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5 hours ago, kianacruz said:

 

WHO PAYS THE BILL? (On the first date)

 

Hot topic/issue to ngayon sa tiktok. So I know maraming gentlemen dito sa MTC. Sa tiktok kasi nacicringe ako sa mga ibang sagutan nila hahaha. So What is your stand about this matter? Hahaha!  
 

ps : pwede din sumagot ang girls. I will also post my thoughts about this soon.

Ano ba yung mga sinasagot doon sa Tiktok?

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5 minutes ago, kianacruz said:

Yung nagstart ng content na yun ang sabi nya, “dapat KKB. Kasi pareho naman tayong magbebenefit, makikilala mo ko, makikilala kita.” Tapos may sinabi pa syang “saka kung mag iinsist nman sila (he’s referring to girls) na magbayad kasi alam nilang wala tayong sariling pera, sympre maaappreciate natin yun.” 
 

nakakagigil talaga 🤣 like nakipag date ba sya dahil sa “benefit” ?? Idunno anong benefit. Tapos yung pag alam na wala silang sariling pera, bat naman kasi makikipagdate ng walang sariling pera? 
 

maybe depends tlga sa preference ng bawat isa, may mga girls dn kse na ayaw nilang may ibang nagbabayad para sakanila. But in my case, I prefer an alpha male. And no alpha male would do the KKB/split the bill and “sagot mo gas ko” thingy.

Hahaha. Just don’t let those affect you Maam. they may have a point and reason why but at the end of the day, nasa inyo ng kadate mo yan if he pays all or not. 

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15 hours ago, kianacruz said:

 

WHO PAYS THE BILL? (On the first date)

 

Hot topic/issue to ngayon sa tiktok. So I know maraming gentlemen dito sa MTC. Sa tiktok kasi nacicringe ako sa mga ibang sagutan nila hahaha. So What is your stand about this matter? Hahaha!  
 

ps : pwede din sumagot ang girls. I will also post my thoughts about this soon.

It depends din sa ka-date mo eh. Meron nireto sakin recently tapos she asked me if pwede ba kami mag coffee (first date namin). So ayun, pinuntahan ko siya sa Makati tapos nag coffee kami sa Glorietta. When we got there sa coffee shop, inunahan ko siya sa pila para ako mag babayad. Tapos when I was about to pay na, kinuha niya wallet ko and tinago niya sa bag niya. Then linabas niya card niya tapos siya nag bayad. Tinago niya lang yung wallet ko the whole time, binalik niya lang nung hahatid ko na siya pauwi. Kinda aggressive but I find it cute. Haha.

 

So I guess it depends din talaga. But most of the time I always insist na ako manglilibre. Bawi nalang siya sa 2nd date (pero hindi ko pa rin siya pagbabayarin. Haha)

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18 hours ago, kianacruz said:

 

WHO PAYS THE BILL? (On the first date)

 

If sa first date dapat si Guy e. Syempre pakitang gilas ka kahit papano lalo na pag ikocourt mo talaga yung babae.. In the long run naman at pag nagkakapalagayan na ng loob, or kayo na siguro ng time na to.. doon niyo na pwede siguro pag usapan yung terms niyo sa bayaran and all.. overall.. it depends talaga sa stage at level naman yan ng relationship niyo.

ibang usapan naman kung bata ka pa at HS or College pa lang na nanghihingi ng baon, isipin mo na lang na yung ipapangdate mo e sagot pa ng magulang mo or kung sino man provider sa family mo.. hinay hinay muna pag ganon haha!

Ayun lang ang sakin madam 😃

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1 minute ago, Soujin00 said:

ibang usapan naman kung bata ka pa at HS or College pa lang na nanghihingi ng baon, isipin mo na lang na yung ipapangdate mo e sagot pa ng magulang mo or kung sino man provider sa family mo.. hinay hinay muna pag ganon haha!

Not saying na masama makipag date ng ganto kaaga ha.. basta kaya mo gumastos at kahit papaano e nanggaling sa sarili mong pawis yun.. may mga madiskarte din naman talaga na mga kabataan ngayon katulad ng utol ko na sobrang adik sa stocks at kung saan-saang investments 😅

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@kianacruzas someone who have studied this matter in terms of watching videos getting different perspective on this issue...my take is this...

The guy should offer to pay but if the lady wants to take care of the tip sa mga waiter (in this case, P100-200 depende sa lugar) then that is very much appreciated, but on the succeeding dates, it should either be give or take or split it 50-50....I will never ever ever go on dates ever again where the girl is not initiating to pay at least the tip or drinks or coffee afterwards...this is 2022 and most toxic women use this argument na "DAHIL KASAMA MO AKO, IKAW MAGBABAYAD PALAGI"

that's why coffee dates or walks in say, BGC is a better date than dinner at a fancy restaurant...

I took the red pill so that's why this is my way of thinking..

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On 7/24/2022 at 5:09 PM, kianacruz said:

In that case, sya naman yung nagyaya so tama lang sguro na siya ang magbayad hehe. May mga girls din talaga na ayaw nilang may nagbabayad for them. Ganun ako before, kasi may naka date ako one time na iba yung expectation nya. Parang date to f*ck pala hahaha. Eh hindi naman ganon yung gusto ko, so nung nakauwi na ako. Chinat nya sakin gcash number nya plus computation nung gastos nmin sa coffee shop, hati daw. Hahaha. Binayaran ko then yun na ang una at huli naming pagkikita. 
 

kaya naging mindset ko noon, pag nilibre ako ng lalaki, nag eexpect sya ng something like ganon (sx) in return.

 

good thing bumalik na rin yung tiwala ko na hndi lahat ng nanglilibre na lalaki e ganon yung gusto. :)

Red flag agad pag date to f_ck. May pahabol pang singil. 😂 Haha. Ang goal ko kasi everytime na makikipag date is to get to know the person talaga kasi di natin sure baka siya na pala ang the one diba. Hindi yung kama agad. Hahaha. Pero yun nga, iba iba naman mindset ng mga tao. 

 

Good to know madam na bumalik ang trust mo. Not all men are the same naman. ☺️

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