Jealousy. Selos. Sino ang Seloso / Selosa Dito???

[SamanthaJones]

selosa din....

[daigorolonewolf]

i am. its normal naman ata if you really love someone. wag lang sosobra.

[Jhelicious]

sobrang selosa ko, pero ngaun binabawas bawasan ko na. mas matatag na kami ngaun

at wala na ako nakikitang dahilan para magselos pa ako lalo na sa mga PAST nya dahil

ako ang kanyang PRESENT at FUTURE!

[Seishi]

Looks like I am... but I don't say it. My message is conveyed clearer through actions.

 

Ang BF/GF Mo Ba Ay Seloso/Selosa Din?

 

Hubby is not. He doesn't have any reason to....

 

But I find it really cute when someone special turned jealous about something or someone and expressed it in his most subtle way.

[westell]

Retroactively, I am.

 

Chasing Amy, hopefully I don't end up with.

[dorkas]

cguro dati..pero nung naicp ko naman n wla rn dpt pagselosn tlg eh nwla n lng bgla..if kilala mo naman srili mo at kung anu ang kya mong gwin eh d ka maaapektuhn ng kung anu man ang gngwa ng iba...mapansin mo man na msmgaling cla o hndi e bale wla na....sbi nga nla en manhid n rn..rspct

[davemac27]

Count me in!

[ndn]

Ako aminado seloso ako. Pero nilalagay ko naman sa lugar. Usually sa mga ex-bf ako nagseselos,lalo na kung txtmates sila and best friends pa rin kuno. Call me selfish,makitid ang utak o kahit ano pa pero di ko talaga matatanggap na gf ko lumalabas kasama ng ex nya just to hang-out? WTF?!!!! Im sure sasabihin ng karamihan nasa pagtitiwala yan sa isa't isa. Yes it's true na mahalaga ang TRUST sa isang relationship but the issue here is not about trust eh,it's about RESPECT and CONSIDERATION for your partner's feelings. Reverse natin ang situation yung guy ang lumalabas with ex-gf ano kaya ang feeling di b? 101% sure ako na magre-react kagad yung girl nyan. If you love a person kasi then you should refrain from doing the things na makakasakit sa isa't-isa.

[rick027]

+1 to ndn

anyways i'm never the seloso type unless masyado nang fishy ung situation... well para sakin kasi ang taong puro selos or sabihin nating puro duda eh syang dapat pagdudahan

[jgc813]

 

A little jealousy in a relationship though is always sweet and romantic.

 

Hmmm... I'm just wondering how little is little?

[Seishi]

Hmmm... I'm just wondering how little is little?

 

 

Hmmm well, little for me may not be little for others. So yes, that alone is relative.

 

Sweet little reminders of the things you should NOT do because your partner tells you not to. For me, it's still little, like innocent question "Bat ang tagal mo natulog? Sino kausap mo?", "Ayoko lagi kayo magkatext", "So, hindi pala ako kasama, pero yong iba nandun?", "Why are you posting your pic? Who are you showing it too?" Stuff like that....

 

Extreme jealousy for me is when you accuse your partner of cheating... when you don't have proof at all.

[jgc813]

Hmmm well, little for me may not be little for others. So yes, that alone is relative.

 

Sweet little reminders of the things you should NOT do because your partner tells you not to. For me, it's still little, like innocent question "Bat ang tagal mo natulog? Sino kausap mo?", "Ayoko lagi kayo magkatext", "So, hindi pala ako kasama, pero yong iba nandun?", "Why are you posting your pic? Who are you showing it too?" Stuff like that....

 

Extreme jealousy for me is when you accuse your partner of cheating... when you don't have proof at all.

 

This is actually a nice topic. For us guys -- at least, for me -- jealousy (said better as "selos" in Filipino) has always been an issue. Because, a jealous woman is, for me, a real pain in the a$$ (pardon my french). Most of the time, the pagseselos really becomes stifling and constricting.

 

I think it is a given that women are, by nature, selosa. (Like as if men aren't?) But, in the usual running of things, it's the woman who first shows signs of pagseselos over the man. I think this is so because, it's the woman who "feels" first before the man. ("Feels" as in, nagkakagusto o naiinlove, if that's the right way of interpreting it.) Men, in the early stages of their relationship, could be more, well, raving sexual predators? (Many remain that way for quite some time... A few stay that way for life! )

 

I have always had this expression with my male friends: "Blessed are you if you find a gf/wife who is not selosa." To which they would all blurt out "wish mo lang!"

 

Really? In my experience of closeness with women, I have met someone who has not given me any impression of being selosa. When asked whether she was or was not, she answered: "lam mo... yung pagiging selosa o hindi selosa nasa level of maturity yan. The more mature you are, the more you trust, the less selosa you are. The less mature you are, the more you distrust, the more selosa you are."

 

Then, she continued, "lam mo... I have this way of thinking. My bf/husband is my bf/husband when he's with me. When he's not with me, he's not, plain and simple. (The converse also is suppose to be true.) As long as he comes home to me, brings home the bacon, shows his love and concern for me, makes love to me, what more could I ask for? I wouldn't like to waste my time and energy thinking 'with whom is he with, when he's not with me. does he have someone else? is he faithful/unfaithful?' I wouldn't like to believe also all the talks and chismis not unless that I would personally catch him in the act."

 

Does that sound all right? Or is it simply being pragmatic? Didn't she care less?

 

Last time we were together was in 2000. I haven't heard from her since then, and I still wonder if she has already found her mate or significant other.

 

She was very nice, very loving and warm. I should say, "blessed is the guy who would have her."

[ReDBaByBuRn]

i am... pero nilalagay ko naman sa lugar

[knoll1234]

not really, only when I see it, but even then I let things pass. to me there are other more important positive things I can do than selos

[richardigop]

seloso po ako. yun lang. ganon talaga e.