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Writings of the Heart


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You know when there's something wrong or that something has change but you're just ignoring it so you won't get hurt.

But no matter how you disregard being ignored you know for a fact that you are no longer part of the routine. You're now an option when someone is bored.

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Stop waiting for weekends, for summer, for someone to fall in love with you.

 

Stop waiting for countless midnights and late nights, stop waiting for those unreturned calls and no reply messages, stop waiting for minutes, hours, days or even years. Stop waiting for those hellos and unsaid goodbyes.

 

Stop waiting for that voice you are longing to hear, stop waiting for that arms to embrace you tight. Stop waiting for that moonlight to shadow you with its light while thinking about how it could have been. Stop waiting for people who couldn't appreciate the time and effort you have given. Stop waiting for that closure, for the conclusion that you need.

 

Stop waiting for those apologies. Stop waiting for those half-given love and unsure feelings. Stop waiting for your place in someone's life, stop waiting for uncertainties, stop waiting for those unfelt emotions. Stop waiting to be chosen.

 

Stop waiting for validation, you don't need it in the first place. Stop waiting to be wanted and held. Stop waiting to be heard, stop waiting to be seen. Stop waiting to be understood. Stop waiting for those unfulfilled promises. Stop waiting for reasons, excuses, and explanations. Stop waiting before your heart collapses into fragments.

 

Stop waiting for love, for people, for things to work out.

 

Stop waiting for life.

 

Happiness is achieved when you stop waiting for it and make the most of the moment you are in right now.

 

Motivation does it all.

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Dear You,

I've been supressing my feelings for the longest time... been hiding the reality that I am so tired of giving my all (when I know it shouldn't be that way). It hurts to know that I love you much more, than you love me. I tried my best to ignore that feeling... What's so frustrating is I am scared to tell you this and be honest with you because it always backfires... I never win in our arguments and in the end it's ALWAYS my fault... You always find your way out and never own up to your mistakes... I've given my best and I've given my all... It hurts and it saddens me that I feel that there's nothing left for me to give... I am so tired of this...

 

I hope somehow I'll find someone who will love me the way that I do...

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You love someone until you don't. Forever seems possible, when love is new and bright as a jewel, before your interest plateaus or eventually diminishes. For love grows old, and waxes cold, and fades away like the morning dew. Maybe its all just chemicals in your head. The right combination, and et voila, the world is all rainbows and unicorns, and fluffy pink bunnies, what could go wrong? But you know, you train yourself to love. The early frontier saw many strong marriages, or at least functional partnerships, since the harsh conditions forced spouses to absolutely rely on each other. And maybe that's what is missing in the rush to self fulfillment, in treating others as a means, there is little commitment to the person. Because it is a choice, and one you must make every day. Like Pavlov, you must condition yourself, because that is what it really takes- ever present vigilance to choose your family uber alles. And you feed it with the small acts of kindness that nourish a relationship; and you make it flourish by having a plan, a plan to make the milestones real for each other. To make moments momentous, and life larger than life. You just have to choose. F$%king choose it. No retreat, no surrender. Make her life the best; make your life together the best. It's simple. But it isn't.

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