..sana maging 100% happy na ako.........only time can tell.. Quote Link to comment
chocoboy83 Posted January 11, 2011 Share Posted January 11, 2011 It could be more 50-50 but at first it was being lonely again and as time passes by you will learn to appreciate being free again.. Quote Link to comment
sun_goddess Posted July 30, 2011 Share Posted July 30, 2011 I'd say it depends on the status of your relationship prior to breaking up. I broke up with my long-time bf and people noticed I was a lot happier and carefree afterwards. Then I also had a previous relationship wherein I was so miserable and lonely after the breakup. Quote Link to comment
jOkEsTeR Posted July 30, 2011 Share Posted July 30, 2011 It depends on how you wound up being single.... Quote Link to comment
SaintPeter5858 Posted August 11, 2011 Share Posted August 11, 2011 I felt so empty that I wanted to read a lot of counseling books Quote Link to comment
SaintPeter5858 Posted August 11, 2011 Share Posted August 11, 2011 for me its 50% lonely and 50% feeling of being free again.. yeah, youre happy because youre free again, being able to do things na hindi mo magawa noong kayo pa.. masaya kapag syempre nasa labas ka.. pero once na pag uwi mo and youre alone na, jan papasok yung 50% na loneliness.. lalo na when you start thinking about yung memories nyo together, then you'll miss him, then suddenly, tutulo na lang luha mo.. its been two months since he left me and our kid.. hay..sana maging 100% happy na ako.........only time can tell.. Sorry to hear that. Yeah, loneliness sets in the moment you start remembering those happy times together. You begin to miss them Quote Link to comment
Tagari Yan Posted August 14, 2011 Share Posted August 14, 2011 49 - 51, lamang konti ang FREEEEEE! Quote Link to comment
SaintPeter5858 Posted August 15, 2011 Share Posted August 15, 2011 I'd feel lonely if she initiated it Quote Link to comment
SaintPeter5858 Posted August 15, 2011 Share Posted August 15, 2011 49 - 51, lamang konti ang FREEEEEE! Hahahaha. That's playing safe. But honestly, it is always situational for me. It can go either way depending on the person involved. Quote Link to comment
rachelleferrariz Posted August 17, 2011 Share Posted August 17, 2011 its really lonely to be alone...ouch! Quote Link to comment
draxxm Posted August 18, 2011 Share Posted August 18, 2011 i just got suddenly single and i feel tormented... what should i do? can i celebrate right away? or take a month or two to sober the pain? Quote Link to comment
kits11326 Posted August 19, 2011 Share Posted August 19, 2011 lonely at times.. missing that love from someone you know who loves you wholeheartedly Quote Link to comment
kupsi Posted August 20, 2011 Share Posted August 20, 2011 both!!! as the song goes..."here i am, alone again and free..." kidding aside it all depends on how fast you can move on from the break-up, how deeply you are in the relationship, how tight you were held down and more... Quote Link to comment
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